| Shane SAY | CHILD GUIDANCE ' Dear Ann: Yesterday I picked up a book of pop poetry by a fellow named Ronald Gross. A poem in the book was a takeoff on a letter to you from an unhappy wife. Will you please respond to the question in the} Questions, Answers Come In Blank Verse Dear New York Reader: girls 0. jlowed to eat with the family, this time but have to eat his | By ESTRELLITA | FOR TOMORROW | This day promises much i the way of accomplishment i {you wil be diplomatic in deal- ings and do not scatter your en- ergies. Fine influences govern {personal relationships, favor idealings with the opposite sex. The P.M. hours may bring you some good news. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your chart indicates several ex- . tremely propitious cycles for sed daetorane t6 Amaril- |a@dvancement toward cherished goals within the next year. In I tell them that all mar- (fact, you are currently in an ex- LANDER a3 I have levelled with the about ready someone may have/@vening mealtime, may get sal-| the chore of youngster in order to have himjhard they were to find. on hand, Usually two or three} youngsters are easier to find/the house, let his mother warn than only one. child, say from 5 to 10 or older,|about ready. Then, and as he in a not too-thickl ypopulated/ grows older, he can wash his neighborhood, hardest to find. After a weary/self for dinner. This small defi- dinner alone elsewhere. Practically any child 5 or older can learn from effective penalties to be home and in- \doors ready for dinner. For |some youngsters'a watch may Teach Child Responsibility Of Being Home On Time g be helpful, though not indispen- sable. He can learn to inquire By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD jhe were. Besides, some of the|of the time in the home of a When the family dinner js\chronic wanderers, near the | playmate. He can learn before leaving {the house the af genypreoel ag gia ; ..|when dinner will be served. In Beginning with the toddler case this time varies somewhat, ihe can wait around and be rounding up alisfaction from knowing how It's the oniyjhim in due time that dinner is AIS! sponsibility for being on hand at who may bejhands and face and groom him- sinner time. i-} I don't' see why parents lshould hesitate to require that the family car be home by mid- night, as many intoxicated per- sons are on the street and high- way after midnight. Why not have similar limits when the youth drives his own car? His parents really are respon- sible and he can't renew his driver's license or ownership li- cense without their signature. As lives are still more precious than. cars, daughters and sons after midnight are safer than those who are. checking on the time. Of first! : importance is his taking sole re--PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. What danger to marital happiness when one spouse dis- who are not traveling in cars| { No Response To Longer Skirts By LEONORA DODSWORTH FLORENCE, Italy (AP)--Top Italian fashion stylists seem to be having second thoughts about all those calf-length skirts they attempted to launch last July. For next bringing skirts back up above the knees. This forecast came as 60 of It- aly's most famous fashion names prepared to show bou- tique styles, knits and ready-to- wear clothing for next and summer at a_ three-day show starting Monday in Flor- summer they are} spring | Girls will be girls once more in dresses that fit trim and slim on top then swing into an easy flare, pleats or culottes, LOW-WAIST BELTS There will be plenty of low- waist. belts, big buckles and {brass buttons to keep things * |sporty and casual, ELECTROLYSIS Removes superfluous hale painlessly Try Our Kree-Ilmperial Machine. MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa "Be ; a cellent period--which wil last osed wrong ways in)... poem? Here it is: eile ae EDDY f until March 3lst--during which|day dad may not consider this a/nite responsibility the youngster|MAKING IT CLEAR haccther a e de 4 a Apert ence, Epithalamium It's living together after- : 8 get ' : ss doesn't. Sup-jthe other spous close} ian industry's look for at the GENOSHA HOTEL I can't understand why the | wards that's tough |you will have many opportuni-|haPpy experience as early as 4 or 5 can learn to} But suppose he doesn't. SUP-\p sends Se 30th, 31st, N eyeak sible 4 Lisi Hain that a 600 |ties to step up both your job and) Sometimes, too, the search)take, certainly by the time he is/pose you or dad must go A. Almost surely that would\$Pring will be young, active, el- Cer, 30th, ate, Mev. let . Who wat to you feel they | ria a aot tt & good Mar |rinancial status. Next good pe-(has to be so long that the moth-(of school age. |searching for the | von mean a marked decline in the/¢sant, with the accent on whole- PHONE 723-4641 are missing 7 ae Sie riods along these lines: Lateler and other family members| If the family seated about thenearly every Wee hon a he mutual regard and affection of(S0me rather than hippie. Sh atuch in life by not being It's an achievement July, September and next Octo-|may be inconvenienced. For the|table must all wait for a child, |clear to mn nen Oe ort er-|husband and wife. A wiser way ae. 6 ae 14 7 married That marriage is not for ber. Do avoid speculation in}whole family, rounding up ajthey are annoyed and he isjhome aroun eleel artective is never to divulge such matters; Sale ! Sale ! Sale ! Where do they get the idea | kids. It takes guts and maturi- [November and January, how-|youngster nearly every eveninzipracticed in being a nuisance. ated Ayan calses it ; He|to anybody but a _ marriage That a husband is the | tY- jever, and don't be extravagantjcan be a nuisance. Besides, the/Sometimes only a mere re- Pi det wae sufficient discomfort|counselor or the like. a Full Length Formals js panei iid i actic: rre-| mi i "SS yet many|™ It separates the men from {during the last two weeks in De-|child is getting practice in irre-|minder is necessary, ag! ty latter each offense to choose to everything? answer to 3 a youngster from 4 to I wish one of these girls | the boys cember of this year, and the sponsibility. ead haage A hike tly. on hand would take mine. | And the women from the /first two weeks of next April. pRegeNCE KNOWN ay not rite po tiony a. aie ee ake meal. | EDGAR'S AND BRIDESMAIDS GOWNS i --iju - | girls. Even though your prospects for a as ple responsibi - By? H be ele on I tell them that marriage is |gain are good diting ae jast|_,1n the first place, parentsjing borne some penalties for) 'There is the related problem DECOR CENTRE a pe estat | MA dally 'be i 5 atter month. the(Stould know during any fifteen| lateness. lof knowing where your child is Marriage is not the dream | tested daily by the ability to jhalf of the latter month, the minute period of the day ap | y iy oft 34 KING ST. W. it is cracked up to be | compromise first two weeks could bring proximately where the young-/EAT ELSEWHERE |most of the time, especially of) - ie cmunie BRAND NEW ses, | 80 It ster, especially the child from] The penalty won't just bejknowing where he is going in| I got married | , Its survival can depend on |would be wise to retrench a Dit. five' to 12, is. But all too often|jawing and angry words and|the family car. Some teen-agers But I cheerfully gave it up | being smart enough to know Your private interests willlhis whereabouts is as little/looks. In an extreme instance/just like to drive around and to be a household drudge What's worth fighting about also be star-blessed during the|known as if he were a puppy when the family must wait re-/pick up old friends oT uae rive *19.95 | 725-3338 I had a wonderful job when | To give and take some increased expen cca FALL ARRIVALS @ ARTIST SUPPLIES See Us For Point & Wellpoper 463 RITSON RD. S. My husband is a nice guy Or making an issue of forthcoming year, with special!) He may roam about feeling peatedly for the offender, he|there or they may just PHONE 723-7351 4 but dull Or even mentioning emphasis on romance in Nov- no more responsibility than 'f might profit from not being al-'about with no apparent purpi SC. an ne A te te te te te be Let me tell you that mar- Marriage is giving ember, Jantiary, May, late June oe . re Gi ek Is SES Sc mga pele hs Haein ite See eee er eee ee sil ars «i e riage is plenty overrated Many single girls write to say they are lonesome Well, I'm married and I'm lonesome, too I'm not a cold person, Ann if that's what you're thinking I never refuse him The single woman who sup- ports herself can travel, And spend her money on anything that strikes her | fancy. She can have a date, a ro mance, or a full-blown affair If she feels like it She can turn love off < like an electric light bulb So why don't you level with the girls, Ann? New York Reader don | Little Jobs Around Home Give Children Confidence By ELEANOR ROSS Having house duties gives a} youngster a sense of impor-} tance and of belonging to the' CHORE CARDS family. Enlisting a child's aid takes a bit of sophisticated doing sometimes, but, rightly handled, it is invariably suc-| cessful. However, there are two uni- versal facts about children and chores. The wee ones always want to tackle jobs beyond; Older children, of cou ee their capabilities. And olderjoften have busy sche d eied vbilloedi wma . aeeeraere -- often bicker about who/which should be considered. | -- ; sho lo what, or who-has the/ When counting on their help for, better job. ja big job--such as cleaning the OSHAWA TIMES !garage--it is desirable to give EAGER TO HELP t There are many things that) Then let them assume responsi- bility for the task, plan for it, and do it on their own. It will get done--in time eager pre-schoolers can do to} help Mommy--and never is} such willing help to be found.) easy to find other simple tasks |that will give a youngster self- |confidence and satisfaction jean be Nobody wants to read the ay have to curb ¢ small print in dreams |ward being overly Ann Landers |-----_---- : And more important--for- |and late July: on travel and un giving jJusualy stimulating social activ And it is almost always the ities between now and mid-Jan wife who must do these uary, next July and Aug things you are careful to avoid n Then, as if that were not lin close circles in mid-July you enough, should experience 'unusual har She must be willing to for- mony in your domestic life. A get what she forgave possible change in your home Often that is the hardest jenvironment at that time could part. jbe the cause of anxiety, but do Oh, I have levelled all right. [not vent your dismay upon oth- If they don't get my mes- jers. 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