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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, June 5, 1967 'Dear Ann Landers: I suppose I.should be happy my husband 4g not a slob, but I'm beginning to think the other extreme is just as bad. Here is a sample of what goes on in our house before we leave for an evening, and it is driving me crazy. He says, "Do I look 0.K.?" I say, "Yes. You look fine, dear."" He says, "Is this tie right with this shirt?" I say, "Honey, your tie is perfect." He says, "Are you sure my pants aren't too long?" I say, "No, dear, your pants are just right." He says, "Did I get a haircut this time or did e barber take too much off oer the ears?" I say, 'Your Haircut is beautiful, dear." 'Just as we get out the door he'll say, "Is this jacket right with these trousers or should I go back and put on my herring- bone?" I say, "'Your jacket is perfect, dear." When we get in the car he says, "'Do you think }F should have put on my brown shoes?" I say, "These shoes are fine, dear." 'Then when I ask, "How do you think I look tonight?" he answers, "'Why must you al- Ways fish for compliments? I'm getting awfully tired build- ing you up." What can I do with a guy like this?--M.I. Dear M.1.: Nothing, so don't try. A man who is so unsure 6f himself is not going to give his wife much bolstering. So just continue to prop him up and feed his vanity because he gure does need it, Lady. * Dear Ann Landers: If you do ANN LANDERS Insecure Husband Depends On Wife put the spotlight on mental illness deserves a medal. I was deeply moved by the letter from the young woman whose mother - in-law accused her of using her "nerves" as an excuse to avoid responsibil- ity. I'm an older woman who must work to support myself. I am the victim of "nerves" or mental illness--or I am just plain nuts, whatever anybody wants to call it. My children think I am fak- ing and feeling sorry for my- self. They are tired of me, but a|they are not half as tired as I am--of myself. At times I wish I could just die and get out of their way, but I keep hoping tomorrow will be better. Mental illness is impossible to describe to a person who has good mental health. It's like trying to describe hell. It's un- real. It's a million miles from nowhere. It has no beginning and no end. Please tell your readers who can live reasonably normal lives, free of horrible depres- sions and agonizing fears, that they should thank God for every} : day. They are truly blessed.--} { STILL FIGHTING ; Dear Fighting: I have had dozens of letters today from! © people who share your prob-| : lem. Your letter said it best,| j however. Chin up, and thank] : you for writing. i Condidential to Meant Well: If a vicious remark like that is your idea of "meaning, well," |. what's your idea of a Stab in OGH TECHNICIANS the back? You sound like a woman who has an instinct for the jugular. You owe her an not accomplish another thing im your life, the way you have apology and if she accepts it consider yourself lucky. KNIT TANK SHIFT Many, many Boutiques are anticipated to be fran- chised throughout the United States. All the boutiques will , feature swinging but not "kooky" fashions. This bright green double knit tank shift, one of many dis- tinctive designs is repre- sentative of the fashions to be carried. Short and sleeveless, with an optional belt, it has "'the look to go with the action" and fea- tures an Op Art button which, it is reported, says "I love you" in moon talk. Priced at about $12, it is also available at speciality and department stores. --By Tracy Adrian THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA Tuesday's planetary in- Tluences suggest that you, out- line, and follow, a_ realistic schedule--one which is neither unreasonable nor overtaxing. 'Finish necessary tasks as early vas possible so as to have some jtime for relaxation. Outdoor in- jterests especially favored. 'FOR THE BIRTHDAY i If Tuesday is your birthday, jyour horoscope indicates that, {during the next 12 months, your finterests should be focussed Hlargely upon matters connected ywith your occupation and the * stabilization of a sound financial 'program. The period between will enter another exceptionally good 4-month cycle for advan- cing monetary interests. Best periods for making job head- way: September, Novem- ber, December and next March. Those in creative fields should make unusual strides during the next year, with grat- For the first time gradu- ates. of the schools of radio- logy and laboratory techno- logy of Oshawa General Hospital received their dip- lomas at the graduating exercises for the School of Nursing on Friday night. In the upper picture, graduate radiological technicians, left to right, are Brenda Glover, New- market; Marilyn Fisk, Pontypool; Cheryl Laxdal, GRADUATE WITH SCHOOL OF NURSING Oshawa, and Lorraine Ther- jault, Sturgeon Falls. In the lower picture, tory technicians are Chery! the labora- Metcalf, Nestleton; Blain, Port Perry; Irene Aloma CHILD GUIDANCE Teens, School By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD dren you hear about or read dren under 5 or 6. But there are many eating problems children of elementary school age, and some with teen-agers. Many a child who is finicky over food and refuses to eat nutritious foods was an eating problem earlier, say, when only 3 or 4. He may grow up avoid- ing certain essential foods. Not choosing to eat of a bal- anced diet, the youngster often makes mealtime unpleasant for the whole family. Think of all the unhappy scenes around the family table over getting a child there to eat. Most mothers know what a well-balanced meal for the fam- ily is. She may prepare the meal well. But when a child re- Form Poor Food Habits preparing Most eating problems of chil-}which she can include in dis- about relate to babies and chil-|been refusing. Or the child him- with|out by going to the kitchen Youths certain dishes in guise a food item the child had self may discover a happy way and getting one or more foods there. With several finicky eat- ers in the family there then may be more and more confus- ing activities. A mother, in desperation over the youngster, may serve on his heaping plate the foods . she thinks he should eat and tell him he can't leave the table till he has a clean plate. So this child may still be sitting at the table for 20 minutes or an hour -- the rest of the family have eft. True a clean plate may be a desirable objective, but to re- to-taste an unfamiliar food, you might persuade him to take merely a tiny taste, though a) teaspoonful might seem hope: | less to him. Let us always assume the child does the eating and eats when he is hungry. Beginning in his early years at the dinner table, aim to get him hungry. Instead of trying to force cer- tain foods into him, find ways to keep away from him certain other foods he eats excessively. Let him always choose but limit his choices, sometimes between what is offered and nothing. Whatever the age of the child or children set as your general aim that mealtime is going to a happy time, and that eating will be enjoyable. Resolve to avoid nagging about eating. Say nothing about it at all. Be sure both parents aim to set a good example with no food dislikes. Certainly any parent can learn to eat practically any foods if he disciplines himself or herself to do so. fuses to eat of all or any of the food she prepares for the fam- ily, she and other persons there may be annoyed. Usually, the mother keeps commanding the youngster who shies away from certain foods to eat them or more of them, expecting him to obey as if she had told him to wash his hands before coming to the table. A mother may often engage in a whining m about table till he has eaten all the food on it rarely works well. If this objective has already been announced, it is better to let the youngster say how much of each food he wishes to be served him, or to let him serve himself. Suppose he takes little or none of certain essential foods then. Why not let him/ that he might take as| little as he likes so long as it is visible. If he hesitates even quire a child to stay at the| EDGAR'S DECOR CENTRE 34 KING ST. W. @ Color Unlimited @ Decoration to Fit | YOUR BUDGET See Us For Paint & Wallpaper Phone 7287351 Roelans, Oshawa, aod Lynda Hartman, Whitby. Oshawa Times Photo SUMMER CLASSES The Summer School Program at the OSHAWA BUSINESS COLLEGE to July 15th, if space available. Class Hours -- 9:00 to 1:00 P.M. for full day session or 9:00 to 11:00 A.M. and 11:00 A.M. to 1:00 P.M. for half day sessions. Choice of subjects and sched- ules. 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