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|@ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, September 27, 1967 Dear Ann pointment to me." ruined my life. I wish I had never had you." It's unbeliev- able the soul-searing things that} can. come out when a nut begins to yell her head off. ANN LANDERS Mother's Screaming Sears Child's Soul Landers: The letterja very sick woman, What irom "Ashamed Screaming] Would like to tell all screaming Mother" had special meaning for me because my own mother was the champion screamer of all times. A child never forgets when mother says, "I wish you had died when you were a baby. You have been a terrible disap-|;ave grown up a lot these pas Or--""You) three years. When I was a junior in high school there was a fad, If a fel- low liked a girl he gave her a |street sign. I now have in the |basement of our home signs ,| late. a mothers everywhere is this: When you feel yourself slipping out of control, get professional help. Don't wait until you slide jover the edge. It may be too Dear Ann Landers: Don't ive me heck. Just tell me what to do. I am 19 now and I t 4 | | CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph. D. NO PLAYMATES CHILD'S AGE You know the child, often a boy from 6 to 10, who is a loner. He may choose to be alone but normally wants to be with his peers. He may even try to bribe them to come to his home, when they hardly will stay long or soon return. He tries to have his own way with them and then he can't, he inclines to quarrel with them. He rarely goes to where they are for he may feel he isn't anted. He can't compete with them at play, so he may seek the company of younger or older children. children let him boss them, the older ones incline to protect him when he's not a nuisance to them. The younger Parents Of Lonely Child Should Encourage Friends times bring them there they must have good times through what can't be bought with money. They must find real play enjoyment. So be guided by this objective. You may need to employ great skill and find ways to guide your child toward this end. You can study with your child then in his relations with the other children, restraining him in his selfish urges, aggressive- ness and bossiness, guiding him in ways these other children will like. You may not see great gains, it may be a long uphill pull. APPLAUD SUCCESSES Meanwhile, aim to help him gain in normal skills at play and in consideration of the rights and feelings of members THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW An excellent planetary day: Many surprises can be expect- ed--especially in the way of job recognition, unexpected busi- ness gains, help from influen- tial friends and-or pleasing communications. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope holds out some very pleasant prospects for the coming year. Within the next 12 months, you should find your energies at a highly construc- tive peak, and the outlook is excellent for job advancement, business expansion and finan- cial gain. On the occupational and-or business score, you entered, as of this past Mon- day, a truly excellent six-week cycle for advancing your inter- ests, which will spark still fur- ther progress during the last week in January, throughout May, August and September, December should prove highly profitable as will the first three weeks of January, the first 10 days of February, the first week in July, mid-August (which could bring an unexpect- ed windfall) and all of Sep- tember. Just one admonition, how- ever: Do avoid temptations to speculate during late February, throughout March -- especially its last week -- and the first three weeks of April. You may be offered some high-sounding propositions during any of those weeks, but don't listen! Watch your budget next November, too, since, even though your financial situation should be stable, you may face some extraordinary and quite unanti- cipated expenses. There will be periods during the coming year, notably in May and June, when you may experience some domestic ten- sion due to over-absorption in business matters. Avoid, by being especially considerate in close circles. For the single, romance--but only of the ligh- ter variety--should brighten the My mother's favorite expres-| which read Yield, Slow, Dan would walk into the ocean to| save you." Since we lived 1,000] Soulder. miles from the nearest ocean I} could see no chance of her proving her love in this dramat- ic manner. I once said to her,| "If you love me so much why) don't you just treat me a little --Changed Signals better and stop saying such} q)Someone frori the traffic awful things?" department to your home to I'm a grown woman now an my mother has b i Bee P 4 vy sat aigge Y gaara Doe up the signs, or if they instituti : gal dnsitution for many |would prefer that the signs be but I can truthfully say I have} . little or no compassion for her, | Drought to the nearest station. Be aware that you are in pos- I have tried to be forgiving but horrible childhood memories,|d0 not rightfully own. I am Please get this vital message) hopeful that the police will be across to all screaming moth-|lenient since' you are volunteer- ers everywhere. It could save|ing to return their signs. their youngsters a lot of grief.| And, by the way, I hope no One Who Survived |lives were lost because some} Dear One: It is difficult to| fun-loving kid removed a sign get any message across to a|Which was placed at a critical/ sion after one of her screaming | ' " {gerous Curve, Stop, Go, No fits was, "I love you so much I/passing Allowed, and. Soft! | I would like to take these \signs back but I don't know | where they belong. Also, I don't|B want to get into trouble. Will) you please tell me what to do? Dear Changed: Telephone the |police and ask if they will send) It is impossible to erase those|session of property which you) | | DOROTHY LIVESAY, a | writer-in-residence at the | University of New Bruns- | wick, has won the Gover- nor-General's award for Award-Winning Poet Draws On Her Experience Of Life (CP)--Dorothy poetry twice. The 58-year- old writer has been a social worker as well as a poet and journalist. She de- scribes her poetry as an | TORONTO "She is able to look at hte outgrowth of the Chinese and Japanese styles she studied as a teen-ager in Winnipeg. . (CP Photo) NORMAL COMPETITION Whether he spends much time with younger or older chil-| aces where other children of|ce™med, dren his peers notice when he/nis age are. Attract him to the does and grow less ready t0/eary stages of Scouting and the|loner. The worst thing you can|good judgment, a keen insight accept him. Seeing how his|jixe 1 hope Dad spends a lot of|do is to tell him it's his own|into the most complex situa- thy te al ry = bend time with this boy, going to out-|fault he has no friends. Meanwhile, h 'lings, fishing, to games and the practice in normal competition) siong one or more of his pals.|Very Selfish Child," "The and in learning of play skills./1, yarious situations then the|Bossy Child," He may be a very pathetic F hid Ag be father may find ways to help|Are Parents, approaches adolescence he still|ahje pal and playmate. may lack ways of winning and) i keeping friends. Suppose the boy described in the following letter from Mas-| of the family and all other per-|by which time you should be| periods of mid-January, the sons. "sitting pretty. first three weeks of April, early Go with him to houses and| Where finances are con-\May and August. the first 10 days of) 4 child born on this day will be endowed with unusually |tions and unusual diplomacy. "Your Child "The (My bulletins, had taking|And His Playmates," he has not like with him, often and "Fathers Too," may be enters OF/the jad become a more accept-|secured by sending a self-ad- dressed, U.S. stamped envelope A caution: There is little orjto me in care of this news- jno value in mere talk with the paper). Miss Livesay went to Eng- land after the Second World War to report on post-war reha- bilitation for a Toronto news- Paper, and was program assist- ant with the United Nations loves people and fun but does not get along with children in| his own age group -- (no com- plaints from school) -- in our} neighborhood. He plays with older boys (when they | aren't too busy for him). sree © BAALLINGER"S tts were your son. | We won't pull the Meat Market 46 SIMCOE ST. N. -- OSHAWA wool over your eyes well) y ¥ Or any of the other thousands mother who would say to her|Spot for a very good reason. "I wish you had died! Confidential to Want to Help: You are not a physician and|@°V ; neither am I. It is a fact that/poetry, says she finds it strange|But my son Peter who is an|WON BIG AWARDS : | Ca yak fet ae og Bassct Reeser are --? when people criticize the earthy| anthropologist is not too happy y ems, bu i well try to bore a hole through|would not attempt to dingases| rn, gdh age ag Bh ag & child, when you were a baby," and then, minutes later, offer to walk into the ocean to prove her love. a brick wall with a toothpick. Your mother's wide emotion- al swings indicate that she was the case and neither should|:norothy, you. Suggest that your friend/csuch words see a specialist. KEEP IN TRIM |Livesay, ernor General's Award for|value her criticism very much. |'Ural Organization in Paris. about some of my writing. "Some of my friends say: : P you shouldn't. use|when he hears what my friends|the University of Toronto. and write suchjare saying about my becoming things.' But I find this strange/a grandmother: thinking. "I was married, bore twoijpoems children. I know what it is to|grandson.'" about her _ first/from U. of T. in 1934. twice winner of the|poetry from a literary view. 1|Educational, Scientific and Cul- Paris is a city she knew from having studied at the Sorbonne "Maybe he will feel better/iM 1932, after taking her BA at She has been a social worker 'Dorothy is|as well as a poet and journalist. going to spend her time writing|She graduated in social science FEELS UNLIKED his own age are out playing) ball, he may not even try tol FREE HOME DELIVERY join them, saying 'They don't! like me,' or 'They don't want) me to play with them.' This started a few years ago and it was mainly one boy who pushed him out but I feel that at this age he should have been n ) able to overcome this. It can't Miss Livesay, now 58, won|be blamed on one child, the experience life." An example of the earthy Miss Livesay, now a writer-|the Governor-General's Award/fault must lie primarily with Bad Posture Habits Should By IDA JEAN KAIN the daughter of intelligence. |!egs is not good either, since it| Faulty posture practices can\Ccan weaken the ankles. Sitting often go unnoticed until the|on one foot can lead to lopsid-| adolescent years when the sud\edness, den spurt in growth accentuates | Round shoulders are fostered defects. Posture habits, good or|by sitting on a hassock or foot bad, are established at an early| stool with no back support, per- age. haps to watch TV. Children who Poor posture can stem from a|are convalescing from 'an ill- ber of fact inad te/ness should have a backrest to nutrition, muscular weakness,| use when they sit up in bed. insufficient rest, as well as} Swayback is a common pos- from wrong posture habits./ture fault brought on by weak Periodic health examinations|abdominal muscles and out-of- are important. The doctor will/kilter posture. Teen-agers par- be alert to early posturey|ticularly lament this figure defects, look into the cause and|fault. When the small of the recommend the correction. A|back sinks in, the abdomen pro- checkup is particularly neces-|trudes and rear hips trail. sary after an illness: or follow-| The. following exercise is fun ing an injury. [and effective: Lie on back, Many teen-agers write to|knees flexed. The exercise is to complain about knock-knees,|huge both knees to chest and Wrong position of the feet in|rock back and forth along the walking can be an early cause. | Spine. Finally, rock right up to Toes should be pointed straigyt a sitting position and, reaching ahead. This is the strong po¢-|forward with fingertips, touch tion of the foot for the weight toes. : : falls along the whole length of| The best possible exercise is the arch. the continual practice of good weight to fall along the inner borders of the feet--a weak) position. The doctor may advise| Toeing out is incorrect foot/posture--in sitting, standing) posture, since this allows the|and walking. j | passion Miss Livesay uses injof New Brunswick, did not her writing can be found in her|come to the field of writing by : \latest book, The Unquiet Bed. : Be Corrected In Childhood | Miss Taceney, ng pat oom B. Livesay, a founder of The ( jried to D, C. Macnair, said her|Canadian Press, and her moth-| jand foot troubles. Sitting on the daughter Marcia, a Toronto Prevention has been called|floor with buttocks resting on/|librarian, approves of the book.|were writers. accident. Both her father, J. F FOLLOW THE EASY RULES FOR WEDDING PUBLICATIO The wedding season never ends but reaches peaks in June, September and October. Throughout the year The Oshawa Times tries to accommodate its readers by provid- ing space for accounts of weddings and some photographs. Each week, under the heading Wedding Album on the social page is published information on how to proceed with the publication of a wedding. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Publication of this wedding record depends upon the submission of the completed form to the women's editor at least three days before the cere- mony. Reports received after the ceremony has taken place are not acceptable. This arrangement which has been in effect for one year, ensures that weddings appear in print within one week of their having taken place and are still newsworthy. The record of the bride-elect's showers and her out-of-town guests should be submitted at least five days prior to the wedding. All commercial photographers have long been notified that if the bride wishes a photograph to -accompany her | wedding story, they must submit a print within four days following the wedding. These arrangements must be followed absolutely to meet the demands of both space and time. special shoes to correct a struc-| tural defect, particularly when the child is young. A corrective | exercise is to practice walking | a chalk line, placing one foot) directly ahead of the other, and} throwing the weight to the outer borders of the feet Little tots love to sit on the floor. The best way to sit is tai- | lor-fashion, legs crossed in| front of body. Too often chil-| dren get in the habit of sitting) B WIFE PRESERVER turned out at each side ...|with dental floss or nylon fish- habit can lead to knock-knees' tically forever. Norm Fisher's Meat Market 22 Simcoe St. North Phone 723-3732 ALL_MEAT GOVERNMENT INSPECTED e FREEZER SPECIALS e@ FRESH YEARLING LAMB | HALF or WHOLE . 35* 3 PORK LOINS uw. 69° S BEEF Hindquarters ...... Ib, 65¢ Loins 35-40 Ib, .... Ib. 75¢ No charge for cutting, wrapping and freezing. STE AKS YEARLING oe LAMB Sirloin Loin Chops .... 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