1Z THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, August 8, 1966 ANN LANDERS One § His Cruel Rudeness Dear Ann Landers: The let- hus- friends fer rem years ee solved probiern and rd like to tell you how. "Rude" is not a_ strong enough word to describe my husbana's behavior in ine eariy days of our marriage. He used to shut drawers on my fingers and knock off my hat when he reached over to make sure the car door was locked, Once he gave me two black eyes when he Opened the cupboard door (he. said he didn't know I was behind him), The interesting aspect of all these little "innocent" acts of mayhem was that he would al- ways pretend to be terribly sorry--and in a fakey voice | came to know so well he would say, "Oh, excuse me, Dear." One evening we were hanging pictures, He was on the ladder and 1 was handing him things. I must have said something that irritated him, because sud- denly he let the hammer fall on my head, I saw stars for five minutes. He became overly solicitous at once and gave me that, "Oh, excuse me, Dear" routine, ; Later that night when we were getting ready for bed I saw him bending over untying his shoelaces, A great idea flashed across my mind. I came up from behind and gave him a swift kick in the rear | that sent him sprawling on his face. Then I said in my best/taken 30 years ago. Jakey voice, "Oh, excuse me, | Dear." * Since that night I have hever| had any trouble with him.--| Fought Back Dear Fought: Some people} figure out the solutions to their 'problems without any outside | help whatever. I don't recom- mend violence but parentheti- cally I'd like to offer my con-| gratulations, wift Kick Cures I'm teenager who has a problem that is driving me crazy. I wish it were a silly boy-girl thing or a gripe about not getting the family car, but I'm not that fortunate, My mother had surgery a few months ago, It was a serious operation but she survived, 1 have been 'worried ever since her operation that there was'a malignancy and that she is not telling us because she doesn't want us to worry. I don't know if she goes for treatment, She hasn't said anything and I'm afraid to ask, Please don't think I'm a mama's baby. We are a large family and mom never had any favorites, I had never felt par- ticularly close to her until she became sick, Now I am worried to death about her and I can't get her off my mind. Can you tell me what to do?--Can't Help t Dear Can't; You can help it~ if you want to, A phone call to ESTEREL PILES in a suburb, by displaying skirts both long and small and his new hair style he called the "Cup and Ball Line." The showing was Paris designer Jacques Esterel opened the fall and winter fashions showings in the French capital ,or rather HAIR UP HIGH staged in a new suburban housing development, wast of Paris, with modern apart- ments and eight swimming pools. The up and down skirt treatment was accom- plished with buttons and zipper', (AP Wirephoto by cable from Paris) your mother's physician will re- lieve your anxiety, It is my hunch that you are worrying needlessly. Uusually the doctor tells the family if the patient has a terminal illness, Make the phone call already and put an end to the torture, Dear Ann Landers: My hus- your column for at least 10 years. The paper uses several different pictures of you but they all look as if they were I'll come right to the point. How old are you and are you still with your original hus-} band?--Just Nosey Dear Just: I'll come right to the point, too. I was 48 years old on the 4th of July and I am still with my original hus- band. We have two very origi- nal grandchildren and if there's anything else you'd like to know, don't be bashful. Actress Wife Of 'Has lew Role In Political Life 'By GENE HANSAKER LOS ANGELES. (AP) -- *Mom, can I have a popsicle?" asked eight-year-old Ronnie. Nancy Reagan said he could, "Mom, can I get a guitar?" asked Patti, 13, "We'll talk about it honey." * This dialogue introduces Nancy Reagan, ex - debutante, ex-actress, in the role she says Bhe likes best--homemaker. She is the wife of Ronald Rea- gan, Republican candidate for) governor of California who will) try to beat Governor Edmund G. (Pat) Brown, a Democrat, in the Nov. 8 general election. If he wins, Reagan. could be- come an important figure when| Republicans gather to pick a national slate for the presiden- tial elections in 1968. Nancy Reagan, daughter of al Chicago brain surgeon, is a handsome, brown-eyed woman) of 43 who has been married to later, Ronald Reagan Miss Pitts, A television per- formance in Ramshackle Inn led to a Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer vie contract, Producer Mervyn Leroy brought about the meeting of the Reagans, telling Nancy: "I think you two should know each other," "Ronnie called and asked me to have dinner but, never hav- ing seen me, protected himself by saying he had an early call the next day,"' Nancy said, 'I said I had an early call, too. "During dinner he said, 'Why don't we see the first show at Ciro's?' It was Sophie Tucker. During the first show he said, 'Why don't we stay and see the second show?' We got home about 2 a.m." A year later they married. Reagan previously was mar: ried for eight years to actress Jane Wyman. They had two children. | The Reagans live at suburban} band and I have been reading}: FLOWERY KITCHEN NOVELTIES sure to brighten up your horizon as well, If you would like instructions for the potholder and toaster cover, send a stamped, self- Here's a delightful way to bring a little sunshine into your kitchen scene and since you crochet them yourself, their economy is Reagan, 55, for 14% years. }Pacific Palisades in the con- i * }temporary home they built nine she says, "I usually played the | ito the Santa Monica Mount. wee," oe ae Rome al How does she feel about the gogicon ag Baap tepid fy [Possibility of becoming a gov- 5 s enor' ife? her garden, give dinner parties |G). tos like another for eight bc 10 wees Fence and question people ask me--what lg fo Scambet of the Ds nt ate hypo at ae Mac lesa always said J can't answer that. Colleagues, a cgi Peapod think it would be presumptu- our gles saalyg * 4 en Ja tae ous of me. You cross one bridge League, a community + service at a time. organization. i Now, however, she finds her- APPLE STUFFING self in the thick or at least the'--Especially good for stuffing hot fringes of political battle. | Boned Pork Shoulder "When you have children, you/4 slices bacon, cut in bits have to divide yourself." diced celery When the Reagans appeared chopped onion jointly during Reagan's cam-|2 c, diced apples (tart) paign for nomination, she let) 1-3 c. sugar her actor-husband do all the)l c, soft bread crumbs, light- speech-making, But ly packed teas and coffee | 2 tbsp. minced parsley Nancy was the s¢ 4 tsp, salt and: \e tsp, pepper "T had to make speeches, I. Cook bacon until crisp, Re- said I never would--! like to|/move from pan and cook celery just sit and talk, But I'd get up and onion in the fat until onion and tell how we got involved,jis tender and a light yellow. why we're doing it, the import-|Add apples and sugar, cover ance of the two-party system pan and cook until apples are and the importance of men tender. Combine bread crumbs, other than politicians becoming| Parsley, salt, pepper and bacon involved politically. and mix well, Add cooked apple "Ronnie and 1 thought the!mixture and mix thoroughly. picture business had a corner | Makes 3 to 3% cups stuffing. on rumors, but politics are ealiiaiaaiias worse. It's like the rumor that ery Ronnie wears make-up for his hee are Sails ntinx e . . , it a: she che . speeches. He never wore sceen wan & tee Gee even in pictures g "This Lm in the same cate-| Peeled apples, removing both gory. They're going to have to take me, old image and all." )"*"'y A The image includes a trim, | eee _ firm, ; five - foot, four - inch figure |@PPles. Arrange on Pp ate, weighing 109 pounds. : - Her reddish-brown hair is in a chic tousle MOTHER ALSO ACTED Her mother, Edith. once was a New York stage actress. | Nancy was president of the dra; | matic club at Girls' Latin School, Chicago, and majored/ in drama at Smith College, Northampton, Mass Deciding on an acting career, she went to New York and got! a job in the stage play Ram-/ shackle Inn with Zasu Pitts. Next came Lute Song % c, % c re were where action is A painter's with| grape basket make a free-sli- Mary Martin, Cordelia and The/ ding, practically no-cost cloth- ate Christopher Bean with! espin basket. un- WIFE PRESERVER | "S" hook and aj} Semi-Precious Gems For August 'Supposed To Bring Happiness | | By MARGARET NESS parency. A square-cut peridot, TORONTO (CP) ---August's|/for example, throws off broad birthstones, green peridot or/flashes, Peridot rings average red-brown sardonyx, are not) between $30 and $50, depending particularly precious but if hasion the size of the stone, One distinguished daughters: Queenjring with a 12-carat stone set Elizabeth the Queen Mother|with diamonds was priced by (born Aug. 4) and Princess|Henry Birks at $950, Margaret (Aug. 21.) Both the peridot and The peridot (pronounced pair-|sardonyx are supposed to bring a-doe) has never been espe-|happiness in love if worn by the cially popular, Often called the) August-born, but the historical evening emerald, it is not ex- record is not good, ' pensive and so was not, like the; It is not known whether Ma- real emerald, coveted by queens| dame du Barry, born in August, jand noble ladies. It was col-|1746, owned any of her birth- lected by church officials in) stones, She married a count who learly times. Then it seems to|groomed her to be the king of lhave fallen out of favor with|France's official mistress, but! l everyone In fact, today few'the revolution came and she! women ask for or even recog-'died on the guillotine, aged 47 nize peridots Empress Josephine had This is largely due to the fact/handsome necklace of 12 sar-} that not too many jewellers donyxes engraved with classical) carry true peridots. Synthetic/subjects, but they did not pro- on°s are usually a wishy-washy |tect her from divorce by Na- green, almost while. But the! poleon best peridots, which come from A sardonyx ring did not save an island in the Red Sea, are| Lord Essex of England. Given a lovely olivine color and welljhim by Queen Elizabeth, he is jworth consideration by any supposed to have thrown it out jwoman, August-born or not. Ajof his cell window, when im- jsource for smaller but vivid)prisoned in the Tower of Lon- jstones is New Mexico and Ari-|don, with an appeal for help. jzona, And some lighter shades) But he still lost his head. are found in Australia, The sardonyx is a mineral Peridot rings can be mostiquariz, striped red-orange and} interesting, for the cutting) white, which the Romans prized jorings out different patterns) because it could be carved into stem and blossom ends, Packjand varying degrees of trans-|cameos cavity with cheese. Chill unti))------_ - et neem Slice across} Has Your Food Dollar Lost li's Punch? | Chambews, FOOD CLUB Phone 723-1163 and Stretch Your Dollar Guaranteed To Save You $100.00 Year MBB THE FOOD PLAN THAT HAS PROVEN ITSELF jrounded by his family and at- jtended by his dead ancestors jabout the third century AD, In a the addressed envelope to the needlework department, The Oshawa Times, Oshawa, Ontario, enclosing ten cents for handling and _ request- ing Leaflet No. C.S, 954, A famous cameo of 17 AD shows the Emperor Tiberius, dressed as the god Jupiter, sur- above and conquered peoples below--aili on a five-layered Stone 12 inches by 10%. _ The Royal Ontario Museum in} Toronto has two sardonyx pieces dating back to Roman times, ring, the sardonyx is in the shape of a cone; in a bracelet of openwork banding, the stone is |should be an extremely happy | by THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW As with yesterday, this day's planetary influences favor rou- tine tasks rather than the in- auguration of new programs or making drastic changes in busi- ness and household schedules. Give further consideration, if you like, to plans and projects involving security, but wait un- til a more propitious period to carry them out, FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, some fine indications in your chart foretell a possible job pro- motion and (or) an interesting opportunity to advance in a new work area during the latter half of October--especially if you have impressed superiors with your ability in handling new and unusual responsibilities, While all Leoites can look for- ward to such chances, those in scientific or technological fields may be the greatest benefi- ciaries. Other good periods for job advancement: Prior to Oc- tober--the last two weeks of this month and the last week in Sep- tember; after October: The lat- ter half of December, next Feb- ruary and May. On the monetary score: While you may not seem to be making much progress at the moment, do not become discouraged. Stars indicate that, where fi- nances are concerned, the pe- riod between now and Dec. 31-- but particularly the months of September and October--should be used for planning expansion along these lines, Don't specu- late and don't go into debt to invest monies in the hope of "making a quick buck."' Rather, map out a conservative and feasible program for increasing assets (to cover at least two years) and follow it conscien- tiously. Results should be highly gratifying during the first three months of 1967, to be followed by another excellent financial cycle from June 1 to Sept. 1. This new year in your life one from a personal standpoint, With the exception of brief periods during late October and late December, when you may be under some tension. and, in- voluntarily, 'take out"' your stresses on others, your domes- tic life. should run smoothly, and romance will be governed exceptionally generous in- fluences during the latter half of December, next February, PP ag mga (CP) no hay vesay -- ¥ r lecturer, jourualiel Yonder and sociai Worker--is finally get- ting a chance to settle down and do some writing, All her adult life Miss Live- say, this year's resident writer wick, has been sq in the writing of her sensitive modern try between teaching, lectur- ing and social work assign: ments that have taken her from coast to coast in Canada and as far away as Zambia. In private life she is Mrs, Duncan Msonsiz. the late J. F. B. Livesay, general manager of The Cana dian Press from 1920 until 1939. Now, as resident writer at UNB, Miss Livesay is under no obligation to do anything but write, She will teach no courses and give no lectures except as she chooses, The only stipula- tion is that she maintain some office hours, in which to con- sult with and advise young would-be writers on the cam- pus -- something which Miss Livesay does not consider a chore, "Of course I'm delighted with the set-up," she says, 'It's what I've been looking for since I came back to Canada. In fact, ie why I came back to Can- ada," CHOSE POETIC THEME Miss Livesay had been in Af- rica, teaching English to Rho- desian teachers under the aus- at the University of New Britis | Canada Council Appointment Gives Poet Freedom To Write "'T thought I'd be able to have @ bit of a rest in Canada, were health problems in Africa I Gi have msleris ence... . "Particularly, I thought I'd &. ie writing, ~ . ag t I was ave teach, in ole b earn a liv- She did teach, at the Univer- sity of British Columbia in Van- couver, At the same time she was "supplementing my teach- ing equipment," as she puts it, by doing a thesis on Rhythms and Sound in Contemporary Ca- nadian Poetry for her MA de- gree. She already held a BA from the University of Toronto, diplome d'Etudes Superieures from the Sorbonne, diploma in social work from U, of T., and diploma in secondary school teaching from UBC, The thesis subject was well suited to Miss Livesay's talents she herself has published six volumes of poetry and in 1947 won the Lorne Pierce Meda! -- the Royal Society of Can- ada, The topic involved her in in- terviewing and tape-recording many young poets reading their own works, as she analysed sounds, style and linguistics, She became acquainted with most of the prominent poets on the west coast, "They're all a bit nutty out there, not unlike the people I remembe: from my own youth," she recalls, "But there is a very great excitement for HUNGRY FOR POETRY can and so on, have visited Vancouyer,,., "Poetry readings at coffee houses are big too; the audi- ences come as they would for folk-singing,"' Miss Livesay became caught up in this movement, By last fall, when she had finished her og she i i og Be ol a pout and creative at BC, But she still wanted to do her own writing, Thus the Canada Council ap- pointment that saw Her join the UNB staff as writer - in - resi- dence was ideal, 'It's the first time in my life I'll be able to sit down and write, free of any ma worry," she says hap- pily. IN NEW TERRITORY She's also keen because it is the first time she has lived in the Maritimes, She was born in babe sey A educated in Toronto, worked in Vancouver and Mont- real, as well as in London, --_ and various parts of Af- rica, ' So far most od the students she has encountered are attend- ing UNB"s summer session, where she teaches a workshop course in creative writing, "There's a strong tradition of poetry from this area, what with Bliss Carman, Sir Charles G, D, Roberts and so on," Miss Livesay says, "But at present things are~-how shall I say it? a bit out of touch with what's happening, "But I find that the young people are really eager for the news, so to speak, in the crea- tive writing field, They don't know what they want, but they are thirsting for something -- something different." pices of UNESCO. She came home in 1963, 'las Allen Ginsberg, Robert Dun- By ELEANOR ROSS Because of the ever increas- ing need for space in many families, the new baby--espe- cially a second one--often must wait his turn to have a room of his own, But there needn't be a feeling of crowding or makeshift when an infant must share a bed- room witht his parents or an older child, A. "corner nursery" can be arranged to give the effect of baby's own quarters, and still have a decorative relationship to the remainder of the room, A panel of washable wallpaper on the crib wall will identify the "'nursery"' if the other walls are painted, Choose the crib in a style and finish to harmonize with the bedroom furniture, and have the small and large bape match or harmonize. Omit pink or blue ruffles, A small matching chest can share the corner with the crib, Or paint an unfinished chest in a tone to accent the basic color scheme, Add a stoll with a plastic-covered seat for moth- er's convenience when she tends baby in the crib. MUST BE CLEAN Baby's Nursery Corner Like His Own Quarters Scatter rugs in washer. size add a pretty topping to linoleum or vinyl tile flooring, which can be suds-mopped as often as required, SCREEN CUTS GLARE A flexible screen in baby's corner will protect him from drafts and glare. Translucent Plastic is decorative, lets through just enough light, and can be swabbed down on both sides, To give the room an inte- grated look, baby's special fur- niture should harmonize with pieces used by big brother or sister. Good choices for both crib and bed are quilted cotton or terrycloth spreads that are machine-washable and no-iron, To maintain their exact color match, launder these spreads equally often--though not neces- sarily in the same wash, Baby's arrival is a good rea- son for giving any handed-down furniture a fresh coat of wash- able enamel or paint. HOUSEHOLD HINT Mice dislike the smell of cam- phor and will avoid storage boxes and trunks containing a few camphor balls, An important principle in planning the new arrangement is to. feature easy washability-- not only in baby's corner but in the entire room. Cleanliness is baby's first line of defense against many diseases, A simple safeguard is to make sure that spreads, cur- tains, draperies and slipcovers are machine - washable; that area rugs are small enough to go into a washer; that carpet- ing can be spot-cleaned with thick suds; and that shades, lamps and even the furniture can be sponged off with suds. 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Best periods for travel; The last two weeks of October, late December, Jan- uary, April and June, | A child born on this day could} set in an eight-pointed star ef- fect | The early European source in| Germany for sardonyxes is al-| most depleted. Now the stones} come from Brazil, Uruguay,} Madagascar and India. While} mostly layered in reddish-or- ange and white, they can be) dark blue. This color is ex-| tremely beautiful as a seal ring} donyx is worn by men, as a' as a_ stock promoter, salesman or business executive, ring or cuff links, It is not an expensive stone, The price depends mostly on| the mounting, A good ring av-| erages $25 to $75 | Both the peridot and the sar- donyx are supposed to grant eloquence and persuasiveness to 4 for women, But mostly the sar-| their wearers, as well as mar.) ried happiness. 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