12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Friday, April 7, 1967 ] ANN LANDERS Animal Behavior Isn't Part Of Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band and I have known Bill and Rita for a long time. We were at their home last Satur- day, and after several hours of talking and drinking, my hus- band managed to get Rita alone in the kitchen. I was left in the living room with Bill. I don't drink and my hus- band says this is my trouble. He claims I can't get into the swing of things because I am not relaxed. I've always had a hunch that. most people drink because it gives them an ex- cuse to do and say things they wouldn't do and say if they were sober. My husband finally came out of the kitchen and announced that he and Rita were going out to get some fresh air and he hoped Bill and I had a good time. I told him nothing doing. We had an argument and my husband and Rita left. My husband came right out and said he sees nothing wrong in switching partners if every- one agrees. According to him, 20 years is a long time to be married to one woman and he is getting curious. He also said he deserves some credit for being open and aboveboard. He is a very persuasive ar- guer and sometimes I wonder if I am crazy. Please advise.-- Spoilsport New Morality |delivery within 96 hours. Do) you realize that this could cost me $9 plus $3.42 in stamps? And it would take several hours to get those nine copies out because I don't own a type- writer? The letter said if I complied} | with the request I would save a} life and end up rich. It said at I failed to follow the instruc- tions someone dear to me would| meet a terrible fate and I would} die broke. | I think it's awful to scare people like that. Please tell folks that chain letters inter- fere with the peace of mind of the average person and nobody has the right to do this.--Shook FIR Your newest arrival will be irresistible in this first size knitted outfit. The jack- et, knitted in one piece on No, 11 needles, features a dainty eyelet border around Pp Dear Shook: I will say even more. If they involve payment jof money, chain letters are against the law. | Dear Ann Landers: Our 19- year-old son has a habit of bringing friends to spend the ST SIZE KNITTED SET the lower edge of body and sleeves and in the circular yoke. The same border is used in the snug fitting bon- net and bootees to complete the outfit. If you wish in- structions please sent self- addressed stamped, return envelope and ten cents to cover cost of handling to the Needlework Department of this newspaper, asking for leaflet number 4-67. night. The last friend stayed| three months. | He ate every meal here, I did CHILD GUIDANCE his laundry and nursed him) \through the flu. I got tired of giving him maid service with- out so much as a thank you or a dime in return, so I told him to leave. | Now when the boy sees me a in town he desn't even say| By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD | hello. | If I were able to write a) Giving Drive And Ambition To Child Can Be Difficult selves excel in intellectual and ed a eg plo Dear S.: There's nothing band is the nut in the family. new friends. makes it sound so logical I Sure, people get curious--and)sometimes think he is right. Is some times it doesn't take|he?--High Grocery Bill them 20 years. But curiosity is no excuse for behaving like|who hangs around for three animals, months can hardly be regarded as a guest. My husband claims the house|recipe which any parent could|bite. Sometimes they do, and if wrong with you, doll. Your hus-|belongs to our son as well as|follow successfully at putting|@S time goes by, he catches a to us and that I should make|self-drive and ambition into ajfish, the reward is great. Also, I think you need some/his guests feel welcome. He/child who doesn't have them, I|\ysm COMMON SENSE jcould hold the world in my jhand. I wish I could give work-| lable advice to parents who Dear High: No. A free-loader|write me of the child of eight,/there appear a few high spots [22 or 16 who, obviously, has |average or superior intelligence, |but lacks the urge to drive! laverage parent. |problem, though they |educational resources. human breast,"' as in the fish-| '\could attain to what their par- ents achieved, give up striving. | Yet we should not overlook the \few youths who surpass their So from all the individual|highly educated or distinguished problems in children, such as/Parents, those related to school learning} As I said in an earlier col- umn, I've been writing some more or less common to all of| 'wishes' for a children's maga- them, suggesting the need to|zine, which I hope some chil- apply certain principles of com- dren will choose to make their Dear Ann Landers: I have) Your son should be allowed to himself to work hard mentally.|mon sense and principles de-|own. The following one I pre- just received a chain letter ask-|offer hospitality to his friends, | ing me to send $1 each to nine|/but he has no right to expect friends. My instructions said Ijhis mother to be a cook, maid, was to make nine copies and Jaundress and nurse to the) send them off airmail special|strays he finds around town. | hearing from a parent who tells}sume that, from the thousands me that my suggestions worked/of letters from parents I have and that the one-time indiffer-|)read and answered over the 30- Riotous Colors, Patterns Herald! I keep on answering these) |Parents as well as I am able} | and send them related bulletins. Now and then I do get a lift in ent or discouraged child is win- ning school success. I keep Spring's Tent Dress, Pant Suit By JEAN SHARP CP Women's Editor Bright citrus colors, wild patterns and the flaring tent dress with version after ver- sion of the pant suit are the fashion elements that spell spring, 1967. In a Cross-Canada Survey by The Canadian Press, fash- ion buyers in every area pre- dict the popularity of ex- plosive, brilliant colors, some- times in jangling combina- tions, and in patterns vari- ously called African, jungle, art nouveau, flora, paisley and kinetic. The color mentioned most often is a yellow described by a Vancouver fashion reporter as stinging. Orange and: lime are runners-up. Montrel re- ports. every shade of green from pale acid to emerald being shown in store windows. A tempering note is the navy reported popular for «a| military style with shoulder '| their most extreme manifesta- Wouldn't it be heavenly to have a streamlined figure like this without diets and exercises? Well, if you haven't and swimming or sun basking is on your vaca- tion schedule, the next best thing is to buy a chic little swimsuit that will pare down the silhouette and create an uncluttered, long line illu- sion, This attractive white swimsuit was designed by the internationally - known Oleg Cassini. It is tucked from top to bottom and features little boy legs, cut- out armholes, a flattering squared neckline and a low | back and has the custom. | cup feature. Made of nylon, | orlon and lycra in a tucked double knit, it is available | in white, navy and orange. Sizes range from 8 to 14. | By Tracy Adrian | wondering about all the other/ences with more parents I have children of this type whose par-/had in college classes; ents have hoped I could helpjand from observing my own | HATS MATCH COATS | African topee style and hats | dyed to match coats or suits | are part of the costume look. | ual hair styles and changes in | church practice. | Winnipeg fashion show, mod, ; united on a model who wore early spring in Ottawa, St. John's, Nfld., and Saint John, N.B. In each city, lighter col- ors are expected to replace it in warmer weather. TENTS ARE IN The dress of the season is called a float or a tent, and it shows African influence. It is high - necked, with narrow armholes and is more con- trolled of line than it might seem to be. As sold in a Tor- onto department store, tent dresses are styled to empha- size the bosom, are flaring or pleated below the bustline. Pant suits have surely de- veloped almost every per- mutation possible by now. They are long, short, casual or soignee, military or ultra- feminine. They are culottes, knickers and even pant-skirt in one, looking like pants in front and a skirt at the back, They are made in leather and in lace. One favorite is a safari, tabs, big pockets, straight belt. Another is the Bermuda suit with a long jacket, still another the one-piece jump suit, In Winnipeg as elsewhere, coats and dresses match or at least "go. with'? each other. Coats are narrow-shouldered, slightly flared and_ belted, though the belt may be above the waist, below it or even at the natural waistline. There seems to be no single favored hat style, though Van- couver reports sales of an An Edmonton buyer was one of several who said there is a decline in enthusiasm for hats, perhaps because of cas- Mini and mod are still much in evidence, of course, though tions are generally considered strictly for the young. At-a mini and wild colors were a long-sleeved shirt in acid green with a turquoise and purple printed mini-skirt and burgundy leotard and hair- nd. The pointed toe appears fi- nally to have disappeared, and with it the high heel. A Halifax retailer says there are no high heels left, though some customers are still ask- ing for them. Toes are squared or rounded, heels no higher than two inches and sometimes squared. Sling and strap styles are popular. Colors are neutral or mid- brown, blue or pastel. A Montreal report says the brightest colors appear in the lowest heels. \cesses don't always follow them. them. It's hard enough for a parent-| develop; counsellor to give effective ad- vice when he can see the child and his parents and gain infor-|derived some principles useful mation from them face to face, rived from the accumulation of|sent here with permission: published researches and clin- I wish I never ran away ical experiences. From what I thought was |see their child exerting little or jno effort at learning, they may | worry and suffer more than the Because of |their frustrating emotions they jmay be least able to solve the them- be ; "| Think of all the youths you erman's, hoping the fish will! know who, supposing they never KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN The American way of life makes it easy to be fat, even for youngsters. The most star- tling change in the weight pic- ture is in adolescent obesity, with 10,000,000 overweights un- der 19. There are now special summer camps to help pre- teens and teens fight the junior battle of the bulge. Overweight is always a dual problem, too much food of the wrong kind and too little exer- cise. At home, the fatties are reluctant to join in activitities. "Nobody wants me on their side," is a common complaint. At camp it is different, for they are all in the same fix. To find out about these reducing camps your dietitian called The Amer- ican Camping Association. Seascape on Cape Cod is a} well known camp for overweight| girls ages 12 to 18. "For fun and slimming it's terrific,"' for-| mer heavyweights claim. Camp Lancer for overweight boys is being launched under the same direction, Dr. John Spargo and two camps are separate. Camp Macabee in Leesburg, Virginia, is for boys ages 10 to 16. This was the first medically supervised camp for obese boys. Under professional guidance, the boys are eased into exer- cise activities. Youngsters who could scarcely get their feet off the ground at the start, can ARE RE-EDUCATED Camp Stanley, located at} Special Camps For Obese Teens | Teach Value Of Exercise, Diet dietitian Penny Peckos, The/casserole. The fat evenly dis- TASTE CAN KILL taminated with botulism ean be A single taste of food con-)fatal. happy, healthy, slim - down) summer. | Of special interest are the| camps for diabetic children. Parents interested in such| eamps should call their local) Diabetic Association, or ask)! their physician. 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Nevertheless, I often| do? and can follow up by checking) feel inadequate in trying to ad- and rechecking on the recom-|vise a parent on almost any; ANSWERING QUESTIONS mended program; and But when one attempts to of- fer advice to a parent on the basis of what she says in a letter it is still much harder to do with self - assurance. Yet "hope springs eternal in the suc-|specific problem. Among problems which are|ical fitness in children, why hardest are those that come|should not able children in good aise cominn'" Pe from parents who have them-|weather walk to school, a mile JOAN'S BOUTIQUE selves achieved greatly in schol-|or two from home? * At the Top of the Stairs arship, in the professions, in| A. If they did, more would = ence a & Canes Q. In all the talk about phys- be done for physical fitness in| children, perhaps, than by all the school programs in physical education. 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Don't relax in your efforts, however, since there's more good news to come. For instance, career matters, which may have troubled you some last year, show signs of great improvement in 1967, with good chances of advancement indi- cated within the next two weeks of July; between Septem- ber 1st and November 15th and in late December, Outstandingly good months for those engaged in artistic or scientific enter- prises all include June, August and next January, though the next 12 months should be gen- weeks, during the first three) . On the monetary front, your best periods for increasing as- sets in 1967 should occur be- tween now and May 15th, dur- ing the last two weeks of July, between September 15th and October 19th, and from October 23rd through mid ~- November. Gains will accrue through con- servative operation, however-- not from speculaion! 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