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14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, October 19, 1967 Deat Ann: We have a relative who mofiopolizes every corver- sation with 'Me, me, me--imine, |8 mine. I bought, I spent. I own, 1 went. I did." In other words-- capital "I" and small "'u". Can't these people hear them- selves? Don't a realize it is ungracious to talk incessantly about one's self? Why do they do it? Perhaps if I understood it better I could tolerate it.--As- saulted Eardrums Dear Assaulted: These pathet- ic creatures feel inadequate. The "} specialists" Who contin- ually brag about theif posses: sions, their achiévements' and their expenditures are not only cioddish but Ddoring. If YOU heat of & cure, let me know. I Tah into these people, too ~ Dear Amn Laiiders: My sister aa iWegitimate baby state andl has been there years. When she left told ererrane she was marry a Widower whose @ed in childbirth cit 4 i ere att positions. Recently Sis called to say she is decided to comé home. She get the word around was killéd in a wee sty "BE she is returning/Girls have been trading clothes @ she needs alsince the fig leaf. | ANN LANDERS "I Specialists Lonely, Insecure ja8k us to lie for her. Please tell me what to do.--Mr. and Mrs. l Dear Mr. and Mrs.: Inform your sister that you aré not going to tell people anything-- that the explanation ¢an wait until she comes home and then she can put out any story she wishes. If friends or félatives ask about her, simply say you are unclear as to the details but when she comes home they can ask her. Dear Afin Landers: We have a 13-year-old gifl whom 1 can't recognize half the tinte because she is wearing someone else's jclothes. Loretta has dozens of girl friends and they are forever jswitching outfits. I spénd a lot lof money on that young ladr's wardrobe and I have yet to see het in any of her own beautiful [skits, Mouses, Slacks, sweaters shifts or coats Last night I asked Loretta to dress for a special occasion and che said she had nothing to 't get the idea she iS wear she was right. Her best youngster. She iS ® outfits had been traded, When 1 ional person in her early : " ho has always held Pore A rage ed gow = oma coned insisted that ai! |the kids trade Gothes and I am not tuned in te what's happen ing. What de ren knew abou: this fad?--Damb Dear Mother: Its no fed change of scenery $0 she can re-) Put your foot down on that! cover from her grief. lyoung lady's smart mouth ana/ My husband is furious. He is|tell her there will be no more| 3 Es 2 few people believed|trading of néw clothes. If she her first story and that no one| wants to trade some oldies, o.K.| will believe the sécond one .We|--but make it cléat, she must) | WEATHER SHELTER A BRIGHT cotton canvas it has a soft, soft, tri-cotored raglan sleeved coat that pile, With a perky poitited for all its smartness ¢an hood, supér-sizéd pockets také a réal downpour and (for all those precious odds keep out cold winds is in- and ends), closed with turn deed a true wardrobe asset buckles. Navy, _ brick, --particularly for the young browfi, gold and string are schiolgirl. To make sure the colors and 7 to 14, the that this coat will do every- sizes. thifg it is supposed to do, --By Tracy Adrian beth feel it is unfair of her tolask you first. | CHILD GUIDANCE Classroom Psychology Subject Of New Treatise GARRY C. MYERS, PhD {pai's periission, gave an 1Q|g0ing. Especially favored: Con-/ Now & ks % ' the ie tract negotiations, property|Picking it up for themselves, én you afd I were schodl|te , did we do well when|garten and first five grades. The|deals, home and family interests Gut teacher exp d us to do FOR TOMORROW THE STARS SAY |High Priced Cats By ESTRELLITA Should Never Roam TORONTO (CP)--If you buy Friday should prove a highly stimulating day. Both personal and business interests will be governed by generous influ- ences, so you should have good st to all pupils 6} hy, ah éxpensive cat don't ever let it out of thé house, says cat fanciér Nancy Sutherland. "Most people know an expen- sive breed of cat when théy séé it now and they are not above she said in an interview. She was told "You'll never 8 were told, falsély, that|@ well? Did We do poofly when) the tests wold show which pup- she éxpected us to do poorly?7|ils could be expécted to spurt ill & whole classroom or build-j|ahead in school learning. The g of children do comparatively well if their téachers expect them to do well? Will they do Py if théir teachers Ng tt rd saan teachers were a te 46 poorly? Have tens y caged disadvan- dlfilant study by Dt, thal, professor of at Harvard, been reported in the public press. It will appear in a book next spring, Pygmalion in the Classroom, published by Holt; Rinehart and Winston. Four years ago, Professor Rosenthal, in a study on leatn- ing by rats, reported after tests that rats learned far better when the experimenters were told falsely that the rats had been spécially bred for learning ability--intelligence. The same kind of rats performed more poorly after the experimenters had been told the rats were dull. Hardly any magic about that. We caf assume that the rats performed better if their han- dlers supposed these rats were brighter, because the greater expectation was communicated éubtly through more gentle and ékillful handling of them. SIMILAR RESULTS Later Professor Rosenthal began similar studies of school children and reported what he bélieves to be similar results. Accordingly, a random sampling Was made of the first and sec- ond grade children in the South San Francisco ele mentary school. Falsely the teachers 'were told one group would make dfamatic gains in school work. They actually made such gains whilé the other children did not. Just the teacher and not the pupils or their parents were told of the "predictions." Professor Rosenthal 'believes that his study provides strong evidence that many children, especially minority-group chil- dren, turn out to be dull because their teachers expect them to be dull. In the spring of 1964, Profes- teachérs were given the names) of 20 per cent of the pupil bod FOR THE BIRTHDAY fd social functions, ; find a man crazy enough to ; marry you," when her friends If tomorrow is your birthday, |discovered she wanted a home you should find the year ahead|furnished mainly with cats. marked by excellent progress on| Her friends were wrong. practically all counts. Do make|Hugh Sutherland, formerly Can- y tandomly selected from allithe pest use of your talents noW|ada's top racing driver and Within a year: | A year later, all the children still in. school were re-tested. The "spurter" made an average IQ gain 6f 12.22 poifits wee with 8.42 for the rest of the children. The greatest gain eameé in fitst and second grades. The avéfagé person hardly would be surprised that the group of supposed spurters would 46 better. Believing they would 46 bettér, the teachers naturally would find more skill ful ways to realize such expecta- tion. Even the person giving the first and second IQ tests proba- bly was influenced unawares by) his expectations. Professor Rosenthal seems to have tried hard to contro] all factors. But can we be sure he did control them? A similar problem abounds in numerous published studies which con- clude that one method of teach- ing is superior to one or more other méthods. To what degree aré the reported measures reli- able? Can we always know éx- actly what was measured? This whole enquiry raises a question: Aré there possible ill --when you are govertied on dchool|would ttn pt ove dramaticaly(CePecially Kenerous infiuences--\doesn't_mind how many cats| by ini fT and geologist | 'lwhieh she afid Bob restote old sidolls, také visitors through theit muséim and constantly buy it and restore it to the By ROBERTA ROESCH Jéan Bach gets a great deal wir ith httsband ig with her htisband, pide Bob Bach, Jéan owns {jas antique doll museum if Search for fiew-old dolls to add té thé collection théy have. FULL SCHEDULE In addition to their museum which they opén four days & Week in the sutitmer and week- ends during the rést of the year, théy fun a charming antique shop. In what ever time is left, Jean devotes herself to handling all of the office details in husband Bob's building busi- ness. "T startéd to collect dolls as a véry young girl,' Jean told me, "so what begat as a littlé girl's pleasure was also the real beginning of one of the busi- nesses we have today. "But the business was actual- |ly born," she said, "when we Nancy has around their hothe in néarby King. At last count there wére 72-- just enough to keep the six dogs in line. Mrs. Sutherland decided to sell some of the overflow at home in a cat botitique in down- town Toronto. Called Pussies Galore, it has for sale some of the aristocrats of the feline world, including the Himalayans, a new breed dévélopéd from Siamése and Persian strains; which retail for up to $150 each. Expensive cats have expen- sive tastés, including jéwelled walking your pet. "Someone has placed an order for a margay--a minia- two," said Mrs. Suthérland. Little Girl's Pleasure Develops Into Big Businéss ffom life ih an exciting part-|abandoned for years. I fell it tithe business in picturésquel|lové with the house at Once and collats with matching leads for|people aré fat moré beautiful to ture ocelot--and I'm gétting|tell others how to get what they saw this 230-year-old Hope farmhouse which had been begafi to call it in my mind 'Thé Hotisé by the sidé of the Road.' "' MADE A DECISION "Since Bob loved it just as much, we décided we would petiod in which it was built." Once the farmhouse was com- pletély restored, thé Backs began an antique business by filling their housé with atithen- tic antiques and their collection of dolls. Aé théy sold furniture and othér antiqués, they also sold many dolls. Béecausé of the interest that was shown in the dolls, they eventually decided to erect a new building in the reat of their shop and opéf an Antique doll and toy museuth. In their fairyland of dolls--al- most 1,000 in all--théré is 6ne doll that belonged to Ethel Bar- rymore and another that was owned at one time by the gréat great granddaughter of Alexan- der Hamilton, Thére are Frénch dolls, Gérman_ dolls, Italian dolls, Spatiish dolls and even a tiny rag Goll that was found in a Gerfiian prison camp when American soldiers arrived at the camp to liberate the remaining hostages. As the visitors wander around from doll to doll, an antique music box plays and makés the beautiful doll lafid evén more of a paradise. ADMISSION FEES "For the upkeép of the muséum, we chargé 75 cénts for adtilts and 50 cefits for ctiil- dren under 12," Jean explained. "But there's never any charge for babies in arms, Thésé little us than afiy of our wonderfiil dolls. "I could néver présume to want from life," said Jéat Matgays séll for about $350. |when I asked for hér views. FOR THE | 74 CELINA STREET "Free Customer Parking Wh in the latest Shades ond febricss 5 5 5 WO: FINEST Custom and Ready Made DRAPES M&C i! Goods & Draperies DRAPERY TRACKS 723-7827 ile Shopping at Our Store" as this could léad to fine achievémedt, both monetarily and occupationally, béforé your next birthday rolls around. The current good cycle, where fi- nances are concerned, will last until late March and, making the most of it, you should note further uptrends in early July, |in Septémber and early October. Good periods for job advance- ment and-or business expansion: The next six weeks, late Decem- MANY CAMPAIGNS |! » ONE ber, January, late April and early September. Next January, July and Seép- tember should find you in a most stimulating social atmos- phere, made doubly enjoyable because of new contracts. Domestic interests and romatice will be under good aspects for most of the year ahead, with special emphasis on the latter [during the next three weeks, in January, May, late June and Jate July. If careful to avoid friction in early January and mid-July, domestic interests should prove most seréne. A child born on this day will be endowed with both practical and creative gifts; could stic- jceed in either the business world jor the arts, as inclination leads. effects on the teacher and conse- quently on the child, from the negative school records which go with the child from year to year, despite their frequent use- fulness? PARENTS' QUESTIONS @. Our boy, 3, runs away when left out on the lawn. When we find him we spank him and bring him back. It does no good. Why? A. He gets spanked for being found; so he supposes, and not for running away. Make clear to him the boundaries. Be on hand. The moment he crosses the boundary, spank him soundly. 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