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14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesdoy, February 13, 1967 Dear Ann Landers: What is wrong with me? Am I a kook or are there other women around who feel as I do? Is it unrea- sonable or prudish to expect a little privacy when a woman strips down to the skin, as she must, when she is shopping for a bra and girdle? Is it mid- Victorian to resent being pushed into a fitting room with no door --only a flimsy curtain that flies open exposing her to cus- tomers passing by? Is it silly to be annoyed when the clerk barges in with two other sales- women to 'see how the gar- ments look on?" I have gotten to the point where I dread buying a new bra or girdle. What's more, I've become downright hostile to women who work in undergar- ment departments. They seem insensitive, ill - mannered and much too interested in walking in on undressed customers. What are your thoughts on this subject?--Mad and Modest Dear Mad: I assure you that women who sell and fit under- garments have no interest in! seeing sights. To them it's a} way to make a living--and a| imagine the energy required to stuff a size 44 backside into a $8 girdle? (Some dames don't years.) ANN LANDERS Resents Publicity In Bra - Fitting Room I'm in my early 20s now and) the acne is gone but my face is scarred. I'm awfully self-con- scious about this and I find my- self avoiding people. Can you tell me something about the procedure called scraping? This involves freezing the skin and scraping off the top layer. The patient is awake but he doesn't feel any pain. I'm afraid to have it done with- out checking with someone and you are my best source. Please |advise me.--Hopeful Girl Dear Girl: The procedure which you call '"scraping". is| " also referred to as "abrasive planing" and it is a relatively simple operation. | The physicians with whom I) consult tell me that acne suf- ferers have been delighted with) # the results. They point out that the psychological effects of the| operation are often vastly more important than the improve- ment in appearance. So go hard way at that. Can youlonce realize that the dimensions of| with before we married (she|/ected in the fall. They were their cabooses change over the |tives about 200 miles from here). |stored for about four weeks be- She said she had been married|tween sheets of newspaper with Since buying wunderwear|three years and her husband ahead and make an appoint-| ment with a dermatologist. CENTERPIECE FOR GA¥ PARTIES | Every Girl Should Analyse By ROBERTA ROESCH Today vocational projections by the experts show that eight out of every 10 women will work for many years of their lives. With this a_ well-established fact, one of my hopes for my teen-age daughters--as well as for everyone else's dqughter-- is that they will find the right job direction. Even though a girl may achieve her goal of establishing a fine marriage and home, the average woman is still apt to work 20 or 30 years, depending jon whether or not she has chil- dren. Therefore, with the same care and serious thought that go into her consideration of every 'm- portant step in her life, every woman should analyse fully and carefully the jobs that appeal to her. PREPARE FOR JOB After a solid analysis, she can prepare herself for a job oppor- tunity that takes her in a direc- tion that is the right course for her. There are several ways to .|conduct this analysis. But one prod around the wick with a steel knitting needle and refill near Am tanders: 1 veep) Maple Leaf Centennial Candle temsin'in the cenze ot the pinching myself to see if I am Last night my husband told) For this centennial candle, we me he received a phone call atinaye used colorful leaves col- work from a girl he used to go} a weight on top. To make this seems to be such an ordeal, or-|died a few weeks ago. Then she candle, use the round mould, der by phone. Most (not all)/said: 'I think it is time yoUu|three inches in diameter. If the stores will send out these gar-|became acquainted with your ments on approval to a known/son. He is six years old now." customer. If your purchase/My husband was shocked and T)njastic moulds. If the mould needs alteration get down the/am a wreck. He says he is al-|needs cleaning, do so by filling first thing in the morning--be-|most sure she is lying. What) fore the crowds arrive. shall we do?--X. Y..200 Dear D. Y..200: The fact that Dear Ann Landers: When I| your husband told you would in- was in high school I had a ter-/dicate his conscience is clear. rible case of acne. A person who| Moreover it seems unlikely that has not experienced this awfulja woman would wait six years skin problem can't imagine how|to make this '"'introduction." damaging it is to the morale of/Call a lawyer and accept his a teen-ager. counsel. mould is clean, no oiling is necessary with metal, glass or it with varsol and letting it stand overnight. To make your candle, melt parowax, adding three table- spoons of stearic acid to each pound of wax. Lustre crystals may also be added to give the candle a milk white color and give a harder burning candle. Add % t of lustre crys- CHILD GUIDANCE Mothers Often Have Trouble Getting Children To Bed By GARRY C MYERS, PhD |time. If both are put to bed at ! tw the same time, your singing lul- re pothes of ae Rg ied labies to them then or playing these y sters well|Some records of soft lovely by day, get some or all of them|music should" have a quieting to take an afternoon nap and|effect. Dad might also do this. to eettle down at a reasonably-; During the day, encourage early hour by night, has/the children to talk to you as achieved more, perhaps, than a/you patiently listen to them and king taking a city. answer quietly all their ques- If a mother can keep serene|tions. Naturally by day these and sane all day she may be a/children will fight and quarrel kind of magician. You and 1/Some. When your quiet guid- know some mothers achieving|ance doesn't work, separate the such exploits. They invoke our|Children for a period of 20 or admiration. You and I also|30 minutes, without trying to know some mothers who are not|Place the blame. The more fun successful in this direction. Let|you can have with them the us be too big of heart and mind |easier their management should to condemn them. In their place| be. we might not do as well. ANSWERING QUESTIONS A mother writes: "My two Q. Wouldn't h i the| girls, 2 and 4, lately have given| " avenge we up afternoon naps and they|youngster, 3, 4 or 5, stand for don't settle down until about 9/20 minutes in the corner for o'clock in the evening. punishment be better than hav- My reply in part: : I'm sure it is not easy for ing him sit in a certain place? you to manage those two little| A- Hardly; it would be harder girls well. Too bad they don't|to enforce, and might prove un- get an afternoon nap. But if 1|duly severe. were you I would aim first to get hog he ag much -- JOINS THE BOARD at night, hoping to resume the! vicTORIA (CP) -- Dr. Jean afternoon nap at a later time. |Petrie, an astronomer at the BE ATTE Dominion Astrophysical Ob- TTENTIVE Consider putting the younger|S¢tvatory near here, has been girl to bed earlier than the older one. You might be able then to read and talk to the appointed to the board of gov- ernors of the University of Vic- toria. She is the widow of Dr. tals per pound of wax. Instruc- tions are on the package for melting. Install your wick in the mould, then, when wax has reached 180 degrees tempera- ture, fill the mould with wax. (Use a candy thermometer for your guide.) Since all candles are poured upside down, insert the leaves in an upside down position. When a white coating forms on the inside of the mould, dip the leaf into the melted wax in the centre of the mould, and with the handle of a bone handled knife, press the leaves into the outer coat- ing of candle. Keep forcing the leaf into the wax coating until it becomes coated enough to stay in place. Make. sure there are no air bubbles between the candle and the wall of the THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Stars continue to be highly beneficient, encouraging busi- ness and financial interests and promising the fulfilment of long- pending projects. Planetary blessings are also showered upon personal relationships, with special emphasis on happy family, social and romantic in- terests. All group activities should prove stimulating. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, as of the latter part of January, you entered an excellent plane- tary cycle where both job and monetary interests are con- cerned. This cycle will last until April 15, so put forth best efforts older for a short period before R. M. Petrie, director of the bedtime. Earlier in the evening observatory at his death. during the next two months-- you might quiet them by read- ing to both of them together. Do try to cuddle and rock them often both together, or to make sure to distribute the attention equally. music while they are awake. Strive to keep your voice soft and low and to be able to relax alone with the children all day before evening. with the children early some evenings and at times during the weekend, so you might slip away for brief periods. It would be wonderful if some other member of the family or a baby sitter could keep those children occasionally when you and dad could go out together. You might work out a plan with a neighbor mother of one or two little children whereby she tle children for short periods and you could reciprocate, USE NURSERIES It would) be advantageous if you could place the older child in a day nursery school. If you can't, there might be a Sunday school not far away. It might prove effective for one or both children to attend. Without such help you might be able to plan your day so you find some pe- riods for relaxation. Aim to let some housekeeping matters go, if necessary, to this end. During the day, aim to teach each child to respect no, rarely heard. Once you get some con- trols going, you should be able to keep them in bed and fairly quiet at a reasonably early bed- f Your main problem is to pro- | vide those children with a/! calmer family atmosphere by|~ day. Keep the radio and TV|! quiet except for some soft' more yourself. If you must be |: you may feel weary and jittery |} If possible, induce dad to stay |! a would sometimes keep your lit- |: jeven better than you may have j}during the last three weeks-- jsince, with the exception of a couple of good weeks in mid- July and early October, that will {be about all you can expect in | |the way of planetary help in these matters until the next |Jan. when you will enter an- other fine three-month cycle for |furthering material aims. Be cautious in fiscal matters in /May and June; also between Oct. 15 and Dec. 15, or you |could offset gains made previ- ously. These will be periods in |which it will be important to |avoid speculation and undue ex- travagance. These engaged in creative }work of any kind should have jan excellent year, with June, '\September and next January joutstanding for inspiration--and -jaccomplishment. These will be » \the months in which new and 'joriginal ideas can be worked jout most profitably, should im- '|press those in a position to give '|you a "push". || The next 12 months will be stimulating from a domestic and social standpoint -- espe- cially if you are careful to avoid |friction in close circles between early November and mid-De- ; '|cember, when you may be un- is i/der some tension. If single, you *!are in a fine year where ro- COAT Ss DRESS mance and-or marriage are concerned, with most propitious Typical of many spring {weeks occurring in early April, collection creations is this |late August, late October and-or chic, simple cocktail coat- |late December. Most auspicious dress fashioned of an ivory |periods for travel: the weeks be- petit point silk and warsted {tween early June and mid-Sep- fabric and accented with |tember, late October and late pearl and diamond fasten- | December. ings. It is a dress repre- A child born on this day will sentative of the premise that |be endowed with a fine mind a woman should look like a jand lofty ambitions; will usu- woman and should feel as jally succeed in his objectives well as look attractive. earlier in life than those born candle. When the candle has harden- aepod pth hl By Bae ge Makes Attractive Centerpiece ed overnight, place in an at- tractive dish and surround it Jobs That Appeal To Her worth trying is the basic job structure approach advocated by some vocational advisers. Following are some hight- lights from the study. Apply them to jobs that interest you. Dig for the hard-core facts in hooks from your local jibrary and from men and women who now have jobs that you would like to have in your future. QUESTION NEEDS Here- are some questions to answer in a job structure ap- proach. 1, What will I do in the job I'm considering? How will I do it? Why will I do it? 2. What will be the extent of my responsibility? What super- vision will I have? 3. What type of material will I work with? What job tools will be involved? 4. What will my physical sur- roundings be? Will my working conditions, hours, etc., be good? 5. For what type of business or industry will the job be used? 6. To what job field will the work belong. 7. How flexible will the job be? Will the skills and training required for it be usable in an- other job, or even in another job field? 8. What knowledge, skills, training and special abilities will I need? 9. What personal characteris- tics and likes and dislikes will with leaves or flowers for a mould. As the candle. cools,! centerpiece. be important? and attitudes will I need for de- veloping and successfully exe- cuting the job? These questions can't be an- swered in a hurry, nor can they be done in your head. 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