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THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mendey, Jenuery 30, 1967 Te This Wedding Chord Stirs Public Discord Dear Reader: Remember the] Davenport, Iowa: After read- coast-to-coast roasting I gotjing your column about the mu- from readers who were mad at|sica] weddings, I feel very left me because I didn't approve ofjout. I was married two years the bride and groom singing at/ago and it was just an ordinary their own wedding? Well, I/church wedding. My husband have received over 600 let ters| didn't burst out in song, my from readers who are mad at/father-inlaw didn't play the) them. Here is a sample of what trombone, my little sister didn't my week has been like: do a toe dance, and my mother , Mich.: I was sbso-\(who used to be a famous lutely flabbergasted at the num-'stripper) didn't go into her act. ber of assorted nuts who sang The guests must have been dis-| at their own weddings. If my appointed. husband had opened up his Houston: Here's a ening tt mouth to sing I Love You Truly for those singing brides and/& when I walked down the aisle grooms: Why not run an ad and I would have cracked up. \sell tickets? The proceeds could Long Island, N.Y.: Where in help defray the honeymoon bed | the world were the clergymen|penses--two weeks in the men- when those balmy brides and tal hospital of their choice. goofy grooms sang during the! wedding ceremony? Why didjsang Second Time Around to) they permit the house of God her No. 2 spouse probably sang) to be used as a setting for a at her first wedding, too. I sug-| vaudeville act? If a couple is so|gest that she start rehearsing happy they must give voice tojmow for the next one. An their feelings, why can't they|appropriate selection: '"'Number wait and sing at the-reception?|Three Is Lucky for Me. Or bet-: Albuquerque, N.M.: We of/ter still, why doesn't she quit the Congregational Church do/getting married and go into) not permit sanctuary theatrics.|show business which is really! Such exhibitionism has no place what she wants anyway. in a religious ceremony. Hutchinson, Kan.: Why were Chicago: I thank God every|you surprised, Ann Landers, to day for the Canon Law of the/discover that people sometimes! Presbyterian Church whichising at their own nuptials?/ makes it mandatory for the|Every day a couple of screw-) minister to approve all music|balls get married on motor-| to be played at weddings andicycles, at home plate, on funerals. Since I have occupied) skates, atop a flagpole, on this pulpit I have had some out- lhorseback, in jail, under water,| rageous requests. Recently Tland on a TV show to get free had to say no to a woman who |gifts. Recently I read where an wanted the church organist t#| English couple was married in play Casey Jones at her hus-|the elevator where they first band's funeral. "It was hisimet. You, of all people, Ann, favorite song," she sighed, "He|should know that there is noth- would have wanted it that) ling so zany, s0 ridiculous, so way." preposterous that somebody, Columbus, Ohio: No Catholic|somewhere won't do it.--Mr. ANN LANDERS , Marion, Ohio: That nut who } CREWEL EMBRODIERY RUNNERS cles on which this motif always very popular and can be embroidered, such you will enjoy making as -tablecloth, doily and these runners. There are even cushion. If you wish many other different arti- instructions please send Crewel embroidery is self-addressed stamped en- velope and ten cents to cover cost of handling to the Needlework Department of this newspaper asking for Leaflet No. E8324. ever sang at his own wedding.|M. R. T. Our church does not tolerate; Dear M.R.T.: Amen, brother, such nonsense. amen. THE STARS SAY Real Estate Business Offers } |Sagging tissues. KEEP IN TRIM By IDA JEAN KAIN With some dieters the face thins out rather quickly and friends are likely to remark that reducing shows in your face. Naturally this can dampen your enthusiasm for holding the weightline. One dieter, after taking off 32 pounds, turned around and put the pounds back on--all because a friend told her she looked older and said: "I liked you better the way you were."' That remark was no favor to the dieter. Her blood pressure went back up. On doctor's orders, she had the reducing to do all over again. How sad! Had she maintained the new weight level and followed through on a ton- ing program she could have re- stored the bloom. Dieters, your reducing should be at the rate that is most flat- for you. On 1,400 to 1,500 calories a day you can lose a half pound a week and have optimum nutrition. On the nutrition score: You cannot look and feel young on "empty" calories. Apply nutri- tion knowledge and you can be Don't Be Discouraged m If Dieting Shows In Face "One of the important facts in protein nutrition is that there is no such thing as storage of the amino acids (building blocks) in the body, ready for future use. If a meal contains an excess of any particular amino acid, that is, more than the body can use at the time for protein building, the excess is broken down chemically to be used for energy. But once they are completely broken down, the essential amino acids cannot be re-built . . . they are lost for any future protein syn- thesis." Think of protein at each meal as helping you to stay young, and staving off hunger, and it will be a joy to plan every meal around a complete protein food. Make sure your food pat- tern furnishes optimum amounts of all the essential body replen- ishing nutrients. The protective pattern: One pint of skim milk or buttermilk; four to six ounces of lean meat, fish or fowl, cooked weight, and independent of bone. With the four oz. serving, have another complete protein food, such as a half-cup cottage cheese. Have on a pattern that shores up Proteins are the No. 1 need of the body cells. In explaining why protdin is needed at each of the three meals, Gerard | Food For Life states: about them from your broker. "In real estate, you work to build a 'following,' and as your knowledge, personality and rep- utation for integrity grow, so will your earnings. "T have put a great deal into the field," she says. "But ed also taken out many things that are financially and spiritually | rewarding." an egg a day, or four to five a week. Alternate with a whole Custom Made or Ready-to-Hang DRAPERIES @ HOMES @ OFFICES @ INDUSTRIAL -- Since 1919 -- WARD'S Simcoe St. et Athol 725-1151 PRINCESS COIFFEURS CHILD GUIDANCE Experience Shows Children React To Parents Thinking By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Perhaps we parents, in the long run, do most to influence our children for good when we inspire them to make desirable wishes and to keep making these wishes over and over. Children, as well as adults, make many wishes and often strive in all sorts of ways to make these wishes come true. Prompted by. their most primi- tive impulses, most of their wishes are for what will satisfy their immediate appetites -- something good to eat, some- thing to bring them immediate pleasure, something to bring them applause, especially among their peers, something that will make them feel worth- while and important. Usually children are looking for quick satisfaction in their wishes and for satisfaction without strong or long-time ef- fort. What they wish for most may be bought with money. Early in life the child wishes for more sweets, more toys, more gifts, especially on his birthday or Christmas. Imagine the kinds of wishes the young- ster keeps making then--nearly all for material things. YEARNS FOR MORE Discovering that material things require money, the child four or five as he grows older keeps wishing to have more money so he might buy more things he wishes for himself. His wishes tend to be self-cen- tred, and for what usually may be labelled as luxuries. In our efforts to bring up our children well, let us look into the possibilities of causing them to do some wishing for what cannot be bought with money but for what they might attain by their own efforts. Of course, in order to get them to wish in this direction they need to feel that what they are wishing for will be worth striving for, worth attaining, will bring them satis- fying rewards in the long run. Some parents are skillful at causing the child three, seven or 14 to choose to do things parents strongly approve of and to wish the child to do more and more of this. Basic in the parents' success is the com- By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Monday's influences, afflict- ing personal affairs, lift some strictive forces prevail, how- fortable. ever -- especially in financial tionship with the youngster, and period for expansion or specu- as precious persons. assets you have. GOOD ATMOSPHERE In an understanding family|FOR THE BIRTHDAY atmosphere, when the child| If tomorrow is your birthday, five or 15 does not feel he is|your horoscope indicates that, under suspicion or threatened|between now and mid-April, likes to talk companionably|best use of your skills and tal- with his parents about wishingljents, since planetary influences to strive to higher levels of en-|will be fine for both job and deavor. He is not told then what|monetary gain, and you should he should or should not do but/be highly gratified at the recog- helped to see that by wishing|nition and advancement you re- and choosing to act in certainjceive during these next few ways he can win certain satis-;weeks. Other forward strides factions -- have more friends,|are promised during mid-July, feel more worthwhile and com-|late September, the first week fortable among other persons. jof October and early January, Over a period of time severaljwhen you will enter an excel- years ago, Mrs. Myers and Ijlent three-month cycle of ac- talked with hundreds of ele-|complishment. what now, and dealings with |plessing from our side of this|times--and superiors and associates should|célumn is the way so many|scale rewards of her work in be more harmonious. Some re-|readers send us so many/the first year or two of appren- companionable rela-| otters. This will not be a good|periences give other people a|reader goes on, their mutual love and regardiistion Hold tight to whatever|points we are printing today|to find a convenient office and girls and women now thinking|willing to sponsor me for my it|opportunities in this field. And with rebuke or punishment, he|would be advisable to make the|this reader. gained status and|tical experience this way, your Rewarding Career For Service By ROBERTA ROESCH to put her business first. This Something we count as ajcan be very disheartening at! so can the small- stories. We say this because their ex- ticeship. "In my own experience," the "T found that lift--and we are sure the view-|a good way to get started was from a reader will help many/a congenial broker who was 39 SIMCOE STREET NORTH INDIVIDUAL HAIR STYLING Michael Cordi or Lorenzo Jeraci li for Perfect Hair Care. SPECIAL OFFER... on Perms -- Bleaches, or Hair Colbring. FREE! Hair Brush or Hair Spray. OPEN: Tues., Thur. & Fri. 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