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12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondey, April 17, 1967 . Dear Ann Landers: I am mart- ried to a psychiatrist who is in many ways a fine man and a good father. Our problem is communication. He refuses to talk to me about our areas of disagreement, even though his basic professional tenets empha- size the need for communica- tion. When I ask him to tell me what is bothering him he'll say, "I don't care to discuss it." I have suggested that we see a marriage counselor together. He refuses on two grounds. First: "How would it look?" Second: "Marriage counsellors don't have the psychiatric or psychoanalytical training that I have. How can they help me?" I am no romantic. I realize that perfect communication be- tween two people is rare, but our relationship is on precari- ous ground because my hus- ANN LANDERS Refusal To Talk Irks Psychiatrist's Wife |your reading audience with per- obviously the one who is trou- bled. I suggest that you go to a counsellor alone. You need an outlet for your bottled frustra- |tions. Dear Ann Landers: I was in- terested in the letter from the girl who was left stranded and pregnant by the sailor who claimed he loved her until he found out she was in a family way. The sad victim suggested that every girl, before she con- sents to sleep with her boy friend, ask him to sign a paper saying he slept with her on such and such a night. Her opinion was that he would change his mind in a hurry. You requested the girls in sistent boy friends to try out the suggestion and let you know what happened. Well, I am a band will not talk to me about our problems. He doesn't admire many peo- ple, but he has often said he respects your common sense. Do you have some advice that) might help us both?--California| Cry For Help. Dear California: Another case where the shoemaker's kids are going barefoot. I have re- peatedly pointed out the differ- man who would like to tell you how it worked with me. For several months I tried, without success, to get my girl to sleep with me. She said un- less I signed a paper, there would be no sex. Reluctantly, I signed. It worked out great. We have been sleeping together for 14 years and have three divi- dends to prove it. The paper I signed was a marriage license. 5) t Okle ence between p g know- how and having the ability to apply it to one's own life. How many physicians do you know who are grossly over- weight--or smoking themselves to death--or drinking heavily? I know a bright insurance man whose home was vandalized re- cently, and he was not covered. Your husband is one of many who is unable to use what he knows, Since you wrote, you are Dear Okie: Stop congratulat- Take the matter in hand: Gloves, one of the most im- portant feminine accessory complements, have gone mini again for spring and summer: but not mod. They are assuming fresh looking and vastly interesting back ornamentation. Sparkling white shorties for summer DEFT HAND similar to the pair illus- trated here lead the way, the better to saucily accent brief little dresses and suits. This shortie has a delicate open work design across the back and comes in one-size washable stretch nylon to minimize the problem of fit. --By Tracy Acrian Deserted Wives (4! 67 1 es Seek New Deal Said another: "I think our| j\laws are rigged to help the men. | I think they encourage men to WINNIPEG (CP) -- Bitter|jeave families. If they skip out, | women, deserted by their hus-| bands and without adequate} funds, believe the cards are} stacked against them and their) children. That's the common thread woven through the stories told by a group of these women who joined forces in Winnipeg re- cently in a bid to get a better deal for themselves and their children, There were 35 of them --some members of the Minus One Club -- who spilled their troubles to a lawyer, a clergy- man and two social workers be- fore deciding to appeal to the legal aid committee of the Mani- toba Law Society. Said one: "I've been sepa- rated for 14 years and there's been a warrant out against my husband for 13 years for non- |proceedings. support. I went to court but he there's nothing you can do to| make them support you." | Kenneth Regier, a former Crown prosecutor, told them | they were justified in many of | their complaints but offered no solutions. Dr. Donald Macdonald, minis. | ter of Knox United Church, said | the group is preparing a brief | which is to be presented to the | political parties represented in the Manitoba legislature in a bid| to obtain justice. 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