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TZ THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, September 25, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: I am a 14-year-old girl who spent $6 to hear the Monkees give a con- cert last night. It was one of the greatest experiences of my whole life. Something happened at the hall and I need to know if I was right or wrong. My gitl friend and I were screaming a lot which is only natural when the Monkees per- form. A middle-aged woman about 30 was sitting in front of us. After the second number she turned around and said, "If you kids don't stop screaming in my ear I am going to scream in yours." I told her in a polite voice that we came to scream and if ag she doesn't like screaming she should have stayed home and hemmed tea towels or some- thing. She said I had a big mouth for a little girl and a few other things along that line. doing what is only natural? Thank you.--Monkee Lover Dear Lover: If you screamed in church or at the ballet I would say the woman had a right to complain, but scream- ing at a Monkee concert is not only in order, it is practically compulsory. I don't think it was necessary to bring in the tea towels, how- ever.You were right about the screaming and she was wrong, but your sassiness weakened = position and strengthened ers. Dear Ann Landers: I am sure there are some people who think you are evading the issue or looking for an easy way out! when you say, "Get profession-| al help," or "Go to a psychia- trist and talk it out of your sys- tem." I thought so, too, but now I know better. I wrote to you a year ago) about my horrible fear of spi ders. It got so bad I couldn't Don't you think kids have a right to scream if they feel like it when the music is great? Will you please say something about older people who go to teen-age concerts and criticize kids for point. ANN LANDERS | Screaming Teenagers Go Along With Show eat without examining every bit of food. I was sure spiders were everywhere. At night I had to check every'inch of bedclothes to make certain there were no spiders under the sheets or in the pillow slips. To make matters worse, when I found an occasional spi~ der on the window ledge 1 became so paralysed with fear that I couldn't kill it. You told me to get professional help everything that moved. I took your advice, Ann. And now, seven months later, I am a new tom of my heart.--Helped And Happy Dear Helped: I'm happy, too. again. Therapy has proven utterly useless to some people and it has opened a whole new world to others. I am delighted it worked for you. Dear Ann Landers: I am an old man now but I still have a good memory. When I read the letter in your column about the mother who slipped a candy bar into her young son's pocket as she checked out her grecer- ies in the supermarket, I youth. A neighbor of ours was found guilty of murder. Before he was executed he asked to be grant- before I became afraid of woman. Thanks from the bot- I've said it before and I'll say it recalled.a story I heard in my| The new outdoor American woman is a fast mover. The recreation explosion has bred her; fashion favors her. The sport she participates in actively depends upon her inclination and locale. She may be one of the two million 'women golfers who now play fifteen rounds or more a year or she may be just a drop-in duffer. But whatever her sports proclivity, her - clothes are important. Lady | 'TEE' TIME golfers tend to conservative garb but general select cas- co-ordinates that will serve for many other activ- ities. The shirt influence is quite evident in the wool flannel jacket which oc-ord- inates with the red, saffron and green plaid Bermudas shorts and tam. A gold tur- tle-neck shirt rounds out the ensemble. ual By Tracy Adrian CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS PhD 4| Minnesota: Patience, Understanding Help Stuttering Child A grandmother writes from on his words and helped him say them right he was so will- ii "Our little grand home besides keeping the wor! 'jin the home done. She was an only child and this boy is F h| He stutters quite badly. be corrected on the sounds h "\highly when he says pronounce them wrong. STRICT PARENTS and when he says and then praise him for it? I think the younger this is taught opinion since he has the stutter- ing problem? "T feel that the overly strict parents have caused this child to sutter and be very shy. The daughter-in-law resents any advice and the son seems indif- ed one last wish--a good-bye kiss to his mother. Permission was granted and his mother was brought to his cell. He leaned over pretending to kiss her and bit a chunk out of her ear. He then said to the guards, "When I was a child my mother taught me to steal. From stealing I went to vio-| lence wanted my dear mother tol me by." |their friends and acquaintances I think this true story js think my family can't provide s > y is ; lworth printing.--Silver Threads | What I need? have something to remember! Dear story, sir, but it does make a) KEEP IN TRIM Dims Personal By. IDA JEAN KAIN cally. Anyone can sit around o2 a skimpy diet and lose weight, but you lose everything else-- muscle tone, skin tone, bounce and verve. When you diet strin- gently and shun exercise some- thing dismal happens to your looks and spirits. To half-starve the body is an unsatisfactory way to try to reduce. The body is a work machine and starvation never accomplishes work. Everything slows down. To spell this out: On too few calories the body adjusts its processes (the basal metabolic rate goes down) then less fuel is used, Sloth sets in and voluntary activity dimin- ishes. Then what happens? The deficit between your food sup- ply and your energy demands lessens. You are on dead-cen- tre. You feel limp and you do) not expend enough energy to) burn body fat, so there is no weight loss. Exercise can change all that, for exercise is women should not be cut much below 1,000 calories a day. For overweight men, reducing diets range from 1,400 to 1,800 calo- ries a day. You cannot keep in a fine state of repair on too lit- tle food. The first need of the body is fuel for energy. Protein is the number-one need for the upkeep and repair of body cells. When calories are cut too low, even on a diet pattern that is high in protein, part of the} protein will be burned for fuel] needs. The result will be too lit- Half-Starving The Body the big variable in energy a gg ot caitiain' A LAXATIVE ONCE, TWICE or good nutritiona' | status, a reducing diet for THREE TIMES A WEEK Threads: That's a grisl¥/peach and this time I have a jlast-minute chance to work as a in a coffee shop. I|/Mrs. K.H. eae Dear Mrs. Occasionally you will find a |waitress |want to take the job very much| Worried Parents Ban Girl's Summer Job spect that comes from stand- ing on their own two feet. Dear Roberta Roesch: Should a married woman By ROBERTA ROESCH Dear Roberta Roesch: How can I convince my par- and finally murder. Toot. that if I take a summer| 'ob at the shore it won't make|¥rite Mrs. in parentheses when {she signs a business letter? I've been hired as a corres- pondent to answer customers' e|inquiries, but before I take over jthe job this month I'd like to {know what's correct. Each year we summer at th |since two of my friends will! 'work there, too. tle protein to take care of the What is the most beautiful|body's operating and replace-|ing nothing to do. way to reduce? Eat moderately|ment needs, and repair work| Please give me a case to pre- and be normally active physi-|will be shoddy. Another mistake overweights often make is to go light on food all day and then overeat at the evening meal. You cannot win by that plan either. This is contrary to nature's design for using fuel for energy. Allocate your calories to three modest meals a day, build each meal around a high-quality protein food and include adequate amounts of all the protective) foods in the day's pattern. The most beautiful way to reduce is to eat protectively, maintain calories at the level that allows you to reduce at a moderate rate and keep exer- cising. Exercise restores tone to the muscles and helps you to look and be trim and firm. Without exercise the law of diminishing returns sets With exercise circulation stimulated and you tone up as you slim down. IF YOU ARE NOW TAKING oo THEN YOU SHOULD BUY BR TODAY! | the Laxative Tablet with the | GENTLE DIFFERENCE Take gentle-acting NR .|.. Nature's | Remedy! There is no letdown, no | uncomfortable after-feeling. NR is | an all-vegetable laxative. 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N., OSHAWA ing at the Dictaphone end hand, Open to young people | 725-3375 jagainst it they've offered to |pay me what I would earn in the job if I give up the whole Sparkle jidea. They say that I don't ml But my parents are s0 need the money and insist I do need the relaxation of hav- sent to them, since the job won't be open much longer. Dear C.J.: I usually take a neutral stand when it comes to issues between parents and their offspring. But just this once I feel I must| say that most parents are) pleased to have children who} want to work in the summer,| and few of the mothers and fa-| thers I know feel that a teen-| ager's summer job is a reflec-| tion on their financial ability. | Instead they know from ex- | perience that a job is a valu-| able asset that gives teenagers | a working background, teaches'| them how to get along with) different types of people and jm jsuperfluous in b \the Mrs. is needed because the name could be taken for a) though, & K.B.: arried woman who signs her letters with Mrs., but this is ferent as to his stuttering and incorrect pronunciation.. We do not live close to them but I had him stay with me just a. few days and when I corrected him WIFE PRESERVER Use wet strings to tie pack-| ages for mailing. It shrinks as it dries and holds tighter. 5, does not pronounce words with the "th" sound correctly. His moth- er, our daughter-in-law, is an extremely particular hous e- keeper where there is never one thing out of place. She operates a beauty shop in her only child. She is very, very strict with him and does not 4|give him much time or feeling. "] think our grandson should mis-pronounces and praised them right. They think it will just make his stuttering worse as he will hesitate about saying words at all if he thinks he may say them wrong. I know he is going to be teased in school by the other kids if he continues to "Ts it right to show the child how to hold your tongve to make the sounds come out right it wrong have him say it over correctly|that you might want to pass the better but what is your/or she may not choose to do sv. 1 ing to try and seemed s0 pl d when he got it right. My reply: Being a grandparent myself, I know how concerned you are about that little child and his speech. It is fine that you can have the little fellow with you occasionally when he can get k|away from the unhappy experi- ences in the home. I think your njmethod of helping him say some words might work very well with you but I doubt if it would be a good plan for the parents to use. His big problem is that of stut- e|tering. His parents are right in not stopping him to correct his enunciation of a word lest duing so could increase his stuttering. I believe the mother and father could do much with this child if they would read a great deal to him, spend some time with him, provide him with more love and understanding, and answer his questions patiently and have a calm and happy atmosphere for him. I hope you also read to him when he's with you. I am enclosing some bulletins along to your daughter-in-law. Better not tell her to read them It is always hard for a grand- parent to get over a g idea to an in-law or child. Answering Questions q. 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