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14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wed NM Ths Va 2528 e can, too.--Florida Dear. Florida: Amen, Desr Ann Landers: Us ft oy ttt ae I |s | M RS yA hy gk 'i ff Sv 1 S| I iy | be - rT =} | tel A Prrrew 9-7 WIFE PR g arch, |. \ preserve this summer's TreSh Truit go oe | anes «~ w" ctions accompany § each Certo bottle and package. | ANN LANDERS. ralness, Virtue | S) Danville rs to someone, | ¥ » noncommittal, told her no, loll's, and ney and those pictures it the picture in the casket Wwevs ble mistake to take a picture of ] RVER | ce Reader: CHILD GUIDANCE Middle Child nesdoy, August 30, 1967 | By GARRY MYERS, PhD You have heard and read a great deal about the middle of three children and got the impression that being this mid- dle child is about the greatest misfortune that could come to any child. I know of no reliable statistics supporting this notion. Those who are written about are isolated cases. We need to remember children in any family have wide individual differences, as a rule. First they are different in physical inheritance. The ways in which their >arents and other members of the fam- ily and persons outside the fam- ily respond to the individual children in a family are differ- ent. The order of birth obvious- ly differs. OTHER FACTORS Whether a child is the first, second, third, fourth or last child may make some differ- ence. But many other factors than order of birth may be at Truly Great have ahy twinges of| . Some girls at 15 are| They know all the s at 15 are chil- Pn y may appear world- vise and talk a good game, y don't have any real, ation, . These girls are! ally vulnerable and} wind up in trouble. ner was a wise and! ul man. He taught his s 'that honorable men don't eive girls to obtain sex sat- and that virgins. were off limits.--E.U.H. of Dear E.U.H.: The world ould use more fathers like the né you had. But my. advice 1 stands. I, too, feel sorry for girls who get conned, but ne of my chief missions is to ee INTERNATIONAL ike Up these sleeping beau- work. You and I know some rhe ge agate is - middle of three children in the em know y s vate: i y 5 é r. h ems eloas. Most fas LOOK TO FALL ar be nr aber peg ped) have fathers like yours. ™aijor fashion trend-setting | oitcige it, and most successful will take anything that's} Season. Expect mig. shines of the three at school. We need red plus whatever they can} {rom outstanding fabrics | 74 information about them iba ciel f f and from the silhouette. | h , alk a gir) out of. Note the importance of you |more explanation of how they . : t that way. Deur Ann: , making the real shape 80! aoe cheve a high school girl wanted| ReWS. Plan your Fall looks; | All else, being equal. some o kvow if she should take aj Gon't let them plan you. -- sb haggle ogg ture of her friend in the cas-| Begin with a decidedly aOee Ger ine Geel chic, assuredly sophisti. {suffering from some inevitable et ald give it to the bereaved arents, You were somewhat} I wish you had| jealousy may respond unfavora- | cated "international" good Poe bly. He in time may suffer jeal-| dress that will be nothing, short of perfect for intime restaurant dining here or | | My mother died when I was/ SNOW TOP PINEAPPLE An aunt took pictures of her} broad. This unusual and | MOLD } the casket--two large photo-| Chick two-piece charmer |; 4314.97, can drained | from Italy is called the rapbs on slick paper and sev-| ral smaller snapshots. Her ce looked painted, like a the expression on} mouth was cruel--one I. had| seen, That was 46 years ago, Ann, still haunt crushed pineapple 1 env. unflavored gelatin cup salad dressing ¥% cup dairy sour cream 3-oz. pkgs. lemon-flavored gelatin | cups boiling water Galoppo, its lines are archi- tecturally pure and easy and it is fashioned of lovely {1 pure wool. The color is deep wine and brilliant turquoise {9 and there's a hidden asset-- a tricky change-about look. 2 : : : The triangle, stand-away ; jmost for Barry, helping hi Maat HG eae ae, pave collar is removeable, dis- |? cups ginger ale lfeel more warthertile' poe is ye her heauttat got os closing a sweet jewel neck- /1% qt. mold gain useful experience at fun aig? 4 '| line and creating the instant Method: |with other children of his age. illusion of an entirely dif- ferent twosome. --By Tracy Adrian ue eyes and her warm aati comes first. After al ¥4 cup syrup drained from the |i udder or two it fades away, it's always first. It's a terri-| ----------_ LEFT TRASH BEHIND ST. LOUIS (AP)--City offi-| mold and chill until firm. Dis-| cials say 15,000 pounds of trash|solve lemon gelatin in boiling|4 ing water -- combine salad/y dressing and sour cream and person after death. Please | your readers not to do it.-- Devoted Reader agree. From now on whenjFourth of July water, sky andjin drained crushed pineapple layer -- chill until firm; mmital. I shall remember|paper plates, cups and newspa- mold on lettuce. ir letter and say "no." /pers. May Have Mixed Emotions that /™ |dad's interest in athletics has off and does not win cherished jacclaim. | the strategic position to do the Soften unflavored gelatin in}No doubt a child expert, study- pineapple -- dissolve over boil-|might be more useful in helping blend with gelatin -- pour into| ANSWERING QUESTIONS were left behind by the thou-|water, add ginger ale -- chill| what is the first thing to look {sands of people who watched aluntil slightly thickend -- fold |for? A. What degree of mutual|Volpe says a food-stamp pro-| asked I will no longer be non-|fireworks show. Most of it was|and pour over molded gelatinjaffection and love exists|gram to aid 192,000 low-income) un-| between this child and the par-|Massachusetts families wii) jent. cost about $14,000,000 a year. Of Three ousy of the third child, affect- jing their mutual relationship. Sometimes, it's the first and third against the second, but not always. It could be the sec- ond and third against the first. If your middle child seems to be a problem child, you would do well to look into factors other than his order of birth. A mother writes from Oklaho- a: "The problem seems to be that there are three sons, Ike, 10, Barry, 7, and Stan, 5. The oldest and youngest are great buddies--quite rough, athletic, all American boy types. The middle son is quiet, sensitive, almost feminine in actions and interests. It is creating a real problem. FEELS LEFT OUT | "This boy feels left out and |persecuted. He has become a problem at home, in the neigh- | borhood, and at school. He gets along with no one and has no |friends. He tries to attract {attention and goes about it | wrong and ends up looking fool- ish. Their father is quite athlet- ic and all his interests are jcentred in this area. Any suggestions on this problem will be greatly appreciated." Here in part is how I answered this mother: From your letter I am not able to ascertain to what degree the middle place of Barry has to do with the prob- lem. One might guess it is a factor. But from your letter one can't ascertain the native quali- ties of Barry--what play skills he has, how much success he enjoys at learning, and how weighed. No doubt he has acted disgusted with Barry's feminine leanings, or that Barry in his struggle to feel worthy, shows It seems to me that dad is in ng the problem. in person, your child than I could be. Q. When a child begins to By ROBERTA ROESCH "My aims haye always been to be successful as a woman," said down-to-earth actress June Lockhart who now flies high through outer space as heroine of the CBS-TV series Lost in Space. This statement was June's preface to her answer on what it is really like to follow in a parent's vocational footsteps, IN PLAYS AND PICTURES "In my case, the opportunity was there and things were made easy," said June, whose father, the late Gene Lockhart, and mother, Kathleen, were noted performers in the theatre and motion pictures. "There was never any pres- sure on me to succeed as an actress," she went on. "I was always told it was more impor- tant to be successful as a woman." Despite the lack of parental pressure June followed in the footsteps of her mother and father and made her profession- al debut when she was eight in the Metropolitan Opera's Peter Ibbetson. Movie parts began to follow from the time that she was 12. In 1945, the ingenue role in the Broadway play For Love Or Money brought her many awards. After 260 performances on Broadway, she returned to Hol- lywood to act on TV. Later she joined the Lassie show and was the gingham-clad Ruth Martin of that series for the next six years before she switched to a space suit and her role as Mau- reen Robinson. ws a PATERNAL NOTES | BACK TO SCHOOL SWEATERS --srcer'came iy the tora of et jters and notes from my father," she told me. 'When I the instructions, send a stamped, self-addressed en- veiope, plus ten cents for Carefree styles for school or play, your children will delight in wearing this pull- |the productive things I wanted over with long or short handling to the Needlework |to do with my life, he began sleeves which can be knitted Department, The Oshawa |writing me simple, basic notes Times, Oshawa, Ont., re- |that hammered away at the with or without the fancy eyelet trim and collar frill, things I would need to know. questing "Pullovers for 2 to Be: decided that acting was one of the great love I have for a good family life and for living with grace and taste,"' she said. "I believe these qualities are very important when you want to succeed as a woman," June added. "They're also available to every woman regardless of her budget. Candles at dinner, for instance, are relatively inexpensive, So is the long-play- ing record that helps create a, background mood." : : GUIDING PRINCIPLES In addition to striving | fér. grace and taste in everything? they do, June believes that women who want to succeed should practice the following ' principles both at home and a work : 1. Live with a sense of humor. 2. Read widely, develop many interests, and be intellectually and culturally active. 3. Take advantage of every opportunity to do productive things and contribute something to life. HOUSEHOLD HINT Use sugar-coated alphabet cereal to spell out messages. on children's party cakes. OSHAWA TIMES PICTURE -- RE-PRINTS © Available At | NU-WAY PHOTO SERVICE 251 King St. E., Oshawe 8 x 10 -- 1.50 each 5x7 -- 1.25 each. 20% Discount o n Orders of 5 or More Pictures "From my mother, I received in sizes 2 to 8, or the 4- button "V" neck cardigan with moss stitch borders and front cables in sizes 6 to 12. 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