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CHM TS VS ee OU 18 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, June 26, 1967 WEDDING ALBUM A record for your Wedding Album is provided by the Oshawa Times Women's Page. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Publication of this wedding record @epends upon the submission Women's Editor at least three days before the ceremony. The record of the bride-elect's showers and her out-of-town guest: should be submitted at least five days before the wedding. Johnston - Brooklin United Church was the setting last Saturday for the marriage between Lucy Hesselink, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Paul J. Hesseling, and Clyde Willson Johnston, son of the completed form to the Hesselink petals and a shoulder - length veil. She carried a bouquet of red roses with white carnations and chrysanthemums. Miss Susan Laverty was maid of honor and the Misses Jane Griffen and Carol Johnston, of Mrs. Clifford Johnst Brooklin, and the late Mr. John- ston. The Reverend G. A. Mundy was the officiating clergyman and organist was Norman Wil- liams. The bride, who was giv- en in marriage by her father, wore a full - length gown of peau de soie which was appli- qued with lace. The gown had long sleeves, a fitted bodice, and a scalloped neckline, She wore a headdress of two roses with organza and peau de soie Plowman Gail Patricia McIsaac, daugh- ter of Mr. and Mrs. James C. McIsaac, Oshawa, and Robert Bruce Plowman, son of Mr. and Mrs. Herbert G. Plowman, Islington, were married Satur- day, June 17 at St. George's Memorial Church, Canon F. G. Ongley officiated and Alan Reesor was organist. The bride, who was given in Marriage by her father, wore a delustered satin, full - length sleeveless gown and a full- length georgette wedding coat with lily-point sleeves. She wore a rhinestone tiara head- dress and a bouffant shoulder- length veil of nylon tulle. The were brid ids. Miss Jill Johnston was flower girl. Grant Madill, Brooklin, was best man and Herman Hesse- link, Oshawa, and Hugh John- ston of Brooklin were ushers. A reception was held in the church hall of Brooklin United Church when the couple left for a trip to northern Ontario, the bride was wearing a mint green suit with white accessories. Mr. and Mrs. Johnston will reside on Jackson Avenue, Osh- awa. H - McIsaac bride carried a bouquet of pink roses and white chrysanthe-| mums. | Matron of honor was Mrs. K. F. Weekes. Mrs. J. D. Dybala was attendant and Miss C. L. Plowman was bridesmaid. R. S Adams, Toronto, was best man} MR. AND MRS. CLYDE W. JOHNSTON --Ireland Studio and K. F. Weekes, Oshawa, and Dr. R. W. R. Horn were ushers. After a reception at the Pic- cadilly Room in the Hotel Gen- osha, the couple left for a trip| to the Pocono Mountains, Penn-| sylvania. The bride's going away costume was an orange) CHILD GUIDANCE silk shantung sleeveless dress) and matching cape. By GARRY C. MYERS, Ph.D. The parents of the youngest of our two great grandchildren just left with her, after a week- end with us. The baby is five months old. The father, a medi- cal student, and his wife are both steeped in musical appre- ciation and skill. They informed Records Cannot Substitute For Parents' Reading Aloud though a few mothers can do it well for very young children. I think all of us need to feel |concerned with what seems to ae Dear Ann Landers: I am a woman in my 70's but nobody would guess it. I have been married for over 40 years to a solid citizen whose interest in sex went dead about 10 years ago. His impotence was a re- lief to me because that part of our marriage was never very satisfactory, We raised a nice family and I did my duty but there was very little excite- ment. Last year we had our home 4\remodeled, A man 12 years my junior worked here for one week. This may sound silly to you but we fell madly in love. We didn't do anything disgrace- ful but we did have a wonderful time together. We both knew it was a losing battle with part- ners and age against us and he went out of my life as suddenly as he had come in. I can't get this man out of my mind. I wake up at night longing for him while my poor husband is snoring in the next room. Isn't it crazy that I can't have peace in my old age? I keep wondering what my : |grandchildren would say if they knew about this. Please tell me, Ann, am 1 the only woman my age with these ideas? You might call it sick, but it's real and it's some- thing I have to live with. Can you bring this subject into the open for discussion? --YOUNG AT HEART Dear Heart: Of course there are other women your age who jare still interested in sex. But don't deude yourself into*think- ing you are in love--not in one week, lady. Be glad you didn't do any- thing "disgraceful" because the price, in terms of guilt and shame would not have been worth it. Dream castles are fun to visit, Granny, but don't try |me to be excessive mechanized-|to live in one. | : . jteaching today, rendering tie personal relationships between child and teacher or parent less Dear Ann Landers: I am a ANN LANDERS Love-Sick Granny Has No Regrets "ee SP Vweueye' ye Ve wee' 15-year-old boy who is trying awfully hard to get along with my parents. The trouble is, whenever we have a difference of opinion they take turns giv- ing me a lecture, When my Mom runs out of breath my Dad starts in. If I try to ex- plain my ideas they say, "Be quiet. We don't want any back talk." Do you think it is back talk when a person wants to present his side of a disagreement? I don't yell or anything, I just make an attempt to speak, but they don't let me finish a sen- tence. Please give your opinion. My folks always praise your col- umn. Thank you.--A Friend in ee Dear Friend: One of the es- sentials of a good relationship is the free exchange of ideas, Par- ents who speak with their chil- dren, rather than at them find that their ideas are more read- ily accepted. The ability to dis- agree without being disagree- able is the mark of a civilized person. All kids should be given the privilege of practicing the fine art of rebuttal. Dear Ann Landers: The other afternoon I invited a friend of mine for a game of bridge. She said, 'I'm sorry but I am going to a dog shower today." I said, "A what?" She then explained that her neighbor had just bought a new dog and she was having a shower for him. Of course each guest is supposed to bring a gift. I have heard of some nutty things in my life but this beats them all. What is wrong with a woman who would insult her friends by inviting them to a party for a dog?--Mortified Dear Mort: This is probably her idea of something novel and imaginative. I'm not going to concern myself, however, as I was not invited. How about you? and less important. Though, as|Child. Except in music, there's embarking on the third year of THE BOOM in paper fash- resort, cruise, suburban fons has been gaining such wear or even for sightsee- momentum in the past few ing tours, there is a smart h collection of "fun and sun" ~months that department paper bonnets in a wide stores throughout the coun- variety of prints and shapes try are opening special that will retain their crisp- "paper boutiques'. The $ e ness and be ready to. wear « trend started off innocently even after hours packed in * enough with a few simple ' a suitcase or tote bag. This * fun designs but now almost brimmed one, inspired by a every type of garment and r fisherman's hat, in a color- accessory is being made ful floral splash print is from elegant evening typical of the many attrac- gowns to tiny '"'dont-go- tive shapes. near-the-water" bikinis, For --By Tracy Adrian | |to the child. us they have begun playing rec-|a rule, it is better for young ords of classical music in her|children to hear good rhymes hearing and mean to continue|/and prose from records than to doing so indefinitely. jhear little or none of either at Common sense supported by|all. Records hardly can be good some published studies indicate | substitutes for reading to chil- that such continuous exposure|dren aloud individually at home can have very desirable effect.|or in small groups at school. It is quite different from what) As I have pointed out in this babies and children usually lis-\column, some teachers in the ten to on radio or TV. Some|nursery school, kindergarten ;|wise parents provide records of|and early grades are finding ; |better music which their tots at|ways to attract volunteers from home between three and 10 orjamong mothers to read to so may choose to play for them-|small groups of their children )\selves. Some other parents turn|at school. I see great promise on good music records at bed-|in this direction. time for young children. | In the home practically any On the market are widely ad-|person--Dad, mother, a grand- vertised records of nursery|parent, older child, domestic rhymes and stories for children / helper or baby sitter--can read to listen to. They too can helt the youngster from two to wholesome but they hardly canjsix or eight. Can a recording be a fit substitute for reading|equal in value this personal re- n lationship? See what the read- _With all the current empha-|ing person gains in relationship sis on mechanized teaching of/with the child. Don't overlook young children today, it's easy|the value to the slow reading to see how this practice of ex-|child who reads aloud to a much posing children at home and] younger child. schoo] to verse and stories will) Whereas a very busy mother grow. Besides, busy mothers|might wisely find occasion to are tempted to substitute such|supplement personal reading to records for reading to children.|the young child, let us 'ope Indeed, some mothers are|that recorded stories are not of- writing me enthusiastically |fered as possible substitutes for about finding records of rhymes|reading to the baby and young and stories for their young chil- I dren enabling these children to Cee een eewARa we. hear what these mothers don't have time to read. Some, in- FLECTROLYSIS deed, seem to suppose records rnbdlaptes Daag than reading toy Removes superfluous hair EASE CHORES | painlessly : Teachers, too, in the nursery | Try Our Kree-Imperial Machine school and primary grades/ often ease their own labors by} playing records of verse and MARIE MURDUFF will be in Oshawa "Quick Cooking Best|ttes for beet tops.) "° "° ™™ Drain well and season with . For Leafy Greens prose to the children instead of reading to them. Of course they and parents are wise to play records of good music. Rarely at the GENOSHA HOTEL June 26th, 27th, 28th PHONE 723-4641 could a teacher or parents play : " For appointment on these dates or sing as well for her children, hardly a machine that can take the place of a person with young children. ANSWERING QUESTIONS its program whereby profes- sional theatre directors and de- signers work with amateur Vee ewe vww es we THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TUESDAY Planetary influences on Tues- day will favor routine tasks rather than the inauguration of new programs or making dras- tie changes in business or household schedules. Give further consideration If you like to plans and projects affecting future security but wait until a more propitious pe- riod to carry them out. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Tuesday is your birthday, some fine indications in your chart foretell a possible job pro- motion and-or an interesting op- portunity to advance in a new work area during the latter half of October -- especially if you have impressed superiors with your ability in handling unusual responsibilities in the past. While all Cancerians can look forward to such changes, those in scientific or technological fields may be the greatest ben- eficiaries. Other good periods for job ad- vancement: prior to October: July and the last week in Sep- tember; after October: the lat- ter half of December, next Feb- ruary and May. On the monetary score: even if you may not seem to be mak- ing much progress at the mo- ment, do not become discour- aged. Stars indicate that, where finances are concerned, the pe- riod between now and Dec, 31-- travel: August, September, late October, January, April and June. A child born on this day could excel as a physician, composer or financial advisor. but particularly the months of September and October--should be used for planning exp WIFE PRESERVER along these lines. AVOID DEBT Don't speculate and don't go! into debt to invest monies in the hope of making a "quick buck." Rather, map out a conserva- tive and feasible program (to cover at least two years) and follow it conscientiously. Re- sults should be highly gratify- ing during the first three months of 1968 -- just as a starter, Other good periods will follow later in the year. This new year in your life should be an extremely happy one from a personal standpoint. With the exception of brief pe- riods during late October and late December, when you may be under some tension and un- consciously "take out" your stresses on others, your domes- tic life should run smoothly; and romance will be governed by exceptionally generous influ- ences during September, De- cember, next February, May and June. Best periods for Parron 6-2 > o Hang slips on a revolving tie rack in the closet. Makes it ease ier to select long or short ones, GLANZER CABINETS @ CUSTOM CABINETS e@ KITCHENS @ HARDWOOD FURNITURE WORK GUARANTEED FREE ESTIMATES 345 FRENCH ST. OSHAWA Phone 576-2980 Q@.--What is a good way to cultivate desirable behavior in theatre groups in the province. your child when there are guests? 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In French, Scandinavin langu mains "'rose" whi it changes only sli sa"'. In its more prac tions, rose hfps or eaten in wartime gain an extra sol min C. Today, t wine maker can ea hips with which he delicate wine much ling champagne. Extensive use is rose in cosmetics, the extraction. of a Most Cle Hard We By ROBERTA During the cours few weeks, youn; stream into big c for opportunities glamor job becaus their school career tags or titles as M Girl om Campus, I in the Class and Likely to Succeed. But many of the whose minds are 0: modeling, will find that when they m tion they will not talented or prettie likely to succeed. that starts to happt to get discouraged. "It is also easy too soon,"' says Allik, who has had portunities many h In the seven year has been building New York, after s child performer in Finland, she has way up the glam acting and model j year, she also has was picked from 2 be the "queen" making company. "In this job, I r firm at trade shows tions and have the FRE The French community of Os brated its nationa "la Saint Jean during the week speaker at a ban Name Re Woman 1 MONTREAL (CE en's rights have te step forward in Que naming of Renee L the first woman pre 90-year history of Polytechnique of M Miss Larose will ies to first- and students at the | school, and at the will finish her ma on the structure of When she recei ploma last year fr versity of Montre: holder of the highe her course. Miss Larose hi many honors in hi including the Nationé Council, the lieuter nor's medal, the bt | Quebec Engineers