cs) La BOO Ca PO HSL O8_ 2S 5 0 O_b Gn" eS 6_"O Hele _»O: CHILD GUIDANCE THE OSHAWA TIMES, 2]| Wednesday, April 12, 1967 Child's Disregard Of Instructions s«xise 1s execawr Canada's only bank exclus- ively for women, in Montreal, Is Worry To Teacher, Parents jhas wall-to-wall broadloom and By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Often in the middie elemen- tary grades the class or a por- tion of it will be set to do some brief simple written work. In some classes they are to fill in using words or answers in a workbook. Often the teacher is exasperated by the youngster who sits and daydreams _ in- stead of carrying out such in- structions or who does not read carefully the printed instruction in the workbook, but hastily writes in the blank spaces any words which come to his mind. Of course, if, on carefully checking, the teacher finds that this child does not hear or see well or has trouble with hand writing, she has no occasion to be annoyed at him but takes patient account of his handicap. Frequently the teacher discov- ers that the youngster does not have these difficulties, that he just does not listen to her in- structions or read carefully the printed instruction. It's this youngster who is trying to her, about whom she may complain to his parents. A mother writes from Ken- tucky of her son eight in the third grade: "He has a tendency to dis- regard instructions whether a home or school. He will com- plete a workbook page incor- rectly, even when he knows the answers. "Bill is an extremely sensi- tive boy, very loving toward his parents; he tolerates his younger brother and two sis- ters, but shies away from other adults, not kissing or hugging them unless reminded. He is ab- solutely crushed by correction-- verbal or physical--and bursts into tears. Bill is our eldest child and we have no signifi- cant problems with the other children." BUILD UP THE BOY My reply in part: Since Bill sees that the younger children rarely are re- buked but often approved, 'he feels no doubt that he does not stand as well in the family as they do, even though you may have pampered him. I hope you and Dad, your neighbors and relatives help to build up Bill to feel more worthwhile. I hope you parents and other relatives don't insist on_ his kissing you and the like. You do best for him as you show real interest in what he talks about and what he does and the questions he asks. It may be that he has trouble with thandwriting and doesn't always understand what the teacher expects him to do. You might practice him at home on following the kind of directions he would need to follow at school and see that he carries through: these directions. You even might obtain a workbook and guide him in its use. He should have a few regular jobs he can't escape. 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