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(0 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, April 10, 1967 L 1 WEDDING BELLS WILL RING SOON FOR THESE COUPLES WEDDING ALBUM A record for your Wedding Album is provided by The Oshasva Times Women's Page. Forms are available at The Oshawa Times office. Early publication of this wedding record is facilitated by submitting the completed form and a picture of the bride to the Women's Editor as soon as possible after the ceremony. You are asked to submit the names of out-of-town guests attending the wedding to the social editor either before or the day after the wedding. Dow - Milne The Reverend R. G. Brooks fficiated at the marriage of Willow Dorothy Elizabeth, Jaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Will- lam James Milne, Oshawa, to Floyd Harvey Dow, Barrie, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Kit- thener Dow, Cromarty, Ontario. : The ceremony took place at | Bt. Peter's Anglican Church } with the choir providing the wedding music accompanied by Harold Forsythe. i Given in marriage by her, father, the bride was wearing a self - made formal gown of * tmported French brocade, styl- ed with an empire bodice, square neckline, long sleeves slit at the wrists, a softly gath- ered skirt and enhanced by a train of French triveirra fall ; ing from the empire waistline. A double crystal headdress held her elbow - length veil of triple | silk tulle and she carried a boquet of white shasta daisies and yellow rosebuds. The maid of honor was Miss Betty Ann Poloz and the brides- k maids were Miss Christena © Wood, and Miss Janice Parfitt, both of Oshawa, and the bride- groom's sister, Miss Brenda Dow, Cromarty. The bridegroom's -- brother, Bruce Dow, Cromarty, was the best man and those ushering; As the couple left for a honey- were Lawrence Kennedy, North|moon to points north and east, Bay; the bride's twin brother,|the bride was wearing a two- Ian Milne, Oshawa: h neth Bingham, Mitchell, Ontario|accessories, for travelling. At the reception held at the; Mr. and Mrs. Dow will reside Grandview Golf Club, the bride |at 98 Codrintgon street, Barrie. | and bridegroom cut the cake| Out - of - town guests were| with a military sword, belong-|present from Willowdale, Ham- ing to the bride's father, whojilton, North Bay, Cromarty, was a former Regimental Ser-|Staffa, Stratford, Mitchell, Lon- geant Major of the Ontario Reg-|don, Whitby, Little Britain and iment. Bobcaygeon. % see es MRS. FLOYD DOW Ducharme - Cox In St. Gregory the Great! The matron of honor Roman Catholic Church, Lola!Mrs. Heinz Heyer, Oshawa, Irene, daughter of Mr. andjand the other attendants were Mrs. Allan Eugene Cox, was |Mrs. Paul Hannah, and Miss united in marriage to Joseph| Janet Jackson, both of Belle- Robert Valmore Ducharme, lville, and Mrs. Garry Pringle, son of Mr. and Mrs, Lawrence | Oshawa. Arthur Ducharme, all of] Miss Lola Deline, Oshawa. was the flower girl and Chris- The Reverend John Markle topher Cox, Oshawa, was the officiated, assisted by Joseph|ring bearer. Cox. Mrs. W. G. Kinsman was} Jonn Claude "Rouillard, 'To- the soloist accompanied by ronto, was the best man and "ia a meets Le her| those ushering were: Spence fatlet, the bride wore & for Fraser, Ottawa; Daniel inal gown of: lace appliqued | Ducharme and Allan Cox, both peau de soie, styled with|°! Oshawa. a fitted bodice, lily-point| Following the reception held sleeves and a full skirt en-|at the UAW Hall, Bond street, hanced by a self train attach-|the couple left for a honeymoon ed at the waist. Her headdress|in Niagara Falls, with the was a white peau de soie crown bride donning for travelling, a holding her mother's waist-|coat and dress ensemble of length veil of embroidered| jraspberry-colored wool with tulle appliqued with roses and) |navy blue accessories. she carried a bouquet of red} Mr. and Mrs. Ducharme are roses and white chrysanthe-|residing at 231 Mary street, mums, Oshawa. Belleville, Bamett - Levine In an evening ceremony injholding her shoulder-length veil Rew York City, Maureenjof tulle and she carried an Levine, daughter of Mrs. Peterjold-fashioned bouquet of white Levine, Oshawa, and the late|roses, carnations, lilies of the Mr. Levine, was united in mar-|valley and ivy. riage to Lester Barnett, son of) The matron of honor was the Mr. and Mrs. Irving Barnett,|bride's sister, Mrs. 'David Whitestone, New York. Rabbi| Rosenblum, New York City, Mashioff officiated, jand the best man was A. Given in marriage by her|Pursner, Brooklyn, New York. mother, and her brother-in-law,| Following the reception held David Rosenblum, the bridejat Arele's of Queen's, New wore a formal A-line gown oh tors City, the couple left for imported candlelight satin bro-ja honeymoon in Washington, cade with a jewel neckline,|/D.C. mini-sleeves and self- covered| Mr. and Mrs. Barnett are buttons accenting the bodice. | maki ing their home in Forest Her headdress was a self bow,|Hills, New York. SOCIAL NOTICES : ENGAGEMENT ; Mr. and Mrs. Dudley V. ? Bradd wish to announce the} engagement of their daughter, | Diane Jean, to Dennis Norman | Whalley, son of Mr. and Mrs.| : 44 Robert Whalley, all of Oshawa. ' i ei The wedding is to take place on} WIFE PRESERVER A potato masher makes a Saturday, May 20, 1967, at 3.00 p.m, at Grace Lutheran great plunger-agitator for hand laundry. Church, Oshawa. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE was| A JUNE 17th wedding is planned by Miss Helen Iso- belle Bremner and Ter- rence Lee Beauchamp, ac- cording to an announce- ment made today by the bride-elect's parents, Mr. and Mrs. John M. Brem- ner, Whitby. The prospec- tive bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Mondeau Beauchamp, Ajax. The ceremony is to take place at 3 o'clock in Whitby Baptist Church. ) CHILD GUIDANCE : Consistent Parents Easily Teach |: By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD For parents who are consist- ent with themselves and with each other it is relatively easy for them to train the tot two |to five in safety and in respect- jing no as final. It is relatively leasy to teach the tot to avoid) |certain known dangers on the |premises, even things to which he may be a nuisance. Such leffective teaching will require relatively little total discomfort and Ken.|piece red walking suit with black /or pain to the youngster, if the parent is consistent. But, being human, there are jnot many parents who are con- isistent. All of us parents are linconsistent to some degree and *jsome of us parents are so in- consistent as to get discourag- jing results in teaching the youngster to respect the little word no. Meanwhile, the child must constantly pay dividends in pain and punishment because of our inconsistencies. Consider the number of youngsters two to five who run into the perilous streets, tamper with the hazardous electric gadgets in the kitchen, or play |wi with the fire, in spite of fre- quent spankings or other kinds of discomfort. Some of these youngsters have been spanked more often than other young- sters who have been effectively trained to avoid such known specific dangers. Check on yourself, or observe another parent trying to teach a tot to avoid such hazards. Suppose you are trying to train him to keep out of the street. Suppose you have spanked him for stepping off the curb alone from the unfenced lawn. He may have run into the street several times before you spanked him once. SOUND SPANKING Or after he got spanked hard at one or two times as he did so, he may have gone there eight or 10 other times without getting spanked. You may have been near him then or you may have left him alone on the lawn a protection. After spanking him at one or two times when he stepped off the curb you may merely catch him and pull him back the next} several times. If you wish to teach your child to avoid the street, you must make sure that over a| period of several days or weeks | he always will get soundly spanked the moment he steps off the curb alone. It must be as certain as if when he stepped | down he got an electric shock. Now let no one begin to wire | the.curb; that might have fatal | consequences. The illustration | Nodal il named to demonstrate the | | Se desea ee We May Never Find A Cure For Poverty .but with prices and taxes going the way they are we sure have found a cure for wealth. 1 you are try- bog jing to quit smoking |but can't stand the Mr. and Mrs. Delbert V. Crowder wish to announce the| forthcoming marriage of their eldest daughter, Barbara Diane, to Grant Edward South- well, son of Mr. and Mrs. Eldon A. Southwell, all of Osh- awa. The wedding is to take Place Saturday, May 6, 1967 at 2.30 p.m. in Northminster | United Church. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs. John M. Brem- | ner, Whitby, wish to announce the forthcoming marriage of their only daughter, Helen Iso-| belle, to Terrence Lee Beau-| Mondeau "Beauchamp Asx CANADIAN Saturday, Suse 17. 1967 at 3.0 CANCER SOCIETY: p.m. in Whitby Baptist Church. Cancer Campaign BRUNO"S April 10th to 24th HOUSEHOLD HINT Enamel an piano stool to match your kitch- en. Use it for ironing and other |sit-down chores. 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It will be dependable, with no gates to be left open. Likewise in training the tot not to touch an_ electrical gadget, as mixer or meat grinder, there must be no ex- ceptions. As with teaching the child to avoid the street, don't explain. Give him safe physical pain the first time he touches| it, saying no in a normal tone} just once as you do. Be sure it hurts. You may need to bare his legs or thighs then and smack him with your bare flat! hand skin to skin. WATCH YOUR ACTIONS Do likewise every time there- after till he has learned to avoid yourself. You will be inclined to pull him away this time or just to shout at him, and to do so frequently. Every time you do this you lengthen the i time it will take him to lea to avoid the danger totally. Your child always has to pay for your inconsistencies. If you really are consistent with your- self and if your mate is con- fi sistent with you, you will | amazed at how well the young: | ster learns and at what little you will have made your prec- ious child more sure to keep whole and alive, ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q.--Whea I hear our two chil- dren, five and seven, quarrel- ling and go to find out who started the quarrel, each blames the other. What should I do? A.--Don't question them next time. Merely separate them for at least half an hour. COOK SLOWLY Side bacon may be cooked by pan frying, broiling or poner ied Whichever method you prefer, cook it slowly and drain it on absorbant paper before serv- ing. MISS BARBARA Diane Crowder and Grant. Ed- ward Southwell have chosen Saturday, May 6, as their wedding day, with the ceremony to be held in Northminster United Church at 2.30 p.m. The bride-to-be, the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Delbert V. Crowder, graduated as a registered nurse from the Peterborough Civic Hospi- tal, class of '66 and has remained on _ the _ staff there. Mr. Southwell, son of Mr. and Mrs. Eldon A. Southwell, graduated from the diploma course in rec- reation at the University of Guelph, class of '66 and is employed as an_ assistant director of recreation with _ the City of Oshawa. 'And Then Some' - Clue To Success By ROBERTA ROESCH When you would like to pro- gress from any old job to one that you would really like, take work with you everyday. This phrase, as you will soon discovér, expresses another way to achieve successful. Its value in this regard is revealed in Quote, a weekly digest of stories and quotations on every- thing from A to Z. While scanning the a dash of "'and then some" to} land responsibilities erly and |squarely--'and then some.' | "They were good friends to |their friends--'and then some. | "They could be counted on in then an emergency -- 'and 9 some MENTALLY RETAINED these 'and stuck in my mind. magazine, some's"' I have observed succeed in their jobs, who would like to progress bit more on the job than the S's for are doing now. Pick out the After I finished reading the then added 10 others of my own that repeatedly from reporting on people who Here they are for all workers |Success, I ran into the state-| ment of an executive who used ithe words "and then some" jexplain his whole career, "I discovered at an early |for your job--and then some. ie " he wrote, 'that most of} 2. Be persistent about putting the differences between averagejin a good day's work--and then jones which you know you are weak on and put strength be- tOlhind them to build them up. 1. Be punctual about arriving! B Trate Dear Readers: One of the un- alterable characteristics of hu- man nature is the inclination to express oneself against some- thing more often and more strongly than for something. The aginners in our society are infinitely more vocal (and bet- ter organized) than the "posi- tive thinkers." I recently printed a letter de- crying the easy availability of guns in this country and the need for some decent gun laws. I agreed with the writer and asked my readers to write to their senators and congressmen and state legislators. As a re- sult of that one letter, my mail has virtually tripled. The Na- tional Rifle Association boasts 800,000 members. I have the feeling that most of them must have written (at least once) to tell me to 'Get lost'--"Drop dead" -- "Go drown." There were numerous other sugges- tions--mostly unprintable. Here are some samples of what my week has been like: Dear Ann Landers: What are you, a Communist or some- »|thing? What do you mean by |trying to take guns away from the American people? Don't you know the Constitution of the United States gives us the right to bear arms? I'm going to write to my senator as you sug- gested, but it won't be about Ijgun laws. It will be a request that you be investigated for un- American activities -- Texas Citizen I replied to Texas citizen (and to 20,000 other citizens who a|made the same point) that the y|intent of the second amendment| ANN LANDERS Restrictions On Guns is theory and YI don't bny yours. Dear Ann: If people want to kill they will kill. If they don't gi a gun handy they will use a knife, or a letter opener, or Readers Debate ja silk stocking. The Boston |strangler used his hands. So jwhy don't you stick to love problems and stay out of things you don't know anything about? --Charlie Dear Charlie: Police officers |say guns are about eight times an organized militia. It doesn't}more likely to kill than other mean states and the federal|weapons. Of the 35 men who government can't have laws|have served as President of the strictly regulating the sale and|United States, one-fifth have registration of fire-arms. Many | been shot at, four were killed, states already have such Jaws|two were wounded and two (and less trouble). ;were missed. According to the. Here's another doll: FBI in 1965, 53 American Police Dear Ann Landers: Guns are |°fficers were murdered--52 by not dangerous. People who don' t|suns. know how to use guns are dan-| The most sensible and prac: gerous. What we need is proper|tical letter came from a teens instruction on the handling of age boy. I will publish his letter firearms. I am in favor of|tomorrow. § See _you here. school children being taught "| amin the classroom how to use a gun. | Children who grow up with guns | a LAD D E R IRRITAT and learn early how to handle | MAY DISTURB fey them intelligently will never linois like MA 21 twice as many women as Dear R.A.: You sound ade miserable by common urinary. that New England psychiatrist | fication caused by a germ, Escherichia Who was in favor of school kids | $s, susie ming ghaaiired tes es, Mus a learning how to drink liquor in| eaused by Kidney and Bladder irritations, kindergarten. His theory was | tY,teking 2 tie ore ee te ted @ glass of water mes that if kids became acquainted | days. CE oe a ueer en falaver foi n anaig: I god in life, yd] ore Sciatica Pains, Headache, wou now how to handle it Backache, and muscular pains, Gel later. Sorry, but I didn't buy! ° to the Constitution {s to give jeach state the right to maintain have a problem--R. 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