10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Soturdey, March 18, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: Why don't you get with it and knock off the nonsense about childbirth? If I read one more letter in your column from a mother who says having a baby is just like a little tummyache I think I will throw up. Some women could give birth to an elephant and not feel a thing. Other women have a rough time and it does on and on and on--yes, even with the wonderful new sedatives and pain killers. You should tell your readers the truth--that no two deliveries are the same; that every woman is different, physically, emotionally and psychologi- cally; that her mother's ap- proach to childbirth will have a definite effect on her attitude; that it can be a big help if she gets a good doctor. So enough of the hooey already, Ann Lan- ders. Thank you--Two Feet On The Ground Dear Feet: I would not dis- pute a single word of your let- ter, It is all true. Thanks for writing. . Dear Ann Landers: My hus- band's unmarried sister moved to this country from overseas. Sara is a medical doctor, I was overjoyed when I learned she 'was coming and invited her to live with us. After a few months Sara be- came withdrawn and uncom- municative. When she refused to leave her bed we wrote to a sister overseas and learned that she is mentally ill and has been|gagement ring is for a long time. Sara sleeps in our living room| fiance and is ruining our marriage. All she does is read medical books 'and write letters to President Johnson complaining about the hospitals in America and how ANN LANDERS Childbirth Nonsense Dispelled By Facts they abuse patients and em- ployes. We are people of modest means and are deeply con- cerned about the huge bills she has run up all over town, (My husband vouched for her.) Sara will not see a psychia- trist and insists there is nothing wrong with her. In the mean- time she hasn't been out of her nightgown in six weeks and I am going crazy. What shall I do?--Margaret Dear Margaret: It is up to your husband to call in some doctors. If they decide his sister should be committed to a state mental hospital, and he refuses, give him a choice--you or his sister. And make it stick. Dear Ann Landers: An aunt whom I dearly loved died sev- eral years ago. Her husband gave me her engagement ring and her wedding band because I was her favorite niece. These two people had one of the most beautiful marriages I have ever witnessed. It would mean a great deal to me if I could use my aunt's ring for my own engagement and mar- riage. Some people feel it would be improper. I'd like your opin- ion--Engaged In Miami Dear Engaged: Since the weddi ring is a traditional part of the religious ceremony I feel it would appropriate to use your aunt's wedding band and wear it thereafter provided of course that your husband-to- be agrees to the idea. The en- different, however. Let your make a_ selection in keeping with his taste and his financial bracket. You can wear your aunt's ring as heirloom jewelry, but not as a symbol of your beloved's betrothal. THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Personal relationships should rove most harmonious on Sun- hl s0 you can count on happy "hours spent with family, friends and even co-workers--if you have to work. Avoid pettiness, however. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that 4 ambitious plans alo ob and financial lines cou prove highly remunerative by year's end--if you handle them con- servatively and take no chances on "pie in the sky" ventures. , You can expect some monetary , gains in early May, throughout * July, mid-September, mid-Octo- ber and next December, but it will be important to use care in 'intervening periods -- espe- cially in late May, early June and mid-November. Best peri- 'ods for career advancement: » Late. April through late May, September, next December. ' Social and domestic interests will be under good aspects for » most of the year, and there will ' be a great deal of emphasis on « Tomance -- especially in late * June, throughout July and in * late September. Most propitious » periods for travel: The first * three weeks of July, early Oc- ) tober and next December. » A child born on this day will * be endowed with marked liter- ary talents; could also succeed » as a physician or confidential worker'in large organizations. Some situations could result . in changes on Monday; can, for * the most part, prove beneficial, , depending on how well you » manage them. If not advancing ' as you would like, change your » pattern of operation. . FOR THE BIRTHDAY ' If Monday is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, * while you can make good job ' headway during the next 12 » months, it would be sensible to * concentrate on reasonable goals : rather than to strive for the im- « Possible, You will have excellent ' chances to advance between » mid-April and: late May; also » in early September, but no 'further boosts along career + lines are indicated until next * December, but do your best all ' along the line since the latter + month promises a real uptrend. } Best periods for financial : gain: The first week of May, EGG-HAM DELIGHT Nutritious and versatile, eggs are perfect to serye around Eastertime. Combine them with deviled ham, tomato and cheese in a luncheon delight. Macdonald Institute home econ- omists also suggest an addi- tion of onion for a special fla- vor. EGG-HAM SANDWICH DELIGHT ELI 6 hamburger buns, split and| toasted 1 4%-ounce ean devilled ham eggs Y% cup milk Y teaspoon salt ¥% cup chopped green onions tablespoons butter thin tomato slices slices sharp processed Cheddar cheese dash pepper Spread lower part of buns with deviled ham. Combine milk, eggs, salt and pepper. Beat. Add onions. Heat butter in frying pan until just hot enough to make a drop of water sizzle. Pour in egg mixture. Re- duce heat and cook till eggs are set but still moist, lifting as necessary. Pile eggs atop deviled ham; add tomato and cheese. Place on cookie sheet and broil until cheese melts. Cover with bun tops. Makes 6. something|only one hat--for emergencies By MARGARET NESS NEW YORK (CP)--No female whatever her age needs an ex- cuse to shop for a new hat at any time of year. But the nor- mal urge becomes almost irre- sistible at the merest whisper- ings of spring. A new hat will tide her over that last spurt of wintry weather and give a lift to drooping spirits. This spring the Millinery In- stitute of America took for its theme--"This season there's a reasons." The reasons include hats with matching accessories such as a scarf, gloves or um- brella; hats in flattering, light- weight fabrics; hats that are easy to pack for travel. Of course, tourists off for a trip to Europe will need to take or for lunch and shopping in London's West End. The rest of Europe seems to be going more and more in a hatless state. Bright colors are favored this spring. Lilly Dache displays them in a beret with swirling yellow-and-mauve stripes. Sally Victor uses clusters of gold-and- pink flowers in a back-riding tam effect. The Sally Victor hat, incident- ally, was modelled in the mil- linery show by Heather Hazell of Winnipeg, one of the top models used by the hat houses. Mr. John says she's one of the best and he always uses her for his pink champagne salon show- ings for press and socially prominent guests. MATCHING STOLE Mr. John showed a princess cap of striped silk in nasturtium orange - and - sunflower gold, banded by hand-crocheted lace in a gold mille fleurs design. There is a dramatic matching stole completely edged with the same wide band of lace. He also included a_high- crowned straw fedora in his When Women Get The Urge a STRAW COOLIE HAT AND STRAW BUBBLE huge, floppy cartwheel. Some worn by the men of Morocco. Turbans are in this year. They|bon beret which have become an all-seasons hat, probably because they are flat- tering to most women and can are worn straight on, others at an eye-shading tilt, feminine versions of the hats Emme is partial to Eastern) than headgear for spring and showed several adaptations of the fez, be made in practically any fabric. last season when they|droops to the shoulders in back. staged a comeback. Emme does one style in linen in ah orange houndstooth check. Another de- signer likes a multi-colored rib-iquickly at room temperature, tojsay food specialists at pack, There's also a bubble beret by Mr. John but it's in straw and not for travel. is easy Even paper gets into the mil-|are best placed with the large linery act. Adolfo has a paperjend up and away from strong Berets are even more popular| printed hat with a hug brim that|odors. TIMELY TIPS ON EGGS Remember, Mac- donald Institute, University of Guelph. Thus, they must be stored in the refrigerator and TEETHING PAIN ( Mill eggs deteriorate |iiqus ps, meters rely on Bab Sian Brin 's s 4 longed Het As k your phar- macist for ORA. gone, teny te oo --CP Photo crowns. ties. One high stovepipe crown Some even have chin y BABY : ora-jel. 'THEN YOURE DOVE. Troister The love affair of the ear--you and your roister Chesterfield. We've got your colour, a colour that will light up your living room, turn on your guests and exalt your personal taste, To Shop For Hats -- It's Spring has a visor front and turn-up back. When he does include a large brim it is likely to be a plunging down to cover a suit! collar. | Other large brims include the sombreros which are popular with spring coats. | Revived interest is shown in the padre, a shape like that worn by priests, with shallow crown and wide brim curling up at the sides. LIKES HIGH CROWN Mr. John prefers a combina-| tion of small brims and high| EDGAR'S DECOR CENTRE 34 KING ST. W. @ Color Unlimited @ Decoration to Fit YOUR BUDGET See Us For Paint & Wallpaper Phone 725-1722 | OUR y, re yee NTH TRors ren Available at leading Furniture stores everywhere. =! popular-priced line, using white and wild rose pink in a checker- board weave and handed and bowed in matching pink silk grosgrain. Adolfo uses Moroccan striped silk in a sombrero of turquoise stripes, complete with matching parasol, and in a pouff coif of shocking stripes with matching shoulder scarf. Silhouettes this spring feature brims. Many swoop up dramati- cally in front to show newly bangless foreheads. Lilly Dache wine 4 he) ----4 > A WIFE PRESERVER Keep your salt canister or a box of baking soda next to the stove to put out grease fires. Never use water. ber. Creative workers, however, will have an all-around good year, with notable accomplish- ment indicated in June. Personal relationships will be generously governed for most of the year ahead, with ro- mance in the brightest of spot- lights. In this connection, the marriage-minded will find late June, any time in July and late September especially propiti- ous. A child born on this day will be extremely sensitive and idealistic; will be artistically 'all of July, mid-September, mid-October and next Decem-|f uses pliable panama moulded hack on itself in just such a manner, with the back brim THIS VITAL YOUNG RELIGION many paths ONE GOD many colours ONE RACE many countries ONE WORLD There cre three million people ground the world today who be- Neve that the unification of mankind Is the will of God for our age. They call themselves Baha'is. Perhaps Baha'l Is what you are looking for. Information upon requesh 15 Lola Road, Toronto 7. inclined. 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