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Yer eee ee eyeuey ewe 18 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesdey, June 14, 1967 Dear Ann Landers; My hus- : I band insisted that I write andjtion could probably fill a li reply to that woman who signed herself "Lady From Ohio"--the one who had cancer surgery| three years ago and lives in constant fear. I had cancer surgery, too-- mine was five years ago, and I had those same feelings. But a dear friend gave me a few lines that have been enormously helpful and I would like to pass them on the "Lady From Ohio."' "Fear knocked at my door." "Faith opened that door." "And no one was there." --LADY FROM INDIANA Dear Lady: Thank you, on behalf of the Lady From Ohio, and all the others who may find strength in those lines. It's an.azing how a few words can ANN LANDERS Comforting Words End Gnawing Fear jknow about this family situa- | brary. | Dear Ann Landers: Seven jyears ago our marriage would have been voted as the one}; most likely to succeed. Last) 7 |week I filed for divorce. My mind is made up, so please don't think I am writing to ask how to save the situation. It much when he ran around with levery chippie in town but when he started to bring them home I decided I'd had enough. . Now my question: What should a wife say when her hus- band announces, "You can the dogs." for me) isn't worth saving. I didn't say| 7 have the children but I want} # Thank you for your help.--|# NO CLASS CLARA (his name|/ vw S ri w looks mied, My background hear, resume problem for women who have held a variety of jobs for a short time and who now want to return to work, MANY METHODS 'verve By ROBERTA ROESCH "My biggest job-hunting prob-jand experience that could help lem is writing a resume," a woman pointed out recently. "And I say that," she said, because the on-again-off-again experience I've had in a mis- cellaneous assortment of jobs|this decided a job as a real like a hodge-podge of/estate nothing when I put it down in black and white. "So far," she said, "I've done little of this and a little of that in the in-between times of my family life, but now I want to get started in a long-term job. "But a resume has me sty- is not ight for one." From other conversations I I gather that writing a is a fairly common these several If you are one of omen, there are approaches that can help you ow Vy wows Woman Job-Hunter Finds Resume Writing Difficult jobs to determine the function you land the job you want to apply for. LISTED EVERY JOB One wife and mother who did saleswoman was the work she wanted. So after typ- ing that on top of her work- sheet, she listed every job she had held since she was a stu- dent. For her, that included work as a camp counselor, reception- ist, advertising space sales- woman, clerk, switchboard at- tendant, waitress, movie cash- jer, school lunchroom assistant and convention demonstrator. Many of the jobs were very short-lived since she had. sand- wiched them in during the years she was bringing up her chil- dren, But as she analyzed the jobs thoughtfully, she came to the obvious conclusion that the common denominator that showed itself in every one of! them was her past experience! of working actively with other SPECIAL STAMP ISSUE ee will be issued 'by the} tion of Prince Charles as Prince LONDON (CP) -- A special! post office to mark the initia-lof Wales in 1969. wwe eeev eu? CARPET CLEANING get a person through some very| Dear Clara: dark days. Dear Ann Landers: bor passed away recently. He was only 55 and an alcoholic,/dren, but because they want funeral something awful. Why say any- I appreciate your| |thing? Give him the dogs and taking the time to share yours.|Consider yourself fortunate that he didn't put up a fight for the A neigh-|children. Some husbands do-- jnot because they want the chil- His sisters carried on at the|be punitive. Don't be surprised p They|if you end up with the dogs, too. to} overcome this difficulty. 1 The first approach is to re-|PCoPle. member that a resume is a per-| With that as a selling -- sonal sales presentation that|for getting a real estate sales- does not have to follow a single) WOman's job, she put a resume prescribed formula. together (after thinking she You can use your imagina-|COouldn't write one because of tion to develop something func-|her here-and-there experience). tional that will effectively! 'And after I sent ten resumes best... and it costs no more. Modern equipment, skill al only fully experienced men guarantee you the best of results when we clean your soiled rugs, whether it be wall-to-wall or loose rugs. Other services offered by Angus-Graydon are binding, repairing, fringing, dyeing, alterations and custom installations. If your rug is valuable to you... it deserves the very The Cost Is Only 10c Per Sq. Ft. 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