10. THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, July 24, 1967 ! ANN LANDERS, Teen-ager Answers Judge's Tirade Dear Ann Landers: We teen-|have every benefit. You have agers are getting fed to thojno right to expect them to bow teeth with criticism from/to your every whim. In heay- adults. We know we are not alljen's name, grow up and go angels, but then was there ever | home." a society made up of nothing but perfectly behaved people? And you, Average Teen, re- A judge in Denver wrote plied: some advice for teen-agers) 'Dear Judge: Millions of which was widely publicized.| teen-agers are at home. We are Please print it and then allow|jhanging the screens, painting me, a teen-ager, to answer him.|the woodwork, raking the We teens need someone to|leaves, mowing the lawn, shov- stand up for us. We think you) eling the walk, washing the car, are one of the fairest and most|learning to cook, trying to get a effective people in America. | job (but few people will hire us Will you give us a break?--AV- | because 'there's a law against ERAGE TEEN | child labor' or we are 'inexperi- enced'), We ARE helping our Dear Average: Here is the/priest, our minister and our judge's advice followed by your) tabot, bh ond br gpd hie 2 ta. e ea Toss an as candy SP ahaa The judge said: | tripers in hundreds of hospi- When we hear the plaintive|tais. And we are doing our cry of the teen-ager, 'What can |homework, too, because if we we do? Where can we go?' The! didn't we couldn't get into those answer is, 'go home.' Hang the |fancy colleges out East that screens, paint the woodwork,| you parents think so highly of. rake the leaves, mow the lawn,| 'We know our folks don't ewe shovel the walk, wash the car,/us recreational facilities, but learn to cook, get a job, help|when we see that some of them the priest or minister or rabbi/do for recreation, we feel that or the Red Cross. Do your/they are not qualified to tell us homework and when you are how to spend our leisure time. through, if you-aren't too tired,, "I agree that we owe the read a book. Your parents do|world something. And we are| not owe you entertainment.|paying that debt. There are Your city or village does not over half a million soldiers in Owe you recreational facilities.| Vietnam and many are teen-a- The world does not owe you aj gers. living. You owe the world) "We will never be able to un- something. 'You owe it your|derstand why all teen-agers are time and energy and your tal-|judged by the actions of a few. ents so that no one will be at) And it's always the rotten few. war, in poverty, sick or Jonely,|Why don't you talk more about ever again, In simple language,|the kids who attend youth ral- grow up! Quit being a cryjlies and less about the ones who baby. Get out of your dream/steal cars and cause riots and! world and develop a backbone |smoke pot and take LSD. Vidal Sassoon of London instead of a wishbone. Start be-| 'We don't expect our parents; has developed a_ hairstyle having like a man or a woman. |to cater to our every whim, We| that women don't have to You are supposed to be mature|just want them to treat us like} set. at night. The hair is enough BN a some of theigrowing adults, because in|-- ee er responsibilities your parents|heaven's name we are growing} have carried for years. Theyjup and we are at tll ete 4 CHILD GUIDANCE have nursed, protected, begged,, ERAGE TEEN" excused, tolerated and denied| themselves plenty so you could! Dear Average: I'm with you.) jriety of textures that range {from silk embossing for "par-| New Wallpapers Resemble Damask ic: fH tng a linen-like finish' Matching curtain and drapery | nant It is not easy to teach a tot} Yet Are Washable fabrics are available with many| ahaie Your-youngster twos of these patterns. Lovely, too, By ELEANOR ROSS are the washable vinyl-coated|three or four maybe happy! In dreams of castles, the| Papers that give the illusion of | With his playthings until another drafts and dampness are for-|depth without actually being | child appears and begins to use, gotten, but the damask-hung three-dimensional. them, when he may violently re-| walls remain fixed in the mem-| A Wide range of patterns|Sist this other child as an ag-| ory. makes them more adaptable to| &ressor. Even if the visiting} 'Happily, luxurious damaskjWork -a-day rooms such as child begins playing with a toy walls can be attained these|kKitchens, dining rooms and|¥our child has not used for| days--without investing a pala-|dens, as well as family rooms days, the owner may object and tial fortune and without requir- and royers. All of these decora-| decide to play with it himself. ing a retinue of servants toltive delights are definitely; When there is a younger maintain the elegance. washable, | brother or sister a similar prob- *Through the magic of modern Indeed, manufacturers urge lem arises, yet the experiences! Wallpaper construction and de-| Women to literally scrub them|are more gradual and frequent. sign, vinyl-impregnated wall|With a suds at least once a year|In a nursery school, it usually Coverings are both sumptuous|--even more in a sooty neigh-/is easier for your tot to learn| and sudsable. Among the very borhood. to share. He has not been sole newest washable papers are) In washing, apply thick) Owner and user of playthings some wh feature Acrilan|S0@P or detergent suds over a/there for so long a period as at flocking applied to a base of vi-(Small area at a time, and rinse|home. He often sees other chil- yl-impregnated nylon and po-| with a cloth or sponge wrung, dren using the same toy or kind vester. out of clear water, Make it aj0f toys. + Standouts are the mellow col-|habit to start at the bottom and |~ By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD | -- 'THE STARS SAY. @rs and impressive designs in- work up to prevent streaking. gpired by 16th-century eccle-| | ; S ett, | arty garme The flocking} SOCIAL NOTICE | By ESTRELLITA fairly invites sudsing| because it will it, disco-| DIAMOND ANNIVERSARY (FOR TUESDAY lor, or come n. washed Mr. and Mrs E. Harry| A good day for making pro- What a cor tion of the Peever, 644 Hortop Stree t,| gress in both job and monetary beautiful and prac Oshawa, will be happy to re-| affairs, but you will have to use that idea. ceive the best wishes of their/good judgment in all transac- friends at the home .of their) tions. daughter, Mrs. John W.. Dyer) Sidestep all visionary 5 suitable and Mr, Dyer, 318 Athol Street;schemes. Devote leisure hours the house,/East, on Monday, August 7,/to quiet pursuits rather than in- 1967, from 2.00 to-4.00 p.m. and) dulge in hectic social activity. igs achieve 7.00 to 9.00 p.m. on the occa- FOR THE BIRTHDAY by skill:/sion of their 60th wedding an-| If Tuesday is your birthday, by a va-|niversary. your horoscope indicates the next 12 months will be extreme- ly important where career and finances are concerned. | Even though progress may jseem slow at present, if you take advantage of all available }opportunities, are co-operative |with both superiors and associ- ates, and promote your hizhly original ideas in a convincing papers has af textures and for various rooms ir a@ handsome ful color printir manner, results should prove truly rewarding--even if not immediately. | Best periods along financial j lines: between Dec. 21 and Feb. 15, next June (an excellent |month for expansion). | Do be conservative during the forthcoming November and the first three weeks of December, | however. Months in which you 'should note job and-or business uptrends: the same mid-De- cember-mid-February - period jaforementioned in a monetary connection, late April and June | AVOID EXTREMES | Do not overtax yourself -and | don't | thing in early March and of early June. Anxiety and tension then could not' only -affect your health but the dispositions about you. Most propitious romance: April and May: for travel early February and the period between May 15 and Sept. 10 of next year. periods for cana. ELECTROLYSIS Removes superfluous hair WHITE CLUSTERS | small buds White -- ever right white is oh, so very right for ] The color containing a black center bead hang in | f cr no color. as you wil "abby abandon from gold | painlessly * just seems to blend with chains for a swinging ear- | Try Our Kree-Imperiol | Machine ring look. The bracelet is a gay grouping of the same buds, alternating in size on almost every type of warm weather outfit. It can even lend its charm to the MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa FOR RUNNING FINGERS THROUGH | Do Your Best To Persuade Child To Share Playthings }wagon. My son wanted to use} Sure that this visitor will be} go to extremes in any-| late December, next! By KARIN MOSER |. MONTREAL (CP) -- Men want their women to look sexy, whether they are dressed, semi-dressed, or un- dressed, says Darby Strohl, a foundation garment expert whose family has been in the corset business since 1880. "But I'll tell you something every smart woman knows: Imagination is one of the best weapons used in the battle of the sexes." Too many women are too anxious to expose too mucn, *| said the president of E. T, | Corsets Ltd., which manufac- | tures everything from bras- | sieres and girdles to lingerie and sleepwear. | dnstead, they should concen- | trate on wearing the proner | foundation garments suited to | their particular figure prob- | lems so as to enhance the | over-all silhouette. "This is far more appealing to the male than perhaps an over-exposed bosom and Slat buttocks, the latter resulting from a poorly-fitted girdle." The first thing a woman should do when shopping for a foundation garment is to see a properly trained and expe- rienced sales person, Mr. Strohl says She should always be meas- ured before buying a new item as the female figure changes from month to even from week to | month kept short, thick and running the fingers through week. chunky and is permed but it. % : not set. When the hair is (CP Wirephoto) SUPPORT NEEDED washed, it is shaped by | If she is in the early stages - -- | of pregnancy she should he It's not easy to get a child to| particularly careful to select r and girdles that ishare by commanding him to do brassieres d so, yet he can' learn to share if will offer a maximum of fig- we assume that what he has| Ure control with plenty of and has been enjoying as his Support. : own is his and that our problem | For the young girl in her is to find: ways to win him to! teens, plenty of exercise and choose to share. firm torso muscles will elimi- | In the first place, we need to nate the need for a girdle and It's a fine idea to want your, set the stage so he can see his hy small lacy garter belt may little child to begin early to|ownership is not threatened and e sufficient, By share, But you face trouble if that his toys will not be harmed But for the girl in her ats you try to reach the objectives|or taken from him by another any ey 1s oo gd on eo quickly and command him to,child. Where there is a younger pony SAGE, ee pconstructed share, With a younger brother| brother or sister, he needs to be girdle is a must. In this way or sister or with another child] trained not to handle certain his learning to share is a hard| most precious possessions of his ordeal. older brother or sister without I remember well being at aj this owner's permission, and park when my eldest son was/|VICe versa. | about four, We came across an-| When another playmate is} other boy about four with a new|about to arrive and you are not figure even when she's not wearing the garment." Mr. Strohl recommends the | panty girdle for the heavier woman as "there is more control about the hip line lead- ing down to the thighs." Poorly - Fitted Foundation Mars Smartest Fashion, Says Expert she will have a more pleasing | | state, longer and while the outside "Also, the girdles are made from the finest lycra and lightweight materials for easy slip-on.. Most of the better garments have removable panels which eliminate the need to wash the entire girdle nightly. "However, many items do not last as long as they could because our women are lazy. They don't even take the time to wash their bras and girdles by hand. They simply throw them into an automatic washer, often with the chil- dren's playclothes, and then are surprised when the stretch goes out of the fabric or 't Ste SWEET AND LOW (CALORIE) Use Either Grape Or Prune Juice In Weight-Watchers Dessert When you come to the end of a perfect meal, it's time for a dessert that's sweet but light, and when it comes, to a light refreshing dessert, this grape pen shapeless and dis- whip torte is the perfect "MTit, , ve it ie |answer. With today's fabrics, it is |""\yage with bottled grape so easy to prolong the life of a garment by just taking a juice, _ gelatin, ; topping, and milk, it's satisfy- sugar, dessert little care of it." ingly smooth and sweet, The torte is formed of packaged TRY CORSELETTE And every woman should the same items to ensure she is properly dressed at all times, he says. For the most flattering fig- ure in a_ cocktail close-fitting evening gown Mr. Strohl recommends the corse- lette. "This on-piece bra and | girdle combined can work | wonders for the femine form, | actually accentuating her best features while diminishing a large waistline or heavy hips. And most of the corselettes are boneless to insure maxi- | mum freedom of movement." |9 White and black lace items | are still the most popular | sellers with light blue being -|3 the favorite color. | "Most men like to see their |4 wives dressed in a powder blue nightgown or negligee as the color itself is soft, femi- |g nine and soothing. However, |3 these same men are usually the ones who go out at Christ- |; mas and buy a naughty black number or a daring devil red gown. I guess it's the holiday spirit."" DEFROST FIRST Thaw chicken before you cook it. If cooked in the frozen the cooking period is may be overcooked the inside still won't be done. Also, the batter or coating sticks better to thawed chicken. the wagon and its owner shouted| careful in the use of your tot's objectioins violently. Soon I suc-| Playthings, let your child put ceeded in getting my son away|@Way his most cherished ones. from the wagon, explaining to! After the guests arrival do your him that it belonged to the other best to persuade him to handle r] little boy. your child's things with care. But the father felt it was the, Do your best to persuade) time to compel his little boy 1o/ YOU" child to share his things. f ' Be generous with praise when Share. He proceeded to do s0|he does. Try to persuade them 1 till I got my child away from\to exchange use of the few toys| 8 the scene. However, I felt sure! most attractive to both of them. the father could have reached; As your own two youngsters his coveted goal by slow and| grow older, don't duplicate toys,| y gradual persuasive means, but'but try to get toys for each I tried to avoid an argument. similar in function. It may be [ had considerable sympathy far easier to get them to ex- with his boy, who felt that my, change a cart for a wagon than boy was a threat. to his most|to exchange a tricycle for a cherished possession block [phe ad Rub Lotion On Your Back ! 'Specially after an over touch of the sun... . and after a sudsy bath. Then you'll say, "It feels so l good!" If your valued carpets and draperies could talk, they, too, would say, It feels so good', when they receive BAKER'S Gentle rejuvenating care. |) Why-not call BAKER CARPET CLEANING CO., and give fast, efficient cleaning service to them today... 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Decorate it nuts, if you like, and serve it with whipped dessert topping to hold down the calories. with cherries or Remember how good an old- |fashioned prune whip used to jtaste? bottled prune juice and enjoy some of that same good flavor. Try this torte with GRAPE WHIP TORTE packages (3% ounce each) lady fingers (about 2 dozen) envelopes (3 tablespoons) unflavored gelatin quart bottled grape or prune juice % cup sugar tablespoons lemon juice envelopes (2 ounce each) whipped dessert topping % cups milk Line sides and bottom of 9- inch spring form pan.with split lady fingers; save remaining lady fingers. Soften gelatin in 1 cup grape or prune juice; melt over low heat. Add re- maining fruit juice, sugar, and lemon juice; stir until sugar is dissolved, Chill until mixture is partially set. Prepare 2 packages dessert topping mix using milk as directed on package label. Beat fruit juice gelatin mixture until light and foamy. Carefully and quickly stir whipped topping into grape mixture. Chill until mix- ture holds its shape. Pour half of gelatin mixture over lady fingers. Top with remaining split lady fingers and cover with remaining fruit mixture. Chill until firm. Just before serving, prepare remaining package of dessert topping with remaining % cup milk as directed on package label. Gar- nish torte with whipped top- |ping and maraschino cherries jor nuts, as desired. Yield: 10 jto 12 servings. ede GILDED NIBBLES Roast whole blanched almonds in a salad oil-coated pan at 400 degrees for 8 minutes, turning jnuts often for even browning. While still hot, shake in a bag with grated Parmesan cheese or any of the dry salad dressing mixes, HOW STERE Try this simple test. Stack richness, tonal depth and ASK ABOUT OUR- In effect during 918 Simcoe N. an Electrohome Hi Fi turntable. Notice how Electro- home's 3-dimensional sound system brings out musical never suspected were there. 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