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14TH ila TIMES, Pridey, October 21, 1966 band and I have been for 28 years, Although he has never pointed a knife or a gun at me (or anyone else) I live in fear that one day he will kill|dad, me and the children. How? With the family car. My husband is a thoughtful, kind, erous man, He is con- sidered stable and well - bal- anced by those who work for and with him. Yet he behaves like a mad man when he Is in the driver's seat of his automo- bile, He becomes furious when an- other driver jaiis io give him the right of way. He retaliates by speeding, leaning on the horn and swearing. He has no patience for older drivers who £ more slowly than he thinks ey should, I have seen some eerious accidents caused by a simple lack of courtesy, I think it miraculous that my husband has escaped.--so far. This is more than a "safety roblem."' It is a marital prob- lem. My husband's driving has ruined many an evening for me and caused many an argu- ment between us, Wil} you please print this letter and a comment or two? I'm sure I'm not alone.--Mrs, Shookup Dear Mrs.: You bet you're not alone. If all the wives who have this problem were lined up, they would reach from the}] emergency ward of any Los Angeles hospital to the morgue in Manhattan. Nearly half of my readers are men. To them I say: If you see yourself in that letter, mend your ways boys, before you become a suicide or a murderer --or both. Dear Ann Landers: I ama 18-year-old girl with a great big problem, My dad and mother were divorced three ANN LANDERS Men Become Bullies Behind Wheel Of Car .)me or my brother so we went to. live Wy aap stroke by B had to take me. My brother went to live with Last year mom remarried, She told me I could f° --_ on the honeymoon if I wan to. I had never been to Las Vegas so I said I'd like to go. I' had a rotten time because they kept leaving me in movies while they gambled. ' again and he says I can go along on their honeymoon, Thev are scing te Vellowstone Park and I've never been there either. I had such a lousy time on my mother's honeymoon that I'm afraid to take another chance, What is your advice? Go Or Not Dear Or Not: Pass up the trip. You'll enjoy Yellowstone Park more on your honeymoon. Dear Ann Landers: The fam- ily across the street worries me, Both parents work, They leave their children from morn- ing till night with anybody who has two arms and two legs. These people have had a pro- cession of sitters that are plain trash. The one they have now should have a sitter sit with her. She goes around the neigh- borhood all day, visiting and eating, while the children run oose. When they fall and hurt them- selves the neighbors put the bandages on. The house is al- ways locked so the kids come over here to use the bathroom. What can I do to help these young ones? Should I talk to the parents?--C, N. Dear C. N.: If the parents were decent they wouldn't need talking to. Anything you say would be considered interfer- ence. Just continue to bind up the wounds and keep your years ago. Neither one wanted bathroom available. CHILD GUIDANCE Lack Of Interest At School Stems From Poor Reading By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD Now and then a child or uth with no behavior prob- lems at home or school, and of more than average attractive- ness, is reported as "having no interest in school learning." A mother writes of her lad, 15, who repeated Grade 6: "In junior high he is way be- hind his class in English, math and history, takes a little inter- est in science and has improved in reading but seldom has a grade higher than C and gener- ally receives D. "We try to help him at home and the results seem more harmful than good. He be- comes irritable and nervous. Teachers seem to have too busy schedules, We have not found any suitable outside help from them. We tried to find a private tutor but were unable to locate anyone having time for such. "He likes to golf, fish, hunt and has good manners wher- ever he is. Persons are im- pressed with his personality and other abilities. TENSE PARENTS "His father and I have be- come worried and tense about his grades and lack of learning interest. I think the boy feels it is rather hopeless since he is so far behind, He doesn't seem to have any study plan when doing his homework. "T'm sure he already has a fund of information about sex but perhaps very little informa- tion. A related pamphlet would be appreciated." Now dad is getting mariice, ; Mrs, W. Rankine Nesbitt of Toronto, has been elected chairman of the world com- mittee, World Association of Girl Guides and Girl Scouts. Mrs. Nesbitt at- tended the world association HEADS GIRL SCOUTS, GUIDES meeting in Tokyo, Sept. 28 to Oct, 9 and has since represented Canada at the opening of Sangram, the KEEP IN TRIM How To Keep By IDA JEAN KAIN A wise doctor has ur ir dietitian to _ vy sligen! rough spots, rough is mental, the right: psy- pproach can cverenn: You it isn't dietary know-how you lack, but the will to carry on, Take a fresh avenue of ap: roach, If you are to carry on, it must be in a positive way, It is not a matter of applying will power to not eating, That negative plan causes you to feel deprived, it wis now you te he alert to how you habitually react in a given situation, or at A Speciiic piace in youd rouuc ing regime. By being aware of what you tend to do, this in- sight sets you free. You can then turn your energies in a positive direction, \ The whole point in being aware is to prevent the auto matic response. With a new perspective, you can help your- self over the rough places, Di- rect your will toward overcom- ing your fear of failure rather ne toward resisting fattening are, You ask if it helps. to picture girl guide and girl scout world centre in India, (CP Wirephoto) school student your son looks up to. Perhaps the best thing this boy could do would be to read aloud to a youngster 4, 5 or 6 to amuse this child. This would greatly improve your son's reading skill, It would be wond- erful if he were to read some alone every day for mere pleas- ure. I don't believe you can hope to get far by any show of force or exhortation, except, perhaps, to require him to be home on nights before school and to go at his homework at a regular time, Answering questions Q. When I read to my daughter, 3, she listens well but moves about playing with her WOULD HELP SHOPPERS WASHINGTON (AP) -- Con- metic passing a packaging and label- formity in labelling packages and voluntary. moves toward uniformity in packaging. HOUSEHOLD HINT To keep a hard crust from forming on bread or rolls, brush with. melted butter as soon as removed from oven, toy and doing all sorts of antics while I read, What can I do? her while she is moving about, ~\§ gress tried to ease the arith- problem for price-con- scious shoppers. Wednesday by ling bill. It calls for more uni- A. When she does so put the book away. Refuse to read to When Going Gets Rough be| rough. Face the fact that . Going size dress, Certainly it does, for visualizing makes your more real, To - a . . stride, see yourself coping umphantly when the down is not all smooth Ise is less stride, visualize yours to the situation, In effect, you give yourself a stimulating challenge, An awareness of how. the mind works toward whatever goal you set puts you in @ stronger position to identify with success, Truly, can revitalize your personality, Those of you who call for help throughout a long letter, are Tealiy apning wer somncen® be concerned with your prob: lem. You need encouragement from someone who undersianas and with whom you can work on a continuing basis, Could you join with a group? The 'group method of losing weight is based on the principle that together people will do many things which are difficult to do alone, In some cities there is a group called Weight Watch- ers, The YWCA offers courses, There is-also a national orga: nization called TOPS--Take Pounds Sensibly. 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After having been away for six months would like to announce she has returned to work and will be available for oppointments Thursdays, Fridays, and Saturdays, CREATIVE STYLING www BUY YOURS RIGHT AWAY jects require him to read, In his place, how could you ac- quire a strong learning interest if always it would mean you progressed slowly and had trouble getting meaning from the printed page? With the zeal of you parents to see him do better at books and your admitted worry and anxiety over his lag, it is not} strange that your efforts to help| him with his lessons "seem | more harmful than good," and) that he then becomes "nervous and irritable." It is doubtful whether you parents can change yourselves much in this direction. When you do try to help him, read with him some of his assign: ments. Even then you had bet- ter not go on unless you can be very calm and patient. 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