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ANN LANDERS See Grannie Change When The Baby Comes Dear Ann Landers; We ai expecting our first child in a few months. When I told my mother-in- Jaw she said, 'Wonderful, but I uy the housework waiting, Sally and Jim were divorced five years ago but Sally con- tinued to live in the fancy house and mom continued to be her want to tell you in advance, so/maid. Last week Sally an- there won't be any hurt feelings later, that it is impossible for a inounced she has "taken care of' mom long enough and now mother to feel as close to he® she wants one of us to take her son's children as to her daugh- n. The truth is that mom has ter's. You may not be able to|been taking care" of~ Saliy all understand this now, but you will understand it when you are *\@ grandmother," What do you. make of my mother - in . Jaw's remark?-- _ Baffled P. G, Lady Dear Lady: Not a bloomin' thing, Honey. Your mother-in- law is speaking strictly for her- self, If you don't believe me, - read Willie Snow Ethridge's hilarious book, 1 Just Happen To Have Some Pictures, I've seen grannies who are indifferent to their daughter's children and are nutty over their son's little ones. And then T've seen it work just the other way, too. It was adorable of your mother-in-law to put you on notice, however. Wait and see. I'll bet she'll be goofy over your wee one. \these years -- and without a 'dime in wages. What can we say to this mis- her place?--Disgusted Dear Disgusted: Save your pipes. You'll never get through to her, Sally sees the picture in an entirely different light. How sad that none of you foresaw what would happen to your mother. Now, of course, one of you must take her and my guess is it'll be you. Remember, please, while you are raking Sally over the coals that your mother is not com- pletely blameless, People who allow themselves to be abused and imposed on are always partners in the crime. Dear Ann Landers: A few years ago I was the maid of erable daughter to put her inj' (omer 10 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Tuesday, July 26, 1966 By MARILYN ARGUE OTTAWA (CP) -- If you don't like the shape your face is in, find out what shape it | is, says a Paris makeup ex- Paul Flaubert, consultant for an international:makeup firm, The shape of the jaw deter- mines whether your face is round, square, oval or pointed. Once you figure that out, you'll know what to do with your eyebrows -- your most important feature. A trim, dark - haired, 31- year-old bachelor, Mr, Flau- bert began his career eight years ago putting heavy stage makeup on opera stars. Now he owns beauty schools in Eu- rope and makes up designers' models for fashion showings. In the last six years he has toured Scandinavia, Asia, Australia and North America telling women what to do with rt. Look at your jawline, says. Shape Of Face And Eyebrows Determined By Your Jaw Line For daytime, Mr. Flaubert suggests white shadow on the bone under the brow. For eve- ning, he advises combinations such as almond green under the brow near the nose, and pink beginning under the mid- die of the brow and shaded out to the end. "That's a contrasting ef- fect, rather than a shadow, which is especially good on brown eyes, I like smoke grey with pink as well, but not blue. That's too much of a contrast," FALSE LASHES OK False eyelashes are defi- nitely part jof the effect, even in daytime if they are prop- erly trinfmed. "Some women feel naked when they take off their false eyelashes, so they wear one pair all the time and add an- other layer for evening." Teen-agers should learn a beauty routine along with KEEP IN TRIM Finds Joy In By IDA JEAN KAIN | A promise, given by a trium-| phant dieter, carried such con-| viction that a snark of hone was! blown into a blaze. "You can slim down, too... and it is so well worth it." On reading these heartening words, a home- maker, who had felt hopelessly trapped in 120 pounds of excess fat, suddenly decided:; "If she can do it, I can too." | This column carried the story 'of the young homemaker whose husband had reluctantly asked for-a- divorce; Even~this~threat failed to motivate the unhappy wife to take action, But when' she read that another woman about her same age had the courage to move a mountain of} fat and find happiness, she knew she could do it too. A second letter has just ar- rived. The news is good. "When I last wrote you I was down to 212. Almost a month to 202 pounds. Ii is hard to be- Every time I look at the graph soar, "This week I started to wash and iron all the summer clothes I know it's a little early but 1 Once Unhappy Overweight has passed and I am now down! lieve that I have come this far.| on my kitchen wal] my spirits | New Shape have been packed away for years now fit me fine. When I put on last year's shorts, size 44 thev slinned dawn ta mv hipes, I have a large amount of sewing to do, but it's .going to be a happy job. NO SHE KNOWS "We are making a carport in the backyard, so one day just for fun 1 picked: up two stones and walked around the yard. They each weigh 15. pounds, When I put down that 30-pound load, | was out of breath. Now I know why I was always so tired when I carried around the 38 pounds 1 had lost. "Since | don't have much time to exercise during the dav: I joined the Y and on Monday and Friday nights I swim. swim across the pool until I am tired, then I hold onto the side of. the. pool and kick my legs, twist and turn and also! make circles with my arms against the resistance of the! water "My doctor is most pleased) with my progress. Since the sec-! ond week on his protective diet T have not felt that I am diet-| ing or eating less than I need. 'Life is slowly changing for) me . and all for the better. Dear Ann Landers: There are|honor for a friend who was in their faces in English, French, just couldn't wait to see what I/There have been days when 1} could and could not wear. All| was tempted by candy (my big-| of my size 20% dresses that) gest downfall), but I would enn read your column and look at! the chart on the wall three daughters and two sons in our family. Sister Sally has) her 50s. I will call her Nola. I married several months ago taken advantage of our wid-|and asked my dearest friend to owed mother all of her life, We|be my maid of honor. I sent a are all married, with children, | wedding invitation to Nola and except this lazy, selfish Sally who is divorced, When' Sally married Jim 20) years ago, she borrowed a) small fortune from mother for! a down payment on a new home| and expensive furnishings. She then invited mother to live with) her and Jim. Sally and Jim both worked and mother was, the cook, maid, and laundress. | When mom went away for a) her husband, The invitation was ignored. A few weeks ago I ran into Nola and she said, 'I want to tell you to your face that you hurt me deeply by not asking me to be your maid of honor. It was your duty since I hon- ored you when I was married." German, Swedish and Danish. He finds the same problems whether he's meeting delicate Thai teen-agers or fiery Span- isl beauties. "Some are too lazy to use Is she right?--S. 8. Dear S. S.: She is wrong. Although friends often exchange | weekend to visit a sister she'd/the "honor," you were under return to find every dish and/no obligation to do so, Inviting pot in the kitchen sink and all'her as a guest was sufficient. | Miss Universe Back To Thailand |_tins'riets"en't Kirlines Public Relations Expert | Nurses Urged and ten cents to cover cost of handling to the Needle- this novel motif. Use it to strated. If you wish instruc- newspaper, asking for Leaf- ence either on a partial or full- Speaking at the school's fifth) the right makeup and some | use too much. Makeup should | be a veil, not a mask." But back to the eyebrows. "T call them the key of the | face," | VARY THE SLANT For a round or square face the highest part of the brow arch should be dead centre. If your face is pointed or oval, brows should slant up to the | highest point at the ends Rouge on a _ round face should shade near the nose | and down along the line from nose to the corner of the mouth. On a pointed or oval face rouge should be kept away from the nose, high on the cheekbone back to the temple. their geometry and ancient history, he says. A girl of 14 should use cleansing milk and toning lotion, medicated if necessary, and special creams for acne problems. Mr. Flaubert says 'makeup should be taught in school, "After all, women wear it all the time. Why don't they talk about it? What's the dif- ference between painting on a piece of paper and painting on a face?" The consultant says there should be no op-art effects in | a daytime face. "A young working girl needs some good eye makeup, protective lotion, rouge in the right places, light lipstick and some powder on her nose." If she's too heavy-handed | with the jars and tubes, she'll suffer. "Men don't talk about a good makeup. They talk about sports or cars. But a bad makeup--they talk about Fabiani Introduces Longer Fitted Coats ROME (AP) -- Fabiani took the plunge and dropped skirts down to the calf Thursday night in a highly-creative show- ing during Italiaw~fall - winter couture presentatiyns Fabian's skill carried off what otherwise could have appeared a gimmick. Women will wel come the change if the applause |here was any indication The new length appeared on| "T get encouragement from so many things... in the movies I can fit into the seats better. I can walk across the kitchen floor without the dishes rattling. | At night the mattress doesn't) tilt j | "This past Saturday my 4us- band said to me:; 'Gee, honey, I know we're going to have a wonderful summer this year!' I know it too, for there will be a new me." Dr, Zhivago coats with high| nipped waists and full. flaring} skirts. Legs were covered by} long fitted boots that reverted) }to normal knee length | It was a clever idea for a winter travel costume. The long skirt keeps knees warm | when a lady is exposed to the} pctemenitersblt she sheds it in- doors, | Fabiani had promised in ad National Sect'ys Re-elect Canadian As President DALLAS (AP) -- Merle Law, first Canadian to hold the of- fice, Friday was re-elected in- ternational president of the Na- tional Secretaries Association. Mice Law ie eecretary to R by E, Munro, an actuary with Lon- don Life Incuranes Ce, of Lon- At ADSETancs Se. don, Ont, Re-election awarded her chief stewardship of the world's largest organization of business women in one profession in the world, The Secretaries Associa- tion has 25,000 members in 567 chapters in the United States, Canada and Puerto Rico, with affiliates~in--Mexieo; Panama, Argentina, Finland and France. Commenting on her re-elec- tion, Miss Law said, "Natur- ally, as a Canadian, I am hon- ored ..,. and particularly proud of the expansion of the NSA movement in my country. for clean bright teeth use Cow Brand Cow Brand Baking Soda on @ moist stai dentures. Leaves a fresh, clean feeling that lasts all day. And to one teaspoon of Cow Brand in water -- soothes Cow Brand Baking Soda PURE BI N INTERIOR DECORATOR FURNITURE DRAPERIES saduis rare ; it. What are the new opportuni- approved," she explained, "and Not To Lose Touch graduation She , t " y Dr. To get a steady curve when Mr, Flaubert stresses the | vance an abundance of deluxe i BROADLOOM ties for a delicately - lovely|in our country a girl who does TORONTO (CP)--A_ Toront oF mate & e ae sith hart applying eyeliner, lay a hand | importance of thinking |!ooks. These appeared in lush} young girl from Thailand when | not respect her father's wishes | aval tO . sae > Lee 'J pape mere & Keeps pace will Der! mirror flat on your dressing | beautiful. furs that included a long coat in 15 King Street East she concludes her reign as|is considered very wicked. berger 'ie "1 Pe bes Seah profession, "she will not need! table and look down into it "When a woman starts to |guanaco, broadly belted and ep "Miss universe' and leaves 8] UNTIL A GIRL MARRIES Rad ines ty _to lose touch' to face the adjustment common): «yoy can see what you're do- | have her own personality, | quleted in tan leather and a lit- CUSTOM MADE DRAPES western way of life to return) ip aitand il ft bed ee eee to those who come back to it! ing and your eyelid doesn't | then she is beautiful. She |tle dress in white ermine-- Phone 725-2686 home? Mey m ae a ih --s 4) Marriage is still the main rea- later, either through choice, or! flicker." | may be at her peak in her |glamorous under one of those That was the question on m haha ntit Poa Saree, ea 20% for nurses leaving the med-|from financial necessity. Brown eyes should forget | 30s or 40s. longer raincoats, mind. when I talked to Apasra|the dares not disobey. her|icine,-Dr. Abbyan Lynch told 52 While raising her family the, about bright blue shadow. "Women shouldn't be scared | He showed tent dresses, too, Hongsakula recently. If th H : y lpraduates of the 'Nightingale| Nurse may keep informed by| Blue, grey or green eyes can | to get older. They should jin crepe or. lightweight woo! A year ago, Apasra, who mee we us reading and attending the occa-| wear almost any color, 'But | think 'I have achieved some- | that twirled from the shoulders been educated at a Buddhist) 'But this makes me happy,"'| School of Nursing. sional seminar or refresher| if they are very light, I find | thing in my life; I have |as the models moved. Crystal- seminary and raised according| She said, : } "But marriage need not mean) course which is "geared to the] black liner too strong. It | learned to grow old.' I think jencrusted necklines and "cuffs to the strict traditions of her| "This is our tradition, And|the end of nursing. Nursing can|times and needs of busy and| makes them look like cat's | that's a quality of mature |put them into the cocktail-time people, entered the Florida com- it is a good one, too." be a continuing experi-! weary ex-nurse homemakers.") eyes." beautiful women." category. petition as a shy young ir', |g ian - . pe sitedt RETR OM ER ARO a0. cherishing the hope of engender-| ing goodwill of her tiny cor- ner of Southeast Asia. Before Apasra left her homeland for the pageant, Thailand's queen | herself had called the hopeful | contestant to the palace to de-| s sign her beehive hair style and | to give her instructions on| walking with regal dignity. | Now, after 50,000 miles of| successful goodwill travel and | a year of comparing the a ences between western and eastern customs, what is ahead & e@ @ for this. sensitive Thailand | « UJ beauty whose accented English | M there's & great deal ahead," AFTER 7/2 YEARS OF RENTAL PAYMENTS ON AN ELECTRIC WATER HEATER, NO FURTHER RENTAL WILL BE CHARGED ON THAT HEATER FOR THE REMAINDER OF ITS LIFE. ONLY THE ENERGY CHARGE WILL CONTINUE. oe ~ ™ ~ " - ~ " aa cl ~ oo ~ oe oe o on oe oe " oo > oo oe - " ee - ~ os Apasra said, when I posed this question. '"'Next, I go home to) my family and my new oppor- tunities as a public relations girl for an airline. BEST IN HER COUNTRY "In Thailand, public relations is the best job for girls," she, said, "Secretarial work comes j after that, Aside from that, there are few jobs for females. | Most of the women who work | in our country are waitresses, | hostesses or. servants. "In your country things are | different," she added. "Here a) girl has the opportunity to fol- low almost any career, if she | has the intelligence for it as) well as the desire for it as well as the desire to pursue it. | Because of this freedom, I have met girls in American univer-| sities who are studying law, | medicine and business. I have | also talked with women who) run huge companies and hold) high government positions. "But in Thailand that isn't the case. There are a few lady doc- | tors but I. have met no women) who are lawyers or are in busi-| ness. Many of our people be-| lieve it is better to be a good) wife to.a successful man than it is to compete with him." When we returned to the sub-/ ject of Apasra's own job oppor- | tunities, she told me, in her) quiet voice, that she had been | offered a contract with the | largest movie studio in Bang- | kok, the Thailand capital. But! she turned that down. "My father would not have) This represents a saving of at least $3.64 on a bimonthly bill. In the event the unit fails and has to be replaced before the 10 year guarantee expires, rental charges on the new unit will not be reinstated until the end of the guarantee period of the original installation. The customer is assured 2/2 years free of rental charges. The Rental Termination Plan commences immediately and becomes effective automatically for the Customer as the 72 years is completed. This new Plan has been made possible because of the wide acceptance of rental units by our customers. Close to 11,000 installations have been made since the introduction of Rental Electric Water Heaters in 1959. 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