Dear Ann Landers: I am al _Shicago cab drivers and, believe "me, hacking in Chicago is a tough way to make a buck. But the worst part of the job isn't the driving, it's the people who get into the cab and righty away they want to tell you their troubles. Yesterday I had a lady who was going to the airport. She started to tell me a long story about her husband running around with a girl who works in his office. She got so worked up that she hit me on the back with her purse and hollered: "How do you like that for an old goat with grandchildren?" Finally I-said: "Look, Mrs. why don't you write to An Landers and let me drive this cab?" She yelled: Ann Landers and she told me Taxi Drivers Make Good Listening Posts A cab driver can be the ideal| |person to unload on because he's |a stranger, he couldn't care less about who is to blame, and the passenger will probably nover| see him again. So, be a good) egg and listen. Dear Ann Landers: My hus-| band and I will be celebrating) our 20th wedding anniversary) next month. The problem is! that he wants to buy me a mink coat for my anniversary' and 1) don't want one. I am going) through the change and what I need most of the time is fan, not a fur coat. "I did write to) My husband says I am being) n/selfish. He claims that I am| depriving him of one of the greatest pleasures a man can| have--presenting his wife with something special. If you say he! I need to talk to somebody|is right, I will consider it. May| about my problem so I am talk- ing to you." Now I know you don't mean for people to tell their troubles to cab drivers. What you mean is they should talk to ministers or marriage counsellors and like that. So please, Ann Land- ers, make it clear to the folks who write you. Much obliged.) --Big Red their troubles to cab drivers don't want advice. They just want somebody to listen. THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Saturday should prove a highly enjoyable day. Personal relationships will be highly con- genial, so much interests as group activities, travel and ro- mance should bring you great happiness. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, while you can accomplish a great deal in the year ahead along monetary lines--especially in late April, early May, during all of July, in mid-September mid-October and next January --it would be avisable to make no loans and to avoid extrava- gance and speculation in late May, the first week of June, November and December. Best periods for job and (or) business interests: late April, early May, late December and next Janu- ary. If you will be careful to avoid friction in close circles for the balance of this month, in late April, early June, late August, early September and early Oc- tober, you will find that prac- tically all of this new year in your life will be marked by|Poe, who were on the way to happy domestic and social de-/hospital when the birth became velopments. And, as for ro-|imminent. mance, you will have an excep- tionally good year, with notable periods in late June, all of July and late Sepember. Creative workers will have one of their best years in many, with some outstanding accomplish- ments forecast for May, June and September. making the change and he just I hear from you please?-- |Shaker Heights j Dear Shaker Heights: I urge you to reconsider. Forget about! yourself. Make the sacrifice.| Put your husband's wishes first.| Think mink. You'll be glad you! let him talk you into it. who has a faithful wife (not beautiful, just average looking) | and two adorable children, yet! the only picture he carries in| his billfold is one of his mother and father? Some men have pictures of the wife and children on their desks, but we don't even rate a billfold. This may sound like a petty complaint but it hurt me deeply when I opened my hus- band's shirt drawer yesterday and discovered the new pictures I had made up for the wallet. This morning I checked and and found that he is still carry- ing the old picture of his par- ents. I would like your opinion.-- Left Out of The Picture Dear Left Out: I'll bet your husband has been carrying that old picture of his parents for Dear Ann Landers: What do| : jyou think about a grown man Dear- Red: People who tell . V7, Moroccan djellabah. The inset shows the true djel- labah, worn by a Moroc- THIS LEOPARD silk jer- sey by Donald Brooks is an adaptation of the can woman on a street in Casablanca. (CP Photo) Moroccan Djellabah Copied By New York Fashion Designers By MARGARET NESS NEW YORK (CP)--Arabian splendor and styles have in- trigued the Western world ever since the Crusaders brought jewelry and costumes back from their campaigns. This winter the Eastern look is strong, especially in at- home costumes. Flattering to any hostess of whatever age or figure are the adaptations of the djella- bah. In Morocco men and women 'still wear this loose robe-like gown, even in such modern and cosmopolitan cities as Casablanca and Tan- gier. A few years ago a hand- some white wool dijellabah could be purchased in the souk (market) in Fez for about $5. They are probably more expensive now, what with increased tourist trade and the fashion interest in the garments. But they will be several hundreds of dollars lower than the designer adap- tations seen in the fashion col- lections in New York. One handsome version by Donald Brooks is in leopard silk jersey with the original wide square sleeves modified to a batwing. For Townley, Chuck Howard designed a white four-ply crepe. It flows over the arms in wide under- slung sleeves. Both these gowns could be worn to a formal gala as well as for at-home parties. HE INTRODUCED TURBAN And California's Galanos combined the Moroccan cloak- like burnoose and full Eastern trousers in a gauzy checked lame with beaded yoke, defi- nite'y only for at-home wear. CHILD GUIDANCE Helping Child Learn Sounds Can Be Started At Early Age By GARRY C MYERS, PhD jgoes on if you pause at the Many parents, even those|Thyming word in a couplet he with college degrees, may not/will supply it. Then before he feel they can help their chil-/has learned the names of dren at home to learn the sim-|printed words or the letters in ple basic sounds. of letters in|them, he may like to have you words, They may not have had)say a number of words together much guidance with phonics at|which rhyme--cat, pat, hat, Many years--and I hope you'll remain silent and let him do it as long as he wants to. The fact ture doesn't mean he cares less for you and the children. It sim- ply means he feels guilty about can't bring himself to do it. GETTING A HABIT CINCINNATI (AP) -- Patrol- man Clifford Laudermann might as well be an obstetri- cian. He assisted recently in the seventh delivery of his police career--a six-pound 14-ounce boy to Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Some change in environment, in either your home or tion, is indicated in early June and (or) the first three weeks in October, but the changes should prove beneficial. A child born on this day will be endowed with fine imagina- tion and intelligence, would make an excellent writer or sci- entist. Lf WIFE PRESERVER Get a space-saving triangular hamper that snuggles up to a corner, ents may believe their children s | ; 4 ' ; A oon he will like to say words that he doesn't carry your pic-/are not getting adequate in- which rhyme a word you |say--words rh; with man, parents. Even though you May|a few examples. He may like not have much formal educa-|to say the names of pictures ploma, you might be able to|jearned to recognize words or Cramped for bathroom space? |the creatures--just the pictures. school when they were children.| mat. Yet some of these same pal-ipry are WORDS - | struction in phonics at school. Suppose you are one of these|with lag, with block, to name tion, even a high school di-/ which rhyme--all before he has |fun at seeing you print together with exceptions has just one sound--among the few excep- tions are the hard and soft sound of c. « Soon he can have fun seeing groups of pictures together on a page whose names start with the same sounds--box, bear, bug, bag, bat; cat, car, can, cap. No word is needed at first, but it can be added later below each picture naming it: Still later the child will get on a page just the names of things beginning with the same sound not only of single letters but of blends and other com- binations. If your child in Grade 3, 4 or 6 reveals to you that he's un- familiar with the simplest sounds of letters in words, you might help him greatly during just a few sessions with him. Today we're also learning new Eastern names as design- ers seek out unusual native costumes for adaptations, such as the gandurah, the Arabic word for their sleeve- less shirt like, ankle - length dress. It is fast becoming popular for resort wear. You'll also be hearing about the gibba, the waistlength ver- sion of the djellabah. It is popular for southern resorts and for after-ski costumes. The last really important Eastern period was some 60 years ago. The great French designer Paul Poiret invited 300 guests to the first of what were to become his famous balls. The theme was the Arabian Nights and all guests were commanded to appear in authentic Oriental costumes. He admired Oriental head- gear s0 much that, about 1910, Answering Questions help your child in the elemen-|the letters in them. All this will tary grades to get enough skill| he fun for him and for you, too. in matching letters and Broups| him sound out many new words when he reads or spells. You don't need to wait till he enters school. When he's only 3 or 4 he may say tick-tock for clock, bow-wow for dog, or) quack-quack for duck. As you call to his attention many other familiar sounds of things and help of their pictures. As you see, you could vary this proce- the alphabet you can show him that each of the consonants Q. Our daughter in Grade A is taught the 'new math" at school. Her teacher says she ; Later he will like to have you|does well in this subject but) of letters: with sounds as to help | print the name under the rhym-|when at home she adds or sub-) ing pictures, and then learn to|tracts in checking on her al-) say the rhyming words with the|lowance she still counts on her} fingers. A. Without complaining to dure in all sorts of ways. After|the teacher or criticizing her| your child has learned to iden-|before your daughter, show this! tify most or all the letters of|child how to memorize the] basic addition combinations, three or four an evening. creatures he will be fascinated and soon be calling other! sounds to your attention. | At 3, 5, 6 or 7 he may like to have you cut out pictures of | familiar animals and_ paste! them on a sheet of cardboard. | Then what fun you and he may) have at making the sounds these creatures make. At this 11% King Street E HOUSE OF FABRIC 'ast Oshawa, Ontario HURRY! HURRY! HURRY! JANARY CLEARANCE SALE learning stage you need not) have him associate these sounds with the words naming FINE DRESS AND DRAPERY FABRICS As you have been reading |nursery rhymes to the tot you | will notice that he likes to hear) e 1 the rhyming word, that as time| -- ave 20% to 40% Discount! Open Fri. Night Till 9 725-4551 skirt style into fashion. Ob- viously all this interest in Eastern costumes influenced other couturiers and the East- ern fashion was eagerly picked up by the wealthy clients. CAFTAN PROVES HIT In the fall of 1954, the late Christian Dior introduced the caftan coat, adapted from the long flowing garment won in North Africa. Caftans and djellabahs are fundamentally the same but the caftan be- came popular first. It wasn't until about five years ago that tourism brought the Moroccan djellabah into fashion. Dior's caftan was the hit of the Paris collections. By the next spring, America was sell- ing it in volume. This winter Bill Blass of New York (whose designs are also produced by Lew Shed- lack in Montreal) highlighted a group of at-home caftan crepes, with glittering metallic accents. In Italy Princess Pignatelli's interpretation of the caftan was in both white flannel and beige-and:brown tweed. é India provided the next Eastern influence. In 1955 came the straight, knee-length jacket worn by Hindu men | and popularized by the late | prime minister Nehru. This is also called the rajah look. This winter several elegant rajah-tunic dresses in silvery- | white brocade have appeared in designer collections. Ten years ago harem hem- | lines were all the rage. Also important were the high Chi- nese mandarin necklines, Jap- anese kimono sleeves and obi- sashed waistlines. INSPIRED BY MOVIE In 1963 the movie Lawrence 'of Arabia started a rash of desert inspirations, in pith helmets, trailing veils and sand colors. In 1964 the East- ern influence was felt again. This was seen in Byzantine embroidery and in adapted Crusaders' tunics for evening dress, done in crocheted me- } Custom Made or Ready-to-Hang DRAPERIES @ HOMES @ OFFICES @ INDUSTRIAL -- Since 1919 -- WARD'S Simeoe St. et Athol he introduced turbans. They "were immediately popular. He "725-1151 also intreduced the harem - | | THE OSHAWA YOUNG WOMEN'S CHRISTIAN ASSOCIATION announces ite Twenty-Second Annual Meeting ADELAIDE HOUSE Thursday, February 16th, 1967 6:30 p.m. (Dinner Meeting -- Tickets --- 2.00) | GUEST SPEAKER -- Mrs. A.W. Ruby, President, | Y.W.C.A. of Canada. it Is not possible Dinner tickets may be purchased et the Main Office made by telephone on or before Februery 13th. Telephone 725 You are cordially invited to be present for this Dinner Meeting but If to come for dinner, please come to hear the speaker ---- her address should begin ct epprox! gE ag members cre urgea to attend and, if possible, to bring « 'imetely 8:00 p.m. or reservations 1322. |Canadian tellie thread with the effect of chain mail. Also for the last few years interest has turned to India's saris and many of the design- ers, especially Adele Simpson, have used these beautiful silks | for dresses or for bandings. This fall and winter the | Eastern influence has really become important. Besides various versions of the flowing caftan or djellabah, the man- darin look is back. It is remi- niscent of the cheong-san, the dress worn by Chinese women, buttoned to the high neckline but with side slits in the skirt. This has been espe- cially popular in floor-length evening gowns. Latest interest is in African prints -- b colorful and brassy. These prints are ap- | | MANY DEFY LAW It has been estimated up to one in five of pregnancies in the United States ends in abor- tion. WORLD OF Boauty pearing in daytime dresses | and in resort clothes for both the beach and evening. PAY STAYS DOWN The median wage earned by women is $2,010 a year, compared with $4,009 for men. | Will be in Oshawa at the Gen- AWAITS YOU HERE! Remove superfluous hoir per- manently trom face, arms. legs with, ELECTROLYSIS Kree Imperial Deluxe, gentle, fast by Electrolysis. MARIE MURDUFF osha Hotel Jan. 23, 24, 25. 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