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t/4 Dear Ann Landers: The letter written by Janet, the teen-ager who hated her alcoholic father touched me deeply. I grew up in a home where father was seldom sober. I suffered many indignities because of his drunk- enness. I would like to tell Janet this: Your father is desperately ill, not just physically but mentally. The anguish he has caused you is nothing compared with to the torment he endures. You wouldn't hate your father if he were dying of cancer, Lid would you? In a way, alcohol- nt Mr. Brown return: your) | 7 er . i ism can be worse than canc: tie: "Never mind, TH ail because so often people refuse to recognize that an alcoholic is ill. They keep saying, "He could straighten up if he wanted to"' and, "All it takes is will power." You can help your father if you have the courage and the desire to do so. Tell your mother, your doctor, your min- ister, anyone Who might help, that your father needs to be in hospital. It won't be easy. | I remember my mother's re-| fusal to admit that father was mentally ill. He had to try sui- cide before she was persuaded. And please don't waste any more time or energy hating your father. He hates himself enough for both of you. Try love and understanding. And above all, get him the help he needs. Former Alateen Dear Former: Your signature came as no surprise. I urge all teen-agers who must live with an alcoholic parent to contact this superb organization which is a branch of Alcoholics Anon- ymous. Dear Ann Lamders: You have printed several letters about telephone courtesy over the Alateen Gives Help To Child Of Alcoholic years and I hope you will print) j one more, I'm a business woman who) | uses the telephone a great deal. I don't mind it when a secre-| | tary tries to be super-efficient| but I hate conversations that 80) | like this: : Secretary ans wer,s phone:| { "Mr. Brown's office." Me: "May I speak to Mr.| ; Brown please?" ! Sec.: "Mr. Brown is out at}! the moment: If you will. leave} } your name and number I will] |; again later." Sec.: '"May I ask who is call- ing, please?" Now this last sentence is what burns me up. If I had wanted| to identify myself I would have} done so when the secretary asked me to leave my name and number. Perhaps I wanted to speak to Mr. Brown about al trivial matter and I didn't want) him to wrack his brain wonder- ing why I was calling. Or maybe I just wanted to surprise him. Do you understand what I mean?--Dander Up Dear Up: If Mr. Brown is a busy executive he doesn't have time for "surprises." Do you know what I mean? A cardinal rule of telephone courtesy is that the person who places the call should identify himself at once. To expect a Entertaining at home after six is gaining a new momentum. Why? Simply because of the enhancing at- home creations designers are producing in abundance. Even in modest' circum- stances, women, they feel, want to shed their daytime personalities after five o'clock and feel truly ele- gant. They feel, also, that clothes can turn the trick and in many cases. make 'LANGUID LOTUS' even an unobservant hus- band sit up and take notice. Here is a dramatic, flow- ing dinner costume of pale green jersey 'and for exotic touches has added slim trou- sers and a lovely jeweled treatment at neckline and By ROBERTA ROESCH There's certainly no compar- ison between a life of ease and a life.of work, says stockbroker Anne Jennings Johnson, speak- 4\ing from experience. Currently Mrs. Johnson is a registered representative with A. G, Edwards and 'Sons, mem- bers of the New York Stock 4\Exchange. In this capacity, she sells and trades securities and helps people earn money with 3|money. But before she entered the world of finance, Anne Johnson spent a good many years of her life in play and travel, tennis and skiing and socializing with hattan, the west coast and Eu- rope. "Whatever I do, I do hard," she said, "'so I played as hard as I could for years. But even- tually I reached a point where I decided I ought to settle down and do something useful with my life," LOOKS FOR INTEREST Mrs. Johnson looked around for a new kind of interest and eventually made up her mind it might be a very good idea to learn how to handle her own |money wisely, since she had done a good job of spending it in the years she had played full-time. "T started out with the im- mediate goal of learning how to make my own money work," she told me, "so I settled down | Life As stockbroker Gives 4 Excitement, Thrills To Playgirl in an apartment in New York and enrolled in investment courses. At the same time I took a speed reading course so I could cover a wide range of financial reports and research as rapidly as possible. | "From the start, I loved work- ing with investments,"' she said, "and. after I made some wise moves with my own, some of my friends began asking me for advice and giving me _ small jamounts of their money to 'handle.' | | Those small sums were the |starting point of Anne Johnson's present career, because, as her} friends sought her advice, she) the jet set in Palm Beach, Mar¢ | decided to go all out, enter the|ha1 of Christ Memorial Church, |trainee program at A. G. Ed- |wards and Sons and become al /licensed stockbroker. I |LOVES WORK | "T've been working at this for five years," she said, "and I love every moment of it. Don't ask me to compare a life of ease with a life of work; there's no comparison as far as I'm con- cerned. I've found that working is a great deal better. "T've also found that when you know exactly what you have to do each day and or- ganize yourself to do it, you \still have time to do most of \the things you used to do, in another proportion, of course. "Weekends I do everything I used to do. But diring the week, I get a tremendous satisfaction a Slides Of Europe Shown To Members OfB&PWClub |: \1 Slides of Bulgaria and Greece| were shown at the February meeting of the Oshawa Busi- ness and Professional Women's Club, by Lucas Peacock, with commentary by Mrs. Peacock, a member of the club. : Mr. and Mrs. Peacock oyt- lined on a map the route tis took on a motor trip recently in Eastern Europe. Slides of universities, monasteries, pub- lic buildings, and rose gardens along the streets, were shown. Miss Mildred Price intro- duced and thanked Mr.. and Mrs. Peacock. It was decided to hold a night of cards, April 5, in the parish with Miss Gladys Frise. in charge of the arrangements. Miss Jennie Pringle and Miss Irene Pawson were instructed to look into some of the ideas for a centennial project and re- port. | FAN FOLDS UP The folding fan was invented, in Japan in the seventh cen- tury AD. with my life and knowing I'm) helping people plan wisely for their financial future. Just be- fore I met you, for example, | started a youthful hairdresser on a small monthly investment) plan. "Tt doesn't cost a great deal) of money to invest in the fu-) out of doing something useful ture," Mrs. Johnson said. sage meat around each egg to completely cover, Dip covered eggs in beaten raw egg and roll in the crumbs or rolled oats. Fry in deep fat at 350 de- grees F until sausage is cooked and surface is browned. May be served hot or cold, Prefer- ably cold with salad. If using small-sized eggs, about 144 lbs. of sausage should be enough for 12 eggs. SCOTCH EGGS (deep fat fry or pan fry) 6___ peeled hard-cooked eggs % cup flour (approx.) Tb. sausage meat egg beaten with 1 table- spoon water Fine dry bread crumbs or quick-cooking rolled oats. Roll the eggs in flour. With flour coated hands, mould sau- \ 1 GUARANTY TRUST 32 KING ST. E. ; Open To Serve You 'Mon. - Thurs. $ to 5 Friday 9 to 3 Saturday 3 to | WIFE PRESERVER | To keep outdoor light bulbs from corroding and 'freezing', in the fixture, smear the threads with petroleum jelly be- fore installing. i COLLETTE BEAUTY SALON Is Pleased To Announce The Appointment of JOAN BROOKS To their Staff. Miss Brooks is formerly of the Vogue Beauty Salon, » Beauty Collette "sx: 51 King St. East 723-9511 ankles. Aptly named "Lan- guid Lotus," it comes in other soft and _ brilliant colors also and is sure to create a sensation in any one selected. --By Tracy Adrian busy person to return a blind phone call is not only presump- tuous but arrogant. Confidential to Up To You: I wouldn't make this decision far} anybody. The pill should be taken only under a physician's instruction. Women who took the pill on their own have wound up ill--and yes, even pregnant. CHILD GUIDANCE Teach Children To Shop Wisely During Weekly Shopping Tours PhD |he might grow with what basic foods cost and fhe total amount y|of money his family spends for n|food. As he observed carefully By GARRY C. MYERS, Next time you go to the su- permarket, notice how man. children you see there betwee: the age of 8 and 15, alone with their parents. You may a goodly number of tots small enough to ride in the foodwagon. Pet Often a youngster may be sent to a store nearby to buy one. two special articles of food mother needs right away. But how many younsters do the food shopping for the family or help a parent do it? Is it because they are not able to discern food values and to s¢- lect wisely? With a list of the foods needed, so many of them being standardized, couldn't most teen-agers learn to do it well? You may know an unusual child 12, 14 or 16 who not only plans the family meal some- j times, but also cooks and serves it. Wouldn't such be a desirable objective in the home guidance of many teen-age boys and girls? Yet as nearly all children from 6 to 10 have had no ex- perience at helping shop for foods and continues to go with you to do s0. ; Suppose you guided him then in selection of foods and their qualities in relation to price. Couldn't he thereby acquire suf- ficient skills to prepare him to be ready in a few years to do all your shopping occasionally, GAIN RESPONSIBILITY Just consider the useful skills and knowledge this child might gain from such experience and responsibility. See how familiar SOCIAL NOTICES Ss or|With you at see |counter the slip recording the the checkout ese matters. you take with you to the food market for his amusement and protection, let him learn not to run about in the store before you put him into the food wagon. Teach him not to handle foods or food packages until after you have selected them. Make up your mind on enter- ing the market whether you are going to get him any gum or candy. Then s your re- solve. If always he can expect some of such or waits till you approach the. check-out place and demands certain things, making himself so disagreeable that you succumb, at what age will he learn not to expect such special luxuries? When he's too big to ride in the food wagon you may choose to leave him at home or let him run about in the store amusing himself as he please, often annoying other persons there. This experience will what could be most useful to him later. GUIDE CHILD But if you have guided your child well, see how he may be ready to help you when he is 8 or 10, to select and collect the foods, learn to identify them values, Then and as he grows solder, he could do most of the foot and handwork for you at the food market, while you merely su is t . FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE oo pervise the enter. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Goreski wish to announce the forthcom- ing marriage of their daughter, _. Isabel Jean, to Edward Lapa, son of Mr. and Mrs. John Lapa, all of Oshawa. The ceremony will take place Saturday, April 8, 1967, at 11.00 a.m. in St, Hedwig's Roman Catholic "Church, FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr. and Mrs..Carl Adams, Nestleton, wish to announce the forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Patricia Gail, - to Maarten Mantel, son of Mr. and Mrs. Matthys Mantel, Burke- ton. The marriage will' take place Saturday, March 25, 1967, at 3.00 p.m, in Courtice United Church, ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Cecil A. Pollock wish. to announce the engage- ment of their daughter, Vergie Mary Lou, to Franciscus dhs. riel Smits, son of Mr, and Mrs. John Smits, all of Whitby, The ceremony will take place Sat- urday, June 10, 1967 at 2.00 .m, in St, John the Evangelist oman Catholie Church, Whitby. FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE Mr, and Mrs, Harold -A, White, Oshawa, wish to an- nounce the forthcoming mar- riage of their daughter, Diane Lynn, to Ben Simeon Koro- patwa, son of Mr. and Mrs. John Koropatwa, Orono. The marriage will take place Sat- umay, June 24, 1967 at 2.00) p.m. in St. Mark's United Church, Whitby. Accordingly, this child may gradually grow able to go to the supermarket. and do all the shopping for you. While lessen> Beginning with--_the--teddier} hardly prepare him to learn| and learn their relative .cost||: THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Saturday's stellar influences| promises a lively and construc- tive day. Both business and do- mestic interests are slated for gains, and most persons will prove extremely congenial and co - operative. Do avoid ex- tremes, however. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your chart presages a good year ahead. According to the stars, both your personal life and your financial interests should pros- per, and there is also indication of some unusual recognition for past occupational efforts--and very soon! In fact, stars say there's a good likelihood for promotion and (or) increased earnings between now and late March, the first three weeks in September and (or) October; also December. Creative work- ers should have an all-around good year, with periods of no- table achievement indicated in May, June and September. On the financial front, gains are star - promised during the first three weeks of April (es pecially for long - range ven- tures), all of September and Oc- tober. Do be cautious with as- sets during mid -. January, the first three weeks of March and throughout June, however. In personal affairs: Except ing your work and cares, see|late June and early July, when cost of each item of food he|what an education he would be|you may be under some tension uld learn still more about|saining. I wish I might hear|and unwittingly cause friction in from some mothers who have|Close circles, your domestic life gradually--educated--their--child Should be unusuatty pleasant for by the age of 12 or 14 or 16 to do the family shopping alone. Other parents might like to read about him. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. My greatest worry is that my 10-year-old boy will not read any book or magazine. A. Almost surely he is a poor reader. Anything you can do to help him read with more ease and skill should cause him to choose to read for pleasure. Find for him interesting reading matter easy enough for him to read well. You may also need to limit his time at viewing TV. for brief periods in early March, the next 12 months; and senti- mental interests will be ex- |tremely propitious during the jlatter part of next month, in late October and late December. Don't take the "romances" of May, September and (or) next) November too seriously, how- ever. Best periods for travel and stimulating social activi- ties: The first three weeks in May and next November. A child born on this day will be extremely versatile in both business and literary pursuits, but may have to curb a ten- dency toward unintentional tact- lessness. Has Your Food Dollar Phone 723-1163 | and Stretch Your Dollar THE FOOD CHAMBERS FOOD LTD. 933 Ritson Rd. S., Oshawa -- ! am interested in your food pla call ot: FREE GOOD BOY FURNITURE MART W. February CLEARANCE Continues Cis GIGANTIC SAVINGS FOR A *99 pRAY MATTRESS!! Guaranteed To Save You $100.00 Year HAS PROVEN ITSELF Lost It's S-t-re-t-o-h-? 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