10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesdoy, Januory 17, 1967 | Dear Ann Latders: The letter from the woman who resented going to the beauty shop and ing up with other people's nois~, poorly behaved children caught\ my eye. She said she go to the beauty shop for relaxation -- to get away from her\own kids--and I can certainly $ee her point, But my complaint\lis of a different na- ture and I beg you to print it. When I go to a beauty shop I like to come out smelling fresh and clean, but today it is impossible. I have tried three shops and they are all the same --blue with cigarette smoke.|The Tir |] The last place was the worst.| I counted 14 patrons with cig-| you should. I also suggest that arettes -- one woman had ajyou learn what other accidents cigar. Every beautician had a cigarette going. Yesterday the|have been several. operator who did my hair al-|from an authority what this most set me on fire. you're a genius.--Celling Zero | Dear Zero: Find a salon with| ANN LANDERS | Children Or Smoke -- Both Annoy Others accident. This time he almost lost a leg. I am very upset over this, Ann. What's more, the first thing he asked about when he came out of the anesthetic was how badly was his bike banged up. "Today when.I took him out in the wheel chair all he talked about was getting a new motor- cycle. I love this guy but I don't | want to be a widow at 22. Do I jhave the right to tell him I will |marry him only if he gives up| : 'the motorcycle?--Had It With' Dear Had It: You do--and Jim has had, I suspect there Find out |means before you tie up with Dear Ann La"ders: A certain individual booths instead of one) girl (I will call her Joan) has large room, Bring a small bottle|been a steady Saturday night of vinegar along on your next visit and ask the operator to pour some in a saucer and place it near you, The vinegar will absorb the smoke, When youl leave, pour the vinegar back in| the bottle and ask the operator to put it away for the next) time. | | Dear Ann Landers: Eight! months ago when I started to} work as a volunteer in a hos-| pital I met a very attractive patient. Jim had been seriously sitter for us for over a year. She is dependable and the chil- dren like her better than any) | of the other sitters. Last week Joan told me that she has started to go steady.and| from now on her boy friend is going. to keep her company when she sits. My husband! doesn't like the idea. I see noth: ing wrong with it. We have) agreed to do as you ay | If you can solve this problem|him forever. lk E ANN LAWSON, mother of the world's fifth surviving set of quintuplets, knits and chats with a friend at home in Auckland, N.Z. as the children, born July 1, 1965, relax, Usually it's more hectic, says Mrs. Lake Forest Dear Lake: I say get another sitter, If you provide a cozy injured in a motorcycle acci-|setup for a couple of teen-agers dent. He was in the hospital for nearly six months. I saw him! at least four times a week, The day Jim was discharged) he asked me to marry him and) I said yes. He bought me a ring the following week. The very first day he was allowed to leave the house he took his motorcycle and got into another! you are promoting whatever happens--and take it from me, it's happening very often--and right under the trusting noses) of people like you. The business of a sitter is to children in your absence. It's a) job and should be treated as a job not a social engagement. | Women's DISTAFF DIARY Summary of reports of Oshawa women's organization submitted by their secretaries, WCTU thelping at ; | Mrs. Lloyd Pegg, president|Centre, latterly in the wrapping be in charge of your home and| the Oshawa Branch of the/of Christmas Gifts for the pati- Tepmer|ents at the Ontario Hospital, ance Union, led the group in aj Whitby. ai Christian ion on "What Shall I meetings and activities of is as compiled from reports the White Cross The annual Christmas Party Lawson. The quits -- four N Zeal d 7 tu 1 lof the mother's favorite wool|were conoelved after hormone ew an win p e reate for most wearables. '"You\treatment for infertility. '"In- should see the shopgirls blink|stead, we got them all at once. ' ® when I ask for something," she| Now all that really matters is any anges n arents Life says. "Then they realize who that we do the best we can for preeng and want to know all them." AUCKLAND, NZ, (CP)--Ann|sale of a fish shop they once, 2>0ut, the babies." laren js a beautiful former|operated jointly and a na ole ige ey fOr cb acdeees. 67 * 14 bid Sat Ss wit hs berry patch Ann tended, they gelesen manage with six chil-|will be ready for visitors' feet thi ; oe ee i | cope with five of them the same|sage aching legs and rest areas patil doslig Despite thelr national fame,| Ke lwhere the feet can be bathed wie a the world's fifth Pod es Mi como fake or iong BS "We might have had six Seater 9 = oe, y i j avi a |dren normally if we had been|grounds and cobblers wi e viying set of quintuplets. Since|New Zealend families, they re-\ able," says Ann, whose quints|available to repair broken heels. "family benefit, they were born July 1, 1965,\ceive the Ann and husband Sam have be-|which comes to $2.25 per week come national celebrities. per child. The national govern- Life has also become more|ment has set up a trust to ad- complex. 'Each day is hectic,"| minister money that comes in} says Mrs. Lawson, though she|from publicity and advertising| and her husband are trying to) rights. i bring up their six youngsters--| Ann says that, with the build- | there is alsb six-year-old Leeann/ing program ahead, they can) --as "just an ordinary family."|spend only frugally -- "but [| The first thing that happened can't resist the odd extrava- with the fire Ri the four aes gance on the children." and one boy--Lisa, ina, Shir- lene, Deborah and Samuel--was| NEEDS EXTRA MONEY that the Lawsons suddenly out-| Sam works overtime to keep, jabreast financially. He has a grew their. home. ! f Arrangements were made to small builders' supply _busi- move them to a larger house| n¢ss--which he set up after the which, by coincidence, happens|quints were born--and moon-| to be a former maternity hos-| lights as an adviser on cements. | pital annex where Ann had her|His spare time is spent at the first child. site of the new home near the' "T never thought I'd be serv-| S€8- ing tea in the room where Ij Expenses multiply for the recovered from Leeann's birth," parents of quints--everything Mrs. Lawson said. "I've tried|from three prams to five sets) to make it as homely as I can." y,| NOT LIKE HOME | That defies effort, as can be seen from looking into the stain-| less steel kitchen and down the wide shining linoleum-covered | corridor. Two nurses provided' Custom Made or Ready-to-Hang DRAPERIES @ HOM OSHAW, RUG LLEANERS RUG CLEANIN SPECIAL... 2 For | SALE Take advantage of this great up, cleaning special. Hove 2 rugs cleaned for the price of one. You will be charged for the larger of the two and both rugs must be picked up and deliver- ed to the same address. Please phone for estimates on wall to wall rug cleaning special gs by ihe Aare el wae | © Or ee or ele on. plensing & new home of their -- Since 1919 -- OSHAWA RUG CLEANERS girls and a boy -- are Shirlene, Selina, Lisa, Sam- uel and Deborah. (CP Photo) own. They've bought a 10-acre tract a few miles from their present quarters in suburban Henderson. The government has advanced them a loan and, along with the pr ds from WARD"S Simcoe St. et Athol 725-1151 Pick-up and Delivery Call 725-9961 1700 Simcoe St. N. Oshewa CHILD GUIDANCE Many Teachers Worry Teach My Children About the| was held at the home of Mrs. Use of Alcohol," assisted by|F. J. Goyne, Sunset drive. After Mrs. Clayton Lee, Mrs. Chalres|the dinner all members par- Langfield, Mrs. Howard Brown ticipated in addressing Christ- and Mrs, Clayton Garrison. {mas cards to the residents at It was announced that the| Hillsdale Manor. This was fol- February meeting would be a, lowed by an exchange of gifts. review of the life of Frances| An invitation has been re- Over Problem By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD In professional advice to teacher, verbal and printed, you - ean hear or read that the teacher should aim to reach every child in her room all the time. Some over-conscientious - teachers lie awake nights be- cause they can't. In your imagination put your- - gelf in the place of the teacher of an average class with 25 or more children, of any grade, : Consider how these children dif. : fer in nature, home background » and ability. . . Beyond Grade 3 or 4 the spread in reading skill may be as wide as five or six years. How different they may be in|overshadows richness of experiences at home ~ er in how they are disciplined : and guided there in due regard * for the rights and possessions 'of others in the family and else- : where, and respect for consti-|you?" * tuted authority. Consider how students may differ in having learned to lis- ten when others speak or give directions. Imaginé how they differ in co - operating with other children and doing what they are supposed to do in such a up as a classroom full of children. Try to imagine how students differ in native ability to learn, or how they differ in their abil- ity to remember, think and reason, or to express them- selves orally or in writing; how they differ in habits of concen- tration or readiness to be dis- tracted by all sorts of factors, or to daydream. At any moment in the school day, imagine how many chil- dren in a classroom often will in their minds be miles away i what is going on in the class. USES SKILLS Now and then a teacher is so skillful as to assign to the various children individually or in smaller group, what strongly appeals to them, what they can do fairly well or do with satis- faction from achievement. If Children superiors and the parents of her children, the teacher often can feel inadequate. How fortunate she is if she is able to keep herself from worrying about those children who are not making the progress she wished they made. How fortunate it is if she can often dwell on her successes, especially with those individual youngsters lately making great strides but whose ing, had often discouraged her, and often on what she thinks were her failures, and she may be able to get an inner her discourage- ments. Maybe she could set as her goal a good batting-average. Answering Questions Q. To our baby girl, 2, daddy may say: "Daddy's girl." But if I then answer, '""Mamma's girl." I'm Willard; she can muse on many of her successes intl wen illness low of satisfaction which |oq to a dinner, which was suc- cessful. pictures taken in Hawaii where she had spent her vacation. "Whose girl are|ty the District Office as the Her answer then is:|ciub's share in the centennial committee would be appoint-| ed at the March meeting, with | the installation of officers tak-| ing place at the April meeting; | that plans were being discuss- ed for a Centennial tea in May; | that Mrs, Brown would be re- ceivving the Sunday school essays on temperance and that a day would be set for their) marking. THE PILOT CLUB | The final meetings of the/ Pilot Club of Oshawa for 1966 without dwelling too long! were exceptionally busy, de- spite the fact there was con- among the The finance committee cater- Miss Lillian Kroll showed It was decided to send $100. The members have that the nominating|ceived to visit the North To- |meeting on Wednesday after- Ae " pais quarters in Toronto Laine eed rage 1 project, to be used to further/forms were now requir 0 say: "Oh, I thought you were|the education: of a Canadian my girl," in conflict she will Indian. be used for been | deductions. ronto Club in January. CEDARDALE UCW Cedardale United Church Women held their regular noon in the Sunday school room with Mrs. Albert Singer | presiding. The president mentioned that a parcel had gone forward to God's Lake as requested and parcels had been distributed. to members and friends at Hills- dale Manor during the holiday season. The members were remind- ed of the congregational meet- ing being held Sunday eve- ning, January 29, which will be followed by doughnuts and cof- fee, Plans were also made for an anniversary supper to be held February 26 at 6.00 p.m. and committees were formed. A letter was read from the United Church Women's head- cover donations which would income tax beginning to wonder if this _ be a harmful practice. Is A. It could be harmful if done often. Besides it could be the beginning of more subtle com- peting bids as time goes on, for this child's affection. i} GIVES FOR ALL OSHAWA, Ont. (CP) -- Over | 24 years Dorothy Turpin has given five gallons of blood to the Red Cross, four times her body's content. "I intend to con- tinue to donate as long as I can," said Mrs. Turpin after her 40th donation. "It makes you feel a lot better . LOVED THAT SPUD A French scientist, Antoine Parmentier, was such an en- thusiast for the potato that he persuaded King Louis XVI and/| Marie Antoinette to wear its! blossoms as ornaments. she can thus reach nearly all her children for some relatively brief periods she may be suc- ceeding famously. 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