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<Q THE OSHAWA TIMES, Scturday, August 20, 1966 ANN LANDERS Exercise Judgment If Vol Dear Ann Landers: I just read that asinine letter from the man who was mad at you because you told another male reader he should not have helped the little girl in the church rest-room. Please print this letter as a lesson to all kind-hearted men who may be inclined to give a helping hand to someone in need. My two nephews (aged i9 and 17) were driving home after having visited relatives in an- other city. They saw a teen-age girl on the road. She seemed in distress so they picked her up. She got into the car, said she was trying to get home and-had run out of gas. The truth was that she was running away from home. The boys were stopped by the police who were on the lookout for the girl. My nephews were arrested, charged with satutory rape and spent the night and part of the next day in jail before the girl admitted that they were inno- cent. The boys' parents spent some mighty anxious hours be- fore the mess was cleared up. | The town, of course, is still making bets on "the true story." So you see it does pay to mind your own business.-- Greenville Dear Greenville: I agree. It does pay to mind your own busi- ness, but not to the point where we allow ourselves to ignore people in trouble. The operative word is "judg- ment." I am dead opposed to picking up hitchhikers (make or female) and have said so re- peatediy. To ignore a cry for help, however, as so many peo- ple have done in recent years, is inhuman and indefensible. Dear Ann Landers: The man I am in love with works with me and I see him every day. I cannot see him much at night} because he is married to a slob} who is so wrapped up in her! unteering Aid |children she doesn't know she \has a husband. | My sweetheart has told me |that he can't leave his children now and I see his side of it, Kids do need a father--at least |until they are out of high school. |My question is, what shall I do jin the meantime?--Patient Dear Patient: In the mean- |time you can read a lot or play |solitaire or watch TV or go to! movies. One day you will look in the mirror and discover to your as- tonishment you are older and there are no marriageable men around. You'll note that your sweetheart is still living with his wife and you are still seank- ing around settling for whatever you can get. | Pretty picture? No, But it's a} real one--and so old I am al-) most ashamed to repeat it, Dear Ann Landers; I had to laugh when I read the letter} from the worried wife who found orange lipstick on her husband's collar. I work as a draftsman and I use colored pencils for graphs and charts. For several years I used my handkerchief to smooth out the colored portions, One day my wife asked me, "Who in your office uses purple lipstock?"' # When I told her I didn't un-) derstand her question she con-/ fessed that she thought I was having affairs with several dif- ferent women because she had found red, pink, orange (and now purple) smudges on my handkerchiefs. When I explained she said, "What a crazy fool I have been." So you see, Ann, you are right. It's always wise to clear the air.--Not Guilty Dear Not: Any guy who would use his handkerchief for red and pink pencil smudges must have a very clear conscience, indeed. Here napkin holder is a_ pretty which can be done in a winkling of an eye. It will also be most come in your bazaar ideas. wel- By ANNE MASON EDMONTON (CP)--Ask Mar- jorie Bowker how many satel- RICE and Salmon Mold (top) with a platter of Mex- icali relish, asparagus with Rice And Salmon Mold K Masterpiece In Layers Canned vegetables are mere ly fresh vegetables cooked in cans under The fin- est canned vegetables are of course, the finest and freshest | before cooking. | The liquid which remains in the can after opening not be discarded. It valuable nutrients. Use it heathing the vegetable needs moisture BASIS FOR SAUCE If the canned vegetable liquid is drained, use it as the basis for a sauce; or add it to a vegetable or meat soup; or stir it into canned tomato juice; or use as part of the liquid for a vegetable aspic. After a long hot day, your. family will enjoy the following dinner. And you will enjoy the time-saving canned vegetables make possible TOMORROW'S DINNER Tomato Aspic Saladettes Rice and Salmon Layer Mold Green Beans Mexicali Jellied Seediess Green Grapes with Honeyed Sour Hot or iced Coffee or Tea Milk Measurements level; recipes for 6 pressure, contains RICE AND SALMON LAYER MOLD Rice Layer 14%.cup water 1% cup long-grain rice ¥4 tsp. salt (2\%-02.) jar sliced. mushrooms, drained tbsp. butter or margarine 1 tbsp. minced parsley | Bring water to boil; add rice and salt: cover. Cook over low heat 25 min. or until water is absorbed and rice is tender. Add remaining. ingredients. Pack into oiled 1% + qt. mold. Salmon Layer 1 (ilb.) can salmon, drained, boned and flaked, 2 eggs, beaten fi tbsp. minced parsley eo oe oe! Cream: \lites are circling the earth or how many members the United |Nations has and she'll give you the latest count. Not exactly the sort of infor- mation you'd expect from a judge but then, Marjorie Bow- ker is an extraordinary woman, For the last 10 years she has set aside the 9:30-to-11:30 a.m. period every weekday--"when other gals are having coffee" --for private study. It may be reading a book or report or the New York Times or research- ing. social problems, "TI found it satisfying, mak- ing use of these years,"' she says, "I never did it for any purpose." A mother of three and the wife of W. F. Bowker, dean of law at the University of Al- berta, Mrs. Bowker is a lawyer but hasn't been active in the profession since the Second World War when. she looked after her husband's practice. A native of Prince Edward Island, she became Alberta's first woman judge (there have been three woman magistrates) when she was appointed to the Edmonton juvenile and family court June 1. The appointment was an out- \growth, not.of her law back- ground, but her involvement with juvenile and child welfare. |Mrs. Bowker began investigat- ing juvenile problems when her children--Blair, now 17, Lorna, 15, and Keith, 14--were becom- ing teen-agers. |REPORT ADOPTED peanuts, green beans, peas and onions, 2 tsp. instant onion \% tsp. salt \ tsp. 1-16th tsp. pepper. 1 tbsp. lemon juice | | | | thyme Combine all ingredients in| mixing bowl. Pack into the mold atop rice. Set in baking By ELEANOR ROSS | If you were afraid to wash) should pan; pour around hot water to your electric blanket, and you| SUGGESTED ACTION depth of 1%4". Bake at 350 de- stored it without giving it a ing plate. Garnish with sliced) agree on this basic rule: wash- pimiento, olives and le mon/|ing is the only safe way to keep wedges. Serves 6 electric bedding clean. In fact,| MEXICALI RELISH: 1 (12:8 electric blanket. should be oz.) can vacuum-pack golden|!aundered often, before the dirt whole kernel corn with diced|becomes embedded in the red and green sweet peppers, | fibres. drained, 4 c. chopped sweet; When automatic blankets first pickle relish; % ¢. chili sauce; |came on the market, the idea 2 tbsp. fine chopped peeled|of laundering them was not juice; 1 tsp. sugar easy to accept, despite instruc-! Combine all ingredients in ajtion tags. But gradually we lost 1-pt. glass jar. Cover; Chill sev-}0ur timidity about doing this eral hrs.: stir occasionally.| If you are about to launder Makes 1% c. relish " jyour first electric blanket, heed PEAS AND ONIONS), £ew Simple rules. First of all, FRENCH STYLE: Heat 1 (17 disconnect the control and 0z.) can small early peas with rsemgg se gage . sinters onions. Drain (save liquid). Add iat eich ake pee vhs geeky 2 tbsp. butter or margarine; ightly died Beane) Fer régerast g tsp. each crushed sweet basil conch gt cg ay ee ee -- bere Simmer 1 min. Ser- ; Next, soak the entire blanket} ASPARAGUS DE LUXE: in cool suds for about 10 min-| Carefully slide asparagus spears oa bageet put gh be sho into a 9" fry-pan. Heat. Drain|}, th. W h Cae a ia A and save liquid. Top asparagus | Rel ay Died ote '| \s with 2 thgp. butter or margar-| ot Last year, as one of three} Washing Only Way To Electric Blankets Clean KITTEN NAPKIN HOLDER instructions, please send self-addressed stamped envelope Leaflet No. C. S, 927 and ten cents to cover cost of handling, If you wish Self-Education Key To Success For Alberta's First Woman Judge members of a committee in- quiring into adoption proce- dures in. Alberta, she spent 12 hours a day for seven months researching and writing her 220- page report. it was worth it. Almost all the committee's recommendations were embod- ied in the Child Welfare. Act passed by the legislature this epring. One of the most impor- tant was the removal of reli- gious barriers to adoption. As a result Uf her investiga- tions she became concerned about conditions on Indian re- serves and with the problems of retarded and emotionally dis- turbed children. Her brief to the. provincial government on retarda- tion, which she did on her own initiative, is before the provin- cial committee on preventive health services. An executive member of the Edmonton Welfare Council, Judge Bowker is to publish a report soon as chairman of a juvenile corrections committee. She enjoys a busy social life, does considerable public speak-, ing, is a member of the board of the YWCA and University Hospital and an executive mem- ber of the Howard Soci- ety. For nine years she ran a Sunday school. Despite her remarkably ac- tive public life, however, Mrs. Bowker remains a family woman, 'Too often I've seen the results of children deprived of parental love,'"' she says. It's a matter. of pride that come mealtime she puts away her work and the family never comes home to a "messy house stacked with papers." John Kee Career Women Caring For Family Sacrifice Selves By ROBERTA ROESCH "Job opportunities that get you ahead and lead to executive spots sometimes have price tags Wilt CAmUunig Geimianus th st can't overldok or ignore," said one woman, who is an executive by circumstance instead of choice. "People are envious of my job," she said, "and they tell me I am very lucky. But none of them knows the price I have had to pay. "My problem began the day I faced the unhappy fact that my husband lacked the ambi- tion to support our family, "Because I wanted our mar- riage to work, I tried to pre- tend that eventually my hus- band would get on his feet and make an effort to move to a job that would gradually get us out of the red and Lesp us going till I could help. AMBITIONS LESSENED "But while our children were still very small, they suffered from unfilled needs. As their deprivation increased, my hus- band's ambition decreased. I had to open my eyes to the truth that my husband's poten- tial as a family supporter left much to be desired. So did our | marriage. "A bit of the bottom dropped | out of my world with this realization. "However, when I recovered from this disappointment. 1) locked the hurt inside of me! and decided the best solution to/| ja very bad situation was to learn to live with a token mar- |riage, maintain an unbroken |home for our children, and to {look for job opportunities that | would get me ahead and enable |} me to support our family. | "It's not easy for a woman to pay the price this involves," she said. "But it is something I had to face in order to go pesos | OM," U Of A Hospital "imu In your case, your reasons for Recruits Nurses | will get you ahead and lead to to the Needlework Depart- m-nt of this Newspaper, asking for Leaflet No. C, S. 927. seeking a job opportunity that executive spots may be entirely From Married Rank fee" from the one reported we : If you are a woman anxious By ANNE MASON to advance, here are some EDMONTON (CP)--Labor de- things you cannot overlook. | partment figures say women 1. Expect to work harder than have an average of 25 years of a man, especially if you have free time after nursing their,/a household to maintain. families to maturity. | 2. Realize you will end up Some of them keep right on taking work home or there will nursing be plenty already there that The University of Alberta|will tie up some evenings and Hospital has 125 of them--for-| weekends and curb freedom and mer nurses who have retrained | family plans. for the profession after an ab-| 3%. Know that your job will be sence of five to 20 years and|on your mind every minute of are available for duty during|the day and night. emergencies, staff shortages) 4. Understand that to do and vacation periods. jeverything on your schedule At any time, a dozen or more | you will have to exercise self- members of the hospital nursing|discipline both mentally and reserve can be seen, many pro- | physically. viding intensive bedside care in| 5. As opportunities come the busiest wards. . your way, go out to meet them. | Each works one or two shifts| Exhibit leadership, judgment, | a week and many take on full-|an urge to build a talent for | time duty for three to six weeks| getting along with people, an in the summer for holiday re-|extra measure of ambition and, lief. : 4 will to succeed and grow. | "A good many of us need to|""uA eenayv Dinning | feel needed,"' says Mrs. Gordon} PP oc nnd coy | Ades, former president of the| ™& oF gee iad ee of University Hospital Nursing Re- as _labe rects; fold a diced | serve Association. 'It's a good fresh nectarine into the cooled outlet for many of us who have|dessert. Spoon into stemmed glasses and serve on under- some time to spare." r OVERCOMES SHORTAGE _|liners decorated with freak | 5 EMO POGRIVE WOE COORING WOT 1962 by Dr. J. D. Wallace, then) pRESs UP PLAIN CAKE | Fold some raspberry jam into! the hospital's executive direc-| tor, to provide a backlog of &X-| whipped cream; spread gener-| perienced help during nursing /oysly on pound or yellow cake. | shortages. Response was imme-| arrange slices of fresh Califor- | diate and enthusiastic. About nia Bartlett pears over and| 90 per cent of the retrainees ij | ; ; PeS| sprinkle with chopped roasted requalified as registered nurses pea a OPP | and most have remained active. Miss M. G. Purcell, the hos- pital's nursing director, says! the reserves not only provide! HOUSEWIVES ime Fong staff security but set an ex: | ample to students and younger THIS Is FOR You! |nurses because of the quality of | 4 special course specially fer \their work. housewives is being offered et |) ie | "Many of us have raised chil-|| ph | dren," Mrs. Ades explains. | OSHAWA BUSINESS COLLEGE jature. temperature, using an'anti-moth treatment. jhave been patients ourselves.' | adequate amount of soap or de-| Pay rates are the same but tergent and plenty of water, reserves always work under {supervision of a regular nurse. Avoid prolonged machine agi-| |" Nurse coming back to in. grees F. 30 to 40 min., or until|laundering, get it out and get|tation or tumbling. Instructions) ¥°'k has not been expected to if it firm to touch, Invert onto serv-/at it right away. All experts|usually 'suggest not more than|#¢CePt responsibility beyond her | three minutes of machine ac-|Preparation," Miss Purcell ex-| tion. A short spin cycle will re-| Plains. move most of the water, and| The reserve association is| any remaining moisture can be| Part of an. evacuation plan fa gently pressed out by hand. {nuclear attack developed by the} Never put an electric blanket|Alberta Emergency Measures} through the. wrigger. | Organization. For washing by hand, use the} : bathtub which is iarge enough| SUMMERY SANDWICH | to immerse a double blanket] Fold chopped fresh nectar-| without crowding. Observe thejines, thinly sliced frankfurters, | same rules as to water temper-|chopped pickle and onion into| | mayonnaise with a suggestion Instead of rubbing, use ajof mustard and spoon between plumber's clean plunger to|toasted, split hot dog buns. ----_--_----_| 1 understanding the patient and get FREE LITERATUR: |his family. 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