OVERCHARGED MARRIAGE JACKSONVILLE, Ill. (AP)-- The Morgan County clerk is Mr. and Mrs. Howard Charles Read, Oshawa, wish to an-lf2"fa ces: the clerk, Louise nounce the forthcoming mar-/.0° 'said she overcharged 20 riage of their eldest daughter, |©00P, 68 Sear milsia: Hazel Lydia, to Gary AllanjCOuPJes after being West, son of Mr. and Mrs,|formed on the cost of the James West. Campbeliprd. The |so°%ethar han $5, she sald she wedding will take place on Sai-/f2" "een issuing $5 refund 12 'THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thuredey, October 5, 1967 ANN LANDERS Philandering Mother SOCIAL NOTICES FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE ZELLER'S OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE. IT'S TIME Dear Ann Landers: My moth- er and I are only 18 years apart ' in age. She could easily pass turned down before. Probably ronto, wishes to asnounce the ZELLER s ci me: WINTERIZE to Ider sister. Alth dozens of times. forthcoming marriage of his ee r my older sister. ough I) "you seemed like a nice daughter, Elizabeth Anne, to fe PF) am only 16, I understand a lot/enough young man, neat and Robert Allan Fudge, son of Mr. about life and everyone says I|polite and willing, but you and Mrs, Danicl B. Fudge, T E am very mature for my age. didn't have a high school diplo- Oshawa. The ceremony will : Recently my mother told me/ma. I know you can read take place Saturday, October that Dad has lost all interest in|because you came to my office 28, 1967 at 10.00 a.m, in St. sex. She says she is gettingjin response to an ad which Gregory the Great Roman F or The Whole nervous and doesn't know what|appeared in the paper. Appar- Catholic Church, Oshawa. keeps to do about it. Mom has askedlently you skimmed over the refrigerators my advice and I don't know what to tell her. She says there is a very nice, attractive man who works in the same office with her. He is married but does not care for his wife. Do you think it would be terrible if my mother got together with this man so they could fill out the empty spots in one anoth- er's lives?--No Ann Landers Dear No: A mother who would discuss this problem with her daughter (even if they do look like sisters) has some loose parts in her head. It sounds as if she is looking to you for approval, not advice. Tell your mother to seek professional advice and to Needs Professional Help what?" expression on your face, I suspect you have been line which read, 'High-school Graduates.' "The job you wanted has an excellent future. It offered unu- sual opportunities for advance-| ment. I am sorry you didn't qualify. And now I would like to give you one bit of advice. Go back to school and graduate. That diploma is far more important than the car you are supporting. And, young man, if you can possibly go on to col- lege, go! You may feel it is a waste of time, but take my word for it, it is the smartest thing you can do. The world is changing and those who are not equipped to meet the new chal- lenges will be left behind. Good please leave you out of it. It's bad enough for a teen-ager to know that her mother is a swinger. To ask a child to be alsage sinks into hundreds of party to such crummy business|thousands of skulls around the country. And now may I grab is too much. t Dear Ann Landers: I have|word of my own? something to say to all kids who are fed up with schoo] and/from a reader saying he was think they would be better off if/sorry he stayed in high school they quit and got a job. The/and graduated, but I have had best way to get my idea across/stacks of mail from dropouts is to ask you to print this let-|/begging me to get the word to ter: other teen-agers for whom it is ZZDear John Doe, Jr.: I am/|not too late. The word is, "Stay sorry I had to turn you down/in this afternoon when you came|/may find yourself hopelessly to my office and applied for a/trapped in a dull, low-paying "so'job for life." job. Judging from the luck.--The Man Who Had To Say No" Dear Man: I hope your mes- he tail of the kite and add a I have never had a letter school and graduate or you suit plete without a pant suit, a fashion which from all pres- ent indications, is here to stay. It is popular in its many variations with both both the active and spec- tator sports sets. The pant separates here can fit in just fine for fall and winter sports occa- sions and can Jead many mix - match fashion lives. The bottom of the front- zipper jacket can be worn straight down as shown or, via its drawstring, can be pulled in and bloused at the waistline, And, with a little ingenuity, the collar can be easily adjusted to suit the wearer. Colors are lovely: illustrated GROUP IS SHOCKED "PANT SUIT SEPARATES No weekend wardrobe for get-togethers in the coun- try or on campus is com- oxford, breen (brownsish green), brick, payaya and turquoise. --By Tracy Adrian urday, November 18; 1967, at 3:00 p.m. in Centennial United Church, Oshawa. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. Stanley. V. Scoville, To- FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Cyril Wannop|. wish to announce the forthcom- ing marriage of their daughter Rose Anne Elinor, to John Rob- # jert Ellison, son vf Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Umphrey, all of Broug- ham. The ceremony is to take place on Saturday, November 4, 1967 at 4:00 p.m. in St. John's | United Church, Brougham. NOT ALL GOOD Forty per cent of Americans incorrectly think that a person with 20-20 vision is free from eye defects. A solution of Cow Brand Baking Soda {3 tablespoons per quart of water) makes ical cleanser. 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The 200 lis- teners heard the anguished cries, curses and wails of the child who was so disturbed that his words were garbled. should be no need of a lock on the door. It is easy to see that when two children of the same sex in the same family have learned 8 to 18. As low as ... Just Say .... Charge-It ! Saturday even UAW Hall, Bond 135 people from Whitby attended party to honor } Clifford Pilkey or of their 25th wec sary. Mrs. Pilkey, the Brooks, was bor: the daughter of | Stanley Brooks. M born in Pickerin; the late Mr. and may learn to share in keeping| express strong approval, day to get along well with Pilkey. Mr. Pi thelr room tidy. Moreover, a OWN ROOM be the Sele the Bard that moved to Oshawa child is less likely to have fears they have had good experience a small child. in the dark when another child) When it is feasible and not a|¢or sharing a room together at Both attended even years younger is in the/financial hardship, each child game room, However, they may talk and laugh at excessive length, thereby reducing their sleep. Even then the gain can be greater than the loss. But if they roughhouse, then as at other times they may need some limitation. If you hear two of your young sons or young daughters creat- ing disturbing noises for an appreciable time, it were better not to try to apprehend the aggressor but to have both of them get up, each sitting in a chair unamused where you can see them for a definite period as measured by the clock, depending on their average age about 20 minutes for them if near 3 years of age, from 30 to 60 minutes and up for much older children. 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