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18 'THE OSHAWA TIMES, Mondoy, December 19, 1966 ANN LANDERS Wandering Husbands are = = Me iit fe i $ ie ' =F zs Sy 36 'ti Z ri i z i i 3 ve z i ' i | z z | § 2 | i 2 aS5 iis Ss e. s 98 iii i z 5 3 : Rs i g i é 2 ra i i | Z g 7 saa For Reassurance Fi By ROBERTA ROESCH A writer can't interview Katie Louchheim of Washington, D.C., and discuss her life in chrono- logical order, because she lives $o many lives simultaneously. In one, she is a wife and mother, as well as the grand- mother of three. In another, she is a government official--the recently - appointed deputy as- sitant secretary of state for educational and cultural af- fairs, PUBLISHED POET In a third, she is the author of many published poems and 0 delightful volume of light verse With or Without Roses (Double- day). And in the fourth she is a strong believer in contributing service to a community and do- ing volunteer and political work, since that is how she got started herself. "My life is overflowing," says Mrs. Louchheim who is married to Walter C. Louchheim, Jr., vice chairman of the National Capital Planning Commission, "It has always been that way, and I have always had a good time, DID USUAL THINGS "In the years that I brought up my children I had all the ,jthe director Person With Many Interests Remains Active, Healthy ties and did all the usual things a woman does, "{ played the piano, wrote poetry, did volunteer work, en- joved myself, studied and read, and learned about life from ex- perience and people as I went along." During the Second World War Mrs. Louchheim started work- ing for the United Nations Re- lief and Rehabilitation Adminis- tration, serving as assistant o of information, From that start she began building a career in public serv- ice and holding many prominent jobs. In 1961, she joined the depart ment of state as a special assist- ant and consultant, She became deputy assistant in the state de- partment's office of community advisory services, a top position held by a. woman in this ad- ministration, before she was moved up to her present spot. ALWAYS A MAINSPRING "As far as poetry goes," she explained, "it has run through my entire life, "Before I started publishing it, 1 wrote it for my family-- for Christmas and birthday cele- brations. It has always been O PRAMMMNSMHPMHPMI IVIIIIIIM for a lifetime of proud possession OMEGA SELF-WINDING WATCHES the mainspring which makes{man --or the Inner woman--[us beyond the daily routine and, me tick and keeps me alivelalive, Poetry is the obsession|broadens what we are doing, | inside, that does that for me. When we find by start fe) "In this age when people are} "But whether one's obsession |do something it, we Hi either dieting or rushing some-|is poetry or something else Ijup with many lives, $ where, I think you have to have|believe we all need to have| 'Then one life adds to an- something that keeps the innerlsome kind of interest that takes|other."' We rloee In the oppottunity to wish you and yours a very Merty Christmas! - FROM THE MANAGEMENT & STAFF OF GILLARD "= OSHAWA 725-3555 # | Silver Wedding Anniversary r. Parents Should Treat Child With Respect He through/that he has not told the truth.|of Huntsville, and Douglas Wal- added that their throwing ugly 'words and names is equally to be discouraged. I don't remember discussing As mothers write most of the letters I receive, they occasion- ally refer to the father who engages in this practice. Some mothers are also guilty, as you must have observed. ' This practice is akin to mak- ing wild and outrageous threats to a child when vexed at him. Some of these threats are not made with the intent of carrying them out. Rather they are ex- plosions of violent anger, which when heard sound barbarous to any cultivated and refined per- son. This practice of throwing ugly words and names at a child may occur when the parent this child a liar and adds, "Ijlace and the late Mrs. Wallace, can neve: Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Wal- lace, Laurentian avenue, were honored by their children, rela- tives and many friends with a party and buffet supper to mark their 25th wedding anniversary. Deserves Mrs. Wallace, the formet Lor- étta Prince, daughter of the the reveals|late Mr. and Mrs. Albert Prince Suppose the parent bluntly calls|lace, son of Mr, Herbert Wal- r what you tell|were married in Huntsville by me," or "I just can't trust|the Reverend William D. Ross. you." Mr: and Mrs, Wallace moved Imagine yourself in the place|to Oshawa 22 years ago. They of this parent. Or in the place|have six children, two daugh- of the child. How long do you/ters, Marilyn, Mrs. Anton Zurba suppose it would take to re-|who recently moved to Windsor establish decent relations be-jand Sharon at home; and four sons, Rebert, Stanley, Gerold and Danny, all of Oshawa. They have two grandchildren. Mr. and Mrs. Wallace con- tinued to make their home in Oshawa, after Mr. Wallace re- turned from the Armed Forces and he has been employed for 20 years at Houdaille Inudstries as an inspector in the quality control department. The buffet supper was serv- ed from a table centered with an anniversary cake, brought from Windsor for the occasion, flanked by seasonal red tapers in silver candlesticks. Guests from Windsor Whitby and Oshawa and members of the family presented the couple with many gifts. tween the two of you? Perhaps ugly names and words at a id becomes most tragic when he is a teen- ager. It may happen when the parent gets into a word battle with him or her. Even if it advances to physical blows, ugly words may have led up to it. guese police report a growing PARENTS SET TREND number of assaults on girls with While we can't condone the/the sole object of stealing their child's saying ugly words to his|hair so that it can be used for. ene 8 is it Sri tas tate wig-making. when the parent s e battle} In several cases the assalil- with ugly words to the child and) ants, usually gypsies, waited keeps throwing ugly words back|for the girls on lonely country to him? Being older and with)roads. In others the attacks more experience, should welwere carried out by several parents not temper our utter-|men who used a car to escape ances to the child, regardless of| with the snipped-off tresses. 'Hairnappers' Assault Girls Steal Their Hair LISBON (Reuters) -- Portu- tries to help the child with book learning; usually homework. If the child then seems to be un- attentive, makes an error, or repeats one, the irate parent may utter all sorts of ugly ex- clamations and call him terrible names. If we could hear on tape a recording of some of the atrocious utterances by a par- ent at such time we might be appalled. SCHOOL REPORTS Sometimes these ugly utter- ances by a parent to a chil occur when a low or failing report comes from school, If not made to the child, 'they might be made about him in his ab- sence to the other parent, or worse still, to the child's brother or sister. Suppose a child at 6, 9 or 14 is charged by a parent with having taken something not his own, then called a thief by this prying parent. Then suppose, in the questioning and cross-ques- what he has said to us? 'ren't A 17-year-old girl was as- ve in he more. responsible! suited in a com field by a gr aapieke lmasked man. He threatened Throwing ugly words at a) child may occur after this child has met with some accident or faced an emergency. Perhaps he used the best judgment he} had but we said to him, "T) should think you would have) kriown better" or 'Why were you so stupid?" Here is a rile which might guide us and help us control our tongues in anger: Try always to speak in words and tones to the child in such a manner that, if you heard what you said played back to you on a record, you things, with the hope of discov- ering what he wants to do. We| are willing and able to finance) further study by him. What do} you advise? A. It's possible he could '"'find himself' but the chances are great that he won't stick to any- thing long enough to discover what his best choice will be. Ask yourself, "Is he trying to run away from effort and looking for something he thinks will be easy?" |first nun in Quebec to go to a her with a pistol and drugged her before removing her beauti- ful plaits. Schoolgitls are among the easiest victims of the assailants and in some villages parents refuse to allow their daughters to go to school unaccompanied. The assaults coincide with a growing fashion in Portugal and many other countries for women to wear wigs. Some of the stolen hair is used in Portugal where a wig factory has recently been set up. Some also is sent to the United States and nearby Spain. Most of the hair used in wig- making is artificial and natural hair wigs fetch high prices. Gypsies offer 500 escudos (about $25) for a pound of hair which must be a minimum of 12 inches in length. CHURCH SAYS YES MONTREAL (CP)--Urged by her sixth-grade pupils to make herself prettier, Sister Therese Beaudin became perhaps the beauty salon. A member of the Holy Cross order, which wears the new, short habit, Sister Therese had permission from her supexiors to have her hair would not feel ashamed. 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