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' 16 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday, June 7, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: I have been going with a man for five months. We plan to marry next year. Now he has me that he wants to play ground with other women and Yd better get used to the idea. 'According to him, all men do this and any- one who believes otherwise is stupid, naive or both. He says the male philosophy works this way: "A man loves only one woman but he must be free to entertain himself with as many women as he needs, regardless of whether he is married or single." I told him to hit the road. Now I am sorry. I cry a lot and can't eat. Please tell me if I should accept his philosophy and make the best of it.--Tears in the Pillow Dear Tears: If you marry this man, prepare to cry yourself a river that will make the Ama- zon look like a muddy creek. Life is rough enough for the woman who marries in good faith and discovers that she has drawn e guy with alley-cat tendencies. e woman who would agree in advance to tole- rate such antics is clearly out of her mind. Dear Ann Lamers: Recently you told some teen-agers whose foreign-born parents insist that they speak a foreign language at home, "By all means do it. ANN LANDERS Beware Husband - to - be With Alley - Cat Ways a steady churchgoer before he became an invalid and he asked to be buried from his church. We asked a young pastor whon. we know socially to con- duct the services. We are not close friends but we have enter- tained the pastor and his wife in our home along with other guests. The pastor gave a_ beautiful sermon and arranged for the burial. He really took a great burden off our hands and we want to show our appreciation. My husband says we should not insult him by offering cash. What do you say?--Undecided Dear Undecided: If you hus- band feels that cash is indeli- cate, tell him to send a check. The pastor won't be insulted. People sometimes forget that those who do the Lord's work have bills to pay -- just like everybody else down here. CHILD GUIDANCE By Garry Cleveland Myers, PhD I have a vivid memory of when, as a young graduate etu- dent, I was eating lunch at a table next to the table where professors' John Dewey and Wil- liam Montague sat. I discovered they were arguing over some philosophical ideas. But what strongly impressed me was that neither one of raised his voice or evinced any anger. They disagreed without any heat. I remember saying to myself, "How wonderful if all of us could argue in such a calm'and gracious manner. I wish I might emulate these two great men when I disagree and argue with anyone."" However hard I have tried I have not always seen this wish fulfilled. Isn't this a goal we parents should keep striving to attain? See then the good effect our example might have on our children and other persons, Quite early, the youngster ob- serves that we parents may dis- agree. We will disagree, how- ever little, over what he may > Every Adult Should Strive To Keep Calm When Arguing do or not do, what he must do or must not do, We may dis- agree about ever so many mat- ters not related to him. We may disagree about ideas related to a book or speech or program on TV, about religion, social or po- litical matters, especially when an election is approach- ing. It's when one of us parents rebukes the other parent over guiding or disciplining the child that we may disagree with most heat and anger, and right in the child's presence. On such occasions the child may see the frequent and violent conflict be- tween us parents. He may hear our loud and high - pitched voices, sometimes ugly words. LIMIT DISAGREEMENTS However, some wise parents limit such disagreements to times of privacy when the youngster cannot see or hear them, These parents then may amaze themselves at how well they can control themselves when they silently disagree in the child's presence over his guidance. How much easier it 1s for the child of any age to mands by either parent when one in relation to him. How much harder when he sees them not only differing but do- ing 60 with anger at each other. No matter how skillful we parents are with the child, there may come times when he may get us into an argument with him over what we want him to do or not to do. When he does, his anger and ours may rise, his voice and ours soar in pitch and volume. In extreme in- stances we may be shouting and screaming at each other. Obviously, we should try hard never to argue with our child over matters of his obedience. If, occasionally, we should slip and fall into an argument with him, let us watch our voice and words. When our teen-age son or daughter and we start argu- ing about ideas, what an oppor- tunity we have to keep our voices down and to hold up our side without heat. It's hard to imagine any fam- ily of two or more growing children who won't do a great deal of quarreling. Their anger at each other rises then, so do their voices. Sometimes they may settle their own quarrel. But when we can no longer en- dure the wordy warfare, or see submit to forbiddings or com-|trying to place the blame. he sees them striving to be aS|keep them, for a considerable period, not! But why should we try to especially teen- agers, from arguing over ideas? Such experience may be -- valuable, particularly if eac one holds up his side well. Per- haps by good example and a few quiet suggestions we could lead them to practice arguing without anger, and to keep their voices down, These youngsters might profit by reading from Benjamin Franklin's autobiography where he tells how he learned/in his youth not to contradict other persons but to express his own ideas modestly. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Do we want our child to learn from us that money is the chief measure.of success? A. No; but they will if we believe it is and so talk and act that way. |! HABITAT WILL SPREAD VANCOUVER (CP)--A Van- couver architect predicts the Canadian landscape will be dot- ted with structures similar to the avant-garde Habitat 67 in 20 years time. Mrs. Cornelia Oberlander, a landscape archi- tect, said members of her pro- fession will see the obvious ad- vantages of Habitat-like struc- them approaching blows, we may be wise to separate them tures in preventing urban sprawl. r MORE LOW PRICES It's a great advant to be fluent in a second language. Practice, Practice. You'll be glad you did." You should have advised those teen-agers to urge their parents to speak English. Chances are the children are already fluent in a second lan- guage, and their parents could use the practice. As a school teacher in the New York public school system I can tell you it is impossible to repair the damage done by parents who insist that their children speak the mother tongue at home. I am now struggling with a student who says '"'Kveen Wictoria."" He also - gays "wheel chops" and "'east ' is east and vest is vest." An- : other boy in the same class tells * me he plays the "sexaphone." » In the past you have been big * enough to admit it when you are ( Sone 5 ae are en ee : Dear Miss: I am and I do. ' Your point is excellent and I - appreciate being hauled up * short. Thank you for writing. * Dear Ann Landers: My hus- " 'band and I moved to this rather » gmall city last year. We have " no religious affiliation and we » don't want any. Both my hus- " band and I have known s0 many pious hypcrites that we ' are. completely sour on the whole religious bit. Last week my husband's el- : @erly father who made his home ' with us passed away. He was THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA «~ FOR THURSDAY ' Maintain a down-to-earth atti- tude in all matters on Thurs- day. Stick to routine and don't undertake new enterprises or make long-range plans. If you do, you may be faced with some -- revisions next week. . FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Thursday is your birthday, you should find the next seven months marked by highly satis- factory progress where the at- tainment of worthwhile goals is concerned--both in occupational and financial matters. If you make the most of all opportuni- ties to advance these interests, you should find your affairs in a more than stable condition as of Jan. 1, when it would be wise to "take time out" on the mone- tary front in order to consoli- date gains, make new plans and prepare yourself for a further uptend along these lines begin- ming with the first of March, when you will enter another splendid four-month cycle for increasing assets. While the entire year should be a good one where job matters are concerned, your most out- standing periods for advance- ment--and corresponding rec- ognition--should occur in Sep- tember, November, December and next March. You who are "engaged in the artistic or scien- tific fields--and Gemini boasts a good year, with highly inspir- ing and productive periods indi- cated in early September, De- cember, next March and April. Both travel and social inter- ests should prove stimulating between now and mid-Septem- ber, in December, January and next April. Best periods for af- fairs of the heart: Between now and late September (a period all Geminians should enjoy); also in late October and next April. Don't take a possible sudden "romance" in mid - December too seriously, however. A child born on this day will be extremely sympathetic and generous toward loved ones; will be endowed with a fine mind and unusual versatility. HOUSEHOLD HINT A few drops of cologne in the rinse water when washing lingerie is the best way to be- gin your fragrance story. CHOICE... FOR THE BARBECUE CHICKEN Lean Meaty... Butt PORK CHOPS COLD CUTS RED BRAND, BONELESS SAVE 21c 4 i» 77° BLUE BONNET Wizard. Clear Plastic FOOD WRAP Seve 10c, Carnation Maple Leaf Brand .. . Tasty Assorted ROUND STEAK or ROAST SUPER SAVE QUALITY BREAD u. 69 1-48. PKG. 79° Compare 75¢ KRAFT -- 16-oz. Jar MARGARINE | CHEEZ WHIZ | Salad Dressing 3 x: 89° 200 rr. 49° Round Steak SPROULE'S Beef is Red Brand. 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