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THE OSHAWA TIMES, Wednesday; Mey 11, 1966 includes euch training to an ade- |that you are now in the third|is the fine outlook in your per- a6 ; THE STARS SAY lyear of the excellent Bronte fb life, In the field of ro- " entree |uate degree. Being Protestant) a CHILD GUID ANCE By ESTRELLITA 'domination which began early|mance, look for some interest-| myself, | have gathered infor-| ldirectly or from friends and ¥OR TOMORROW in 1964 and the attainments of ing developments between now Pastoral Counselling Should mation over a good many years lacquaintances and through A highly stimulating day. ie = a beg accom and late September; also in late, imany letters from parents, I ound business and financial af- plishments during he next :|October and next April. Travel relation to confidentiality, which could well change the course of! ivi hig ' fairs should run smoothly, show your entire life and social activities shoul leads me to state that alj too z be anifieatty prove exceptionally stimulating Where 1966-67 is specifically 2 however between 'now and mid-Septem- | nowever, - i her--a generally excellent cycle ; i 1 f' fid t k t \gain, In personal rejationships ; Be Held In Strictest Confidence |», :7a% perenne st od ma discreet, however -- espe- concerned, . By GARRY C, MYERS, PhD "Jn an article inthis column gome time ago, I noted the in- creasing services by pastors in counselling adults and youths, I Stated that from counselling well many a pastor contributes greatly to the peace of mind and "general mental health of those e counsels, I pointed out some pitfalls in "this movement -- danger that) ome pastors, lacking special training in counselling, might "fail to recognize their limita- tions and that some pastors: might not hold in strict confi- dence what a youth or adult reveals to him, To quote: "'Ima- "gine what could. happen; and too often really does happen, when a@ pastor freely talks to others serious mistake on your part to speak.of doctors as being uni- an emphasis put on this in their training, You then refer to a similar tenet for the legal pro- fession, and then to turn around and imply that too often pastors talk freely with others about sonal matters brought to him, I know nothing of your back- ground or training, but evi- dently you are not aware of the fact that a part of the training of most pastors is the injunction that they not talk about the marital and other personal prob- lems of their parishioners with anyone, Indeed, one of the hard- est parts of being a pastor is the terrific burden of problems which he is called upon to carry in his congregation about the mental problems or other very personal matters brought to him." The following letter came urban church Dear Dr. Myers: Last night 1 read your article on Parent Problems entitled Clergy of To day Counsel Their Flock, Upon completion of the tgading 1 had mixed emotions. A general | was appreciative of your re marks concerning the clergy as counselors, | would wholeheart ediy agree that the clergyman must know his own limitations and recognize when there is} and wrestle with without being able to share them 'with others I am sorry indeed that .your experience with pastors has led from the pastor of a certain'you to what I feel is an un- founded generalization, which unfortunately may have the op-| posite effect of what you ap-) parently intended by your arti cle My reply in part: | doubt that you are an idea! pastor ~ counselor,- You have raised a good point, however, don't I'm aware of special courses on counseling in some theological seminaries and of the injunction to students in some of them, 1 Yor versally confidential because of} may: pastors who have not had the training you have had. right in your implication that my warnings, might weaken the faith of some parishioners in their pastor More of them, obviously, read my column that do the few pas- tors who might profit from my |marital problems and other per-|Varmings. However, I strongly believe J was right in having said that pastors, as I know them in Protestant denominations, don't) fidences as physicians do, PARENTS' QUESTIONS Q@. If you were a Sunday jschool teacher, would you en- courage your pupils to memor- lize short portions from the | Bible? | A, Yes, and from other good sources too, WIFE PRESERVER need to refer to more qualified) 'that they not talk about mari-| Shampoo.plushy stuffed animals individuals ' I was, however, ayite dis turbed by our remark about the! lack of confidentiality on the) tal and other personal problems of their parishioners with any- one," But I'm not aware that a part | with rug cleaner, Dosen't soak in, dries quickly. Just brush the nap lightly when completely part of pastors. I think it Is ajof the training of most pastors idry. SENSATIONAL HAT VALUES Regular 6.99 to 12.99 values, . 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