10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, October 13, 1967 been married three years. with "Lolita" real trouble ahead. 10 years. I never had any girlie say I am pretty shocked by all this. "Lolita" eggs Roscoe on by sitting on his lap and run- ning around the house in her baby-doll nightgowns. She is lazy.and has doubled my laun- Dear Ann Landers: In June my husband, Roscoe, and I went to visit my father and his second wife. (Mom died three years ago.) Dad's new wife has|and failing grades for "Lolita.' a 16-year-old daughter who|Leave Roscoe out of it. * looks 19 and has ideas that Return Lolita Before Roscoe Cracks Dear Ann Landers: this would be dumb. My dad problems with him and I must|says civilized people must learn to control themselves and I am sure he is right, but it doesn't seem normal for a kid not to be allowed to get the anger out of his system. Please give me some advice before I flip out.-- Dear Virgo: Revisit your|words and sounds. In the home father and his new wife ati|we may grow accustomed to Christmas and give theirjhis speech and usually be able daughter back to them. The/to hear most of what he says. reason: Too much work for you| At school when his teacher ; I am 8s he may use more air from didn't dawn on me until I had eS aaa ed is|his lungs across his vocal cords n o2!but still Roscoe became very taken/|pieces. I am not allowed to dis- eee and the next/agree with adults and I am not thing I knew he pig Me ied permitted to an es voice. I come back with us and finish|would get creamed if I said a send high scho i here. "Lalita" awear word. If I ever aluggedi'e *Hy, and timid and have hopped at chance. S is|janybody I would get: grounded ; living with us now and I see /for life. respond kindly to his speech. Every now and then I feel) Roscoe and I are both 48 and/like kicking the cat or knocking I've been coloring his hair for|a hole in the wall, but I realize | CHILD GUIDANCE ANN LANDERS Poor Enunciation May Be Caused By By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD | Many a child of school age |who may speak with grammati- jcal correctness does not use his jlips and tongue well in shaping |\does not always hear every jword he says, she may shout at 'him to 'speak louder. As he does may not shape his words more distinctly. Sometimes his trouble may be self-consciousness. He may fears that others may not Indeed, he may be so shy as not to speak loudly enough to be heard; his hampering emo- tion may then have made it harder for him to breathe fully and comfortably. Good schools have one or more speech specialists who deal chiefly with children who stutter or those who omit cer- tain sounds or substitute other that he doesn't and to wish to work on this problem himself. IN THE CLASSROOM Now and then in the class- room it should be profitable to have individual children speak about anything they liked or to ) answer a question, while as far tion of our children at home|#Way from the teacher as they and at school their quality of |°°Wld be. clear speaking. Occasionally another child : could take the place of the It would be enlightening to us|teacher in this activity. At such parents and teachers if wejtime the speaking child would often could listen to a recording|be urged to speak in a moder- of our own casual speech. Itjate tone and put his emphasis would be beneficial to our chil-|on shaping words distinctly. He dren to hear recordings of theirjand his classmates might soon speech too. be amazed that words said with At home during a c ion-javerage loud or even less able time with a child whojloudly may be easily heard. doesn't enunciate clearly we| Do you believe this a matter Jparents or teachers? Perhaps some reader would like to |report on some success enjoyed at helping a child -enunciate more distinctly. Should we not try to get the child to be not only interested in what he is saying but also in making sure that others really hear what he says? Is this not a matter of social accomplish- ment, acceptance, likableness? PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. Our son, 14, often says he has no homework. What should we do? A. At such a time require him to read for at least an hour from a book you approve. Pur- pose? To keep alive the habit of régular mental work and to remove temptation to report mar A Division of the S. 5. Kresge Company Limited might be able to help him see|worthy of our consideration as incorrectly. RRR NES RON ZELLER"S CAMERAS AND EQUIPMENT jsounds. You know the child who) lsays wove for love, fing for| Dear Cooker: People who are'thing or halt for salt, and the not permitted to get the anger | like | out of their system do just as | Te Oe ee ee a ee tut meen uikiag dry and housework. Her grades |Pressure Cooker in school are terrible. Any advice?--Virgo By ESTRELLITA It is essential to get rid of the bop pee henge tig oF « pressure which builds up in al)|/™ore FOR SATURDAY of us, no matter how vilized applies to ever so many other Pope Pee bs lg e are. The trick is to use|Children. Neither the speech ys om ae carte site socially acceptable method s\@xPert nor the average teacher' ecg Pica yes nr and not let off steam by doing/°° Parent may be concerned q Sid' chentions se peigd things which are destructiye|about the problem of the child -- a's oat ate eaiek and harmful. |who seems to talk chiefly from to make sudden alterations in| Athletics is an excellent out- " nodes t r plans. Speed should not deter|!et for anger or frustration. |, cartath peretur we you from remaining calm and Swimming, tennis, soccer, foot-|"0mes CeTtaln persons wito lball, baseball, basketball sound their words very distinct- serene. lsquash, or just plain runnin '|ly. Most special performers on "i B.A TV also do. W. selves would FOR THE BIRTHDAY punching bag can be a useful Be acid Man hee Phat, If Saturday is your birthdey,|target for hostilities, The|%° Well to try to imitate such) 'your horoscope indicates that, ' persons and to call to the atten- | answer is to let off steam on as of the end of September, you/things and not people. entered an excellent six-week PLAN BACKED | cycle for finances, provided). 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Her heade petals edged wi crystals, held a. B The Reverend efficiated at the Sharon Anne Du Frederick Boynt place last Saturd: Albert Street Uni The bride is tl Mr. and Mrs. | Dunbar and the the son of Mr. liam Boynton, al Harold Ellis p ding music. Given in mar father, the bride traditional gown fashioned with a ice, scoop neck point sleeves, fe wrist with self b lace appliques, | seed pearls enha line, waistline 2 A-line skirt. A tachable train ed Miss Sherrall } Ludger Albert united in marria; erend L. J. Austi afternoon in Ss Evangelist Roma Church, Whitby. The bride is t Mr. and Mrs. C Whitby, and the the son of Mrs. | Welland, and Trottier. The Reverend nier was the soll ied by John S organ. Given in mar father, the bride length gown of s' peau de soie fas empire waistlin skirt. The broca tured a scoop covered buttons wrists, The ski soie was trimme at the hemline dral train of bro peau de soie fell