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WEI A record for Oshawa Times Oshawa Times depends upon t Women's Editor The record of 1 gueste should h wedding. 12 'THE OSHAWA TIMES, Fridey, June 16, 1967 ANN LANDERS Not All Out-Of-Wedlock Babies Find Homes Many Opportunities Exist For Non - College Students By ROBERTA ROESCH jtraining, prepares you to go in College is one of the major|several directions and take) matters on the minds of many|many vocational _ twists and} seniors who will graduate from |turns. It's also a necessity for 2 bag this month. }many fields of work. l e , word from admission) with this in mind, it is un-| Offices has been a no up to now, | wise to turn down a college op-| WIFE PRESERVER many admit that they wonder portunity if you have a good what their future opportunities|chance to go. If you find after) Elegant touch for luncheons; will be. giving college a try that it isround butter balls instead of However, some of my mailjnot the right route for you, the|pats. Scoop out with melon In St. Paul's takes another twist and indi-|experience will not be lost. scoop or quarter teaspoon mea- Church Osha @ cates other students wonder if} on the otherhand. if admis-|Suring spoon. ane a yes from a college is the right! ion offices have sent Wai oo June 10, Mary | answer for them. lyour job opportunities need not daughter of Mr, 2 Here's one example: 'be negative since many good ence M. Elliott, Dear Ann Landers: A recent|but of course I kept this to my- i telli mothers Self. peg limon Egat theis|_, Taree times in the last month ; not to worry because theirline wife has called me and babies would land in the loving | made reference to her husband arms of eager parents was ajand my husband going to a trifle misleading. I hope you| Meeting together or entertaining] g Mexico now has about 900,000 telephones and expects to install om pene Se te, in tee in a a mete oo Be 'o oe mot me your 8 bo chances still exist to get some {100,000 more by the end of 1967, eet, eae an res' ys % training that is right for you. |" yrs pT Aker, son of Mr. 3 be an out-of-wedlock boy who|"er husband is suing my hus and Educational Opportunities| "70" inn tew opportune) JUST FOR inald F. Aker, 1 cent, Oshawa, ex ding vows. The ¢ : 4 band as an alibi. I have gone was raised in an orphanage. along with this monkey business When I was small I cut out @|hecause I hated to let the wife magazine picture of @ woman|know her husband was lying, working in the kitchen. It was/puyt my conscience is bothering for People Not Going to Col- lege," writes a girl in Connecti- cut who is a high school senior. "I'm interested in going over them even though I have been ties, you'll find them in com- munity colleges that accept GLAMOUR rd a Fe most high school graduates; in|, | Touch' Beauty Traini € hf vocational training schools; in|more thon that. A professional coreot Walter Jackson, technical institutes; in evening|9* © poirstylist will offer you Travel Soloist Ross Co an ad for lineoleum. I pretendl| me and I don't want to lie an y i the woman in the add was my/more, 4 ggg by a well-known col jcourses and on-the-job training; |i, Soporupitina tool ig ol heated companied by F mother. When I was sick or hurt) My husband says if I don't APPLY PRESSURE jand in self-education. write or visit: both of Oshawa. The bride, who marriage by her an elegant empire organza ' appliqued tilly lace and see > erusted with tiny "The pressure to go to college, And when you pursue these MARVEL BEAUTY SCHOOLS potentials because they are the ig te De rent anen rou, he 3, oR, Tato and friends and applied like|POrtunities that follow have) oi jncipal eit Courses, Bron . Established over 40 everyone else. every chance to be good. yeors. "But now that I have been _ or when things weren't going! protect this man it will be the well I would look at that picture|same as turning him in and I and play like my mother was/could be responsible for the coming to take me home with breakup of their marriage. her. Please tell me what to do.-- She never did come. When I left the orphanage I knocked around a lot. Every time I hit a new town I would wonder if my mother lived there. I would wonder if she was happily mar- ried--if I had brothets and sis- ters and if they looked like me. 1im GO WMBEDO. oes cose sess ss Dear In: A marriage that is glued together by the lies of friends isn't much of a mar- riage. Furthermore, it is bound to fall apart sooner or later be- cause that type of mucilage is temporary at best. Many years have passed and day I die. So please, Ann Landers, don't give unwed mothers the idea that life is going to be peaches and cream for their babies. It doesn't always turn out that way.--Not So Lucky. Tell Romeo that he can no I am still wondering. I'm sure|!onger depend on you to cover I'll continue to wonder until the|for him. And keep your word, Dear Ann Landers: Please | i settle an argument. Should a/Good, Noreen' from herjage, not taking the young chil-|let yourself get mad and ar- jdren along. | gue. ree ion Fag oad gent "a 'cs | Of course, right in the home! patient with that cl and don't T encourage her to invite her)... probably feels that she|let her get on your nerves, Let friends to the house and she/doesn't stand quite so well in says there is nothing to do. She|the family as those younger Dear Not So Lucky: Of course Lady it doesn't, but it costs nothing Deaf*Lady: A 10-year-old boy Reporter Marilyn Argue puts her money in the slot TELLER IN at the Caisse Populaire de Hull while a teller watches A TUBE from the second floor of a building across the street. 10-year-old boy be taken to the ladies' bathroom in a public bapesipa place by his mother? Or should he be taken to the men's bath- room by his father?--Surprised to look at the brightest possible| should be able to take himself|graph of her own and all kinds side of a situation that is agon-|tg izing at best. Thank you for writing. ae and I would say they arejlievable emotional 0 the bathroom. of games to play. "No matter what we do for Confidential to Kooked Up:|her or try to give her, nothing Dear Ann Landers: We have|I'm not surprised. A girl wholseems to please her. She does known this couple for many|has been carrying such unbe-|not even seem excited when she freight is|gets a new pair of shoes or th good friends of ours. I have/lucky she's not in the Laughin\inew clothes, Everything: is suspected for a long time that/Academy. Call the Salvation|taken for granted." the husband has been chasing|Army. They do a wonderful job| My reply im part: eround behind his wife's back'for unwed mothers. Your eldest daughter seems CHILD GUIDANCE to have a very strong wish to grow up and be independent. Yet 12- Year - Old Daughter Shows|strements" fora: number Expressions Of Independence years, gaining more freedom as she proves herself able to have It is not strange that she By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD|Then she always tells me that}%esn't sound eager to go along with the family to movies, shop- has a Ping-Pong table in the/children. Attract some of her basement, a radio and phono-/friends to your home, friends of jtions for her that you think are she will need to learn she. will! jher own age. See that these younger children don't impose! on her. RULES NEEDED You and Dad ought to sit down together and work out ANSWERING QUESTIONS | Q. Would you help the child |before the first grade to learn to identify the letters of the al- some limitations and regula-|Phabet? reasonable and then refuse to ters. When she can get you in an argument she's pretty sure to win. were to ask her occasionally to A. Yes, but not in alphabeti- cal order then, Old-fashioned al- vit! bout these mat-|Phabet blocks may be useful; gg ith gent crs ge so may having him find as often as he can a familiar letter of |the alphabet on a | t might if page. If you have a typewriter, cg gr a, gb Ad yea l you can use it to help him learn plan and serve the family meal,|the letters. her make more small decisions. When you must make moral or health decisions, stand by them no matter how she acts. printed Closed-circuit television con- nects teller and customer and a pneumatic tube sys- tem zips the cash back and forth. It cost $40,000 to set up the drive-in bank, Can- ada's first. --CP Photo accepted, I admit I'm. confused about whether I'm seeking the education or whether I'm going for the status symbol that's at- tached to college. "How much will my future opportunities be influenced by whether I go to college or whether I take a business course and go to work sooner?' Much of the answer to this girl's question depends on her vocational goal and what she wants to do with her life. But I will say, as 'part of the answer, that a college educa- tion, along with specialized including the shopping. Why not let her get the family's break- fast. She might like to share in the readjustment of furniture in certain rooms. | Do show appreciation for her} EXPERT RE-FINISHING |B On all Types of Furniture French \-- Polishing ~ Restoration of Antiques gown had a fitted ice which was fa large lace appliqu pearls and crystal: length sleeves we similarly and the ' featured a flowing the waist, enhanc same appliques, / Co Westminster Un was the setting for between Judith L bell, daughter of \ Cyril Sidney Camp! and David John Cc Mr. and Mrs. D Coates; Brooklin, place Saturday, J p.m. Mrs. Ray Hatter, accompanied by M1 rassin. The bride, who-1 marriage by her fa fulldength, sheath g backed miracle crey a semi-bateau neé lily-point sleeves. TY topped with a loos Alencon lace in jac A wide panel on tt made of the same lz el train fell softly waistline and was | a double crepe boi center of matching N) Suppose the eldest girl this}I do not trust her. ping and the like,. Occasionally|social and scholastic successes) Oshawa Upholstering Co. mother from Michigan writes! ia. CHORES you and Dad might go with her/at school and find time to talk| 725-0311 cao ebout were your daughter: "She has a few chores to do and a few of her pals of her|with her c ly. Don't Pane you, kt "T have three daughters, two, four and 12. My problem at present is my daughter, 12. She is now at the age where she wants to show entire independ- ence and at times makes me feel useless and not needed and that I am only in her way. She is so unappreciative of every- thing I try to do for her. "She argues with me when I insist that she wear her boots and a scarf on her head in cold weather. She complains about me getting her breakfast be- like making her bed and doing the dishes on weekends and just drying the supper dishes during the week, She gets the potatoes and coffee ready every night for supper and once in a while gets the meat and vegetables ready. "At school she is just the op- posite to what she is at home according to her teacher. She gets A's and B's mostly and gets along with both boys and girls in class very well. Every report card is marked 'Very cause she wants to get it her- self, When her dad and I and the two younger girls go out shopping or visiting she wants to stay home and watch TV. I have sewed her skirts from patterns which she picked out so they would be the latest style and then she does not wear them because they are OSHAWA TIMES PICTURE RE-PRINTS Available At FATHER'S DAY IS THIS SUNDAY FULL SIZE BOTTLE OF Yardley's Black Label and Mrs. Cecil Ale lock, and Francis« Smits, son of Mr. an Smits, all of Whitby Saturday, June 10, at St. John the Roman Catholic Whitby. The Reverend Ke coll was the officia man at the high m Frank Rosettani vw panied at the orga Patrick Wilson. The bride was giv riage by her father a full-length, white p empire gown that fel A-line skirt, The fitte Queen Anne's lace hi sleeves. Her shoulder leng embroidered nylon topped with a_ he; baby white orchids. | AFTER SHAVE LOTION with every bucket or barrel of homemade. "She always wants to baby- sit for her sisters, which I have her do on occasion when we are close to home and then only for an-hour or two. I know what a responsibility they are to watch as the girl, two, gets into everything. But I feel the oldest is not ready to take com- plete responsibility in case of fire, serious injury or illness. a bouquet of centen white gardenias and and she wore an em lace belonging to | mother. Miss Elizabeth Sn of the bridegroom, of honor. Mrs. Joa Oshawa, was an att Miss Betty Anne Cre awa, Miss Kathy Pol of the bride, and M Marie Pollock -- wel maids, Brian Irwin, Se was best man an Crouter, Oshawa, Ji lock, brother of the thony Smits, and Ge NU-WAY PHOTO SERVICE 8 x 10 -- 1.50 each 5x 7 -- 1.25 each 20% Discount o n Orders of 5 or More Pictures father's day walk shorts. 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