12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdoy, July 25, 1967 B ANN LANDERS Others Get 'Snappy' Beside Shutter-Bugs - have the right to print anything you want to? Our two daughters will be teen-agers soon and I have a terrible time keeping some of your columns away from them. You make me nervous when you get into personal topics like unwed mothers and V.D, Once you printed something about Dear Ann Landers: I travel extensively, usually with a group. I am a freak in any crowd of travellers because I do not carry a camera. I am sick to death of fellow tour members who feel that just because they are taking pictures they are entitled to top priority on every view When I am seated next to a window on a plan, or a train or a bus, someone always taps me on the shoulder and says, "Would you mind changing seats with me% I'd like to take some pictures." Too many times, when I have been enjoy- ing some soul-stirring sight, an anxious voice pipes up, "Please move over a little. I'd like a snapshot of this." On my last trip I incurred the animosity of a rather nice per- "an eight-handed idiot" and our ll-year-old wanted to know what you meant. I didn't know what to say. | It's very difficult to raise lwholesome girls these days |with sex being thrown at them left and right. If you don't stop printing trashy letters from girls who get pregnant in high school I am going to cancel my subscription to the paper.-- Against Dirt Dear Against: I hope your son because it seems on two separate occasjons I stepped in daughters get enough informa- tion from this column to keep front of him when he was tak-|them out of trouble before you ing pictures. He behaved as if|cancel the subscription of this the Black Hills had been put|paper. With a mother like you, there for the benefit of his/it won't be easy. photo album. | Parents who think if they ig- I like pictures of placesjnore sex their children will where I have been, too, so I/never discover it are in for a buy postcards. They are much | shock. better than anything an ama-| This column is a faithful re- teur could produce. Please| flection of life. It is real and | | | | | | } | print this letter and sign me--| Sometimes not very pretty. But President Of The Society For!it contains information that a The Prevention Of Cruelty To|correct and valid and I believe People Who Travel Without/it is fit fare for anyone who is| Cameras. old enough to read. Dear President: Here's your; Confidential to: Would You letter, but don't expect it to do|Believe?:No, I wouldn't and any good. Shutterbugs are asjneither would you if you had much a part of America as hot|/any knowledge of the subject. dogs and the U.S. Marines. And|Many woman have become you can count on the tribe of| pregnant while' still nursing a picture takers increasing by|baby. Just look at the brothers leaps and bounds because that's| and sisters who are 11 and 12 what is happening to the travel; months apart. industry. Lots of luck. Confidential to: Sick of Bossy Parents: So why don't you get out on your own and see how it is--while you still know ever- Dear Ann Landers: Does any- body look at your stuff before it Take a soft shimmer of Stardust on fragile-appear- ing nylon organza gathered into hand-made clusters of French-style roses and you have 'Sparkling Rose" and gets into the paper or do you|/ything? such a deceiver! This flat- tering hat is a bathing cap SPARKLING ROSE OF THE SURF mounted on a rubber base with the exclusive rubber save-a-wave band _ that spares your hair from the watery waves. Even the fragile appearing fabric is deceptive because it has been treated to shed water Beast © aii and look as light and airy for a whole season of swim- ming. In multi-colors, black and white, pale yellow or aqua. Planned to retail in | the leading specialty shops and department stores at approximately $7.00. _|ber (an all-around good period eee THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR WEDNESDAY Despite good Venus aspects now governing personal rela- tionship, some restrictions are imposed by other planetary in- fluences: notably a need for care in all correspondence and communications generally in fi- nances, Neither is this a good period for launching new enterprises. ,FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Wednesday is your birth- day, your horoscope indicates that, while you can make good job headway during the next 12 months, it would be advisable to concentrate on reasonable goals rather than to strive for the impossible. In five months, you will enter an excellent period along these lines--one which will last until the middle of February, but, after that, except for a brief pe- riod during the last two weeks in April and in June, you will have to keep plugging until July 1, when you will enter your second really good cycle for advancing career matters. Where finances are con- cerned, the aforementioned mid-December--mid-February weeks should also prove profit- able, with further advances in- dicted after next June. Do be conservative during in- |tervening months, however-- |especially in November and the first three weeks of December. GOOD CYCLES Along personal lines: best cy- cles for romance: late Decem- for all Leoites), next April and May. The balance of 1967 does not promise much in the way of travel, but you can look for- }ward to extremely propitious jperiods for '"'taking off" in early February and during the weeks between May 15 and | Sept. 10 of next year. | If careful to avoid friction in PAPER POSSIBILITI With the wide range of wedding dress. Americans Paper apparel now avail- spent $3.5 million on the able, it's a possibility a cheap cellulose clothing last close circles during early} modern miss will meet her year, and industry spokes- |March and early June, your} man in a paper bikini--and men say a_ billion-dollar domestic and social life should} then marry him in a paper year isn't far off. Both the prove most har | A child born on this day will be endowed with remarkable jintuition, fair-mindedness to an unusual degree, and fine liter- ary ability. | The full-flared t ' | Capes, Belts, Boots Pics gg 'deuce bilene |tops or long princess - shaped| CHILD GUIDANCE Give Stagey Effect {tunics vented at the sides to ? show the culottes made of a To Fall Fashions |contrasting fabric. PARIS (Reuters) -- Jacques -- BLACK > Esterel opened the. Paris! ef Bahia . : jcollection is black, which he re- week of fall and winter collec-| vives for every hour of the day.| tions today with a theatrical col-| Solid black capes, gaucho! lection of capes and culottes in-|Pants, boots and flat-crowned spired by Spain and the aficion-|S°™breros make up the street| ados of the bull ring. costumes occasionally relieved Hetarels eccenteic with a colored blouse or long fashions tian the atret the throat with one end stream- : ing down the back. Pratseme eer scr yoda Late-day clothes continue the/ with flared culottes or trousers a and the glove-tight black vinyl boots that accompany every model from morning till mid- night. jump - suits |culotte skirts, cut in one piece! home decolletes edged in rhinestones./h2q done that day Customers Re-act To Mood Don't Wait For Dad's Return | Of Glum Or Gay Employees ROBERTA ROESCH lit was the only one offered to Punish Miscreant Immediately "=" 2%", By GARRY C. Myers, Ph.D Bruce was four. His mother had told him to stop teasing and tormenting the puppy. Hel|authority over him by either didn't stop. His mother, in des-|arent. His way is hard and un- ni 2 peration, appear more suited to the stage| railing scarf wrapped around|naddy comes home." She fig-| ways hard for all the family. jured that this threat would) One pyinciple is clear--when| j work. She had used it before. told him, 'Wait till When the father did come es she told him of other|Bruce's with deep|nayghty things witnesses frequent disagree- |ment over his guidance he finds jit hard to accept the exercise of |certain; so are his parents' leither parent is faced with the| kind of problem which faced mother, this parent which Brucé/alone needs to solve this prob- lem im \project while you do your daily|dishes and keeping a counter job? While travelling all over to|ous. | {report on people at work, I see| \this trait exhibited in varying | 4 degrees. Sometimes it is com- pletely lacking. This week I saw happiness displayed at its peak, and I also saw one person |who did not show any at all. The minus brand was encoun- tered in a shop that was luxu- ; ly. If Bruce need-|Tiously plus. A gift certificate ioe father would punish the lad./ed ef fective punishment he|that I. had received from a POSTCARD TIME-SAVER If he did punish this child the/needed it at once by his mother|Well-to-do friend was my one He pairs his long capes and] A manufacturer offers time-|Youngster must not have looked/and not after the dad came|and only reason for making a trousers that end three inches|pressed tourists a packet of|forward very happily to his)home. below the knee with a snug|postcards from the 22 most vis-/dad's arrival home. natural waistline and wide lea-|ited countries so they can write| ther or fabric belts. Many belts|their "wish you were here'jhad a hard time of it, Imessages before leaving home.|ing Bruce. There been many or are up to six inches wide. po co. Bruce. these fathers can't manage the | Day after day that mother; manag- may not have How inferior she must! licing - power. a boy to the mother to ntrol the youngster and when long periods|tattler and Dad a king of ogre. s|when she and Bruce enjoyed|No less absurd would it have each other. Suppose while Dad/been for the father in the moth- was home he strictly enforced|er's place to threaten him with, the mother's efforts to control|"Wait home." have felt to need the father's| When either parent is guiding How helpless|a child this parent wisely acts she must have considered her-|as final authority. self while the father was away.| Of course, not nearly all fa- thers are like Bruce's father. ,|Some fathers of ;|Bruce look like}the youngster for the naughty PANT Pants suits look smartest are short and the jacket is long. But when the pants their chic depends also on smooth fit which can onl be achieved first by exper 5 SUIT The pants suit here is of corduroy and should be ideal for vacation spots, a sports, campus or suburban' y wear, : rt --By Tracy Adrian ; child they hope the mother will do so for them. Parents differ widely in assuming final au- thority in the management of their children. OLD STORY Historically, the father has been considered the head of the family. This certainly was true in Biblical times. In theory,! some who count themselves leaders in child upbringing in the home still maintain the fa- ther should be the final control- ling family force. But as practice has worked out over the years in our cul- ture, there's a growing consen- sus that both parents should aim to be as one in the man- agement of growing children. Manifestly this management is most effective when the parents are able to act as a committee of two, neither being the chair- man || However, human nature being what it is, each parent may often strive to be 'the moderator,' and when the child at 4 or 14 sees this strife and| tailoring and second by an undershaper that will refine the figure. One suggestion given by The Corset and Brassiere Council for ac- quiring a trim, super-sleek under-look is persuasive but comfortable "second skin" stretch of elastic that begins on top with a bra and con- tinues non-stop in a neat unbroken line to the thighs. ELECTROLYSIS Removes superfluous hair painlessly Try Our Kree-Imperial Machine MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa et the GENOSHA HOTEL July 24th, 25th, 26th PHONE 723-4641 For appointment on these dates Betty Haydl INTERIOR DECORATOR 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES Phone 725-2686 b Ld : For all your Ly fiG| drapery needs see | oath | DAD AN OGRE i For her to tell Dad of Bruce's misbehavior was to make her a til Mother comes Similarly, when a baby sitter counts on having the parents, when they come home, punish deeds she tattles about, the ef- fect is bad. Choose a baby sit- ter you can depend on to man- age your children well. trip to the store. As I expected, the shop's inner sanctum was ndeed a place of beauty. "What a wonderful place to work in," I said, when a pros- perous-looking and well-dressed clerk came over to show me something I had selected. "It may look that way,' she replied, "but it's really a terri-| ble job. In fact, if you want to) f ata the 'cath, thin work is a\i know that I don't do as well chore and a bore." SPIRITS SOAR Her glum spirits on a glorious day dimmed my own for a while. zoomed to new heights, because when I stopped at a snack bar for an overdue coffee break, 1 saw happiness projected in ac- But in an hour they In the light of the foregoing|tion in a plus and memorable you can see how desirable it is for each parent to be skillful in manner. | The woman who projected it teaching the youngster early 10! was working at a job that many respect the little word NO. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. How would you deal. with your child, say between 5 and 8, if he seemed to get so mixed up between fact and fantasy as |people might turn down even if some wild yarns and ask him. if they could have happened, then some reports of what really happened and ask the same to tell at school or at homejquestion. Next I would ask him about something as happening which did not happen? A. Instead of labeling such accounts as lies, I would, at to tell of something that really happened and of something that could not have happened. Such practice should help him see companionable times, make up'the difference. them, She was removing dirty jclean, She didn't look prosper- | But as she worked in double| she also dispensed a kind of ja i that bubbled over and infected everyone around jher with its exuberance. | "I like your happy spirit," I said, when I was ready to go. "Tell me, are you this happy every day that you work?" "OF course,"' she said, "And why shouldn't I be? "I'm alive and I have a job. And my family is well and healthy, too. What more could I need. WARRANTS CHEER "Aren't you always -happy, too?" she asked me. "You look as though you have enough to warrant some happiness." "I try to be," I told her. "But jas you are obviously doing." "Well, keep on trying, |honey,"' she said. "'Happiness is better than money. And when you look for it hard enough, it's often very close." Her words were an inspira- tion that will always make me think twice. For she said as elo- is constantly climbing. ed me to make the counter shine, | "8 SHE CALLS THE TUNE | Cycling Returns | NELSON, B.C. (CP)--Mrs.| | Pauline Trask of Aberdeen, As Top Past-time |" | Wash., is one of the few female For US. Families | square dance callers in the Pa-| By ELEANOR ROSS cific Northwest and almost cer- The bike is back. Bicycling| '@inly the only lady caller who| has become America's number|flies in her private plane to one participation sport. Sixty|square dance festivals on both| million of us regularly use 33,-| sides of the international bound-| 000,000 bicycles--a figure that ary, Mrs. Trask says she start- calling about eight years Bike sales are zooming and/ago. "A friend decided he was more bikes-for-hire stores are|going to be a caller so I tried opening up all the time. too."' Bicycling can be both an indi-|---- <3 anes auc cin vidual activity and a group oUt-| means a safer smoother ride ig. ver: i ily-- All across the land, additional from wobbly litle Sis to Grand. paths are being set aside for|qaq straight and confident in the cyclist, including the fa-|the 'three-generation sport. ES "Wild Animal Mini Bikini" "Poly-coated Wedding s" shown above are by James Sterling Paper Fash- ions of New York (AP Wirephoto) COSMONAUT NAMES CHILD MOSCOW (AP)--Soviet cos- monaut Alexei A. Leonov, first man to walk in space, and his wife Svetlana have called their second daughter, born June 15, Oksana. The Leonov's first daughter, Victoria, is five. 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