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rints bloome is will set the w dressing for 1 touch of help ) sizes 32 to 36. 2.50 irdle reinforced , Sizes S, M, L. 9 RS ae 728-4626 & REMODELLED SLOVAK HALL SCENE OF JOYFUL CELEBRATIO N rere scot THE GENERAL M. R. Stefanik Slovak Circle of Oshawa held a banquet and dance in its freshly re- opened and completely ren- ovated Slovak National hall, Ritson Road South, on Saturday. Guests from the United States and Quebec were among the four hun- dred plus who attended the climax of the Centennial project. Both the upper and lower halls were filled and a two-way loud speaker sys- tem allowed guests to hear speeches in either hall. Masters of ceremonies were Michael Karas and Joseph Puhky. Special guests brought greetings and con- gratulations and a presen- tation was made to Mrs. Anna Puhky, the first Slo- vak mother to bring her family to Oshawa. The pres- entation was made by Tere- sia Ruskay, Miss Slovakia , 1967, and John Puhky made a moving reply. In the low- er picture, standing, centre, is the president, John Ivanco, and left and right: His Excellency, the Most Reverend Michael Rusnak, Slovak Bishop of All Canada of the Byzantine Rite and Mayor Ernest. Marks; Mrs. Ivanco and Mrs. Michael Karas and seated, Mrs. Marks and Mrs. S. B, Roman. In the upper pic- ture, standing left to right are the Reverend Stephen Adamjak, parish priest of St. Mary's Slovak Catholic Church; Clifford Pilkey, MPP; Chief of Police Wal- ter Johnston and MC Jo- seph L. Puhky. Seated: John C. Puhky, Mrs. Clif- ford Pilkey and Mrs, John- ston. Stephen Roman and George Ben, QC, Toronto also addressed the assem- bly and a letter of congratu- lations was read from the Honorable Michael Starr, MP. --Oshawa Times Photo CHILD GUIDANCE . Undue Protectiveness May Prolong Timidity By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD I have often urged parents and teachers to be very patient with the shy, timid child and to aim to gradually cultivate har- dihood and courage in him. It may be that some of us are so' patient and considerate of the shy child, that we unduly pro- long his shyness and timidity. Apropos is the following letter from a Michigan mother of an 18-month-old youngster. "She became frightened of strangers when she was not quite one year old. She is get- tinb better--slowly--but it is really bad. At present, it seems to be particularly grown men. When one is around, she must be close to me at all times. She never warms up. These men don't try to force her, some don't even look at her. She even has to sit on my lap at restaur- ants. "My teen-age niece has come SOCIAL NOTICES OPEN HOUSE Mr. and Mrs. Peter Gannon, 532 Cromwell Avenue, will be pleased to welcome their rela- tives, friends and neighbors at their home, on Saturday, No- vember 25, from 2:00-9:00 p.m on the occasion of their 50th wedding anniversary. RECEPTION Mr. and Mrs. A. R. Fogal will be pleased to receive their relatives and friends at the home of their daughter, Mrs. A. -E. Kitchen,. 149 Adelaide Avenue East, Saturday, No- vember 25, 1967, from 3:00 p.m, - §:00 p.m. and from 7:00 p.m. -- 9:00 p.m, on the occa- sion of their 40th wedding an- niversary. over at least once a week for months, and the child has just this week begun to play with heg¥ If she tries to, feed or éhange her, bedlam_ breaks loose. Once this happens, she is weepy and crabby all day. Al- though she loves to run and play around the neighborhood 4-year-olds, they can't touch her at all. "She has frequent sitters, and i leave her with her dad once a week at least. She's all right with him, but she's really not to crazy about him either. He can never soothe her hurts. I must do it. How do I handle this? Some one has become so frus- \trated that she suggested spank- ing her. I know that's not the answer. JEALOUS OF BROTHER | 'Another thing is that she is jjealous of her older brother or janyone sitting on my lap. know that's natural, but how to handle it? I don't think it's fair to put him down for her, but she makes our cuddling very unhap- |py. He likes to sit on me often, |so I can do it only when she's in |bed. | "Now just one thing about Don who is nearly6 years-old. He was kept home from school because he was emotionally insecure. I think he's ready now, But that information may help you with this question: When we go shopping, or any- where else in a crowd or among strangers, he has to hold our hands or clothes constantly. Have you any idea why? "He is afraid of lots of things, such as entering a 4-foot pool in the arms of his father or mother, lying back in a shallow bath to have his hair rinsed, riding his bike with the training wheels 14"' off the ground. How- BRAND NEW FALL ARRIVALS 463 RITSON RD. S. Sale! Sale! Sale! Full Length Formals AND BRIDESMAIDS' GOWNS SARGEANT'S *19.95 725-3338 dark, or taking walks around the block alone." My reply in part: It is appar- ent that you are very kind to that little child, but I think that you have been so hurt by her crying to have her way and her clinging to you in the midst of strangers that she gets great satisfaction over your excessive attention. I have a notion you would get better results if you would harden yourself and let her adapt herself gradually. When you care to have your older child sit on your knee and the baby objects, point to the clock and show her just how hold to this time, no matter how much the younger child cries. You see this child has really) made herself a tyrant over you. | However, you are right in not! resorting to spanking this child for her fears. | Apparently you have followed a similar pattern of excessive concern over the fears of that! older child. Moreover, his seem- ing immaturity at school could |have been amplified by his feel- ing that he does not stand as well in the family as his baby sister, | Your statement that the fa- WOMEN OFTEN |HAVE KIDNEY IRRITATION Common Kidney or Bladder Irrita- | tions affect twice as many women as | | men, often causing tenseness and nervousness from frequent passages. | Secondarily, you may. lose slee; have Headaches, Backaches and feel | older; tired, depressed. In such cases, |CYSTEX usually brings relaxin, {omior' by CED EES seme in acid » and easing pain. Get CYS at druggists today, ever, he isn't afraid of bugs, the|ther long this boy will sit and then) aa | can never soothe the baby's hurfs is significant. No} doubt she refuses all sorts of} ministries from him and can) force you to do them instead. I'm sure you have prolonged her dependence on you. | As for her fears of strangers. ell, you should not, of course, let them force themselves on) er. However, you might do| PERSONALS Mrs. H. D> Donald, is the general convener of the Dolls of All Nations and Bake Sale to' be held by the Women's Aux- iliary of the Oshawa General Hospital at McLaughlin Hall on Friday. Pouring tea at the ba- zaar will be Mrs. Ernest Marks, Mrs. E. G. Storie, Mrs. William Holland, and Mrs. James Mc- Cansh, Mrs. N, F, Swackhammer, one of the delegates of the Women's' Missionary Depart- ment of the Baptist Federation of Canada has been in Wash- ington, D.C. attending a con- gress of the WMD of the Bap- ist World Alliance, the presi- \dent of which, Dr. Marion Bates, former dean of women of Mc- Master University, Hamilton, will be in Oshawa Sunday next to address the congregation of: First Baptist Church. Simcoe Street United Church Women Unit 3 met recently at the home of Mrs. Uriah Jones, Simcoe Street North. A report was given on the sale of calendars and plans made for the Christmas party for Fri- day, December 1. The Phi Omega Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi held its regular meeting recently at the home of Mrss Dorothy Fice. The guest speaker of the evening was David Powless of the welfare department who spoke about the men's hostel being established in Oshawa. Mrs. Earl Mann, Golf Street, opened her home to the travel Women's Art Association, re- cently. Mrs. Mann showed slides on Scotland, England and the Parkwood Estate in Oshawa. Mrs. George V. Lee, president of the Pleasant Monday After- noon club, announced that an election of officers will be held next Monday. Mrs. Phillip Bell will be in charge of elections. It was also decided to have a Christmas party and exchange of gifts on December 18th with a pot luck luncheon. The Lyceum Club and Wo- men's Art Association visited the McMichael Art Galleries in Kleinburg recently. A most en- joyable afternoon was _ spent viewing the painting and an- tiques on display. The next meeting of the Cal- vary Baptist Evening Mission Circle will be on Monday at the home of Miss Doris Millson, Sunset Avenue. There will be an election of officers and the packing of Christmas parcels for the bible school students. The St, Gregory's Catholic Women's League has complet- ed plans for its 'Candlelight Ball" to be held at St. Greg- ory's Auditorium on Saturday evening. The patrons for the dance will be Mayor Ernest Marks and Mrs. Marks and the Honorable Michael Starr and Mrs, this dance is Mrs. William Bols- son, the ticket convener is Mrs. group of the Lyceum Club andj THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, November 20, 1967 4] OLD COUNTRY CLUB FANCY DRESS DANCE PRODUCES COSTUMES GALORE | President of the Old pate. The idea behind the Green Giant, whose green dress dance in the Kins- Country Club, Arthur costume was "I came back make-up added to the men Community Centre Watts, second from right, to Brylcreem." Other win- page =| sein atts ry bet ne Cay Se Hoiniced congratulates Len -- Riley, ners, chosen from a great green hale end flower mat ant walteus thrash Pad winner of the prize for the number of delightful cos- er and Mrs. Anthony Hay- Jones to the Hokey-Pokey most comic costume for tumes were, left to right lock, a female John Bull. to Knees Up, Mother Brown. men, by patting his bald Edward Andrews, the Jolly The Saturday night Fancy --Oshawa Times Photo | Leo Menard, the decorating|executive as follows, Mrs.|dance prizes for the year were|a dinner and dance for them committee are Mrs. James O'-|George A. Pearce, president; awarded to the following, Mrs.\at the UAW hall. One hundred egan, Mrs, Michael Gilmore,|Mrs. Gordon Brett, vice-presi-'Donald Sadoway, Mrs. John|and twenty guests were present Mrs. William Clarke. In charge| dent; Mrs. Verda Jackson, sec-|Dutchak, Mrs. John Goreglad,|from Toronto, Bowmanville, jof publicity is Mrs. Dennisiretary; and Mrs Stephen|Mrs, Walter Grigorenko, Mrs.| Whitby, Newcastle, Kirkfield |Noonan, Macko, treasurer. The Rever-|Walter Kuch and Mrs. Alexjand Oshawa. | jend Alvin Roth, director of the|Stec. A gift was alsa presented Mrs, Percy Fletcher will|London Rescue Mission, was open the Heritage Fair to be held at the Centennial United) Church on Wednesday evening. At a meeting held recently, the} conveners gave their reports: Mrs. Norman Hall, needlework; Mrs. Keith Peters, aprons; Mrs. Leonard White, doll jclothes; Mrs. Donald Clement, candy; Mrs. George Saunders, knitting; Mrs. James Laurie, hat boxes; Mrs. Ernest Howard, quilts; Mrs. M. M. Chase, nov- elties; Mrs. Harry Bennett, paintings; Mrs, Murray Mc- Pherson, treasure. table, Mrs. Gordon Dennis, country store; Mrs. Rupert Harrison, home baking. The newly - formed Women's en's Auxiliary of the Oshawa Men's Hostel held its first) meeting at Knox Presbyterian Church recently. The Reverend Starr. Convener for|Gordon Brett, minister of the the the hostess church, opened meeting and _ introduced | the guest speaker and. Norman Drake, director of the Oshawa Men's Hostel, also spoke. The Barvinok Branch of the Ukrainian Women's Association met recently at the home of Mrs. Paul Shody. Mrs. Walter Kuch, secretary, reported that an invitation had been received to hear the representatives of the Ukrainian World Congress next Sunday at St. Auditorium, in Toronto, A re- port. from the Sunday School committee indicated that gious mementos are to be pre- sented to each Sunday School jstudent on St, December 19. Perfect OSHAWA Pic Shop. HOME MADE PIES & PASTRY Baked On Premises | 153 SIMCOE SOUTH Viadimir rel| 20% | | Nicholas Day, atten-| to Mrs. John Dutchak in appre-| ciation of her two years as pres- ident of "Barvinok"'. recently. 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