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10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, Mey 9, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: Get outjals, I've been the stepchild of ANN LANDERS Children Should Not Go To Funeral Parlor the wet noodle. You've goofed|the industry. So hello again. Dear Ann in. You said young children uid not be taken to funerais|band and I were invited to his amd then you printed a letter|sister's home for dinner several from a woman who was upset|days ago. About half an hour because her husband's funeral/before we were to leave, she wis marred by roughneck kids|telephoned and asked if we running up and down the aisle|would stop at the drug store in*the chapel, falling over the/and pick up a bottle of soda. baskets of flowers and fighting|Of course I said 0.K. at the foot of the casket. Two weeks have passed. We Some children should not be|have seen my sister-in-law and taken to a skunk rassle much/her husband twice since that : My hus- less a funeral, but this is be-|night and not one word has been|--e cause their parents never taught|mentioned about the bottle of them how to behave. We took/soda. She hasn't even returned our children, 3, 4 and 6 years the empty bottle so I can get of age, to my mother's funeral,|my nickel rebate. and there wasn't a peep out of} I wrote you about this last any of them. Our kids can be depended on to behave well at all times because that's the way we raised them.--A Proud Papa Dear Proud: Congratulations, pa. You do have a point. And now, we shall hear from an undertaker who lives in Bay City, Mich, Dear Ann Landers: I read with interest a recent letter about young children being brought to funerals. Perhaps you would like to know the gen- eral feeling of funeral home em- ployees. We do not like to have clfl- dren under eight years of age come to the funeral home. In- variably, they cause a disturb- ance at a time when peace and quiet are of the utmost impor- tance. Young children do not understand what is going on. It is natural for them to be inquisi- tive, but their shouting of ques- tions and climbing on the cask- ets in the selection room are hard on the bereaved. We ask parents to discipline their children until we are blue in the face, but it goes in one ear and out the other. I hope the millions of people who read your column will take note of this and learn from it. You would earn the grateful thanks of every undertaker in the coun- try.--W.M.H, Dear W.M.H.: Here's the let- ter and I hope it helps. And it is nice for me to get a smile from the members of your pro- fession, for a change. Ever since I put the knock on going into hock for expensive funer- THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR WEDNESDAY Tuesday's planetary afflic- tions lift now and you should have an all-around good day. Along material lines, financial transactions should go well; also dealings with superiors-- are seeking tivities take on new bloom in the Jate p.m., which should make up for any disappoint- ments you may have had on Tuesday, FOR THE BIRTHDAY If Wednesday is your birth- day, your horoscope promises a highly interesting year, Career advancement, business expan- sion and financial gain are indi- cated for all Taureans within the next 12 months--not to a epectacular degree to be sure, but sufficiently satisfying for you to further step up efforts to reach desired goals. The first two weeks of August and the period between mid-September and mid - November, for in: monetary interests, early December, next February and March. It will be important, however, that you avoid spec- ulation throughout the year, but especially during the first two weeks of September. On the occupational score, look forward to some fine chances for advancement and Teg ition for past efforts-- notably in July, late September, early December, next January and February--but don't let the possibility of increased earnings during any one or all of these periods lead you into the pit- falls of extravagance. Along personal lines, your stars are more than generous. They highlight romance and stimulating social activities--es- pecally between now and Sept, 15 and between Nov, 15 and Jan. 1, and your life during those two periods may take on most glamorous overtones. Next good months for romance: April and . May of next year, If careful to avoid friction with members of the family in. mid - December and throughout next April, your domestic concerns run smoothly, A child born on this day will be" endowed with a fine mind and lofty ideals; will atively inclined, ENJOY THE BEST OF EVERYTHING y ° = $2 7. J 32 3. cil *s Bee zeae 'og be iJ g se J a is ree smily and gelts $32 = Kingsway P.0., Lake of Bays Tel. 705-635-2221 week but I didn't ask you to print the letter. I am asking now that you do so because I would like your advice on what to say to my petty sister-in-law. --Burning Burn: You have spent 16 cents on stamps, not to men- tion the time it took to write about a bottle of soda that couldn't have cost more than 25 cents in the first place. If you've nothing more serious to write to Ann Landers about, get on your knees and thank the good Lord for a charmed exist- ence! To Hold Seminar! On Family Life MONTREAL (CP)--The fam- ily unit, whose rapid post-war transition has been alternately described as breakdown and evolution, is the subject of in- tensive study at a forthcoming convention. The International Union of Family Organizations, in its 20th year of research into fam- ily problems, 'holds its first North American conference at Quebec City Aug. 27 to Sept. 2, to examine the social and eco- nomic issues facing the newly- created family in a changing world. Some of the aspects of family life to be discussed are: legis- lation relating to foundation of new families; such as the re- rocal duties of husband and fe; living standards and hous- and credit facilities, and the le played by new families in social, political and cultural life. Delegates are working on an- swers to such questions as: Do With gay colors and simple stitches you can eas- ily crochet attractive bath- room accessories for the bride. The bathroom bench BATHROOM BEAUTIES cover is crocheted in yellow and white stripes and covers a foam rubber pillow. The matching bath mat, scrap basket cover and toilet seat housing facilities are there for' new families? How well do new families integrate into the com- munity? Two Montreal men, insurance executive Jack Chivers, presi- dent of the union's Canadian branch, and Philippe Garigue, dean of the faculty of social sci- ences at the University of Mont- real, will be among the dele- gates, The study of new-4amily prob- husband and wife have similar rights and responsibilities? Do rights and customs of husband and wife differ from those of the past? Are special allow- lems began at the IUFO confer- ganizations do research on fam- ily problems on an international scale, and make known to the public what they find to be the rights, needs and. demands of the family. Organizations such as parent- teacher associations, welfare and marriage counselling serv- ices, 'educational and cultural organizations and family move- ments are involved, One notable member-organiz- ation is the Vanier Institute of ence in Rome in 1965 and will continue until 1969. The IUFO is a worldwide un- fon of family organizations hav- ances granted to young couples|ing the well-being of the family|the World. Congress for the in your country? What kind of|as a common interest. These or-!Family in Paris, 1947. the Family, established by the late Governor-General Georges Vanier and Mme. Vanier. The IUFO was established at OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE cover are crocheted in an interesting puff stitch pat- tern. Curtains and towels are bordered with scalloped edging that combines hair- pin lace and crochet, If you wish instructions, please send self-addressed, return envelope and ten cents to cover cost of handling to the Needlework Department of this newspaper asking for Leaflet No. C.S. 577. e|been printed elsewhere and CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD If you were an editor of a children's magazine as I have been for many years, and se- lected for publication stories and verses sent in by children, you would be distressed at the number of children who plagi- arize, who send in as their own what they had copied. Your dis- couragement would be highest if you failed to discover that the child had plagiarized and printed his offering over his name as his own. After it had appeared in print you would receive scores of let- ters from children telling you it was plagiarized and where they had read it and who' the real author was. In their letters, they might ask why you had not known it was plagiarized. A few would express belief that. you, as editor, tried on purpose to deceive them. When the name and address of the child is printed at the end of the stolen item, as is the custom of a children's mag- azine I know best, the offending child may receive scores of let- ters from other children scold- ing and shaming him. Their sense of rightness has been hurt, and you and I are glad it has been. , You also would be saddened over the number of children whose plagiarism: you discov- ered on time, discovered out of your memory or after searching many places to see if it had written by another person. DECEIVING OTHERS Many Children's Plagiarisms Dismays Magazine Editors from a dozen or more children Robert Louis Stevenson's The Cow with a note from his teacher or parent saying it was the child's own--sometimes with the added statement, 'Isn't it a. remarkable creation!' We can't be sure the parent or teacher tried to help the child deceive. She may never have heard or read that poem herself, or taken the trouble to ascertain its val- idity. We parents and teachers surely want to encourage chil- dren to write creatively. Other children like to read their cre- ations, Many teachers wisely spend periods with elementary school children stimulating them in creative writing. When a child writes some- thing in class the teacher nat- urally supposes it must be this child's very own. Yet this child may have read or heard a story or poem somewhere and re- membered it and liked it so much as to believe it is his own. At best, we can't always he sure, One editor hit on the idea of having the child enclose a note from his parent or teacher with the assurance that the child had never read, heard or seen thé story or poem elsewhere. Even this precaution does not always work, Here I would like to urge teachers to remind children often of the nature and serious- ness of plagiarism. At home and at school, let us exercise the child in remember- ing the titles and authors, of what we read to him and what You would be discouraged that so many children have not learned that what a person has really written and published is precious to him, that so many children have failed to learn that when they copy and send to an editor as their own what somebody else had written they are stealing. Besides they are deceiving all who might read what they copied. : If you were an editor you might, as most editors do, re- quire the child submitting a story or poem as his own, to enclose a note from his teacher or parent stating it was the child's very own. But the per- son writing his note may r\t care or really know. 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