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Dear Ann Landers: I need to thank someone and I don't know how to reach her. Can you help me? I am a grandmother-in-wait- ing. Somecne, somewhere is carrying our unborn grandchild. Maybe she is frightened or de- pressed or lonely. Please let her know that our prayers have surrounded her for a long time now and tell her not to worry about the reception we will give her baby. The room is nearly ready and the papa and mama are holding their breath in an- ticipation of the big day. Uncles and aunts by the dozen, not to mention both sets of grandpar- ents, are so excited they can barely stand it. Tell this young girl, Ann, to open her heart and accept the love we fee] for her. The baby she is giving us through adop- tion will be her life-long con- tribution to our happiness. We will be forever in her debt.--| Mrs. J.L.P. Dear Mrs. J.L.P.: In behalf of the young girl you are trying to reach I want to thank you for a beautiful sentiment. The warmth of your letter will fouch millions of hearts today. | You are a great lady. Dear Ann Landers: I read the letter from the girl who com- plained that waitresses treat teen-age customers like dirt. She described how she and her two friends left a three-cent tip to show what they thought of the poor service. Like every story, there are two sides--and I'd like to speak for the waitresses. Some sandwich shops and restaurants go out after teen business. Usually they are near high schools. Our restaurant is not. We don't see many teens and I would be glad if we never saw any. Why? Because they never leave a tip. They feel that For Adopted Baby leave one nickel each it would | show some appreciation for the| service. The messes these kids make, are inexcusable. They set fire) to the paper napkins, tear up| match folders and straws, spill! ketchup and mustard on the} walls and floor. Cigarette butts) are left floating in coffee cups. | Chewing gum is stuck to the! bottom of saucers . They| wouldn't do these things at home. Why do they do them in) public? j Kids who are old enough to| think they are in love are old| enough to behave decently when they eat out. If you are fair you will print my letter and let| us waitresses get our side be-! fore the public_--Gospel Truth | Dear Gospel: Here is your| letter and I'm sorry to say I received over 100 letters from sister waitresses who said just! about the same thing. I have seen some well - be- haved teens in restaurants, so| I know they all don't behave) Mrs. Jock Findlay, 50, has been named director of the women's bureau of the federal labor department at HEADS WOMEN'S BUREAU Ottawa. Mrs. Findlay, a na- tive of Westmount, Que., succeeds Miss Marion V. Royce who is retiring. (CP Wirephoto) like pigs. But thanks for writing --and I hope you teens who recognize yourselves will do something about it. Dear Ann Landers: Should I ask our daughter-in-law not to call my husband and me Mr. and Mrs. Jones? Or should we wait until she feels like calling us something more personal? Perhaps she can never call! anyone Mom and Dad éxcept her own parents. But Mr. and Mrs. sounds so formal. Should we say something or be patient Need Counsel Dear Need: Your hunch about "Mom and Dad" is probably correct, but Mr. and Mrs. Jones does seem terribly stiff. Why not suggest that she call, you Mom and Dad Jones or by your into Mr. and Mrs. don't be un- just because they are kids it is not expected. If they would some people call their in-laws. KEEP IN TRIM Correct Attitude Gives Boost To Dieter's Lagging Will-Power': parent says, "You sit there I let you get down," she invites}; BECOMES LESS NECESSARY the child's effort to work on her feelings and to shorten his time.|youngster enters school é hoo Bod ~~ ig agg It's the definiteness and inevit- . sed a AN es ° Bh ability which are important. | By IDA JEAN KAIN "Will you please write more about will power. I read your column and get all pepped up about reducing. Then my will power wilts and I slip back into overeating and having consoling sweets and snacks. "An actress claims to have lost weight by looking in a mirror and repeating over and over again that she did not like sweets and that she would not overeat. Will this help?" a reader asks wistfully. Yes, provided you put your mind to it and back the plan 'with purposeful action. You might find it an exciting way to get on with slimming. However, consistency of pur- pose is de rigueur. It is so easy to. set up objectives on a pleas- ant day-dreamy level. You see it 'in terms of what you intend to:do by - and - by, which is merely a way of putting off the day of action. - KEEP GOAL IN MIND An actress cannot indulge in such wishful thinking, for her career is at stake. If she doesn't watch her figure, nobody else will. Her instructions to the image in the mirror are so firm they add up to a command per- formance, to be followed through with disciplined action. She uses the repetition method to. keep her goal vividly in mind. Will power is linked with will- ingness. Reducing is a mental achievement. You have to think, talk and act in the direction you track? Examine your attitudes. ect is more important than the number of pounds you need to lose. Why? Because some from taking action. To catch on to the hindering attitudes, be alerted to the justifications you ing your ways of eating. Watch your inner "'talking." It helps enormously to objec- tify your attitudes, then you can deal with them with some meas- ure of detachment. The whole purpose of this is to develop an awareness. Enlightened, you will be in an excellent position to give yourself instructions. It's a great day when you de- cide to take charge of your life. With this resolve you harness your will to a pictured goal. Then you can look in the mirror and say to yourself with convic- tion "I am eager to slim down and shape up. My happiness isn't in eating sweets. I want to be slim and feel young again!" The power of a confident at- titude approximates magic. You know you can do it! HOUSEHOLD HINT A serrated - edge grapefruit knife does an efficient job in removing the core of a green pepper. Pevvet oF WIFE PRESERVER Slip a rubber crutch tip over the head of your hammer and you can pound finished surfaces without marring them. x Custom Made or Ready-to-Hang DRAPERIES @ HOMES @ OFFICES @ INDUSTRIAL -- Since 1919 -- WARD'S Simeoe St. et Athol 725-1151 | until we earn a new title?--/|sary punishment to sentence should be announced when he is assigned to the/to waste such effort. Of course, Mi "chair" (15 to 20 minutes for] his readiness to sit for the desig- first names? If she lapses back|the youngster 2 to 4, 30 to 45/nated time will depend on how clock does not get nervous or have a headache. No child can, the speed of this clock. If not lengthen it. make to yourself for not chang- should not add 10 or more min- CHILD GUIDANCE Chain-sitting Effective Punishment For Child By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD | If you are dependable and|prating succeses. Why not show Often in this column over the' consistent he will not need many|your appreciation of his good years I have entreated parents of these pain experiences to!papers and display them on the of children from 2 to 6 or 10 to) 4 assign this youngster for neces- I have advised the time of the I have pointed out that the y crying or pleading, control the If, for instance, the youngster cause him to stay there the full sit un-|time. While he is serving time, amused, doing nothing, in a| keep no account of his crying or certain place or chair for a def-| pleading. inite period of time. When he discovers from sev-| eral sessions that his crying doesn't work, he will choose not minutes for the child 6 to 10, as/ surely he accepted "'no" as final happy. You should hear what|measured by the clock).Idonot)in scores of other situations mean that the time for any par-) during his waking hours. ticular child should vary but that the time for different chil- dren should vary with their ages. Chair-sitting is effective and humane. Scores of parents have written me to say it works and that most children dread it. The parent who gets chair-sitting | going effectively by the time the youngster is three or four may not find spanking or paddling ti] Becessary thereafter. Certainly by the time the poral punishment may be aban- ality gavin oo -- with control still very ef- A : ust as ,ou should not s ective. Well established by then Your attitude toward the proj the sentence while the young-/even chair-sitting, or any ethee ster is serving it, so you should) kind of punishment, may be less and less necessary. If I could "sell" this idea to grudging attitude can keep you) .niie serving his announced| practically all parents of young beforehand time of 20 minutes|children I could help them con- kicked or screamed or left the/trol their children effectively pgrade now since, as of this tweek, you entered a fine three- anonth cycle governing these in- tterests. Other good breaks in A most stimulating day can|i967 should come during mid- be expected as a result of pres-| July, the first week in October ent configurations. Planetary in-|and during the latter part of fl favor busi and fi-|¥ ber. nancial transactions, dealings| Creative workers are prom- with superiors and negotiations |ised an exceptionally good year, involving long-term projects. On| with outstanding periods of ac- the persona! side, romance,|complishment promised during travel and group activities are| tyne, in September and next especially star-blessed. January, All Capricornian- FOR THE BIRTHDAY Aquarian cuspals however, If tomorrow is your birthday, |S%0Uld avoid extravagance and ; indi speculation in May and June; your horoscope indicates that hea het 6a is che 0 the next 12 months should bring|."° peween OC. to dno nce A eae 15. Beginning with the first of satisfactory achievement along ' : job and financial lines, as well|"¢2t January, however, all will . enter another excellent three- as great happiness in your per- ty ' sonal life. Career and monetary |™onth cycle which should bring matters with which you are pres- |2%,,UPtrend on all fronts. ; Sentimental affairs should ently occupied should be on the prove exceptionally happy in early April, in late August, late and save millions of youngsters |October and (or) late Decem- |of various ages from beatings ber. Social interests should also and whippings. prove most enlivening this year While most parents would not|andl you should make many new wish to delegate to the baby-|and interesting contacts. Best sitter authority to spank the tot;peniods for travel: Anytime be- to control him, most parents|tween June 1 and Sept. 15 (if would not hesitate to have the|you are interested in a long |babysitter resort to chair-sitting|jouney); the latter half of Oc- 'for necessary punishment. Be-|tober or late December, for |sides, when the teacher in the|Shoyt trips. nursery school or second grade| A» child born on this day will decided to have the unruly|be extremely sensitive and in- youngster sit in a chair alone|tuitive; unusually versatile for a definite period in the rear|alomg creative lines. lof the room he would be well gums prepared to profit from such | | "isolation." | an | PARENTS' QUESTIONS | Q. Our son, 10, sometimes| brings home school papers with} |high or perfect grades on them| /but I tell him he also should \bring home those with low|§ Remove superfluous hair per- |grades on them. Am I right? manently from face, arms. legs |" A. Your son is smarter than|f Wi = ELECTROLYSIS you area. He believes in cele- Kree Imperial Deluxe, gentle, i! fast by Electrolysis. | MARIE MURDUFF Will be in Oshawa at the Gen- osha Hotel Jan. 23, 24, 25. PHONE 723-4641 THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORRO W WORLD OF Beauty. 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