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me ANN LANDERS 'Travelling With Boss i Gives Bad Impression jon the gt and 'says she needs me. My husband onl to mene bot bp ak fed Se 8) years ago and told me I was on my own with my nutty family. In Fed bog pre you have fre- sa a person speaks p against being used, that will the problem, but it hasn't for me. I've told my times but she keeps call- . What can I do? -- Used Jp Dear Up: You recognize the martyr complex in your mother ,;out you don't recognize it. in yourself. | a ayiily Your mother has helped your hppa Save tadeld Mie. in toe rn ou 1 who|you've bac er e role pret ie bec : ¥ ede of abused wife. When you get pg wants to travel. I - et smart and knock it off, your you weigh these two ambi mother may get smart, too. and make a choice -- faaeae either a secretary or an airline aioe settle a disagreement? I at- stewardess. 'oe tended a luncheon recently and Dear Ann Landers: I'm ajmet some interesting people. woman, 48, with a fine husband|Since I am a newcomer to this and three wonderful children|city I am on the alert for ho are all doing well in col-/women I'd like to know better. leans r J. V. seemed very friendly a eager to introduce me Would you: believe that, my around. She brought over a stunning woman who was ex- . quisitely dressed and said with mother is the long - suffering great pride, 'This is my sis- type who enjoys her role, ter." At that moment. another As_a child we often had/woman stepped up and greeted boiled potatoes and beans for) yrs, She was shabbily dinner a our clothes came dressed, plain in appearance from resale shops, but dad/pnut her smile was warm and I always drove an expensive Car/jiked her at once. Mrs. V. said, and had plenty of money for/«This is my half-sister. We had liquor, Mother worked nights,/the same mother but not the cleaning office buildings, same father." I felt it was un- The problem is that at least/necessary for her to make the once a week my mother phones/distinction. My mother did not me at any hour of the night tojagree with me. What do you ee% Dear Ann Landers: Can you come and help her get dad out of jail, or pull him out of a tav- ern, or help drag him from the vestibule to the second floor bedroom. I have told my mother re- think? -- Undecided Dear Undecided: The "dis- tinction" was unspeakably rude; Nobody expects to be clued in on blood lines during a casual introduction, CHILD GUIDANCE Unwise Paren tal Pride Makes Child Show Off Bev GARRY ©. MYERS, PhD ; Often grandparents, and sometimes: parents, are sure the presence of other pe children, Before lon and children to ignore him when it will be hard for this child to under- stand. Striving to win back his accustomed applause he may resort to many kinds of ugly and foolish ways to get atten- tion, becoming as time goes a very unattractive and un- happy child. We grandparents and parents would be wiser if we never re- peated before a child or caused him to repeat anything we thought to be unusual. We should avoid having him learn anything in order to impress others with his mental agility. An occasional child under five or six learns to read. It is an unusual parent who doesn't want other children and her adult friends to see and hear this child read and io marvel at his achievement. A problem of the parent is to encourage 'this child at reading without seeking the applause of his ac- complishment. ENCOURAGE CHILD We want to encourage our children early to create in all sorts of ways. Sometimes they want to display their creations before guests, boring them. We need to be adroit in enabling the child to be encouraged in = oar cola a without his igen Ages ore or be- If your youngster two, three, | four, or five can draw many pictures and effect unusual cre- ations with his playthings, you will not want him to be the centre of the stage before com- pany. You might get good re- sults by inducing this youngster to go to another room to carry on his creations, and asking the guests to go with you later to see what he has done, If an older child has been creating in his workshop, guests might wish to go with you to have the child show them some things he has done. Any such procedure is better than having y| the child performing often or begin constantly in the company's Suppose your child has been taking music lessons. Should you ask him to play before com- oe If he is willing and can 'orm well, one selection or on|s0 might encourage him in his music practice, especially if the guests clearly indicate they wish to hear him. Ask yourself what your real motive is in cog | your child to play for guests. Is it chiefly for your own personal pride? Have you figured out the effect on the child and on the guests? ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Who may do most to pre- vent or correct stuttering in the child three or six? A. His parents, if they show no Worry over his stuttering, are calm and serene, never in- terrupt him or have him repeat after them, but make him feel that all is well. If, moreover, they often read to him, and pro- tect him from undue emotional strain and excitement, in a fam- ily atmosphere of abundant love and understanding. FEED THE YOUNG About 100,000 poor schoolchil- dren in Brazil's San Francisco valley are to get free school lunches this year from the UN coming social. nulsance World Food Program. TENT The full A-shaped dress in checks by Wragge, and the floor-length formal in pale SILHOUETTE FOR FALL belted dress has a knitted gt with a jewelled yoke, collar. (CP Photo) y Dominic,' show the new tent silhouette for fall. The THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW Stars indicate a more or less routine day; also the possibility of having to revise some of your previous plans. In per- sonal relationship, listen care- fully to what the other fellow has to say. Persons born under some signs may be somewhat tense now, and their statements may be open to misinterpreta- tion. Don't jump to unfair con- clusions. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, as of now, it would be advis- abie w iake wie hadi tative as advancing your interests, since, within a few days, aspects will be fine for achievement, In fact, planetary influences--ex- cept for the months of Novem- ber, next January and March-- will be exceptionally generous on and off for most of the year ahead, and you should see a notable improvement in both job and financial interests by the time your next birthday has rolled around. The aforementioned benefi- cent period which will begin on Oct. 1, will last throughout that month and you, as well as all Librans, should make notable upward strides on all fronts while it lasts. Next good periods along material lines: early De- cember, the first two weeks in February, the latter half of April, the first week in May, the last two weeks in June and next August. Personal relationships will also play an important role in your life during the next 12 months, so it would be advisable to enlarge your circle of ac- quaintances -- which you will have many opportunities for doing--especially through travel and social activities, during Oc- tober, in January, April and the weeks between June 15 and Sept. 1 of next year. Best peri- TOO MANY NURSES OWEN SOUND, Ont. (CP)-- Hospitals in the Philippines era. duate 1,500 trained nurses a year but opportunities to serve at home are limited, Therese Paraiso told a Rotary club meeting. 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