0 in education grants and irsaries in 1967-68. iday. SATURDAY Short Cut Chef Style TURES NADA'S FINEST eef | Hind Quarter T2e Ib. yerage weight 75 Ib. 6 LB. PRINT WONDER RGARINE . 23° 45¢ -- Cordon Bleu BONELESS ICKEN " 39° 3 i 1.00 4 wx, 95 10 ,.. 1.00 » Daily k at Sproule's q "es Sk , 58° SIT The Oshawa Kinettes held a highly successful straw- berry dessert bridge in the Kinsmen Community Centre with 79 tables in play. Mrs. Douglas Lowe was chair- man of the special event which was declared open by the president, Mrs. Lloyd Pigden. Luscious desserts and numerous prizes, esti- mated at 87, made for a CHILD GUIDANCE Report Card Indicates Where Child Needs Help By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD. Whether your child brings home a report card regularly or not, you want to know how well he is doing at school in the various studies there. You want to know of his progress in rela-| re going to find out from his tion to the standards for his grade. Suppose you find he is lagging in one or more of his school subjects. Perhaps you then let him know .of your displeasure and appeal to him to work harder. You might even punish him at home with the hope of making him work harder, as- suming that he would then earn better grades, of course, than he does now at school. Or you might vainly put your hopes in offering him material rewards for making better grades. You hardly can find much promise in scolding and punish- ing this child for his poor grades at school. Of course, some pun- ishment might be effective, if this child ran about outdoors at night and were not at home at desirable hours in the evening, to cause him to be indoors and on hand to do some mental work whether in the third or 10th grade, and going promptly at his homework. But rebuke or punishment will hardly be use- ful while he is at his lessons. | You can do best for him then) as you help him enjoy success! from his mental efforts. | Suppose. your -child is lagging | in the first or second grade. You may help him most by read- | ing aloud to him and finding for | *him interesting material -he can) read successfully and enjoyably. In order for him to read enjoy- ably he must have had success at reading. Whatever your method in trying to help your! child at any grade level, aim | first that he will succeed at) what he is learning. If he seems bored, uninter-| ested, inattentive and doesn't) care to try you will know he has not enjoyed much success. 'Nothing can stimulate his inter- est more than enjoyment of| achievement. We have often) read and talked about arousing | better interest in the child so he| will succeed. Let's turn this) about and hope to make him) more interested and attentive as he succeeds more. * READING HELPFUL If your lagging child is in the third or fifth or higher grade, you may help him with' his homework assignments by read- ing them with him and having him turn each paragraph into a sentence or two of his own words. Most parents can do this | well with the child of the ele- mentary grades. In arithmetic, if he is taught "new. math" you may not do so well unless you get some help from his teacher. At any level you should be able to help him i at spelling by encouraging him to look carefully at the new | word he is learning to spell, to pronounce it, to say its letters' | in right order five or more ' times while looking at it before trying himself out on it--never | to practice at spelling a word) wrong. ; A parent doesn't need to be a very good speller in order to elp his child of any grade to ""Yearn to spell. If your lagging child is in| high school he may have some} subjects beyond your ken and! skills. Even so you can help him through your kindly inter- est and encouragement. If you really care about find- ing ways to help your child at home, who lags at school, you teacher what help he needs. In case you yourself are able to help this child, the teacher does best who prevails on you to be very calm and patient while you DESSERT BRIDGE BOOSTS KINETTE FUNDS FOR SERVICE WORK tion to the national project of Kinsmen and _ institution for research and treatment of mental retardation. Mrs. pleasant evening. Proceeds will be devoted to the Kin- ettes' service work at Hills- dale Manor, for UNICEF Lloyd Pigden, Mrs. Doug- and the Cystic Fibrosis las Lowe, chairman and Foundation with an alloca- Mrs. Gordon Pearson, co- | arag : a Before Complaining jo "tipiained how this woman 'About Overwork co her work every) 'Check Your Score "She'd arrive at work with a heavy sigh and a look that was more than pained and she'd) : : OESC take. a good two hours before) By ROPERTA ROECUH |she began to be civil. Until then| cose employees cut ' ~\she ignored everybody and was! selves out of chances theyichort if she had to speak. | might have had because their) ,, theme song on the job is '"My| | She was one of my very best! jboss expects too much." |workers, this employer said, | | J hear this moody refrain be-| 'but the attitude she had every THE OSHAWA TIMES, 17 Wednesday, Juue 28, 1967 \|THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA *, |FOR THURSDAY | Planetary restrictions of the jpast few days lift on Thurs» day and you should have fairly smooth going in all of your in- terests. Push ahead while goals toward worth- enthusiastically and, even if returns are not immediate or are small, you should find satisfaction in the | gains you do achieve. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Thursday is your birthday your horoscope indicates that, regardless of any financial gains you have been able to net since the beginning of the year, it would be well to consolidate now and start thinking--and _plan- ning--for the future Your chart, as those of all Cancerians, does not promise much opportunity of adding to your monetary assets before Jan, 1, 1968, when you will en- ter an excellent three-month cycle on this score, to be fol lowed by several others after June 1, In the above connection how ever, it will be important to re member two things: to achieve the gains which can be yours, it will be most important to plan your financial moves ahead of time. Stars indicate that September and October will be ideal for mapping out feasible programs Too, it will be imperative that you manage conservatively for jthe balance of 1967. DODGE COMMITMENTS | Avoid. speculation and don't make any long-term commit jments--especially during Sep tember, November and Decem- ber. Best periods for career inter- ests: July, the last week in Sep tember, the last two weeks of October (particularly _ gratify- chairman are seen, left, ing!), the latter half of Decem- with some of the prizes, ber, next February and May. Personal relationships wil| and, right, Mrs. Jack Rise- | brough adds a finishing touch to a strawberry par- fait. --Oshawa Times Photos play an important role in your life within the next 12 months, with emphasis on social inter- ests and travel in August, Sen- ~jtember, late October, Decem- : ber, next January, February, added, 'that employ sided have & April and June; on romance in right to expect some interest on|September, December, next the part of employees when February, May and June. they come to work in the morn- A child born on this day will ing. And for my money--and be musically inclined but, some- A what unusually in the circum- the sums I pay out--that"s one) sonces. will also have set of the little things that isn't hand for. buniheek really expecting too much from) ___ me oe penre you employ. | BALLETS SCHEDULE For my money it isn't either.) The National Ballet will give and it's one of the many small/79 performances in 22 Ontario things that are not too much! con munities this season ' for employers to expect from) ena {morning annoyed me so much|staff and personnel. ing hummed by too many work-} jing women. And I also hear too} |many employers tell of employ-| jees who are now striking out) because they have struck this |note. | that when, in the course of a| So if you are an en:ployer| changeover, I had to eliminate|whose boss "is expecting too some of our jobs and consoli-/much" check yourself on the! date some of our others, I de-/little things where you might be cided to tell this woman to go/falling short. Then if they might be ruining} One woman who struck it re- instead of giving her a chance cently is now without employ- ment, and she blames her em- ployer for her present status, jbecause "he expected too uch," "It wasn't enough," she said, \"that I got try tg assist him. If always you can fre serene then, never let-| ting your voice rise, the method you use to help him won't matter much. It's your 'emo- tional relationship with him that ™ will rank first. Moreover, the teacher might \the day. He also expected me help to your lagging child, or a|'® be as bright as the morning specialist to diagnose his' abili-|S¥", acting as though I was ties and needs. Any parent of Privileged to have a job with the child beyond the second|him. grade or so who is lagging at|yADE FUSS school should be first concerned) «1 wake up slowly, I admit, and find ways to help him be-land 1 have no bounce in the come a good reader, the subject morning. But I mind my own on which most of his school suc-|hysiness while I wake up, and cess will depend. _____ | don't bother anyone. When he made a fuss about this little GRANTS FOR ARTS jidiosyncrasy of mine, I told him Ontario's Council for the Arts|he expected too much. Then he is paying out $700,000 to 55 arts|told me to go." ) organizations in 24 communities) The employer who expected this year. |too much, however, shed a dif- ful, calm person to give special CUSTOM MADE DRAPES -- BROADLOOM UPHOLSTERING § A COMPLETE INTERIOR DECORATING a CONSULTATION SERVICE HARLEIGH'S OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE 725-3012 Norm Fisher's Meat Market 22 Simcoe St. North Phone 723-3732 BOLOGNA 3 ss 1.00 CHUCK HAMBURG STEAK | STEAKS intl » 65* ,69* 2.25 RIB STEAKS «.. 79° @ FREEZER SPECIAL @ BY THE PIECE BLADE BEEF Hindquarters 67c Ib. Frontquarters 45c Ib. 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