Markham residents Julie and Gord Combdon are parents to an adult son who has struggled with mental health issues. The couple openly shares their trials and tribulations. ized at Southlake Regional Health Centre in Colin has been‘clear of psychiatric facilities Newmarkei. for one year and is of! medications. his mother A 72-hour admittance became a two-week said. He receives Ontario disability support stay. program assistance. Became he resides alter- Although no consolation. the psychosis nater in Markham and Nev/market. he cam diagnosis provided a few answers and raised be assigned a psychiatrist. she said. many more It also marked the ï¬rst turn in 8 "That's a flaw." she said. “One day is differ- Today. four years after the formal medical verdict. the couple â€" she. a medispa owner. he a registered massage therapist â€"-â€" both in the quaint hamlet ofVIctoria Square. admitted something was awry long before. BY CHRIS TRADER ctrubrrGDyrmgxom n the tranquility of their bucolic ofï¬c- es. lulie and Cord Combdon speak of turmoil. Solemnly. they explain the difï¬cult path and pain they have shared with her son. his Stepchild. diagnosed with paranoid phienia at 23. As the rage. agitation and distance from family grew. so did the Oombdons' concem. Mrs. Combdon often felt threatened by her son. she said. “His anger was so extreme.†Mr. Oombdon said. “We walked on egg shells†Aï¬er a severe conflict with his biological father, with whom he lived. Colin was hospital- ized at Southlake Regional Health Centre in Newmarket. A 72-hour admittance became a two-week A stepdad to Colin sifloe the lad was three. Mr. Combdoï¬ believed the boy‘s anger was typical iteenage behaviour. Colin's damaged psyche led to selflmtucst- ed stays at Southlake and. eventually. Mack- enzie Health in Richmond Hill and Ontario Shores Centre for Mental Health Sciences in series of institutional mvolving doom Colin felt safe in psychiatric facilities. the Gombdons surmised. ' The drug induced either more anger or total lethargy. his mom said. Cognitive behaviour therapy. proven to help many patients. is voluntary, the couple said. As such, Colin declined. “My son still doesn't feel there's anything wrong with him." she said. “When a patient is forthempy, the system often isn't." Doctors at the facilities prescribed van‘ous pharmaceutical combinations It has been a diflicult process. Mr. Comb- don said of clinicians' need to discharge seem- ingly stabilized patients. caring for them at home, wonying about their well-being and your own. And, when a relapse occurs. as it did in 2013. it's an onerous task navigating queues back toward a hospital bed. ent from another for ()olin." J The (‘onibdons have researched the mala- dy and infrmtructure in place to treat it. 'Ihey are hopeful. Schizophrenia can relent as a patient grows older. Mr. Combdon said. In the interim. the couple communicates with Colin daily. helps him with small tasks and has short visits. "He's not able to stay focused." she said. The couple advocates for understanding and empathy when dealing with mental ill- Combdon said. Mental health isx‘éues need to be de-stigmatized. Caregivers must be proâ€"active to get help on behalf of their loved ones. Mrs Oombdon A more pro-active mental health care tem. availability of specialists who not only oï¬er therapies. but mentoring for patients and an end to long wait lists would result in better outcomes. the couple said. “You have to ask." she said. "It's not offered. You have to be their substitute decision maker." "We've always searching. smuggling through a wet mine ï¬eld." Mr. Combdon said. "It's hugely important to never. ever give up on the person." 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