WWW NW Ar any gr 54 wspwwgtz wonv ms the examiner Friday Dec 1m Religion Offered ibUtnotpushed By MARY DELANEY Of The Examiner Sheila Wallace compares her religious faith to swimming pool She invites everyone to use it and is more than willing to tell everyone how great it is but that doesnt mean she will push them in Ms Wallace is the executive director and counsellor at the recently opened Catholic Family Life Centre located on Dunlop Street next to the Fred Grant Square The concept is new in Barrie but the type of counselling which she will do fits in with the sort of work she has done for the last 10 years With BA in philosophy with sub majors in psychology and sociology and an MA in theology she combines academic training with year of work in the cursillo movement She describes cursillo translated from the Spanish for coursei as crash course in Christianity In the program Christians gather for an intensive weekend spent en tirely cut off from the rest of the world to talk pray and learn together the essence of Christian community life Although the movement is international begun in Spain in 1949 Ms Wallace was in strumental in bringing the program to Canada and in introducing it to the Anglican ChurchofCanada In the past 10 years in Toronto alone the Ann Landers No case for marriage Dear Ann Im 19 in the US Navy stationed at Great Lakes 111 This is no gag need advice and will do as you sav During my senior year at high school had sex with girl who said was the first one believe she was telling the truth We dated steady for three months then broke up went with other girls and she went with other guys After graduation lost track of her This week receiv ed letter She is pregnant and wants to be married by mail or telephone checked this out and was surprised to learn it can be done She says the father of the baby swears it isnt his and wont marry her She thinks it would be nice if did in order to give the baby name Do owe her this because was the one who got her started on sex She seems to think so The last line of her letter said We can get divorced after the baby is born if you dont want to stay married to me What is your advice Old Mistake Washed Ashore Dear Ol You need this marriage like you need hole in your hull Say no Just because you were there for the launching doesnt mean you have to take over for second mate Dear Ann Landers Two weeks ago my husband passed away Fred and had been married 44 years He was member of the Masonic Order and was very proud of his ring He wore it all the time wanted him to be buried with the ring on his finger and was sure my wishes had been granted until last night My son came to dinner with his wife and before they left he handed me an envelope In it was his fathers Masonic ring was stunned because saw the ring on Freds finger when he lay in the casket asked my son how he happened to have it and he said the funeral direc tor handed it to him in silk pouch along with Freds wrist watch just before they left for the cemetery Does funeral director have the right to make such decisions cant look at Freds ring without bursting into tears Please respond to my question and tell me what to do Sad Heart In Sacramento Dear Sad lleart Unless the family specifies otherwise it is customary to remove jewelry from the deceased before burial Obviously no one told the funeral director it was your wish that Fred be buried with the ring Time will ease your grief and one day you will be hap py to have the ring to give to your son or grandson as keepsake Dear Ann Landers realize you receive thousands of letters but how long can one have hope that his or her letter will one day appear people involved in the program have grown from three to over 2500 and thats Roman Catholics alone She was one of the founders of leaders school for the cursillo movement and hel it spread to other cities including Hamilton Peterborough Ottawa and Mon treal She helped organize cursillos in prisons and is gratified to know that the government has recognized them as viable rehabilitation programs FAMILY LIFE But the cursillo movement did not bring Ms Wallace to Barrie He came here to assume the leadership of the Catholic Fami ly Life Centre service oriented organiza tion primarily designed to help through counselling those Roman Catholics living in Simcoe County She witnesses her faith constantly in her words and actions stating firme that she is totally oriented by my Catholic beliefs and convrctions and that she accepts whole heartedly what all the bishops including the pope define She accepts in other words the churchs rules governing the use of birth control the attendance of church the saying of confes sion and women in the priesthood all con troversial issues which challenge the modern Catholic in his or her daily life That is not to say that she forms hard line in her advice to the people she counsels Wallace and the centre are new to the area but she has impressive credentials as counsellor within the Catholic church Examiner Photo Sheila Wallace abandons her desk and gives her guest the view of the lake when she counsels in an effort to make the atmosphere more relaxed at the Catholic Family Life Centre Simcoeéeniers TEDchre champs move to final The fourth elimination tour Friday NOVember 30 senior name or the Ben Steers Citizens from throughout Sim Trophy was held at All Saints coe County competed Parish Hall Collingwood on WinnerS in the Elimination BIG BAY POINT were 1st lady Vera Prosser of New Lowell 86 and lst man Jack McCauley of Wasaga Beach No 412 84 2nd lady Mildred Spicher of New Lowell 85 and 2nd man Florence Montgomery of Creemore 81 RESTAURANT SITUATEI IN BIG DAY POINT MARINA OPEN YEAR ROUND SPACE STILL AVAILABLE FOR CHRISTMAS PARTIES BOOK NOW 4361882 UCENSED UNDER LL30 TPROTECTIVE EVEWEAR FOR ALL SPORTS SPORTS SPEC ilflH Delft gtyg SPORT SAFE fashionably designed for wear on and off the court in prescription or plano lenses SPORTS SPEC protective wraparound frames 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most of their mar ried life in London moving to Barrie in 1970 when they took up residence with their sonin law and daughter William and Hazel Slavin of Thorncrest Avenue in Allandale Heights On Sunday December 23 Or pha now 80 and George 86 will travel to London Ontario for open house at their daughter Betty Waltons residence and chance to visit with relatives and friends Joellurrndine sq yd tor 99 Sq Yd lv SPECIAL PRICE 3900 6900 7900 7400 each 00 7372860 031 3®12©53€IF 3G 30 wrote you several months ago about our Downs Syn drome baby and the joy he has brought us enlisted your aid in educating the public to use the correct term Downs Syndrome rather than the oldfashioned and negative names Mongol or Mongoloid Parents of these children find such terms offensive We are doing everything we can to stamp them out Please help us Proud Parents Bcruyn Ill I9th Centur Christmas people and places Bay International Animal Party Bay International Com Christmas party for the munications win hold its animals will be held at the Christmas dance on Saturday shelter of the Barrie Humane Historic holiday as at naval garrison Christmas has taken on copious variations through many generations but no version is as impressionable as Canadian Christmas in the 19th century For the fifth straight year Huronia residents can sample the true spirit of Christmas when the Historic Naval and Military Establishments in Penetanguishene holds its annual Open House on Saturday and Sunday December 15 and 16 As fitting conclusion to International Year Of the Child history and winter are portrayed through the eyes of children offering the visitor glance back to world of hardship tempered by Christmas mirth INTERPRETERS Three buildings will be open Officers Quarters Keating House and Orientation Centre with period decorations and costumed interpreters The buildings are not hard to find you need only follow the sound and smell of crackling fireplaces The delights of Christmas are never fulfilled without the touch of children and for Open House three grade five classes from Ecole St Joseph in Penetanguishene provide their per sonal interpretation of 19th century Christmas through art work displays and period activities The Orientation Centre will display artwork depicting winter activities for children in the 19th century along with the style of Christmas enjoyed by youngsters 140 years ago Over the years public school children have always played an integral role at Open House but this winter season is of even greater significance as International Year of the Child draws to close We feel that Christmas Open House gives us an ideal op portunity to salute the kids while bringing to close both their year of recognition and our year of programing at the site said Burke Penny Manager of the Historic Naval and Military Establishments We try to promote an air of festivity that was present around Christmas time at the garrison but at the same time give visitors feeling for the hardships that existed in an isolated outpost in the mid18005 added Penny As sleighs usher people around to the reconstructed buildings it conjurs up visions of biting December day more than 140 years ago In keeping with the true tradition of Christmas there will be no admission charge for this unique experience The hours for both days are 30 to 430 pm The Historic Naval and Military Establishments are located at the end of Church St in Penetanguishene The historic site is administered by Huronia Historical Parks of the Ontario Ministry of Culture and Recreation STEAM CIth Cleaners are OR STEAMATIC IS BETTER mm STEAMATIG® the total cleanin service I22 ï¬t Steamatics patented controlled heat cleaning system citans more thoroughly than most other systems Its Automatic with Steamatlc LIVING AND 95 DINING noon SPECIAL Explm Doc 1579 FREE ONLOCATION ESTIMATE ResidentialCommercial 7374745 CI 011 for qipolntrnont cat iii December from 830 am at the Sunnidale Community Centre Members $7 per couple nonmembers $10 per couple There will be DJ and buffet Tickets from any executive or by calling 7371955 Also at the Sunnidale Centre from 13 pm the same day there will be Christmas party for the children of members of Bay Iri tcrnational Communications Admission is free Please give the names of children who will be attending to member of the executive PTA Dance St Marys School PTA will hold Christmas dance on Saturday December 830 pm at St Marys Parish Hall Tickets are $8 per couple and include meal There will be cash bar Tickets are available at the door or by calling 723111997 Peanuts The Barrie French Nursery School is presenting the Peanuts film Run for your Life Charlie Brown at the Georgian College theatre on Saturday December at 1245 and 230 pm Tickets are $125 per person and can be purchased at the Young Canada Shop Birch Stationary the PPC office on Bell Farm Road or by phony ing 7370024 or 711711005 or at the door Christian Singles The Collier Christian Singles will be having an evening of bridge Saturday December from 730 pm On Sunday December at 730 pm at the church there will be tape and discussion on the topic of remarriage Phone 7263533 for further information CERAMIC WORKSHOP AND counsrs 20 WEEKS GREENWARE CUSTOM FIRING SUPPLIES PHONE 7262646 BarBO can enjoy styles starting as low as Qu BURTON AVE BARRIE Judging goes on The gift the wholefomily Good selection of sizes and See our complete line of PROPANE RANGES CLOTHES DRYERS WATER HEATERS FURNACES SPACE HEATERS PROPANE LTD Society between and pm Sunday December Everyone is welcome to come and visit the animals admission is gift some dog or cat food for the animals There will be sleigh rides with huskics for the kids and Santa will be there Big Sisters The annual Big Sisters Christmas Party will be held at the Sunnidalc Centre Sunday December from 130 pm All Big Sisters Little Sisters and board members are invich to attend There will be food films and fun and Santa will be there Any unmatched Little Sisters can call 7372092 for ride Performance House Performance House presents Folk Night at the Farmers Market with feature per formers for the evening Finn McCool threc mcn cnscmblc playing traditional music of the British Isles Finn McCool consists of Greg Hardy on flute and whistle Rot Buscombe on accoustic guitar and whistle and Michael Maynard on percussion Performance House takes place in coffee home setting at the Farmers Market Coffee herbal teas and baked goods will be available Drop in performers are welcome at Folk Night They should be at the Farmers Market by 15 pm hristmas Plants The ro Township Hor ticultural Society is holding its annual meeting and Christmas show at the On lownship Hall situated at the corner of the 0m Line and Sidcroad 15 and 16 on Monday December 10 from pm Entries for the show may be placed between and pm while the mecting is taking place The speaker will be Rene de Boer of Harrie on the topic of hristmas house plants There $2000 FOR will be door prizes and lunch All welcome Radio lub The regular monthly meeting of the Georgian College Amateur Radio lub will be held in the cafeteria of the C017 lcgc at 710 pm Monday December 10 There may be guest speaker $13000 7261861 we are on the subject lets add Hansens disease instead of leprosy seizures instead of epileptic fits and please deaf and mute instead of deaf and dumb is death march Heres perfect gift for the man in your life Quperior ropnne Dear Parents Im happy to join the crusade And while Erma Bombeck Trips like By ERMA BOMBECK always wanted to do funny book about travelling But could never think of anything funny to write about it Most trips are like death march with stopoffs at tedium exhaustion and layover at frustration Ifyou doubt it just ask yourself have you ever seen trav eller anywhere with smile on his face Every time return home from trip sit for days and ponder on the great mysteries of travel Like how come the first suitcase off the plane never belongs to anybody hve purposely run from the plane to the baggage claim area to make sure see the first piece to come rolling down the chute Minutes later 35 or 40 of them to be exact when have my luggage that first piece is still whirling around unclaimed Why is it the window seat on the plane is always occupied by someone who is sick or asleep How come when the pilot comes on over the PA and says For all of you camera buffs sitting on the right side of the airplane there is an absolutely breathtaking view of Halleys Comet passing over the Statue of Liberty am always sitting on the left side which has been enveloped in clouds since we left the airport It has always been mystery to me how the Fates know which gate to send me to When am carrying newspaper and my handbag and have two hours and half to change planes am at gate two However when am carrying my own luggage three pound novel hot rollers an extra coat and live cactus for my hostess and have 12 minutes to make connection my gate is still being built There is never choice on will your luggage get lost or not get lost The choice is always will it get lost on the way TO your vacation or on the trip home It is invariably the for mer And finally theres the Feast or Famine Law dieter will be met on the 700am flight with glass of champagne and food every 15 minutes throughout the flight and twice over each time zone while the starving person will be forced to live by macadamia nuts alone Maybe travelling was never meant to be fun experience Come to think of it Wilbur and Orville Wright rode bicycles Pollys Pointers Dryer left its mark DEAR POLLY My husband was laundering his fine cotton underwear and put it in dryer that had been used to dry rubberbacked rugs The intense heat had melted the backing so fine lumps of the backing adhered to the clothing cannot get them off because they have hardened Please let me know if there is way can correct this condition VERA DEAR VERA Yours is an unusual problem that have no pat answer for It will require bit of experi menting would first try soaking these spots in white vinegar If that does not soften them you might put the underwear back in the hot dryer and leave It jnst long enough to hopefully soften the rubber When softened use dull table knife to scrape off as much as possible and then use cleaning fluid to remove any lingering stains Wash with detergent and dry in clean dryer If any readers have had similar experience that was successfully solved feel sure they will tell us about it POLLY GOLD JE WELLER FIIATURING 13 kt Handcrafted English Rolled lold Wire 10 kt told tll1llthwnS ltcautiful manmadc diamonds from Israel by Susan Riccells By Appointment