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jto burn during a game because I couldn't get the message ANN LANDERS jg nga mie my husband see that he is being selfish and Nagging And Belittling Make Hubby Miserable JO'S JOURNAL BY JO ALDWINCKLE Women's Editor ot The Times inconsiderate?--Married to a Baseball Nut | Dear Married: You can't-- jana tne sooner you accept tne | fact, the better. [omen TimMES, Saturaay, juiy Z, 1966 Aan think 9f sumuen thie wm cai ttn Gi worse vg ie |than having a husband in t oe next room listening to and look- band is right. When you allowed/ing at a baseball game. You've the tomcat to move in and pay) got high-class worries, Honey. part of your rent it became his Sane place, too. as nm Pyvee sm wr 4 ms a Pretty French Teacher Helps Federal Members Learn French By MARILYN ARGUE OTTAWA '(CP)--Members of Parliament learning to speak French undoubtedly have only the purest motives but it doesn't hurt to have a teacher who is charming and attractive. Huguette Robineau, 24-year- old former primary teacher in Sudoury's French school sys- tem, is a glowing example of the new look in schoolmarms. She's slim and chic with hazel eyes, swinging brown hair and an aura of Gallic charm and French perfunie, Then they repeat the line until ac i i aA Aer aly 4, foe month ey get Hh, Min Aabineaa| sae ae, Mae: ead oe wari of, then " $ speak-| thinks those who didn't speak aliens never asfending himself [oe ene: My husband insists) ing French, : lor ck Fr h h ajlence: never defending himself,/he understands them both per-| "It's realiy surprising, con-|W°rd of French may have had) not even bothering to correct! fectly |sidering some of them couldn't ay ge willie nay hes lye On wild exaggerations. What | 1 its » doubleheader or a 12-| & tO) oo | } lwhen we began' in March." /shake. |such abuse for almost a quarter °, 1sinning game T have to| Miss Robineau is one of 117|,. "Jt must be exhaust of a century bring. his dinner on a tray. If| language teachers in five|{hem--sometimes they. Put this letter in your own I utter one' word, he shushes | schools run by the Civil Service|*® Tepeat a phrase "|words, Ann, but print it. It) ™e UP and says, "Later, dear. |Commission. She's the only|fore they realize could do a lot of good--Too|) Hope the house doesn't start French teacher on Parliament) they're making in ¥. Close for. Comfort /Hill but has a counterpart who|, The method requires teachers) "hear Too Close: Your words teaches advanced English to| '0 Supplement actioR on the film) were excellent. And here they| five French-speaking MPs. strip with some illustrative] are_ just as you wrote them. If| It's difficult to keep attend- the shoe fits, ladies--take the shoe off. play-acting of their own. '"'It's) fares s hag lance when your pupils have fine if they understand the pic-} parliamentary committees and) : For the first time in all my travelling experience in far away places, I have to record that on my latest junket, I was put off a train and' sent back whence I came. The memory still smarts. 1 have just returned from an unconducted, unsponsored 21-day travel tour in Czechoslo- vakia, Hungary and Poland, accompanied by another sea- soned traveller and free-lance writer, Margaret Ness of Toronto. We both suffered the same fate and it was at a | Dear Ann Landers: J hope {you will print my letter on the |chance even one woman will |recognize herself and stop be- | littling her husband. For almost 50 years my ;mother has chopped up my KNOW: father with her razor - sharp USE FILMS j tongue. If anyone suggested to Her morning classes.meet in my mother that she is being a darkened room in the West unfaithful she would be furious, Block. The darkness is part of| but this sort of disloyalty is the the technique--a film strip is|cruelest of all. projected on a portable movie; Doesn't a wife realize that screen and matching ee every time she attacks her hus- comes from a tape recorder. | band in the presence of family, r No English is spoken. Students) neighbors or friends she dimin.| 32me,, starts Bons _ Ser | Pealing. Dip the edge of each have to figure out whether the| ishes not him, but herself? |The pines dk the 1 te "es fe 3188s into lemon or orange dialogue means 'Have you got) My parents are old now, butitums on the per '2 vou|iuice. then into granulated |my sisters and I still dread to| haven't heard two announcers| US" 4nd panei Re a match?" or "Filthy weather,| zo home. It's heartbreaking tO) screaming at the same time GIRLS STUDY POOLS A | DISS, England (CP) -- Nor- mfom id ou panars there! cl schol ble they ar on the scene? Invite the bum to/SUdying a unique subject: pud- find-2place_of his own imme. | Veology. fclmh ne leachor Litks diately so you and your husband rdiner devised this -study--f |Wa can get back to decent and re-"#i" pools which she said in- spectable living. |party and would rather not P Storovo that it happened. pega When we left Canada, we had been assured that we would have no difficulty in getting into either Czechoslo- . vakia or Hungary without visas. The reason we had no visas was because our applications for Polish visas took six weeks to be completed and there was no time left to apply separately for the other two. So full of Canadian con- fidence and armed with valid passports and health certifi- cates we set off. Our. confidence was further fortified when we sailed through the immigration on arrival at Prague, capital of Czechoslovakia. Here, at the airport we were directed to the cashier's wicket where we cashed traveller's cheques for Czech Krowns (16 to the U.S. dollar for tourists while the normal rate of exchange is 7 to the dollar), then we filled in application papers, stating how many days we would be in the country; gave the officer two extra pass- port photographs and after much stamping with indelible ink and the payment of $4.50 each, he handed us "our papers". So why should we worry about Hungary? Perish the thought. Across Slovakia By Train After a few rapturous days in Prague -- it is a golden Gothic city, completely unspoiled, we left by train for Bratislava, the capital of Slovakia, an old city on the banks of the Danube. We had a large, airy room with private bath in the Hotel Carlton, which must be fairly new. We covered the |volves "just about every branch of science." LOOKS COOL Frosted rims on glasses make Dear Ann Landers: My hus- {band parks himself in front of the TV 10 minutes. before the) dairy drinks even more' ap- isn't it?"' from the scene on the jscreen, my mother still ripping into' yoy are lucky. I can't under- ing for SHARON McMAHON, GAIL McWILLIAMS --Oshawa Times Photo | All-Round Cords Awarded ture right away. When they city, which is not large, in two days, bought our railway tickets for Budapest and dispensed the last of our Czech Krowns in tips and a taxi to the railway station. We boarded the Balkan Orient express. Bade Bratislava goodbye and turned our thoughts. to Budapest, the Paris of eastern Europe. It was about five hours later that we ground to a halt at Storovo and the uniformed, armed officials made their and daughter pot-luck supper of| Linda it |presentation of All Round Cords feqwards, conferences jostling for timeta- ble space. Miss Robineau has about 30 students--she doesn't! Miss|know -how many from each At Mother - Daughter Banquet The highlight of the motherjneth Paul, Brown Owl; lon't, we really have to be ac- tors, to show what the line means." The course is a_ voluntary self-improvement project. Miss Dear Ann: My husband's old-| est brother is divorced. When he got out of the army six jmonths ago we let him move he 6B Guide Company, was the Hutcheon, Guide Lieuten- Miss Marilyn Weldon, Captain; Mrs. William Parkwood _ District ant; Guide |dren were born. herself to civic act (2) Devoted! with the level of interest. ivities while} WAKE UP CLASSES jinto our two bedroom apart- |ment. He pays one-third of the| rent and utilities. | This brother has the morals) INTERIOR DECORATOR FURNITURE DRAPERIES |Robineau has been impressed |to Gail McWilliams and Sharon|Commissioner, the ncidont( ste was home with her family rl : ; ' , president/(3) Returned to the radi sa McMahon. The supper was heldjand her daughter Cathy Wel- He Bt field eas eS os, ae Agar 3 -- _ (Fooeatg hall Christ Memorial / don; Mrs. G. E. Fitches, trea- back to work : bond wok ts pari gid Crass the h : i riick ce: ' . Kk ; nei surer, and Jane Fitches; Mrs.| «T find that doing job and| When she joined 'os inkanies Guide Jane Fitches read the James Hinchey, vice-president keeping my home is a wonder-| gchool - ? her trai achievements necessary for the and Debbie and Susan Hinchey.|fy! way to live. Something, nat- tee penatans ieeraal caine Ger. awards as the two Guides Mrs. A. H. Gallinger gave the urally, has to give. But in com-| man classes taught by. the same stepped on the stones represent- nominating .committee report|hining the work of a job and method. "I don't speak G ing each of their achievements.|which was accepted with theja home, I discover that I ex- aur 66 I ieee jit bow shame The District Commissioner, following being elected: presi-| i | " | Mrs. William Edwards, pre-jdent, Mrs. Weldon; wvisepranl-lonces a lot of the unimportant) of my students feel." She does| le ' ' ; Raa i hi | Round Cords, which their|Mrs. Fitches; treasurer, Mrs.|sional gaps." Seabee " mY Neat wal - jmothers, Mrs. H. K. Mc-|Donald Ewles; social convener,; "] think everyone in the fam- on pa Cte uida i eed |Williams and Mrs. Frank Mc-|Mrs. Glenn Nelson; and phonejjly suffers a little bit when Ocho ot her BA in two years |Mahon placed on their arms./convener, Mrs. A. H. Gallinger.|mother goes back to work | bin ae auuress th renilays| |The recipients thanked their) Mrs. Edwards showed a film] says the second woman who: |term and summer courses pe mothers and the Guide Captain|of Heritage Camp at Doe Lake.| (1) Did clerical work before her| year. "'I thought I was finished for their help and encourage-/Part of next year's Centennial/marriage. (2) Returned to work| with summer courses, but I ment, celebrations will be a Heritage/as a part-time employee in the|have to attend one for language Mrs. G. W. Weldon, president Camp to be held at Morris Is-\city auditor's office. (3) Ad- teachers at University of Mont-| jof the Parent Committee intro-|land in the St. Lawrence River.| vanced in a matter of three real this shimmer.' a . jduced the head table guests as:|Mrs, Edwards was thanked by|years to a job as assistant city She's an enthusiastic sup- |Guide Nancy Paul, Mrs. Ken-'!Mrs. Donald Wilson. auditor. porter of the film strip method. | is "But, at the same time, it/'tIt's really not as hard work, means more money for educa-|because learning from a text- tion. And, for me, it means a|book you have to think twice as |re-awakening and stimulation! hard--both in English and then| beyond measure." jin French." | Every Community Needs Vocational Workshops If you are a woman who is} Her students agree. "It's al 53 presently facing the question|wonderful course,' says one |consultation and go to counsel- about whether or not to return! MP. "My family pressured me ling workshops if they were not|{0 work, perhaps you can find | into it. I didn't even know the quite sure how to work things|/#58urance and guidance in ajdifference. between 'je' and "If they ] iss some If they have to miss som of a tomcat. He runs around! with the worst chippies in town! |--some of them professionals. | | It makes me sick that he brings |these tramps to our apartment and forces us to sit in the park, or in a movie or coffee shop until after midnight. My husband says I am being childish and that it is not right to interfere in the life an adult relative, especially since he' is paying part of the rent. What do you say?--Split Level Wife Dear Split Level: Your hus- tour of inspection. They came in overlapping waves, two or three at a time, so that the doorway to our compart- ment was always congested with some going out and others coming in. The uniforms were all ofthe olive green variety with red stars on the collars and cap badges and since neither Margaret nor I could speak Czechoslovakian or Hungarian we couldn't tell who was who or what was what, or what all the argument was about. At this point we were not the least bit alarmed or even dismayed. We smilingly opened our' baggage so that they could see we had no guns or ammunition and emptied our purses so that they could count our traveller's cheques. I have a suspicion that they didn't know what they were and perhaps give-away coupons would have looked more valuable. We had already handed over our passports. After about half an hour of this, when my smile was beginning to ache, an obviously senior officer appeared and indicated that our passports were no good. No good? The smile really came off then. The compartment and corridor beyond were already jammed but he squeezed in two Rumanian fellows, pre- sumably passengers, who spoke a bit of English. After they got through telling us what sort of a pig he was, they explained that we must go back to Bratislava and get visas from the Hungarian consulate. How could we? We had no Czech money. We had reservations at a hotel in Budapest and so on and so on. It was no use. They were holding up a local train for us and we must go back on it. We would be back in Brati- slava by about 11.00 p.m.; the consulate was open all night for emergencies and there would be another: train for Budapest at 4:00 a.m. All of which proved to be untrue, BROADLOOM 15 King Street East CUSTOM MADE DRAPES Phone 725-2686 MORE POWER TO YOUR FOOD DOLLAR OWER Supv Food.-Manbity. . Specials Effective In Our By ROBERTA ROESCH | Many women in their 30s and 40s, facing the moment of de- Charade On The Cinder Track Meanwhile the uniformed ones were removing our baggage from the racks and still waving their arms and reciting long passages without drawing breath, we were herded off the Baikan - Orient and deposited un- ceremoniously in a second class coach (wooden seats) of the Storovo local. Our railway tickets were like vouchers, the size of a large envelope, and something had been written on the back of them because when the conductor came around he didn't ask for any more money. We had none anyway. Then we began to get hungry and the pangs became worse at every stop, and there were many, when the pas- sengers would dash off and come back with bread or fruit A plump young housewife with a number o! parcels and bulging string bags sat across from us and must have been observing us closely. At a fairly large station, she gathered up her paraphernalia and left. We nodded goodbye. In a few minutes she was back with four, meat- filled rolls and two ice cream bars which she deposited on my lap Oh, the vexing barrier of language! We both tried to thank her arfd I quickly unearthed a dollar bill (un- declared) and pressed it into her hand as a "souvenir". She left the train then, but her kindness will stay with us for ever. So finally tired and dirty, we arrived back in Brati- slava. The taxi driver, rather reluctantly accepted a U.S. dollar for our fare back to the hotel, where the receptionist looked as if she were seeing ghosts when we approached the desk. Fortunately there was a room available and she ad- vanced us 80 Krowns on a five dollar deposit, After a bath and a light meal we felt equal to sending a telegram to the hotel in Budapest advising our delay. What a pantomime that little effort turned out to be. The spinster in charge wouldn't send it because she couldn't read it. She suggested telephoning. We said we wouldn't pay unless she could get someone at the hotel who spoke English. She didn't like that either, but she did succeed, after a fashion It was midnight when we sank into our beds, mindful of meeting the Hungarian consul in the morning.. The Consul Was Unconsoling He wouldn't see us when we presented ourselves at 9:00 a.m. We must come back at 10. We handed in our passports at the appointed time and discovered that Mar- garet had left her extra photographs at the hotel. No taxi in sight so we rocketed back in an old tram and back again. This time the secretary asked for $4.50 each so we handed over a ten dollar bill, He disappeared into an inner sanctum and after an endless wait, returned to say that my application was no good. He didn't speak English and we were trying to converse in garbled German. The trouble, it seemed, was something to do. with my being a journalist and he had telephoned Budapest, This brought on a minor uproar. 1 expostulated with him in my own tongue and told him I was a tourist like any other. He wanted an extra 31 Krowns for something and I refused to pay it. It was quite a scene but it blew over like a summer storm, He returned from the inner office with the passports and visas, all smiles and it wasn't until we were out on the street that we realized that we didn't get any change from our ten dollars, but he didn't get the 31 Krowns either, so we let it go af that Now, were we ready to make another assault an the border crossing? Leaving nothing to chance, we went to the official travel agency Cedok where our original train tickets were reconfirmed and the train time ascertained Then we were told we must obtain a transit visa for the part of Czechoslovakia we would cross after leaving Hungary and before reaching Poland This bit of information was acquired gyter much heat- le jr Ib 0 will work out. 5s le \s ision about whether or not to eturn to work, hold themselves ack because they are unsure f how to proceed so everything out when they were ready to return to a job. Once they do decide to go out to work again, they often dis- cover that a lot of the problems they thought would come up never materialize and that those that do in many instances are easily solved. That is why there is a con- tantly growing need in every ommunity for vocational work-| hops, job and career clinics,| consultation and counselling pro- }grams and short-term extension jcourses on career planning for |mature women who want to go back to work HAPPY WITH RETURN Here is what happened In the case of two women "I couldn't be happier about Says one who: (1) Through such programs,|my return," women could seek guidance and! Worked in radio before her chil- pe | | | | home comes in the form of 4 INDIAN SLIPPERS with a gold-braided or deli- cately beaded motif on the toe. Elegant and different, they charmingly comple- ment all at-home ensembles --lounge skirts and blouses, pajamas, pants outfits and leotards. The colors are ex citing also. Just a few are peacock blue, Coorgi orange, Jaipur pink, gold, fuschia and bright green --By Tracy Adrian Footwear glamor for at lovely raw silk pointed-toe slippers from far-off India, produced in the country's traditional handicraft man- ner. Available in two styles --a neat cut-out version as shown and a_ closed-foot style -- they are trimmed with either a simple gold braid and sequin edging or ed telephoning, because despite all the official offices and bureaux, nobody really knows the facts and "information service' certainly didn't know how to deal with two 'Free World Women" asking a lot of tricky questions. We must go to the police, they said, for papers. Time was running out so they kindly called a taxi for us and told the driver what we had to do. From then on we were his charges. He bought the two required stamps at 20 Krowns each, and drove us to the city limits to the police department; found room 47 and introduced us to a pleas ant officer who looked at passports, visas, papers and vouchers and said that was enough. We thought so too, but how wrong he was! Our friendly driver drove us back to the hotel, waited while we grabbed and then got us to railway station just in time Would you like to know what happened at Storovo the second time around? } our baggage the program' near your! 'vous'."" ! He says that after only a few But if one is unavailable, per-|weeks he began to understand haps you should try to go back,} much of what the French-speak- | Starting with the kind of job|/ing members were saying in the }you know you can fulfil House. WANT ACTION? vocational home. APPLE JUICE Two Oshewe Leeations Onyl! LYNN VALLEY . Na C4"4 KAPOW. --AVVIDINAN Y ------ BA GF Je 'HOW'S THAT ? For REAL action why don't you try a classified want ad? 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