10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, June 12, 1967 Ruins Dear Ann Landers: I read re- cently in your column that you did not think it was in good taste for a person to hang notes on new furniture asking guests to keep their feet off the up- holstery and their wet glasses off the teakwood tables. What would you do about a 300-pound sister-in-law with stil- etto heels who comes to visit and punches. holes in your brand new hardwood floors? This happened to .us during Christmas and I was sick about it. We had the floors ded in ANN LANDERS High-Heeled In-law Hard Floors When they arrived at Ruthie's house her mother said, "Let's give Dee $5. After all, it was Ruthie's rope and meat that caught the cat so she should have most of the money." Dee felt this was unfair and left empty-handed. She did not say anything, she just started to cry and came home and told me the story. A few minutes later Rutnie's mother called and asked me to send Dee back for the $5. I replied, "Let's just forget it." January and refinished in Feb- ruary. You guessed it~Two Ton Tessie came for Easter and our floors are ruined again. I know hardwood grows on trees, but money doesn't. would 'like your opinion on how to deal with this problem.-- ONE MAD RELATIVE Dear Mad: If your 300-pound sister-in-law ruined your floors because she was doing Spanish dances you'd be justified in ask- ing her to cut it out. But floors are for walking on and if all she does is walk on them you can't ask her to stop. Put down throw rugs when Tessie comes to visit and tell her about the problem. If she's a good egg, she'll offer to remove her shoes. Dear Ann Landers: Our 11- year-old daughter Dee saw an ad offering a $25 reward for the return of a pet cat. Dee tele- phoned her friend Ruthie who had also seen the ad. They decided to look for the cat together. Dee went to Ruth- ie's house. They got a rope and a piece of meat and off they went. , After some hunting they spotted the cat in the hedges near the woman's home. When the cat ran under the porch they notified the woman that her pet has been cornered. The 'woman was very happy and re- trieved her cat with no trouble. She handed Ruthie the reward money--$25, My husband says I should have insisted on a fair deal-- a 50-50 split. He claims that children should learn early in life not to let people take ad- vantage of them. What do you say? -- ONE WHO HATES FIGHTS Dear One: The girls should have shared equally in the re- ward money. Ruthie's mother ought to be told that it's too late for the split now, but, in the interest of fairness, she should write a check to your state organization for retarded children and present it in your daughter's name. Dear Ann Landers: Our next door neighbor has been di- vorced for five years. She has two children, I had heard a ru- mor that she is pregnant but I refused to believe it. I saw her today and she is indeed very pregnant. What shall I say to our 14- year-old daughter when she no- tices? She is sure to ask how this can be. I need your help.-- SPEECHLESS Dear Speechless: If your 14- year+ old daughter does not The National Council of Jewish Women honored 11 "Women of the Century," during a presentation in the Natural Gas Hospitality Pavilion at Expo 67. Mrs. Lucien Lamoureux, wife of the Speaker of the House of Commons; is shown at left presenting the awards to: Mme. Therese Casgrain, OBE, Montreal, Dr. Alice Vibert Douglas, MBE, King- ston, Ont. The recipients were Mrs, Frank MacKen- zie Ross, CBE, Vancouver, NAMED AMONG WOMEN OF THE CENTURY B.C.; Mrs. Agnes Semmler, Inuvik, N.W.T.; Dr. Nina Cohen, Sydney, N.S.; Dr. Hilda Neatby, Saskatoon, Sask.; Dr. Irene Uchida, Winnipeg, Man.; Dr. Ruth Gorman, Calgary, Alta.; Mrs. A. B. Perlin, St. John's, Nfld.; Miss Mona know how this 'can be," it's high time you explained it to her. CHILD GUIDANCE Steer clear of moral judg- ments for the sake of the wom- an's children, This is your op- portunity to demonstrate true compassion, re " Underpinnings contribute greatly to a smooth-looking, trim, overall outer picture and, consequently, should be chosen with the utmost care: One type garment rarely, if ever, does for more than one type of silhouette. For special slim line purposes and to give women freedom without bulk and, also, to keep under clothing to a minin.um, is this panti-slip with the -patented divided leg construction. The lace- trimmed panti-slip is made of a marvelous new fabric, a combination of imported silk and dacron with the look and feel of pure silk. y|lovely, soft and low. The better jjwhen he feels calm, relaxed, jjunthwarted, comfortable, loved /junwanted. So his voice may '|child to obey his parents and \|co-operate with them, he is sure '|to feel vexed and his voice 'itends to rise in pitch and grow ijmay be the voice of children '|when they are fighting or quar- Ugly Voice Of Means Same For Child By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD A parent's voice when uglied vexed by the youngster is when when he is not understood as Anything we parents can do to manage our emotions better and understand the child better will help us keep our voices we controlled our own voices the lovelier voices our children will acquire. As a rule, the 'voice of the child, 2 9 or 14, is most lovely and wanted. His voice is ugliest when he feels excited, tense, angry, frustdated, unloved or vary in loveliness as his feelings toward his parents and other children vary. ' When it s not easy for a in loudness. So may his voice rise in height and volume when he feels angry at a brother, "sister or playmate. It may rise '|when he feels out of sorts in any way. 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It is OSHAWA BUSINESS scream with sheer delight and rapture while watching TV, roughhousing, or engaging in games of chase or other physi- cal contest. Highly excited pleasantly in any situation, chil- dren may be inclined to speak in far too high and loud voices. Moreover, some children are prone to be keyed up most of the time and often to speak loudly and shrilly when there is no apparent present reason why they do so. Sometimes a mother writes me of a child who speaks very loud and shrilly most of the time, and she wants to know what to do to get him or her "to pipe down." As I always reply, there's no sense in shout- ing then, "Not so loud!" To do so would only cause the child to be worse. Then is the time for the parents to be very serene H\In each area the parent is in-|Without any show of anger or|cian check on the child who clined to raise the voice and|itritation? They may shout and : shout at the youngster. often speaks loudly and in a highly pitched voice. 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Mrs, Fox will re Mrs. William Gardner Street North, Mrs. John Fernhill Boulevard, a Frederick §. Wotton Street, will have ju ever the north, cent south divisions of Os! spectively. RETIRING divisiona missioner, Mrs. Do Fox, right, welcome Shortage Of Overcrowde TORONTO (CP)--Th tor of the Mental Ret Centre in Toronto sa} are hundreds of childre tario. hospital schools retarded "who could turned to the communi could appropriate hor them and more adequé ices such as communi dences and day care < Dr. John Fotheringha "Many of these kids ji a home." If they were living | they would be considere telligent to send to co: schools for the retarc are in the educable cl IQs ranging mostly fro 85. Some even have not of 100. Until a few months ¢ checking was done on t ties of children being p the hospital schools. was necessary to put a the waiting list was the two physicians that tl was retarded. Provincial officials 1 that many of the childr dumped there by pare exerted political through members of tI lature, t Nae