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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, August 3, 1967 ANN LANDERS How Can Drunken Parents: | Have Such A Fine Son? |. Dear Ann Landers: It is 2:30) Al-Anon Family Group Head- a.m. Mom and Dad are still/quarters, Inc., P. 0. Box 182, staggering around, screaming|Madison Square Station, New at each other. The last guest/York, N.Y. 10010. Kids with) | just left. I helped shove her out | boozing parents -- to know a the door. Before leaving she|lot of things and this organiza- managed to drop her drink in/tion can help them. Good luck, the vestibule and I had to clean fella. up the broken glass. My par- ents were too smashed to a hee 1 ion | x i tice. /11-year-0! oy in e fifth! 8 I-am writing because I know) Stade. I called a girl who is in| | I won't be able to sleep unti]|™Y Toom at school and asked| | dawn. After a party like this her if she would accept a roller) § og and pgs ge r aight. (oy ahernoun, She sald pos. e accuses him of making| noon. . passes at other women and he| That night my mother told | says she is crazy and he is|™y father about it and he said) going to put her in a mental |no 11-year-old kid should go on/ institution. Me | date. He made me call the) ° I am a 17-year-old boy and |®2! eee & as cay ool have been offered two full/ money which I earned. My|. scholarships. in another state! Mom had agreed to drive me| | But I'm afraid to leave home|.n4 the girl to the rink and| because I don't know what will! drive us home. This would have become of my brothers and m¥/heen in the afternoon. A man| little sister if I go away. Yet I/ csuneryises the kids at the rink| know I must get a college edu-| .+ a1 times j H cation because at the rate my} pease tell me if y parents are going they will be! ith me and my oto re dead of alcoholism before the|.oy' acree with my father. If PEARS TAKE on a new elegance when topped with raspberry wine sauce (rasp- berries with Ontario wine). A cream cheese filling com- : If younger kids are grown. I have|~ * ; : F A S cul Desse to get myself educated so I can you agree with me and my Or pecta ar rt mother, I will show my father jyour answer and try for next | Saturday.--Stephen : Dear Stephen: Sorry, but I'm know you can't help people who} with your father. Eleven-year- take care of them. NOT AFTER ADVICE I am not writing for advice. I won't help themselves and my|old kids should not be dating|® !@rge Pear halves, fresh or tablespoon juice. If desired, flavor with canned ounces cream cheese third cup chopped pecans parents insist they are not alco-|even if it is only an afternoon| holics. They call themselves so-/at the roller-rink. 4 cial drinkers. But thanks Ann,| After three or four rink dates, 1 for letting me get this off my|you'll want to go the movies chest. I needed someone to talk) Then you will want to make a to.--RX jlunch date. Next you will want Dear RX: I am printing your|to take her to dinner. When you letter in the hope that the thou-|reach the age of 12 you will sands of so-called social drink-| want to go steady. By the time! _ ers who stagger around and you're 14 there'll be nothing left fight until dawn will recognize|to do but get engaged. themselves. In the meantime, I} Stick to the fellas for a few hope you will write to Alateen|more years, Steve. Yow won't for literature. The address is|regret it. CHILD GUIDANCE Parents Can Teach Children Respect For Other People By GARRY C. Myers, PhD. | about what you have heard may Little boys and girls naturally|/n0t be wise. romp and wrestle and they in-| But as you see him with an- cline to keep on doing so during ood Pregl yt ge ad the elementary school years.|ters. Most of all, you mat-| ten occur in the presence of| himself a wanted, loved and parents. | worthy member of his family. Especially during the pai ag SECRECY school years, parents can and) 'You need to guide him at play ghould get over to the young- with other children of his age sters certain standards of care-|2!ways, when possible, in the never in secret fulness toward the bodies of|View of all, other children of the same or| Places. the opposite sex. Among these] Suppose you know or suspect standards is: being careful not/that your younger child is being to hurt physically another child/exploited by an older child, or in the unprotected parts of his|}any other child, I doubt if you body, especially his eyes, stom-|should forbid their being to- ach and private parts. gether at any time. Rather you Accidentally, such hurtings| Should, at almost any inconven- may happen. When they do js |fence to you, make sure they the time for the parent present|@re never together in secret to warn the children to be more|Places. careful, | When the offender or su- In many cases punishment for|SPected offender is in your obvious carelessness or wilful/ home, Hid that " fa ed -_ a 1 stiyely |Your child are not together out) harming should be effectively of the sight and hearing then) oe We're really all for sleep gowns leading a sheltered life within the confines of applied. ; y the bedroom but nowadays Though occasional explanation" ® responsible person. | lingerie fashion seems to he of the pain or discomfort caused). Sometimes a group of parents} going multi-purpose. What in such instances may be desir-/in the neighborhood ostracize| used to stay strictly to able, merely to sa you just) the offender or suspected of-; home now ventures un- don't do that," may suffice, (fender. This may seem to be abashed outside of the re- stricted area. The code for many items, especially those designed specifically for the young set, seems to Wear it in or wear it |the easy way for these parents, NEED GUIDANCE but this child is still in the You may be able to recall|/neighborhood and may continue scores of instances involving)as a menace not only to their the foregoing. matters. Though/children but to many other chil-| be: -NON- Try Raspberry Sauce On Pears drained (or more) lemon juice or Jemon rind. Add chopped nuts. Place small spoonful of _ Poach fresh pear halves in a/cheese mixture in hollow of one light sugar syrup. Drain, and|pear half. Place second pear dry with paper towelling to ab-|half on top, and place on plate sorb extra juice Blend cream cheese with liberry Sauce. stem side up. Top with Rasp- Garnish with ent, stirring constantly. 4 2 | Staffers also meet clients and| might not be any good. bined with chopped nuts completes an easy-to-make but delicious fruit salad. ries or grapes. RASPBERRY TOPPING 1 tablespoon cornstarch \% cup sugar 4 cup Ontario wine. a smooth paste. cheese, nut bits, and - or cher-|terprise was an idea in Susanitarine into % cup (or more) raspberries Crush raspberries. Mix sugar and cornstarch, and blend with some of the raspberry juice to! 7), 4 ¢ Combine paste with raspber- ries. Cook over low heat until slightly thickened and transpar- raspberries to remove Press fine sieve, through! seeds. | Chill raspberry puree, and at serving time stir in wine. Spoon over pears. Flambe Dessert -- Y% cup brandy for the wine. Add to puree: and ignite. HOUSEHOLD HINT If your alarm clock doesn't ring loudly enough, set it on an inverted metal pie or cake pan. s ess te th acta hae ie out. And that is the plan set here for this easy swinging tent sleep gown with saucy slit sleeves and a mod flair, Bright and carefree as a circus and made of an ab- stract - printed easy care sheer voile blend, this little double - duty number is bound to be seen making the rounds of discotheques this Summer as well as gracing the bedroom. --By Tracy Adrian & spray tomatoes, lettuce, away in droves. 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"When In her unique work is manag-|presented the idea to my boss ing director of a New York visi-) and suggested ways we could | tors' service, it is Susan's re-do it, the magazine decided to) sponsibility to help corporate/set up the service as a separate | business and individuals extend| division. or return hospitality to visotrs) 'We got off to a start by hav- to New York. ling brochures describing the) The service, which has ON/service printed. Then we called) call a staff of 60 linguists, con-/on major corporations to let) sultants, information speci-ithem know we existed. When| alists, guides and bonded shop-|you're starting any kind of an| pers is dedicated to the proposi-| enterprise, one of the prime} tion that hospitality is a pleas-|things you must do is let people) ure, not a chore. gees you're in business. | "And I also think," Susan ee ae loyees take| Whitney said, 'that people who} clients and guests on tours that|W@nt opportunities need to, include outstanding restaurants,|*Peak up about their ideas. shops, art galleries, museums, | "Too many of us can miss} night clubs and the thousands/|out on a lot if we're too afraid) of unique and exciting places to open our mouths for fear the} New York can offer. |suggestion that's on our minds guests at airports, shop for and "The chances are good that it wran gifts for patrons and plan|could be a success if you've lany kind of party from a very /|tried to work it out well." |small luncheon to a gala ship-| !board affair for 1,000 guests. | | Just two years ago, this en-| NECTARINE RINGS To cut a whole fresh nec- p rings, slice fruit | | Whitney's mind. __lerosswise, pressing knife "At the time I was working)against each slice to ease it |for 'Cue' magazine on a variety| off the end of the pit. | of extra projects," Susan nal Coat nectarine rings with corn | plained. 'Before that I hadiflake crumbs and crumbled a | been in book publishing, and/egano; saute in butter until hot| while I worked in that field I/foy @ tangy accompaniment. learned how to deal with people, and, also, how to sell." | READ THE LABEL experience--plus the} Picnic hams are always, background of being a nativejclearly labelled as '"'cook-| New Yorker and knowing that|before-eating'"' or "Fully-cooked) many visitors to New York dojand ready-to-eat." Cooking or | not always see the best parts of/heating directions are usually) the city--gradually gave Susan'printed on the plastic casing. | { ] FOR THE FINEST Custom and Ready Made DRAPES in the latest Shades ond | Sobrics 5s 5) MOO 8 M&C Dry Goods & Draperies | EXPERTLY INSTALLED | k DRAPERY TRACKS 74 CELINA STREET 723-7827 "Free Customer Parking While Shopping ot Our Store" MR, "LOU" BAUM has now joined the staff of the House of Woman. "LOU" has several in the | years experience Toronto area. 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Yes: and I'd never peek! ward the bodies of other - into it unless I were invited to son during the rest of their'do so. lives. NER on es A great worry to some par-| CENTENNIAL MENU WON | ents is the older child who) MONTREAL (CP)--Ann never has: acquired a healthy Homewood of Alder grove wholesome attitude toward|p ¢. and her 17 classmates other children's bodies but take! won a trip to Expo in a Centen- all sorts. of liberties withinial menu planning contest younger children, so me times Their four-month project includ-| bec them undesirable sex eq a maple-leaf decorated rec- iste ipe book, menu book, shoppins Suppose you are the parent of list and budget for a four-mem- this transgressing older child of/ber family for a week plus) whom some other parents cor-|slides with tape and script star- plain. 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Now 78 and husband Harr: hospital for th Hodges has le cal legacy that the fact three as cabinet min The hospital from the legis] years ago Mr the first wom Speaker of a sembly in wealth, used he and nimble m dehates. "Her voice gone," a rept when he asket Hodges, She cz five to 10 mint her voice fad man for the far In the years came in clear. used it to pror that more wo! enter politics a sponsible positi ment. One wha mier W. A. C. "Certainly he couraged me sign major res women from tk Social Credit gi formed in 1952, 'FAIR, COURT "Many, man umbians remen itude and affec ices of Mrs. Ti! Mrs. Buda Bro "And, of col continued that | present cabinet three lady mini abel Dawson, McCarthy and Jordan." Mr. Bennett, fion, sat acro Hodges, a Lib legislatures ai know very well contributions s| proceedings 0 during that per "As a priva found her alwa and courteous House." 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