ANN LANDERS Little Troubles Shared | Are Troubles Lightened | even get up. die pomiea wa, closet end said, Put vour coat! in there." I picked the wrong] closet and was embarrassed) when I was told not to put my coat in with the family's, but to use "the other one." | When I returned, Mrs. R was deep conversation with the two| women. After a fev minutes she) said, "Let's play bridge. . ."'| She never did actually say! hello to me, I was uncomfortable the whole levening and ponder if I made |a mountain out of 'a moleholl, I'm a teenager Who fas ---- lems but nothing I can't andle. I'm writing to ask you a personal questio n about your work. Doesn't it tear you up when people write letters about nutty stuff like a neighbor who emp- ties the garbage wearing shorts or a mother - in - law whose false teeth click during church services? I should think you'd get so fed up on petty com- plaints that you'd like to chuck ia the whole business. i. ree jas my husbans suggested, --) How can people be upset bY) Sonica / Molehill, such trifles when there is e tae Seaieis ch real suffering in the ; world? Why don't you tell the] exe. bee: en was sennere ' , t jably rude, you ever go to Whiners and the cryers © SUMP) er home again you must bel lawfully hard up for a card! in the lake? -- Bricktop Dear Brick: No lake could) pame handle 'em, dearie. Besides, 1) : | don't mind when people write| Dear Ann Landers: The réa-| about penny ante problem be-|son I never married ({ am 29) cause I know that many ofjyears old) is because I have) them are letting off steam.|never fallen in love. Now I have Often they clos: by saying,|jmet a woman I do want to "Thanks for listening. I feel almarry -- although I am_ not lot better already." | starry - eyed, no betls are ring- You'd be surprised if youjing and my knees don't turn knew how much real courage|to water when I'm in her pres- 114 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Thursdey, June 2, 1966 | Showers, Trousseau Tea Honor Friday's Bride, Judith Whitbread Lorne Fisher; Miss Eleanor Gib-| morrow evening to Mr. H. Henry|son, Peterborough; Mrs. Jack) Maynard, Miss Judith Ann Whit-|/MeQuigan and. Mrs, Harold bread, has been honored at a|Whitbread. Those serving were) number of showers and trous-| Mrs. John Fisher, Mrs. Russell) Prior to her marriage to- delegates voted to change that to a increments for' ° every year of useful experience. Hinted By RNA = oe minimal' : 2 _ | salary scale for hospital nursin; TORONTO (CP) -- Ontario service ranges poe $5,100 fea nurses have approved suggested) 4 staff nurse in her first year, minimum standards of employ-|tg $13,908 for an assistant direc- ment for registered nurses. 'tor of nursing service with six The standards were presented years' experience and @ mas« by the Registered Nurses' Ass0-|ter's degree ciation of Ontario to the mem-| i : bership on the second day of CRITICIZES CAREER TYPES their three-day annual meeting) Dr. C. A. Roberts, associate which opened Thursday. professor of the department of Standards recommend a %5-\nevchiatry and «choal hveiene hour work week, an annual va-|University of Toronto, told the cation of 20 days and five an-| nurses people in the health field nual increments of five per cent\may be worrying too much of basic salary regardiess of about their careers and not general salary increases. enough about their patients. -- The RNAO standards sug- 'We are stressing formal edu- gested that a nurse who moves|cation, supervision and clinical to a new job be given one year's|training almost as ends in them- increment for every two. years'|selves rather than a& @ means experience in previous jobs. Thejof improving patient care. New Minimums seau tea. |Worsley, Mrs, James Anstey. 7 TIN GRADUATE | Mrs. Ernest Vanson and Mrs.| Mrs. Clifford Dexter, Mrs, Lewis Roenigh, Oshawa, and!James Elliott, and Mrs, Victor Mrs. Raymond Burton of Ter-{Ireland. Miss Margaret Rice, race, British Columbia, enter-| Miss Debora Brown, a cousin) daughter of Mr. and Mrs. tained the bride-elect'at an af-|of the bride-elect, kept the guest) pH, Rice, Hilleroft street, terroon tea, where she was pre-| book. Miss Sandra Morrison was f 4 t O'Neill sented with several cups and/in the personal trousseau room ws Ormer student 0 meh saucers. . Mrs, Beverly Brown showed the| Collegiate, graduated this Mrs. William Ness gave a pan-| shower-gift room and Miss Bev-| week from McMaster Un- try shower at her home on Nip-\eriy Lonsdale and Miss Janice! jyersity in pass Latin. igon street, assisted by Mrs.| Smith displayed the wedding a Sapa Lie nae James Elliott and Mrs. Lloyd! gifts, Wilson, which was attended by| Following the rehearsal to- neighbors and friends of the|night the bridal party will be {graeli passports no longer M bride-to-be. A salad plate wasientertained by the prospective 'kt hate polae bacunee lgerved, bridegroom's parents, Mr. and ist- hair color because se. many Mrs. Lorne Fisher, an aunt|Mrs. Herbert A, , Maynard, | Women nowadays dye their hair lof the future bride, entertain-| Thomas street or wear wigs. led friends and relatives at a mis-| cellaneous shower assisted by LEAVE HAIR COLOR OUT there is in this world, Many or- dinary, every - day folks de- serve a medal for just getting through the day. Yet they never think of themselves as heroic. j ence | Zelda is 35 and is madly in \love with me. We get along | beautifully and I feel like a mil Ilion dollars when I am _ with Miss. Beverly Brown at the for- mer's home on Fernhill Boul- evard. Mrs. John Pinkerton, Toronto, | entertained Miss Whitbread at a} Get a double tan with Q.T. They feel they are just doing|her. Why Because I've never mm | miscellaneous shower, where what 1s expected of them. One of the useful aspects of this column is that it makes people realize that their own) problems aren't so rough after! they read what goes on in the) lives of others. | Dear Ann Landers: It was my first visit to Mrs. R's home. I was invited to play bridge. When I arrived a four-year-old boy opened the door. Mrs. R/ was seated in another room, jhad a woman s0 crazy about me, so eager to please, and so doggoned considerate of my feelings. My father is a minister. He |says he was not in love with my mother when they married, but he admired and respected her and their relationship has flowered and matured into a wonderful thing. My father says if I pass up this girl I am fool- ish, What do you say? -- J. Dear J.: I say your clergy- Hd | MR. AND Mr. Michael Wladyka, former} mayor of Port Hope, and Mrs.} Wladyka were honored on the} "MRS. MICHAE L WLADYKA Former Oshawa Pair Honored Here On Silver Anniversary was Dr com- were The anniversary toast proposed by a nephew, Eugene Mandryk. Many he received many gifts from Toronto friends, The co- hostess was Mrs. Pinkerton's mother, Mrs, James Fernie, also of Toronto Mrs, Douglas Ells entertained the bride-elect at a miscellan-| eous shower. Those present were her classmates who graduated! from the Oshawa General Hos- pital School of Nursing, class of "64 | Mrs. Harry Whitbread enter-| visiting with two other guests.;man gave you good advice When she saw me she didn't) Take it Saturday's Bride, Lynda Pierson! Honored At Showers And Parties J all present for the anniversary |es Mrs, Clarence Scott and Mrs./and the hall was packed with) suite oy Lick held a dessert shower |over 350 guests from Port Hope, | guests, The anniversary cake|dress with a white corsage Scott, |Oshawa, Toronto, Whitby, Ham-| was : 9 : Miss Lynda Ann. Pierson whose marriage to Mr. Robert|R O'Brien is to take place Satur-jat the home of Mrs, day, in Simcoe Street United|Kingston road west. Assisting |ilton, Richards,|Cleveland, Ohio; and England.|Mandryk, Mrs, Michael Mucha} : Letters and télegrams camejand Mrs, William Wladyka. Mrs, | David Cox. A presentation was|from distant points in Canada} The evening was land the United States, as well At the home of Mrs, Gerald|as from the Honorable Michael h the Starr MP and Mrs. Starr and bridesmaids entertained their|/yr. A. mothers and the future bride| Mrs, Walker. Robert Scott been honored atiwere Mrs. Church, has jMrs. Lloyd many showers and parties, Mrs, Jack Pierson, | Joseph Guest, Mrs, Gordon|™ Pierson, held a shower at the home of Mrs, Jack Pierson, Juliana Drive, where the future bride was given pantry shelf gifts and a presentation was made, Mrs. W. Wilson and daughter, Mrs, Peter Magda, held a tea and miscellaneous shower for the future bride at the Oshawa Golf Club. Friends from the Purchasing Department were entertained at a supper party for the future bride at the home of Mrs. Frank Dyl, Clarke street, Miss Irene Dy] assisted. A presenta- tion was made and kitchen gad- gets were given. Mrs, Gordon Reeson held a shower at her-home on Church. ill avenue, where. the - future bride was given kitchen gifts and a presentation was made. and Mrs ade and paper gifts given. Pierson, Buchan street, at a luncheon, at which the! bridesmaids presented the fu-| ture bride with an engraved) gold locket and chain. Neighbors on Hortop and Sim- | tion to the future bride and bridegroom. At the home of Mrs, Roy | Perry, William street east, neighbors and friends of the future bridegroom, held a mis-| cellaneous shower and made a) A dinner party was held at the Guild Inn, Scarborough, by Mrs. Pierson and her daugh- ter for the future bridegroom's) mother, the bridesmaids and flower girl. Mrs. Harold Pierson enter- jtained at a tea in honor of her |daughter. Receiving were the| 'future bridegroom's mother, | Marriage Mix-Up 'os jthe ' ride-elect. | Tough Decision I those goutieg a wees, Mars. | F,; Luke, Mrs. W, L. Pierson, | For Any Judge |Mrs. FE, W. Jackson, Miss Leuta| Pierson, Mrs EDMONTON (CP)--When two couples are divorced. and then Ss _ sag ac coe streets made a presenta-|7 jsaid grace. | = presentation to the bride-to-be, | Silver Threads, ganizes from needlework to oil painting. Most join. up_are beginners. G, Reeson, Mrs. |f oceasion of their 25th wedding|plimentary anniversary National Federation Hall, Bloor| Wladyka's street east former Mary Wladyka were married in Osh- ate awa at the Ukrainian Mrs Mucha and Wladyka, the Mr by the Reverend John acenty, May 24, 1941, Their bridal attendants were) Edmonton, Alberta; V. Walker, MLA, and The bride of 25 years wore a} lyellow and gold silk sari dress | with a white and yellow cor-| Mr, Jacob Malachowskl | ted as master of ceremonies, | he Reverend John Jacenty | ge. | ENERGY BEATS AGE | VICTORIA (CP) -- A local | group has solved the problem of retired people's idleness. Called the group or- classes in everything of the 65-year-olds svho! C, E, Scott, Mrs, E. Yourth and | Miss Lula Reeson swap partners, the question of In. charge of the personal what happens to the children is) a test for a judge. Sscau TGenis Weie Miss Elisabeth VandeVen, and Miss Irene Dyl. Also assisti ere Such a case came before Mr./Mrs, Gerald Pierson i r | Justice M, E. Manning of the!Chalmers, Mrs. George Jack sore pig Court, igh son, Mrs. Robert Goddard, Mrs, | pointed a lawyer just to look| David Cox, Miss Jos arge after the interests of the five yj ; Rone Saree, children involved The resulting decision is that Miss Joyce Luke, Miss Eliza- beth Bigwood, Mrs. Robert all five will remain under one roof with one of the two new Richards, Mrs, Peter Magda In charge of the guest book were Miss Kara Pierson, Miss couples. And the mother of two Diane Jackson and Miss Ellen girls, eight and five, will not be permitted to visit them for the present Jackson, Following the wedding re- s hearsal tonight, the bridal When the couples exchanged |party will be entertained at the partners, three children--a boy home of Mr, and Mrs, Robert of four and girls two and seven! O'Brien, William street east went with their mother to live with the other two girls and their father. The mother of the two girls asked that they be returned to her. Besides appointing a lawyer to look out for the children, Mr Justice Manning asked a child psychiatrist and the city wel- fare supeintendent to report on which home would be better for the five children. Dr. Harold Barker, the psy- chiatrist, and D. .K Wass, wel- fare superintendent, said they thought it would be better for the children to remain where they were. y j It was:felt the two little giris = SOMERVILLE ST. | | | | | | j We Are Now Taking Orders for Homes To Be Built In This Area. TAUNTON RD, W. sro RPrArHyeD Wir FHLOLHVIN 3" strip of aluminum ind the lip. of paint cans te mess, keep the lid- Crimp a f to clean CAYUGA AVE. SIMCOE ST. N. should remain with their father and "'not be exposed to the emo- tional disturbances so likely to take place if they see their nat- ural mother frequently." The judge then ruled the court Pre i ciccninsas $21,475.00 $4,975.00 would deny visiting privileges to the mother for at least four months to allow the children to settle into a new family situa- tion | Both Dr. Barker and Mr Wass said a new home and life and new parent - child relation- ship must come before the com mon pracitice of considering | adults' rather than children's| peeds in visiting hrivileges. 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