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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdey, June 20, 1967 Won't Dear Ann Landers: For the pew 15 years I have been a usy executive. I do not agree with your stand that the person who telephones is obligated to give the secretary his name. I find it most annoying when I am asked 'Who is calling?" I have made it a rule never to give my name. Only one question is more ir- ritating and I have learned how to get past it in a hurry. When BR secretary asks, 'What is it you wish to speak to Mr. Doe about?" I reply, 'I'd like to know what his intentions are in regard to my wife." | I just thought you'd like to know how we less timid souls handle these self-important sec- retaries.--Sacramento Dear Sac: Thanks for the clue-in. The trouble with those cute answers is that you can only use them once. What do you do for an encore, Mister? Dear Ann Landers: I have been thinking about that girl's idea RAN ence you Kou te be in such heavy demand, I sug- gest that you have forms printed. It will save a lot of valuable time. Horses, Children Have One Thing popularity) ANN LANDERS Busy Executive Give Name suggestion--the one who said if a hoy friend wants to get inti- mate, she should ask him to sign a paper stating that they went to bed on such and such a night, so there will be no gues- tion about paternity if some- thing develops. I think it's a good idea, Ann, but I have another idea which is equally good. I hope you will be fair and print it. I am a young man who keeps getting invited to girls' apart- ments. I am not rich or hand- some or a great talker, so don't get the idea I am bragging. My is just' proof that there are'a lot of girls in Wash- ington, D.C, who are hard up. My plan-is as follows: When a girl propositions a guy, he should ask her to sign a paper saying it was her idea and that she will not hold him respon- sible if something develops. What do you think of it?-- Careful Alvin Dear Alvin: I think it's a fine Dear -Ann Landers: Please In Common three lively « youngsters, both learn through repetition. and nearby Sherbrooke. racing. Today, Mrs. AYER'S CLIFF, Que. (CP)-- Mrs. Ralph Babbin, mother of says children and horses: have at least one thing in common-- Mrs. Babbin, owner of four standardbred horses, drives and trains the animals at harness racing tracks in Ayer's Cliff Mrs. Babbin developed a fond- ness for horses when, in her childhood years, she regularly visited her grandparents' farm. As a teen-ager she trained be- tween seven and 10 horses a year in the ways of harness- Babbin is be- lieved to be the only female driver and trainer of horses in "she says. the Eastern Townships, a lush Tural region east of Montreal. print your answer because both my mother and father read your column and quote from it all the time. There are seven kids in our have five sisters, all younger than I am. My little brother is three. The girls (from five to 1i) get away with murder. They can come up to me at any time and hit me for no reason. If I tell my parents they say, 'Forget it. You are the oldest." Will you please tell me why being the oldest gives my sis- ters the right to hit me? I have some friends who have the same problem. Please answer for all of us.--Black and Blue Dear Black and Blue: I get dozens of letters from kids who tell me their brothers and sis- ters come up and hit them "for no reason." There is always a Mrs. Babbin has no sweeping reanwp. Maybe not a very good ui! formula for training. Techniques|one, less. The solution is to have such a friendly relationship differ from person to person, t it's a reason, neverthe- Take her husband for in-|with your sisters that they will 'stance. He owns several horses|not want to hit you. .@nd has his own way of train- Apparently your mom and family. I am a boy 13 and 1|® 'you are the master," ig. 'Mrs. Babbin doesn't work - with him on training programs. * She herself prefers a cautious - course. "You've got to study *them," she says of the racers. ' "You get to know what they can 'do and they, in turn, know that dad are raising you to know that boys are not supposed to hit girls and they are to be complimented for it. If your lit- tle eisters get overly pesty and take advantage of your gentle- manliness, however, your par- ents should step in and punish them, White peek-a-boo lace in @ saucy daisy pattern and bonded to yellow, pink or blue terry is used for delightful and attractive crisp, young, two - piece "swim or play" suit and straight line shirt. The smart shirt has long set-in sleeves with French cuffs, a flattering small collar, a "mad money" tuck-away , pocket and can serve as a * Cover-up with other sum- ; mer things. 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Pour into an oiled 5-cup mold. Chill until firm. Unmold on crisp sa- lad greens. Garnish with addi- tional salad dressing or mayon- naise and sweet or dill pickle fans. Yield: 6 to 8 servings. woe CHILD GUIDANCE Examine Both By GARRY C. MYERS, Php. reporting children under 12 of 14 "who times cruelly, treated' by athe children of the neighborhood. A few of these most unbelievable in savagery. Some. others are of a milder sort when the causes are not clearly manifest. However, I c: gle letter in wh ing parent indicated that she thing to do with the problem. Always the mother's appeal was for a way to civiliz other children or change them. younger or weaker children. of these savages, sometimes there is a Fane of them. The only recourse the victim's par- ents have then is to move away. 'EMPORARY CURE bad may be Ahi of course, to get police protection but the effect may be only temporary. warse thereafter. Suppose you were the mother who wrote the following from Utah: "T°" have twin boys, eight. They seem to be in trouble con- stantly with other children in the neighborhood or some par- ent is at my door telling me what they've done. I know my- self that they have been blamed for something someone else has done. Other children can do no it in for my two. "The other children can do mischievous things and no one says a word. They feel like no one likes them. One woman left them out of a birthday party. They get along well at school Sides Of Neighbors' Complaints so bad as to cause you to move T receive a number of letters|away with your family. re unkindly, some-|STUD Y BAYS But before you do this I wish you. would try to ascertain ecounts are al-|whether you might he able to change those boys of yours so as to be more acceptable iu the other children and their parenis. You might begin by attracting at recall a sin-lone er two of the annoyers to ch the complain- your home and getting inio e ir good graces and the good and her own children had any- graced of their parents. At such mes you may be able to study your boys and guide them in the|being good playmates. Ask yourself if you have done Now you and I know that|well in guarding your remarks some children with no apparentlat home about the neighbors cause will harass and torture|and in playing up in your talk at home the best in them. If ile there may be one or twolyour boys suppose they are al- Ways right and the neighbors always wrong, improvement of Telationships hardly will be pos- sible. ' Naturally, you. tend to think first of your rights and the rights of your boys. While you do so you are inclined to mag- nify in your own mind the The matter may even grow|°meriness of the other children and their parents and are not inclined to look for anything good in them. You just might bring yourself to choose to "go the second mile,"' when the re- sults could be surprisingly good. When you see or hear some- thing good in those other chil- dren go tell it to their parents, hoping these other children will? hear what you say. You might be able to hire or win vyolun- tarily the doing of an errand wrong. The parents mostly have ys tolligag one of the annoying It would be wonderful if your boys would tell you or other neighbors of some nice things about a parent of the other chil- dren. Moreover you might find ways to cause one or more of with the children. I know ail children get into mischief at times and I feel my children aren't any worse than the next but I'm afraid this may hurt them the way the neighbors got." My reply in part: I know just how you feel about those neighbor children and their parents. What you say of their unkind and cruel ways Calling By Name Good For Business By ROBERTA ROESCH One way to increase your job opportunities is to remember who people are and call them by name. This approach to human rela- tionships is Timplicity itself, yet so many business people forget every day that recognizing cus- tomers by their name can play an important part in the success of thelr enterprise. "Actually I go out of my way to do business with people who are thoughtful in this respect,' Says oné woman, whose job keeps her on the road a great deal. "In my work in the home fur- nishings field, I travel meee the South and visit many mills, and I usually make my trips by car, so my schedules can be elastic. "Most of the time I stop over- night at the big motels on the highways. But on one occasion three years ago, I travelled 10 miles out of my way to investi- gate a country inn I had seen advertised on a billboard. GREETED BY NAME "T liked the place on my very first trip because it was s0 'warm. But I really fell in love with it the second time around when the girl at the desk made a great effort to greet me by name as soon aS I walked through the door. "When I entered the dining| room for dinner, my name was) used again, and even before I could order a waitress. remem- bered to bring me some piping hot scones like I had loved be- ore. "These attentions are done BARBARA'S Sitti" Gontouing Qur 10th ANNIVERSARY SPECIAL 25% .OFF ON ALL COLD WAVES 75 CELINA ST. -- OSHAWA 25-9572 -- pa ON 8) GREENHOUSES . . CLEARANCE BOX PLANTS P° GET 1 FREE Petunias -- Asters -- Snaps -- Zinnias Portulaca -- Marigolds, Etc., Ete. R. B, REED & SONS FLORISTS LTD. PLANTS BUY 2 - 163 Bloor West 4 with sincerity and yet they are flattering," she said. "I find then, so thoughtful that I take my business to that inn, and send other people there when- ever I possibly can." The sincere attention in this May be wholly true. Yet you seem to suppose that you should treat your twin boys more ci- villy. But you may not be ablé to find such ways in the man- ner you have in mind. Indeed, conditions may grow approach is always more wel- come than the cold impersonal treatment by people who never bother to remember your name. BECOMES ANNOYED "Frankly, I am so annoyed at being treated as if I didn't have a name," a second woman said, "that I'm currently taking my business away from one shop- keeper I've known for years. "It suddenly struck me," she went on, "that after all the money I have spent in his store, neither the clerks nor the owner could come up with a name for me if their next sale depended on it. "I'm tired of this nameless treatment. So from now on I'm doing business with people who are smart enough to remember who I am." 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FORTHCOMING M/ Mr. and Mrs, Rok Bassett, Toronto, ani forthcoming marriag daughter, Patricia | John Douglas Ross « formerly of Oshaw: Mrs. Matt Kotelko ar Ross, both of Oshawa riage will take place day, July 1, 1967, at in the Church of St Toronto. MEN STUDENTS ¥ SASKATOON (CP)- versity of Saskatche lege of Home Eco looking for men to e Edith Rowles Simpso gree programs. for and food scientists modified to attract dents, Hungariar A Dash O Paprika, like par been used so long quick dash of lively foods .that you m have considered usinj tle spice as a seasoni Hungarians are not recipes they have de make use of their ow These. national dishes ed "Paprikashes". Paprika usually has nip of heat. 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