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c22 trjpuns jvn24 19s coping with manipulative friend increases workload for parents dr ed meade is a registered psychologist and director of the markham stoulfviile family lite centre in this column he answers questions from readers covering a wide variety of topics q my fouryearold daughter jennifer has many friends but prefers one friend ill call julie julie is manipulative and sneaky bringing out the worst in my daughter unfortunately she lives very close to our home i would prefer they did not play together is there anything i can do a this is a situation we all experi ence in growing up we cannot iso late ourselves from people and the reality of our world is that some people are manipulative and sneaky your approach to your daugh ter could involve outlining con cretely her responsibilities and the family rules which if violated have consequences be specific about the consequences for example your daughter might be wandering off play redecorate your house from top to bottom at a 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of good friends is helpful when we avoid discussion with children we are more prone to getting into a stubborn resistant relationship q i am a male student in grade 9 i have very little body hair and am embarrassed about being seen by other guys my own age i hate participating in gym be cause i have to change with my friends i have been skipping gym classes but now my guidance counsellor is on my case what can i do a there is a societal myth that body hair is linked in males with masculinity and sexual prowess it may very well historically re late to the exploits of the trouba- dor and the machismo notion that is prevalent in latin countries i believe that blonde people are often less prone to hairiness and sometimes develop pubic hair la ter in life than darkhaired people my guess is that at your age your pubic hair is still developing there is no reason to feel embar rassed about this it may be that your confidence is a factor in re lating to your peers if your body hair is markedly 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