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| THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, October 18, 1947 {CHILD GUIDANCE Dear Am Landers: We hope you will not consider this letter too indelicate to print, because we need help. A very nice man works in our office, He keeps to himself a lot --the quiet type. Nobody has ever had any trouble with him. Now it seems he is having some dental problems. For the past week he has been removing his partial plate during office hours (usually after lunch) and he just ieaves it on his desk. The sight of those teeth on his desk is enough to make a person want to change jobs. We don't wish to offend the gentleman, yet we don't feel he has the right to spoil a person's day. Do you believe an anony- mous note might be the answer0 Faceless Dentures No Desk Ornament ANN LANDERS j admit there is another side to, the picture, but then you could not possibly say a good word for a divorced man or you'd be thrown out of the Catholic Church.--Mrs. D. ! Dear Mrs.: Throwing me out of the Catholic Church would be the neatest trick of any week since I am not in it. Here is your letter, however, and it's a good one. There is in- | By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Playmates Will Toughen A School Cry - Baby Parents have often written over the years about the child from five to eight or 10 who often cries at home but seldom cries at school. Recently, a number of letters have come about the young child who often cries at school but seldom cries at home. For example, here is a letter from a mother in Kansas about a little girl in the second grade. "Do you have a pamphlet regarding a child that is 'Tender-hearted'? The teacher calls her that (to me only) because she cries so much in school. deed something to be said on the other side and I'm happy to give you equal time. Dear Ann Landers: Am I soft-hearted, soft-headed or just plain selfish? If I don't have a' date I will go out with any guy who calls me. It can be Mr.| Jerk, U.S.A., and I'll say yes,| rather than hurt his feelings.; I've put up with dozens of bores --Too Much Realism Dear Too Much: The poor guy poner ; ; iust UNREASONABLE y girl friend believes just/U! Ld ne ee dentist 3 opposite. She says it is cruel| ACHIEVEMENT and get his choppers adjusted.) In the meantime, I see nothing' teeth on the desk is unappetiz- ing, to say the least, and if he can't keep them in 'his head, would he please put them in the Pol drawer, | guy the impression that thinks he is neat. we » unreasonable og oe and | school and when she does not 'j jmeasure up to this expectation' Dear M and P: I'd say the|she is worried. She has not had Dear Ann Landers: Your acidjbest position is somewhere in|susticjent comment, "Alimony is the high;the middle. It is dumb to go out) rough-and-tumble of play with cost of leaving" has a nice ring/with any gink who happens t0/many other children of her own to it but it indicates that you/dial your number. By the same/age in the neighborhood. on account of this. to let a fellow waste his money) Saag on a girl who has no interest in; wrong in telling him in plain). Tamnding to her, when ajtrying to understand this child. language that the sight of his): 1's cepts a date she gives the|My guess is that this child has she|got the notion that you and oth-/ ers at home expected of her have no sympathy whatever for|token, only a fool would refuse the victims of cruel and punish-/to date a fellow because he/|their feelings toughened b didn't set her on fire at the first/other children. They don't prt My husband is one of those|glance. The most durable rela-|jet a playmate wear his feel-| unfortunate people who is im-|tionships start lukewarm and ig-/ings on his sleeves. ing ex-wives. paled on the alimony dagger.|nite later. FEELINGS EASILY HURT "Her feelings are hurt easily by making too many mistakes or by the children saying some- thing wrong to her. "Also, she worries so about a test coming up or doing some- thing different. She is a wor- in her presence about doing very well in school learning. If she reports at home she didn't do very well in a test, assure her she need not worry, that she may do better next time and that you will help her at home when she wants help. When she talks of any of her school worries, listen patiéntly but don't show too much pity or sympathy then. If she feels you are worried too, she may only feel more worried herself. FUN AT MEALTIME Try to have lots of fun in. the family, especially at meal- times. Welcome her pals to your house when she can have wholesome fun with them. Guide the conversation there to avoid discouraging talk or talk of worries. Aim to provide her at home with a cheerful, happy family atmosphere and to|tablecloths on curtain: stretch: induce her to spend ample time'ers. No ironing's needed: joutdoors and elsewhere with other children. It might be well to have her physician completely check her physically and advise you on ways to calm her down. If, after a few weeks or months, you don't see improvement, ask the physician to refer you to a psychiatrist. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Would you spank a tot three or four to make him go to bed? A. No; I'd pick him up and carry him there, hoping his resistance would gradually cease, WIFE PRESERVER Dry lightly - starched Ince "She cries very little at home; unless it's about school." My reply in part: HEY KIDS3! Apparently the teacher is achievement at the experience in Ordinarily, children have Guard what is said at home Murray's. For every poster HELP KEEP OSHAWA CLEAN Gather up all the election posters you see laying around, grap Mom and Dad and head for Mc- will give you a 2c reduction on your food purchase. McMURRAY'S | DRIVE-IN RESTAURANT | SIMCOE ST. 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