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This beautiful crocheted coffee table cloth is one which would be appreciated | CHILD GUIDANCE By GARRY C, MYERS, PhD Suppose your own child, 2, 4, or 6, is overdependent on you, unnase this youngster tinues in this overdependence, eventually marries and has chil- dren of his or her own, Suppose you live with this young family or near them. What might hap- pen in your relation to the Overdependency In Children Creates Overwhelming Problem *\*,... over con-| different, It will (HE OSHAWA TIMES, Mendey, June 13, 1966 1§ | |me. My husband won't. say any- \thing to his mother; she's very proud, But when he's an and upset, he picks on my father iwho has many faults but does bo have any effect on the chil- ren, My motherinlaw has taken to be any one of the three), 07 and everything must ron grandmother, young father or her way. It didn't bother me young mother--it would appear : tually be dit-| much in understanding her, ea tind tau | Dut If the children are going to WUE & MEURL 4 mrieteeertms emotions. running back for| it whalt it cule cha wad bel |years and years, 'a Grandma instead of trying to| | In order to understand the pe the woman and mother of; magnitude of the problem, you|the house, She's been here three | must realize that when @ young! years, [Rw seer, =a grandchildren and to their pa-|child is overdependent on the rents? What might happen in| mother, he is likely to continue, the relation between these two to be overdependent. Besides "tT have no wish to hurt her, but something has to be done. design is would add an touch to any as a gift. The such, that it interesting one's home. If you wish in- structions please send self- addressed stamped return envelope and ten cents to cover cost of handling, ask- ing for Leaflet No, C-8584 parents? Now Jet us look at the young family. There are the young pa-| rents and their children, Hither) Grandma is the mother of the) young mother or of the young, tionship, Suppose Grandma |were your mother, Suppose your husband felt that,she interfered too much in the rearing .of the grandchildren, Suppose he wanted you to talk about this matter to Grandma, Would you not hesitate to do so for fear lyou "would hurt your mother?" Suppose Grandma were your husband's mother, Suppose you wanted him to talk to Grandma Now would he respond to this? | If you are not personally in molved in such problems, it may lseem ridiculous to you that el ther parent of the grandchildren would not put foremost in im portance the welfare of these youngsters, But if you happen Canadian Couple Find Poverty Planned Campaign Art Of Tapestry Designing In Shadow Of Taj Mahal By MARILYN ARGUE OTTAWA (CP) Jim Sheila Ward have been majestic Taj. Mahal That's about as close as they've been to astern splen dor and riches Woking with the Canadian University Service Over seas (CUSO), the young Vancouver couple live in a three-room house with no electricity, The people they mostly meet live in mud huts on farms of 10 to 15 acres The Wards now are on holi day in Canada and England They'll return to India in July for another term of duty A graduate of the nursing Sheila travels by hicycle and "and that damaged my reputa-late date living tion with the women--an Indian job? in India, just 30 miles from the married woman wouldn't ride one," Gets Summer Job By ROBERTA ROESCH , What can a student do at this to find a summer Being Revived By LINDA CRAWFORD MONTREAL (CP) architecture is producing a re Because the hunt for paying, vival of the art of tapestry and| posts for this season starts as|two Montreal women are in the She always wears Indian early as Christmas vacation of forefront clothes, a sari for sheath for cycling Cooking is her biggest chore "We just have a little kerosene stove, and it always acts up, We have no refrigeration, and we can't get tinned goods,"' "When she wants bread,' Jim says, buy the wheat at the market pick out the stones down to the mill and wait while it's ground," work in the last year clinie or the Punjabi slacks and portunities fore the-final school bell of the have developed the art form in most of the good op are gone long be term has been rung However, if you just this summer, you might be to make lucky enough to land a last "she has to Minute job that didn't open up cept of tapestries as "flexible) until just now, take it sugGESTED STEPS Here are some steps to take to increase your chances of hav Micheline Beauchemin Mariette Rousseau different directions, but the in hap-|spiration of both will brighten pened to be one of those who|the Centre of Performing Arts do not have a chance to work! in Ottawa when that building ts completed. in 1968 Miss Beauchemin, whose con walls" is still in the experimen tal stages, has opera hall Mrs, Rousseau-Vermetie, who Modern and Vermette been awarded the contract for curtains for the In Quebec the lighting and the angle of vi sion," - Miss Beauchemin said it was difficult to define the colors used in her design, which is also abstract, as color depended upon the lighting as well, "Blues and green, reds, pink and mauve, generally, but the curtain can be any one of those colors," STUDIED STAINED GLASS Interest in this type of effect arises from Miss Beauchemin's early interest in stained glass windows. After attending Ecole "\des Beaux-Arts here, she spent five years in Europe--two in France studying stained glass techniques at Chartres, father--a widely different rel@-| excwssiVE PROTECTION I'm too close and 1 get all tan- | gled up in feelings, Isn't there |something I can do to save us| all?" My reply in part: You face a very hard prob- jlem, Unless some means can be found to persuade Grandma to Accordingly the mother ac-| mind her own business or to in- quires excessive protection and|duce her to live elsewhere, at direction of him or her, When|almost any degree of finaneial | this child, boy or girl, is mar-|sacrifice to your parents, your) jried and has children of his| problem is hopeless. | own, the mother, now the| At some moments in private igrandmother, tends to continue, with your husband, when you | protecting and directing him,|are most lovely, you might be She does so by taking over the lable to get him to see that It's it's a two-way street: She is overdependent on the youngster to the extent she feels she must always protect his feelings and \do for him what he wishes her to do. | - rearing of the grandchildren di far more serious to harm your rectly or by telling the parents children than to hurt the feel-| how to rear them The time to prevent Grandma from interfering in the bringing ings of Grandma, In the mean. while, try to keep in mind how the problem developed up of the grandchildren is when parReNTs' QUESTIONS either parents of the grandchil-' @ fe you see any sense in dren is growing up at home. | coho} assignment of written A mother writes from Wiscon- -hamework that won't be sin: 'My children are beginning| checked at school? | to suffer from Grandma's con-| 4 Wo: unfortunately most of stant nagging and interfering. 1\\4 js not checked and children! say something to the children, know it isn't, How would you| she's right there saying some-|and { feel in their place? --| thing too--at the same' time, |... ~----- | Every moment of the day when! they're in, they are being told off about something and most of the time it's unimportant things. This way | don't feel like scolding them for anything and that isn't good either, "The oldest girl, at 6% 4s) having stomach cramps, The doctor said, 'Too much pres sure.' The second child, a bright stubborn boy, 5 is a bedwetter He also has nervous habits. The doctor again said, 'Take pres sure off,' "The haby 20 months is un affected as yet, The resulting tension is having a strain on | -- LIVELY SUMMER Hair Styles SPECIAL! PERMS On Special Mon, ust, ed. FOR OWLY '¢] 95 PATRICIA'S Beauty Salon 682 Hortop 728-9611 | House in New York and in Pa ris, in the National Gallery and in several embassies in Ottawa, in the University of British Co- lumbia and in many buildings $3 PLAYTEX® SWIM CAP when you buy a PLAYTEX? LIVING? 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But what interested me most Beauchemin says her, was light--I liked light to play be woven in Japan|on color for a more vibrant HELPS FARMERS ing the good fortune to be hired Jim, an agricultural extension at this late date: worker, introduced Mexican; 1. Check with your high wheat into the area, and now school or college placement of ; : ; the state government plans ajfice for a listing of job offer. nationa hespects cee. ll gee hg Cen large - scale program for Sts ings. ' Miss oo lag antl studied agricul-| 80000": 2, Visit your employment design will on color 'ure at UBC. They were mar-| The farmers now use wooden agency office and ask what is|because the Japanene have} xture. wis ried shortly before they left for plows and sow seed by hand,/available now, Be sure to file] more experience in curtain-) She said she turned to tapes: India two years ago Threshing machines are almost|an application for jobs that may| making and "labor and mate-try because contracts for "Children. there die in unheard of bullocks thresh the be offered in the future, Make |rial is cheaper, stained glass windows were droves," says Sheila. "A lot of Wheat by tramping on it, more than one or two visits BLENDS COLORS mainly for churches and very| the cases our doctors get are. Jim 's encouraging 'drastic, 3. Go through the "want) 4 company in limiting, | abortions--the messy or incom- change" by demonstrating bul-jads" section of all the newspa: Oye will make up Mrs The artist has work in Mal-| ale aoe" y lock - drawn plows, seed and|pers in your area as s00n As seau.Vermette's design. ton Airport outside Toronto and) Sheila, who works in family fertilizer drills and dise har- each one comes out, Apply im it thaainh It esa @ eee in Montreal's Place des Arts.) planning, began as a public ows He says farmers can pay| mediately for any openings you hit on etanity to ahidas 4hth Two of her tapestries are to be} health nurse. But when she for better seed and machinery see. auld A ani wind wall Mand exhibited at the National Gal-| went out on visits to families with the profit from one acre| 4, Speak to your relatives and Sone abla (age 8 ot a" the lery in Ottawa and she is pre- "so many women drew me planted according to his friends as well as your parents' | 15 a, > paring for a 1967 exhibition or aside and asked 'how can I stop method. business and social contacts to ganized by the Museum of Que- having babies?' The Wards get $100 a month S* if they know of leads, bee in Quebec City, riwe: , e fram i: kien seen ; sseau-Ve tte, who MANY CHILDREN DIE ja giotollget ah peel tga NAMES AND NUMBERS into yellow greens on the left sell cal cates ae eae te Indian women are tate of Raiasthan... When. thelr 5. Scan the pages of your with blue closing on green," is|\, Quebec City and studied tex about 16 when they ie oo t classified telephone book and!ihe way Mrs, Rousseau + Ver-\tijes in San Francisco, spent first child ct "9 ors is over, they'll get jist the names and numbers of! motte. describes her abstract! ion years-as-aninterior decar "with each child, a:woman's|*o) tC" : individuals and small and large) design in wool. ator, She travelled through Eu-| health gets worse. She is usu Their Indian counterparts are businesses who might have job) Miss: Beauchemin has chosen) p9 . Ho sha what We being | ally breast - feeding the first paid $50 monthly, most of which needs that didn't materidlize| fibre glass, aluminum and acry- Pte and two years ago went baby while pregnant with the they save for dowries, if their until now, Telephone each one lite for her curtains to Japan for the same purpose. | second, and her body just children are girls, or for éduca-jon your list and ask to speak) 'It is a sculptural, three-di- The vOUunE mather af ton heel doesn't have the resources. The '0", if they have boys to the person in charge of hir-) mensional surface," she said.) ner studio in Ste, Adele in the | third child is as likely to die as Bul we spend most of our ing "It has optical effects, but it) surentians ieee live."' salaries because we have extra' 6, When you speak to this|js not op art. It will change with| "per work hangs inQuebec With the intra-uterine contra a Po ee | expenses travel, entertain-|person, state the purpose of ceptive in use now, Sheila has | ime To S works in wool, will provide cur- tains for the theatre The artists were selected by judges, Huntingdon, Rous. "Purples going into blues on 993 the right side and purples going) - @ Custom Meade Brepes usualls have their @ Breadioom © Custom Made Bip Covers HOWARD'S DRAPERIES 926 Simece &. WN. 725.3144 R. W. BILSKY, D.C. CHIROPRACTOR 100 KING ST, &. 728-5156 | ness and lists ideas for jobs you ing, setting up house,"' Sheila/your call and indicate the jobs no problem with instruction can create for yourself says. 'We eat better than the|you can do, It makes a better "But the demand far Indian workers, and we spend impression to be specific in selhpe strips the supply, and there are ® !ot on postage." stead of vague--even though, tiene' tind ihe Genktet ore : P at this late date, you will have| only two doctors for 500.000 : lawn maintenance,| women in the distict The out HOUSEHOLD HINT For light pancakes or waffles, separate eggs, beat yolks into the batter, beat whites until stiff, fold in gently to be pliable enough to take peek ny eigig's : : eaman tall me "tT walked the work that is offered, if'a chance OE OUy DASeMmaniA AN for an interview comes up > nec and 7. Call at department stores,|-- ations factories and large plants and weagesS ALE! SALE! 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