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14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, Mey 8, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band is a fairly dignified man. He: has a good sense of humor but his tastes are quite elegant. His secretary is a raucous, earthy type who has a voice like a hog-caller and she considers herself a comedian. This woman is forever think- ing up gags which are childish and lowbrow. At Christmas time, she showed up in a Santa Claus suit (beard and all) and romped around the office sing-| ing Christmas carols, For Val- entine's Day, she wrote a poem for my husband--42 verses on toilet paper, which she strung around his office, For St. Pat's Day, the idiot sent him a rock through the mail. It must have weighed 20 'pounds, To the rock, she at- tached a card saying, "This is the blarney stone, but don't kiss it. Kiss me instead." My husband is fed up with her nonsense but he doesn't want to hur* her feelings so he pretends to be amused. I feel this is a mistake. What is your opinion?--P. L. J. Dear P. L. J.: So long as he pretends to be amused she will continue to do nutty things. Your husband should tell the woman "no more gags." And let's hope he tells her soon or she may decide to blow up the office for the Fourth of July. Dear Ann Landers: I am sick and tired of. reading letters in your column from teen-agers who feel abused because they have to do some housework and ironing. They all act as if they are being exploited as slave la- bor. Please let me have a few lines of type to talk to these ANN LANDERS Prankster Secretary Disrupt Boss' Day a Work Nut, but then he's mar- ried to one, too, so I am not complaining, when the trouble began. My husband said he wasn't going to stand for my laziness and I'd better start to keep house or he was leaving. Ann, I wasn't lazy; I was ignorant. In a frantic effort to save my marriage, I called his mother, not mine, I asked her to please come over and teach me how to keep house, She was shocked at what I didn't know but, God bless her, she did teach me. So do yourselves a favor, girls, learn when you are 11 and 12. It's 10 times easier when you are young and single. -- Janie Come Lately Dear Janie: Many thanks for your testimonial. And I hope is one of your own talking. Dear Ann Landers: When are the wives in this country going to wake up to the fact that all men are a little nuts in one way or another? It's part of a man's nature. I refer to the wife who com- plained about her husband who is a TV Sports Nut. Would she rather have a Whiskey Nut or a Race Trace Track Nut or a Pin Ball Nut? Or perhaps she would prefer a Ham Radio Nut or a Gin Rummy Nut or a Mo- torcycle Nut. So long as a man isn't a Girlie Nut a wife should keep still. Please, Ann, tell the complaining women who write you pay attention, students, This) ~ - |will be neglected when Mama dress; a frame of mind. Now it's the name of a new line of sunglasses. Taking their cue from the Pop, Op, dots, checks and zigzags now in fashion, the new Mad Mod Moods are seen here in dramatic black and white zebra stripes. Mod has. also come to mean "'mini."' Mini skirts, pants suits and even swinging fringed handbags are part of today's young wardrobe, So, for casual, warm weather dress, our GLASSES AND SANDALS "Mad Mod Mood" is a look; a free, casual way of model wears mini-culottes and to complement them, she chose smart, comfort- able thonged sandals. The combination of sunglasses and sandals play the casual tune here.. By Tracy Adrian _|IMPRESSION OF NEED _|though many psychiatrists and 'lexperienced New York City forum, co-spon- sored by a temporary employ- children ment company and a women's magazine, that working mothers develop this. anxiety because they are often under the impre: sion that their children n them constantly. flame and adds fuel to feminine worry, he added, is pretty much a product of modern society. Don't Worry About Your Children '|If Shifting From Dustpan To Desk By ROBERTA ROESCH Mothers who long for outside work for any number of reasons are often unfair to themselves if they believe their children takes a job. But this belief is familiar to would-be working mothers, even working mothers say this view is unnecessary and often has no basis. Dr. Bruno Bettelheim, a psy- chiatrist, educator and author, recently told an audience at a Actually, this, is not so, said r, Bettelheim. 'The attitude that fans this they were home all the time, mothers couldn't be with their children all the time because of their involvements with making bread and soap, wea' cloth- ing and contributing in that manner to the economic sur- vival of their homes. Today many modern mothers are contril in another way to the economic survival of their homes. And many of them are women who have found that children are not neglected when Mother goes to work, ONE WOMAN'S DISCOVERY "In fact, I've found that little bit of the brand of neglect sometimes get under that situation is healthy ne- glect,"" says one mother of four who works in an office six hours a day. "When you're not on call as Mother full time, you make peond moments as Mom really "When I was home seven days a week, I worked' so hard at bei a mother and over- extended myself so much, that the time and take care of all of their needs, I made myself believe that no one else could clean rooms, wash and iron their clothes, cook their meals and watch over them nearly so well as I, I nearly drove them out of their minds cleaning up after them, as I worked for them and monitored them every minute of the day. "Now that financial pressure has forced me to take a job, I've found that all of these things can get done in half the time they once took. PROPER BALANCE "I've also found the right balance between over-extending myself for my children and un- der-extending my time spent with them, so these days we're &/all much happier because work- ing has taught me to use my home time for maternal values that count." EDGAR'S DEOOR CENTRE 34 KING ST. W. @ Color Unlimited @ Decoration to Fit GLANZER CABINETS about such things to find a fd quality custom bi tore fi indus- hobby and shut up. By the way, Ann, what kind of a nut are you marréed to? Let us in on it--Nosey Rosie Dear Rosie: I am married to kids, I know because I've been there, My mother thought it was mean to make children work. I was 14 before I had made a bed or washed a dish. Then it was at camp, no' at home that I had to do these things. I hated it. KITCHEN CHAIRS RE-COVERED Complete nate of Materials m $4.50 Oshawa sisting Co. THE 1967 STYLES IN SPORTSWEAR @ 'Sabre' Slims @ 'Sabre' Shorts @ 'Cole' Swim Suits Now on Display WARD'S Simcoe St. at Athol Quality Since 1919 725-1151 trial pelle kitchens, vanities and hardwood furniture. Free Estimates -- Prompt Service All Work Guaranteed 576-2980 345 FRENCH ST. OSHAWA I married at 18 and that's LITZ POULTRY... Offering to Y GRADED CHICKENS Pecked in =~ also | Our Centennial Project Grown and Raised on Our Own Farms ! 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UNTIL 9:00 P.M, At the Ma the Catholic ' gue of St. | People Parish ly, the Revere nac installed ; At the ' Ball, Friday Carousel Int line. poses w honor, Miss Kozub, this my," daugh FORTHCOMI Mr, and Mr Oshawa, wish forthcoming 0 ' daughter, Fer ) cis Leslie C Mrs. F. A. ' and the late | ceremony is | urday, June o'clock noon ¢ great Roman Oshawa. FORTHCOM Mr. and M Isaac, Oshaw nounce the riage of thei Patricia, to R man, son of bert G. Plown wedding will ruday, June p.m. in St. ¢ Church, Angi ba Beat Saas