SOCIAL NOTICE FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. Robert John Nash wish to announce the forthcoming marriage of their only daughter, Judith Ann to 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdoy, May 2, 1967 ANN LANDERS Don't Go Out On Limb And Saw. Yourself' Off Occasion Marks Golden Wedding] THE STARS SAY lity "during the test two By ESTRELLITA weeks of September. For Mr. And Mrs. Harry Reddick' ror wepxespay f "concemed, both. romance are concerned, both romance Planetary influences. promise | and social activities will be gov- Those pouring tea were: four|@ Step-up in activities on Wed-|erned by exceptionally good in- Jarvis street, were honored at alnieces, Mrs. Ray Collins, Mrs.|nesday--especially in occupa-/fluences -- particularly between Tapiex Harold "Phere: Gon "of reception held at Adelaide|Gerrard Coulter, Mrs. Ross|tional and financial matters.|now and Sept. 15, and between Mc's aah Mie William 8 . House, on the occasion of their|Collins, and Mrs. Ernest Cowle,|Make the best use of this help)mid - November and Jan. 1.jyoe on "or Oshawa. ", 50th wedding anniversary. assisted by Mrs. Douglas Hough|in trying to further worthwhile/Other propitious months for) aa 'win take place Satur. Mrs. Reddick, the former|and Miss Jill Pritchard. aims--particularly between 11|sentimental interests: Next day, June 17, 1967 at 3.00 p.m Margaret Collins, was born at| A toast was proposed by the| 11 a.m. and 6 p.m. Aspects later| April and May. Just one admon- in Albert Street United Church. Tweed, Ontario and Mr. Red-|Reverend Phillip Fiess of Grace|in the evening will favor ro-jition, however: Don't let your)!" ¢ ' dick was born at Rossmore,|Lutheran Church and the Rev-|Mance and social activities. occasional tendency toward un- Prince Edward County. Theyjerend Henry Fischer of Faith| ror THE BIRTHDAY reasonable obstinacy bring un- HOUSEHOLD HINT were united in marriage at|Lutheran Church responded. If Wednesday is your birth- Lesage? ge oak : agg If you pink the edges of iron- Trenton on April 25, 1917 with! Greetings were received from|day, your horoscope indicates ight|on patches and tape before ap- the Reverend J. J. Mellor offi-\the Prime Minister, the Right|that the next 12 months could on geo ye nd ge eer |plying, they'll stay on longer. ciating. They have one daugh-/Honorable Lester B. Pearson; |prove highly constructive where|"?. "iu You | : ter, Lois, Mrs, Frederick Van|the Leader of the Opposition,|both material and personal in-| A child born on this day will | -- ros} orga and two grand-|the Right Honorable John Dief-|terests are concerned, Job and|be extremely artistic in his lean- Mr. and Mrs. Harry Reddick, Dear Ann Landers: Last sum-jsive habit. I withdraw all mer our daughter started to|threats, however, and I leave smoke at 16. I hated to see that|the decision up to you." lovely girl with a cigaret in her mouth and I told her so. She} Dear Ann Landers: I was ignored my request that she/amused by your reply to the Stop. I decided to take away|modest woman who objected to ( her allowance and I did. She/saleswomen intruding when she ENJOY THE BEST 'later convinced me that she|was stripped down to the alto- meeded money for necessities, so I restored part of her allow-/|brassieres. ance. Finally I told her if she didn® stop smoking I would give her only one year of college. She|38 girdle. continued to smoke. Last week I announced, "Either quit smok- ing or you will get no college." and now I must make good my threat. The girl is bright and tal- ented. I am working full time to send our older daughter to col- lege and would have to continue to work to send this one. Their father never made enough money for extras. I say if smoking is more im- portant to this girl than college, I am a fool to work to put her through. What do you say?-- Heartsick Mother Dear Mother: In an attempt to win this battle you have gone out on a limb and sawed your- self off. Moreover, you have violated two cardinal rules for raising children: (1) Don't promise or threaten that which you don't mean to deliver; (2) Make sure the punishment fits My cross was bathing suits. their figures. Many women needed my help to get into those swim suits because they insisted on buying suits which were two sizes too small. I often wondered who stuffed them in after they left the store. Why didn't you suggest the most obvious solution to the problem, Ann? If a customer told me she didn't need help I did not try to help her. I merely wrote up the sale when she came out of the fitting room and handed me the garments, --No Barger Inner Dear No Barger: Some of us fail to see a solution because it is so obvious. Thank you for pointing out something which I should have seen myself. gether trying on girdles and You were right when you said it was awfully hard work for a saleswoman to stuff a 44 backside into a size No sylph myself, I was overly sympathetic to my heftier cus- Yesterday I caught her smoking|tomers. But I was astonished at how unrealistic they were about Mr. Reddick was an employ- ee of General Motors for 41 years until the time of his/Robarts retirement in 1962. Both Mr. + and Mrs, Reddick attend Grace + Lutheran Church. Mrs. Reddick received, wear- ing a blue crepe, lace-trimmed dress with a corsage of yellow rosebuds and gold ribbon, a gift from two grand-nieces, Assist- her daughter, Mrs. Van Luven and her granddaughter, Miss Vic- toria Van Luven, kept the guest The table, graced with a lace cloth, was centred with a three- 5 i tiered anniversary cake, deco-|Mackin. An anniversary greet- rated with gold leaves and wed-|ing and welcome message to ding bells and flanked by gold the guests taped earlier was arrange-|Played during the evening. roses, | Out-of-town gold chrysanthemums, carna-| tions, and snapdragons. greetings. Among the many gifts re ceived was a sum of mone. from the nieces and nephews and several floral arrange- ments. A set of outdoor furni- ture was the gift of their son- in-law and daughter. The grand- children presented them with their photographs in a double gold frame. Music was supplied by Frank guests included Mrs. Robert Morley and daugh- \ter Judy of Hamilton, Ontario. enbaker; the Honorable Michael| (or) business goals which youlings but, as rarely happens in Starr; the Prime Minister of Ontario, the Honorable John and A. V. Walker, MLA, Aldermen Alice Reardon and Russell Mc Neil brought may have hitherto considered unattainable could well be achieved before year's end--if you capitalize on the Taurean's innate business sense and shrewdness in grasping oppor- tunities. Do not overtax your- self, however -- especially in mid-December and next April. Best periods for 'advancement and recognition along the afore- mentioned lines: July, Septem- ber, early December, next Jan- uary and February. Those. en- gaged in the artistic professions --and Taurus boasts many of these--can add this June to the list of excellent months for at- tainment. such cases, will also be un- usually shrewd in business matters. BABY TEETH Monkeys, like human beings, have two sets of teeth during their lifetime. EXPERT RE-FINISHING On all Types of Furniture French Polishing - Restoration of Antiques §) Oshawa Upholstering Co. 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With that decision, Ginia touch. mapped out an itinerary of This is advice that is worth|where she wanted to go. She heeding. It is also the practical|Sent letters proposing the tour approach that is working for|to the U.S. senator from her Ginia Davis, the successful folk-|State, as well as to other people singing daughter of society|Who might help her make ar.) maestro, Meyer Davis. ye onigne 'i | 1 accomplished musician in|, "When the trip was set up, 1| Lucrative Ready we to gd Wear Mart Haglan att, Ginia gives con-|had the opportunity to sing for certs in 25 languages and ac- school children in such places PARIS (AP) -- The Paris|many--'"glad to buy fashion|companies herself on the drum|@S Mali, Kabul and Hiroshima," ready-to-wear fashion season is|where we can find it," as onejand guitar. In the process of she said. I also gave concerts winding up, with increasing in-|U.S. buyer put it. building her career, she has|in the University of Ibadan, free , ; i Haile Selassie University, the dications that French designers] Michel Goma, Patou's de-|travelled to many countries col-|Haile Si Ys are cutting themselves well into| signer, said one New York store|lecting and singing songs. University of Teheran and the ' the off-the-rack business. , |bought three-quarters of his col-| Just before I met her, for ex- Palvernty of Delhi, | And See The Stick To Them Time was when Paris couturi-|jection. ample; she had been on a| "J suppose, looking back- -- 4 ers did the designing and .|len tour in which she gave|ward, that the beginning of m: watched the American ready-to- The success of French ready ag By GARRY C. MYERS appreciation for t! the crime. Confidential to Can't Believe Unfortunately, your daughter|It: Why are you surprised? It is using cigarets as an expres-|is no secret that many people sion of rebellion--a symbol ofj|live a lifetime together, and her independence. But youleven raise families, but they won't solve that problem by|never communicate in any -- Seaver her an oo Go to pense ar: F sense. Their lives . re is er and say: "I am opposed to|run parallel but nevej meet at b F hi D Se k your smoking because it is dam-/a given point. This is the type ars as. on esigners e aging to your health, it is alof relationship you had with dirty habit and it is an expen-|your husband. | DERI ORE IDE MARRIED FIFTY YEARS --Oshawa Times Photo BARBARA'S BEAUTY SALON {0th Anniversary 25% OFF All Cold Wav -- TT IT'S A COLOR TELEVISION FROM CHERNEY'S over 90 concerts in 12 coun.|Ccareer started in my childho are about to get into the car, helwear trade move in to take| rem Wire, iaraly threaten}. lin Very early we can let thejcomes running and wants to go|much of the profit. fection tthe i 'Phat tour was sponsored child make choices. At 3, 4 or 5|with you. Now Paris is turning out S may become smaller as THE 1967 STYLES in? he may need to have several As a rule, when your young- garments or portions of clothes|ster expresses a choice as in ready in the morning for the|the foregoing, hold him to his day. Suppose he often were al-|choice. Otherwise he may de- lowed to choose. Certainly after|velop all sorts of whims. Be- mass-produced clothes that are swinging, young, snappy and gay. Designers have mastered production techniques, sizing, quantities and price for every the elite clientele has dwindled, |jointly by the United States In- but the high fashion houses will|formation Service, the armed keep up their facade. Pierre|forces and the individual gov- Cardin explained: '"Creation|ermments of the countries I vis- should not be. confused withjited," Ginia said. dressmaking. And mass produc-| The trip got its start, she said, SPORTSWEAR @ 'Sabre' Slims @ 'Sabre' Shorts he enters school there will be|sides, having often shifted his i , mnie P : opportunities to let him choose|choices in his earlier years he vg rage at og ge deter-|10" again is quite a different/when she made up her mind among several items of clothes}may later, even as an adult,|mined to cash in on their own|'ins: That's an industry. that she would like to travel to he will wear on any day. have a hard time sticking to/ideas and not just sit and watch| Ready-to-wear week in Paris|parts of the world where she : When the child goes shopping|his hoices. You know the adult] others exploit them. is now an established biennial had os hae Ad ahs ane with you to buy clothes for him|who is often exchanging gar-| "This has gone on long|¢vent. Figures soar annually.|N@d nev ; and you select several items/ments he or she has bought orlenough," one prominent de-|The 10-year-old industry ofjalysed how she could do this, Quality Since 1919 you would approve, see thejoften fretting over earlier/signer said. "A trend-setting|French feminine apparel en-|she came to the conclusion that 725-1151 richness of experience he may|choices or decisions, new idea that lasts six months|Compasses 1,500 firms employ-|singing could be the passport : | have at choosing one from that could take her on the trip | @ 'Cole' Swim Suits Now on Display WARD"S Simcoe St. at Athol BLECTROHOME COLOR TV ZELLERS among them. SHOPPING CHOICES You may know the wise mother who goes to a certain étore and picks out an array of garments within reasonable standards of price, fabric and style and lets her son or daugh- ter, 10 to 15, go alone to make the purchase, choosing from among the approved items. There comes times when the| young or older child may be allowed to choose from among foods offered him. But as I Have often pointed out in this col- umn, all sort of eating prob- lems may arise when he is free to choose among foods. He may make of himself a nuisance to his mother and fail often to choose nutritious foods. For the average child a more promising rule is to let him choose between the particular food or foods offered him and nothing. Even then he makes a choice. Yes, let your child choose what he will eat but limit his choices. KEEPING TO DECISION Suppose your child 3 or 5 asks for jam and butter on bread and after you have it ready for -}acquire there a strong wish to MEANING OF NO When a tot is learning the meaning of No he chooses be- tween doing what he wants to do and discomfort he will surely get if he does it. If he is assigned to sit in a certain place unamused for a stated time, he chooses whether to Stay there till the time is up or to get down and face physical pain. If the pain then is always adequate and consistent he will choose as time goes on to serve the full time. Some children 8 to 12 who have music practice are able to choose between doing it faith- fully and promptly or to sit twice as long doing nothing. Some parents suppose that when they think a child néeds to be punished he should be al- lowed to choose the kind of punishment he is to get. This has never made much sense to me. PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q. With all the valuable ex- periences a youngster gets in industrialized as it reaches the street. The dollars and cents will reward the originator and Mademoiselle and Madame Toutlemonde--French for every- body--will get a chance to be really well dressed." PERFUME PAID OFF The sobering-up process has reached the haute couture de- signers, whose problems are serious. Mass production of their couturier-labelled models will give them a shot in the arm. : So far they have largely de- pended on their couturier per- fumes to meet their overhead. But Jacques Rouet of Dior has found that every accessory and fashion item can be copyrighted and sold under licence, tagged with "Dior" and the "Made in France" label. Best proof that French ready- to-wear has asserted itself is the interest foreign buyers are tak- ing. They're flocking in from every country, particularly Can- kindergarten, does he usually read, write and spell on enter- ing the first grade? A. It's doubtful if he does. should pay for itself by being|ing 50,000 workers. ada, the United States, and Ger- THERE GOES him he says he wants only jam on the bread; For always and always... \. your diamond from Birks. speaks the language of love... eloquently, truly, lasting!y. Come in and choose from the excitingly modern almost as breath-taking A Birks diamond ring Astral "67" series. 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