14 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursday, July 21, 1966 ANN LANDERS Philandering Husbands Rarely Leave Wives Dear Ann Landers: Please don't throw my letter in the wastebasket because my story is such an old one, It will prob- ably bore you silly, but it's the most important thing in my life. It started with a cup of cof- fee and a shoulder to cry on. His wife was too busy, too tired, or too disinterested to give him any attention. He had been watching and admiring me for months. He was sure I was the woman he should have married. To make a long story short, I divorced my husband and gave up my children and my home. My lover is still with his wife. I felt sure that she had too much pride to continue to live with him if she knew about us. So I saw to it that she did find out, but it didn't change a thing. She refuses to give him a divorce. He spends more time with me than he does with his wife and family and I know he loves me. I have given up everything for this man and now I need to know how to get him to make up his mind about which one of Please tell us how to handle this matter --In The Red Dear Red: Tell your daughter she may not accept any future collect calls. This was a very poor arrangement to begin with and was bound to lead to trouble. If. mom wants to finace the calls she should send her | the cash so he can put the coins| in the phone and pay as he! goes, | Mail your phone bilis:to the) boy's mother with a little note saying, "'We would appreciate your cheque for these calls -- which was our agreement." Dear Ann Landers: How can I get a 44-year-old man to grow up? | My husband is so babyish he makes me sick. When the mai man comes up the walk he rushes out, grabs all the mail and opens everything. Our 17-year-old daughter re ceives letters from her boy) friend and she gets furious when jher dad reads them first. Our| 15-year-old son now can beat his} dad at tennis so he refuses to CHILD GUIDANCE Stimulate Children's Reading - During Lazy Summer Days By GARRY C.. MYERS, PhD. is-our- daughter; 13; We-are a pleasure, However, ber of children to read numer- A mother writes: "When I moved here in 1956, I found a summer reading pro- i gram going strong; Nobody seems to know. just wen or how it started -- it seems to have begun with the library. "The last two weeks in May The average child of school|proud of her reading accom- wage won't open a book this pmmets the sume of sf: she rea ooks, - ee SE 0 ee oaks is tt hae, tod there a librarian, civic club, lo-}1964 -- 200 books. We also have cal newspaper, or radio station| Six other children who are good or several of such working to-|Teaders. Our littlest one is only gether, stimulate a good num-|?, but enjoys being read a story, ous books during the summer,| Set but it is our own choice not to own one. We do own two sets 0. encyclopaedias though, My husband and I both enjoy read- ing good books and magazines.| & force and he tells us that he still enjoys reading a good book. The} girls are all in school and get- "We do not have a television Heat, Humidity Breed Polio Virus TORONTO (CP)--Dr. Wallace N. Lotto, a physician, said Tuesday the present hot, humid least every four or five years. "Sooner or later we shall have our old foe baek again if people let down their guard," Dr. Lotto said. "The terrible crippling results of paralysis seem doubly tragic when they are so easily preventable," weather "is perfect for incub: ing polio virus" and everyone should make sure they are im- Dr, Lotto, chairman of the medical board of the Rehabili- tation Foundation for the Dis- abled, said in an interview chil- dren should have polio booster shots annually or at the least, once every two years. Adults should have a booster shot at RIPE AND JUICY When choosing fresh, ton quality strawberries, make sure berries are dry and glossy, solid red in color with no white or green tips, and free from dirt or mold. Overmature or stale berries lose their bright- ness and the "cap" of green leaves. "Our oldest son is in the air children are ipo by radio, newspaper, an s to visit the library and sign up for the summer reading course. They are given a clever folder to use in keeping track of the books they read. "When they have read 15 I books at their reading level, they return the folder to the library and receive a certificate, The librarian told me that in years past they actually had a handed out the certificates, but now each child receives his di- ploma as soon as he completes 15 books. "The local radio station an- nounces the names each day of my husband does sometimes, too,"' have received reports of similar local programs aimed at stimu- the summer. Just imagine what might happen if even half our children of elementary school grades were to read one good commencement exercise and ee QUESTIONS hope to guide our young chil-| dren well? ting good grades because of their reading ability. I have al- ways read to the children and Within the last few years I lating children to read during Q. By what principle may we} Know Your Zenith Dealer,.,.8 BETTER HEARING "se HERE'S WHY! Few things in life are as vital as good hearing. So when we became a Zenith dealer, we were determined to give our customers the utmost in help! Experienced advice based on Zenith factory training. © The finest, most advanced Zenith hearing aids ever. © Batteries, accessories, service for all makes of hearing aids. ¢ Home appointments on request. Be TH HEARING AIDS few things we don't want them IMPERIAL OPTICAL CO. LTD. 11 ONTARIO 5ST. 728-6239 Come wv! A. Make painful to them the et to do and pleasant the many + ++ In ease you heven't heerd us he wants.--Need Him ss Nt etee whe Have : ; de ; ; A j j j i, se boys and girls who have) nue ee. rd poten pouugioaes oe Tt See eee | 4 , 4 "ee received a certificate, One sum- to stay with his family and) Dear D: And how old was the keep you as a playmate for as/baby when you married him?| : >. . dl oes dal ler lala long as you are willing. fever rn bet he hasn't changed much!| wil hs e p , i | prod ng ha gp ace. bec divg the last 2; years--or; maybe) : : . LIBRARIANS HELP | already lost everything, in rieven 30 "The librarians buy an enr-| ing your hold on reality. | Ignore his infantilism and TAPESTRY PICTURE mous quantity of new books| f Dear Ann Landers: Our 16-[keel, Your children need to see| Hs sapprondaeed i Yank stitch le for ihe est mae: tee dey year-old daughter has a boy| a mature adult in operation and| with tapestry wool. If you |the reading course begins. The| wish instructions please send self-addressed 'return times more things we want) t mer a local drugstore gave an them to ) do, - \ SEMI-ANNUAL DOLLAR SALE CONTINUES! envelope and-ten cents to cover cost of handling, to the Needlework department of this newspaper, asking for Leaflet No. T.W. 9422. A delightful wall decora- | tion for any room, which friend who is in the service. He /you're the only candidate at) you will find most interest- librarians do this entirely on} is stationed several hundred' hand, It's a cinch they won't see) ing to embroider. The design miles from here. }much maturity if they look at) ------ ' a ing with) their father, eros adie be weeds CHEESY TOMATOES 2 teaspoons butter or | call our daughter collect and| Confidential to Don't Want To4 large tomatoes, stems re- Satine, melted -- |(350 degrees F.) about 20 min-|ings, and buy the . certificates] the mother would reimburse us.|Put Him In The Poorhouse:|moved Cut tomatoes in half cross-|ytes, Yield: 8 servings. |and new books." Last month our bill showed long! Play it safe and ask him what|1 teaspoon salt |wise. Place cut side up in un-| | From another mother comes} shallow baking pan.| |this report: ce calls totalling $27. jhe feels like eating. If he says,| 1-8 teaspoon pepper | greased . "a boy's eae has not/"I'm not very hungry," and or-| % cup grated sharp Cheddar|Sprinkle with combined salt! vil oerge INCREASE I am enclosing a clipping in even asked us what the phone|ders light, curb your appetite| cheese jand pepper, then with cheese.| Manmade fibres will account/this etter that was cut out of| bills have been and my husband until you get home, where the|1 cup rice krispies |Combine rice krispies, paprika|for more than 50 per cent of|our hometown paper. The child) js getting pretty mad. Our food is free. \% teaspoon paprika and butter; sprinkle over|the textile market by 1970, who read 242 books last summer | daughter has asked us not to -- ---- sata : MEN'S QUALITY Scere) ° SPORT COATS It uncomplicates & BLAZERS and she doesn't want any trouble. Modern two-button, three-button single breast- ed and link, models tailored from the latest THE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW blue, brown, navy, grey and multi-splashes, Sizes 34 to 36, Talls and shorts included, Extra Trousers Stars indicate a more or less $7.00 for only ] routine day; also the possibility ECONOMY RANGE CUSTOM RANGE of having to revise some of your previous plans. In dealings with SPORT EXTRA SPORT EXTRA COAT TROUSERS SAVE COAT TROUSERS SAVE 29.50 1.00 13.95 34.50 1.00 13.95 even if their opinions seem at EXTRA PAIR FOR 1.00 ful consideration, you could find you've picked up some Deluxe Zig-Zag Touch & Sew sewing machine. 4 i s f : © 3 Tailored from the English.and domestic all wool yarns, dyed rt ; , 4 H anit : 2 4 SY dis worsteds and flannel pic n' pic, neat and plains in grey, blue good ideas. FOR THE BIRTHDAY Those extra parts have just grey, medium, dark bi blacks and blues. Hook and be agit : ; |. r| rown, blacks a ues. Hook a r one purpose in life.,, that of fastener above zipper fly, single pleats, continental style in- If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope promises highly giving your sewing machine enter sf ' \ ie SS cluded, tabs on back pockets. skiiis it would take you months ee : m8 aii | 4] : EXTRA PAIR SAVE 8.95 satisfactory results in monetary to master.,.and tedious Touch & Sew Deluxe, Zig-Zag machine from Singer. Does all 3 kinds of sewing-- sia 9 95 1 Ls .00 13.95 matters during the next year, but you will have to be con- servative in your program. You hours to do by hand. straight, zig-zag and chainstitch. -- Sewing was never thiseasy, ------------ even for the beginner. RANGE 14.95 1.00 17.95 1.00 16.95 adding priceless new sewing amount. now better 19.95 I. 18.95 skills to your'own repertoire, You see, this is the machine Only Singer hes cious months to take off on can make fine gains, however, Now, you just set a dial, CUSTOM Any woman who sews will that makes you want to sew. the Slant Needle and push-button botvttn, T H i RT longer journeys will j if you manage smartly--espe- sh + 4 your Touch push a button, and your Touch RANGE include } ; January, May and June, of 1967, : | | their own initiative, apparently. | --- | No civic club or group backs it. | |The librarians make the fold-| mar-|cheese, Bake in moderate over ors, keep the honor roll of read- EN you bey a new Fouch & Sew*Deluxe Zig-Zag sewing ma- chine from Singer, be ready sew any more than they did in the first place .... Not because you knew how to sew that much better than they did.,. It's simply because your new Singer*sewing machine makes sewing so easy, you discover you do have both the time and the interest to sew all you want, There are 180 parts in an ordinary sewimg machine. There are 380. parts in the in August and, with even more astuteness between Sept. 15 and Nov. 15. Next good periods for increasing assets: Early De- cember, next February, April and June. Avoid speculation of any kind throughout the year, however, but particularly dur- ing the first two weeks in Sep- tember. And do avoid extrava- gance during the last two weeks in December. Best periods for occupational advancement and recognition for past efforts: Late September, early Decem- ber, next January, March and Mew may. Some interesting social activi- ties are promised during the coming year; also, opportuni- ties to make influential contacts --especially between now and Sept. 15 and between Nov. 15 and Dec. 31. The aforemen- tioned two periods, incidentally, will also be most propitious for romance, as will be next April, May and June. For the travel- minded, it would be advisable to settle for short trips during the balance of 1966, but auspi- See that button? Touch tt and the bobbin winds Itself up right in the machine, « And notice the slanted needie-- slanted so ¢ you see better, The nice thing about this sewing machine is not that it makes seldom used fancy s. Its value is its genius iminating drudgery and save at least $100 a year, But Singer knows that the woman who sews on a Jouch & Sew Deluxe Zig-Zag machine you... baste saves at least twice thal overcasts, bt oles, zags, chainstitches'...and then rewinds its own bobbin! BRAND NAME Manufacturer forbids us to use names but these are all quality names you will im- mediately recognize. Stripes, Checks, plains Sanforized shrunk, Sizes: $-M-L and Extra t FIRST EXTRA You SHIRT SAVE 3.95 1.00 2.95 Papeete 1.00 3.95 poppe 4.95 595 1.00 4.95 bopepeiobe © OPEN A CHARGE ACCOUNT No Interest or Carrying Charges TWO LOCATIONS DOWNTOWN 36 King St. E. Open Fridey 'til 9 P.M, cially during the first two weeks ¢€ Sew machine does it al! for iin dati ' HAND A child born on this day could GRADE be most successful as a surgeon or, along creative lines, as a *« | musician; could even excel : along the latter line as an avo- cation. ii The chain stitch (left), You'll use a reg- | : F ularly to replace tedious hand basting. y os Pull the thread end; out comes the | 9 seam, You'll also need it to sew f * i y the increasingly popular stretch : é fabrics. This is the stitch that as the fabric stretches ... Onty Singer builds the indispensable chainstitch talent right into a sewing machine, ) IMPROVES ON STANDING ; See Why do some potat ee . = if eS oe Remember how turning hems used to be so tedious? Now 3 you just attach the seam guide, a tee seem to be so much more flavorful than others? Many people do not realize that po- tato salad improves on stand- dial and your Touch & Sew sewing machine blindstitches the hems in minutes! This buttonhole was actually completed in seconds! Your Touch ¢ Sew ing. Never serve this salad as soon as it is made. Let it stand sewing machine also sews on buttons in a twinkling. for half an hour or longer for the flavors to blend. The diced potatoes should be marinated for 30 minutes at least in a little French dressing before adding the rest of the ingredi- ents. Here are some other tips for full flavor. Onion should be scraped or at least very finely chopped. Use ingredients which add character to potato salad besides the salad dressing or mayonnaise such as diced cel- ery, cubed cucumber, small cubes of ripe banana and, of course, coarsely chopped hard- cooked eggs. Besides adding flavor, a generous use of eggs in the salad and as a garnish adds valuable protein and elim-} inates or reduces the size of} serving of more expensive cold meats. Yes, it can do a few fancy fashion stitches. oe ee Be ee ee ll i ili 2500 or so, Here's two you get just by setting a dial, SINGER CENTER 16 Simcoe St. N. 725-5443 Overcasting. A "must t© prevent many of our newer fabrics from fraying. Child's play on the Touch & Sew sewing machine, Just set the diall fe cee a ee ee ee ee ce ee oe ae a OSHAWA SHOPPING CENTRE Open Thursday and Fridey 'til 9 PLM, Sa 1