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ANN LANDERS College Girls Reveal Low Moral Standards I'm a to] worth saving. But your sugges- inhibit group of crusaders for sex- dat freedom took a blind poll of otr dorm last week. The ques- tion was: "Are you a make-out or a hold-out?" Each girl was asked to check A or B. (We wanted to insure honest re- sponses so we didn't ask for signatures.) Well, 85 per cent of the girls said they were make- outs, while 15 per cent said they were hold-outs. This poll sug- gests that the vast majority of college girls have already made that decision so what do the school authorities think they are saving us from, anyway? We believe each girl must decide for herself where to draw the line or if she wishes to draw a line at all. We also believe that dorms, both men's and women's, should be open to members of the opposite sex, day and night. Why drive students to expen- sive motels, rented rooms, the beaches, or--worst of all--into uncomfortable cars? If our minds are made up we will find a place--and you can bet on it. We need backing from people like you. Please help us to per- suade college administrations to treat us like mature adults. It is not only absurd, but de- gtading, to be policed as if we were 12-years-old.--My Name is Legion Dear Legion: You don't need to tell me that when your minds are made up you will find a place. I get dozens of letters every day from girls who have found the place. They ask me to red them find another place. A home for unwed mothers. I don't believe dorm rules ever saved even one girl's vir- tue. You are right, the school can't save something that the girl herself doesn't think is tion that the administration en- dorse an open door policy: be- cause dorms are more comfort- able than cars -- and cheaper than motels--is ridiculous. While it is true that an indi- vidual's conscience is still the best policeman in the world, rules and regulations are essen- tial in a prell-ordered society. Some sterling characters would behave precisely as they now do if there were no rules, but most of us need guidelines. We need to have limits set to save us from ourselves. When you kids were living at home did your parents allow you to entertain members of the opposite sex in your bed- rooms at all hours of the day and night? And what would you have thought of them if they had allowed it? Most college Mr. and Mrs. John Kokot are shown with her father, Mr. Peter Chalemendyk who has just arrived from the the Ukraine. They are cele- brating Easter together in the Ukrainian tradition for the first time in 24 years. Mr. Chalemendyk came from Zaporijia province, in the HAPPIEST EASTER IN 24 YEARS heart of the Ukraine. Mr. and Mrs. Kokot own a variety and coffee shop on Bond street west. Orion Photo Studio students are being put through school by parents who are sacrificing to do it. The restric- tions are part of the total package and college kids should not resent it. A college that provides a cozy setup for intra-mural sex must accept: full responsibility when its students get into trou- ble. And many of them would. You can bet on it. Confidential to SHOULD I OR SHOULDN'T I: You should ac- cept the offer and quit com- plaining. Remember you can shear a sheep many times but you can take its hide only once. CHILD GUIDANCE Tantrums On Being Left 'Need Early Correction By GARRY C. MYERS, PhD No matter how capable the person with whom your tot is left may be, your child may cry bitterly as you leave. You may feel so badly over his crying that you will linger and make it harder for yourself and him. After an hour or so you might eall up your home to know how the youngster is. Nearly always you will be told that he quit @rying as soon as you were out t sight--which you hardly can believe. You may get a number of smotions -- pleasure that he wants you so much, and suffer- fng and even a sense of guilt in leaving him. You mothers who work may suffer the harder the child may cry after you. Being sure you need to work and that the youngster is well) "My babysitter is the super- said, but "If criticisms are to be| devoting entire collections cared for in your absence, youlintendent's wife. I have left) made of me. . |so worried about hurting Sally too. The babysitter informs me that once I'm out the door Sally quits crying and plays well with her four-year-old. "However, at home now Sally wants to be held and rocked a lot. She's fussier and yesterday when I went over to my sister- in-law's Sally didn't want to get out of the car. I think she was afraid I was going to leave her there. "I'm so worried over this} child. I know every day mothers leave their children to go to work, but if my daughter is really afraid or scared I don't know what to do. I certainly don't want to hurt my daughter, and before I began teaching I felt it might help her to over- come her shyness. | | | would be wiser to try to get rid/Sally with her two weeks now. of this foolish feeling. Besides, whether you work or not, your youngster needs to learn to get used to your leav- ing him if he is not to be too dependent emotionally on you. Some mothers falsely assume that they should always stay home with their young child. A mother writes about her! baby, 22 months: ;I began working a_ short time ago. Sally had never be left with anyone before other than her grandparents or my) ; sister. Now I leave her with a\8° Without ceremony lady who is a wonderful baby- sitter, but Sally cries every time | en|y She really seems nice and has raised five children of her own. Please find time to help me." | My reply in part: DON'T FEEL GUILTY I hope you no longer feel a| jsense of guilt when you leave |that little. child with that good, |babysitter. I imagine that she feels your suffering and this |makes her cry even more. As | you say, she is soon over it after you are out of sight. Just stiffen up yourself and and be cheerful about it. Look forward to the good times you will have Tieave. I feel so guilty and bad|With your Gaugiter in the eve- about it, but I only leave her|Ning. It is not strange that this MW hours. UNDER CONTRACT 'little girl clings to you while you are home, as she knows |you don't want her to cry after "My job is in the teaching|you. profession and, therefore, 1 am| While you are home with her under a contract. Of course, Ij you are inclined to make up for could break it, but I hate tojthe time you were absent. leave them stranded. Yet I feeliStrive to make her more self- For Beta Sigma ature followed a pot-luck sup- r at the home of Mrs. Palmer night at the regular meeting of Delta Sigma Chapter of Beta Sigma Phi. Miss Mary Carolyne Warbur- ton pointed out some of the friends that were made in books from earliest childhood charac- ters to people such as Carolyn Ames in "Prologue to Love". Several poems were read de- picting the beauty of the sea- sons during a discussion on "Nature Through Poetry and Prose". Mrs. Wallis Cain presided for the opening ritual. Mrs. Warren Wills reported from Beta Sigma Phi Council that a parade td start the fund-raising campaign for the Civic Auditorium addi- tion would be on May 14. A re- quest from the Centennial Com- mittee for a _ representative from Beta Sigma Phi was read. It was decided that meetings of the Delta Sigma Chapter ond and fourth Tuesday. Tickets for a cooking demonstration on Monday, April 25, were issued by Mrs. William Horton. A re- PUT FACTS IN OPEN ister Harold Wilson wants to re- duce the 50-year waiting period before state papers are pub- lished to 30 years. The rule is idesigned to protect still-living St politicians and civil servants, he they are made." jreliant, to do for herself what|new : |she is able to do and to amuse|round latex foam cushioning| years ago. While you are|replaces old-fashioned down or) herself more. home aim to let others there, like dad, minister more often to psd needs, read to her and help jher engage in fun she may be jable to carny on alone or with persons other than yourself. ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Our child in Grade 3 brings home long lists of words to learn. to spell. He sometimes gets honelessly mixed up, spell- ing many of them wrong. What should I do? | A. Why not prevail on him to jattack only three or four of them an evening, or only as many as he can master without errors, letting the rest go? Bet- ter to master a few than to have confusion over many. SPRING CALLS for a regular beauty routine at home with the convenience of a portable hair dryer. While relaxing, you can give yourself a manicure. Air vents on the top of the hair dryer power' unit provide a source of warm air to dry fingernails. By General Electric Housewares. , A cultural program on liter- would be changed to the sec-| Phi Chapter April 26 was read. In connec- tion with this, a work session will be held at the next meet- ing. executive were as follows: President, Mrs. Donald Lid- diard; vice - president, Mrs. John Wilson; recording secre- tary, Mrs. Jack W. MacDonald; corresponding secretary, Mrs. Carl Schoeneau; treasurer, Mrs. David Noakes; city coun- cil representatives, Mrs. Larry Steffen and Mrs. Douglas Cos- burn. Nominations for the 1966-67 'Literature' Is Program Topic | S0C minder about Founder's Day on|Sandra_ Cecile, TAL NOTICES ENGAGEMENT Mr. and Mrs. Phillip West, Oshawa, wish to announce the engagement of their daughter, to Christian Negre, son of Mr. Henri Negre, LaSalle, Quebec and the late Mrs. Negre. Marriage plans are (omen 12 THE OSHAWA TIMES, Monday, April 11, 1966 Jo Aldwinckle, Telephone 723 - 3474 fo The nurses in training at Osh- awa General Hospital were re- cently entertained by the OGH Women's Auxiliary at an after- bowling party held in McLaugh- lin Hall, Mrs. C. D. Russell was in charge of the program and refreshments were served and entertainment provided by Kevin Kelly and Stuart Smith, folk singers. A Kelly Kirby Kindergarten piano demonstration and recital was held at the home of the teacher, Mrs. Robert English, Mary street, when Allison Col- lict and Mark Forsythe re- ceived their certificates. Out of town guests attending the Wright-Axford wedding Sat- urday were: Mr. Herbert John- ston, North Bay; Mr. and Mrs. Frank Spry, Mr. Harold Spry, Mr. and Mrs. Roy Spry, Karen, Patty and Billy Spry, all of Rochester, N.Y.; Mr. and Mrs. Glen Spry, Debbie and Glen, Penfield, N.Y.; Miss Marguerite Wright, St. Catharines; Mrs. L. M. Keith, Toronto; Mr. and Mrs. Vernon Ratz, Veryl and Ray, Huntsville; Mr. and Mrs. James Petty, Toronto; Mr. and Mrs. Harry Johnston, Lindsay; to be announced at a later date. | | FORTHCOMING MARRIAGE | Mr. and Mrs. Gordon William| Jermey, wish to announce the) forthcoming marriage of their Miss. Lynda Blaize and Mr. Kenneth Sharpe, Mr. Robert Wright and Miss Diane Doner, all of Toronto. Mrs. J. H. McDiarmid has daughter, Donna Marie, to Mr. George Alexander Thomson Jr., son of Mr. and Mrs. George Alexander Thomson, all of Osh- awa. The ceremony will take place on Saturday, May 7, 1966, at 2.30 p.m. in the chapel of Simcoe Street United Church. English Styles Return To Today's Furniture Designs By ELEANOR ROSS History repeats itself and the English are coming again, this time in the world of furniture. New furniture designs are in- fluenced by the styles of "mer- rie Englande'"' of the 17th cen- tury right down through late /19th century Victorian. English furniture has been around a jlong time obviously, offering a |sophisticated appeal in its ele- |Colonial interpretation in this }country, it has enjoyed endur- ing popularity. Now it is getting a royal re- ception as it emerges in a new rength and character from American design centres. Furniture manufacturers to - I would rather period English designs that are) be alive to answer them when updated with modern American) jjs:=2 fabrics of cut velvets, crushed linen velvets, suede cloths, lcrewel-work type prints, and textured effects. Puffy |horsehair for comfort and long | wear. The new English derivatives \to live with. They have a stabil. ity and substance that promise Young Woman Elected Editor jyear history of the Michigan Law Review. It is a scholarly journal frequently cited in liti- gants' briefs and court deci- such publications in the United States. Crinkling her freckled nose, the new editor, 23-year-old Sally Katzen, of Pittsburgh, said in an interview: "T've been told the job will take about 60 hours a week--but J hope I won't have to give up my social life." ; Since Sally is a second-year be Michigan, she also will load do about three hours of home- work for every hour in class, ing,' she said In her job as editor-in-chief, she will direct an eight-man staff 'and supervise the work of 24 associates and assistant edi- tors--all men. The editor-in-chief is chosen by fellow editors, subject to fi nal faculty approval. The job is non-salaried. Also working for her will be 40 junior-class candidates for election to the staff of the re- view. Sally hopes to become either a corporation or a government lawyer '|"Hot Flashes' You can get help with Lydia E. Pinkham 4 AT ALL DRUG COUNTERS have a fresh lively appearance || that is urbane, elegant and easy || (Of Law Magazine, ANN ARBOR, Mich. (AP)--A | willowy brunette with sparkling || brown eyes is the first woman)| elected editor-in-chief in the 65-|| sions, and ranks among the top law student at the University of carrying a 12-hour academic) "They say you're supposed to! so maybe I'll just give up sleep- |more than long-life acceptance. |Because of its adaptability, |English mixes smoothly with |Other styles such as its cousins, |Early American and Colonial. |BLENDS HARMONIOUSLY | English is completely at home | with contemporary, and in its jearliest 17th century mood it jblends harmoniously with still- jextant and very popular Medi- terranean. With its well-bred LONDON (AP)--Prime Min-)gant simplicity of design. In its|jook, it is thoroughly relaxed in| |just about any environment and setting in town or country. Some of the pieces are mas- sive and rather ornately carved. |This is typical of the design in- fluence of the early 17th cen- jtury. The wood trim in this case are'is mostly oak, with pecan and| |walnut also in use. Finishes are dark and heavily ssed to simulate antiquity. colored stains are used g the grain and pore of od and causing it to look it had been painted 300 | Some | showin |the wo jas if COLORS AVAILABLE Hues are olive bronze, brick 'been visiting in London, On- tario, where she was among the guests at a dinner party cele- brating the engagement of her | granddaughter, Miss Candace jJoan Doyle, daughter of Mr. and Mrs..J. R. Doyle, formerly of Oshawa, to Mr. Christopher Dreinig Reid. Miss Doyle will graduate in June from Mount Holyoke College, Massachusetts, | | red, sunny yellow or dark black-| ish lime. As a result this large-scale furniture, with its plump cush- ion seating and flavor of well- treated tradition, has the cov- eted country house look s0| popular today. | Combined with modern up- |holstery fabrics, this compatible furniture has a freshness that blends beautifully with contem- porary accessories and many SOCIAL & PERSONAL Women's Editor r Women's Department and the wedding is to take place in Cleveland, Ohio, in August. Her fiance's parents live in Buffalo, New York. Mr. and Mrs. Roy Lavis, Con- naught street, have returned home aftér spending three months in Florida, staying at Clearwater Beach, Orlando and Daytona Beach. Mrs. E. F. Cuthbertson, Mary street, has returned from visit- ing her daughter, Mrs. K. E Sproule and Mr. Sproule at Pointe Claire, Quebec, and has brought home with her, her grandchildren, Kathryn and David, for the Easter holidays. Rotarians Propose Toast To Ladies Members of the Rotary Club of Oshawa marked their annual 'Ladies' Night" with a recep- tion and dinner in the Hotel Genosha. Guests of honor were District Governor Jack Hughes, and Mrs. Hughes, Willowdale, and Bowmanville President Don- ald Morris and Mrs. Morris. Receiving members and their ladies were President Geoffrey Andrews and Mrs. Andrews; ist vice-president Gilbert Murdoch and Mrs. Murdoch and Mr. and Mrs. Jack Hughes. Following dinner the toast to the ladies was proposed by Mr. Jack Lowry and Mrs. Geoffrey Andrews responded. A new member was introduced, Mr. Norman Dunn, past - president and charter member of the Rotary Club of North Winnipeg. Entertainment was provided by four singers from the Cana- dian Opera Company with Mr. Ernest Adams as master of ceremonies. Mr. James Bessey introduced couples who had recently be- come club members: Mr. and Mrs. Norman Dunn, Mr. and Mrs. David G. Perkin, Mr. and Mrs. Melville Smith, Mr. and Mrs. John Houghton, Mr. and Mrs. J. Cecil Stephenson, Mr. and Mrs. H. V. Myers, Mr. and Mrs. Ian Biggar, Mr. and Mrs. Jack Bathe. Lucky prizes were won by Mrs. D. G. Perkin, Mrs. J. C. types of decor. Some of the furniture, espe-| cially that derivative of the late! 19th century, is heavily tufted, | |with touches of bamboo trim. | This exotic wood, used rather | sparingly in the past, is now an extremely popular favorite ap- | pearing not only as a decoration jon upholstered pieces, but also} fon molding on mirrors and chests. Whether of the 17th or 19th century, this English ambiance pervades the American furni- jture scene with just about the |freshest breeze that has blown from across the big pond since the Mayflower set sail for these) shores 'way. back when the; earliest pieces in this motif 'were considered modern. | BUY YOUR TIRES = AT -- cLoon S And Save! 12.47 and Up Vege an v 'i y / Credit at HFC means credit coast to coast "0 "a 36 | months | months MONTHLY PAYMENT PLANS | 2 Credit in one HFC office gives you cash 45) 58.1 101.01 126.26 117.37 | 144.30 146.71 | 180.37 $.... | $6.12] $9.46 18.35 | 28.37 32.86 | 51.24 credit in every HFC office throughout Canada and the U.S. A good reason to borrow from HFC, 1) 91.56 Ask about credit life insurance Above je, ments Include principal and interest a 00 prompt repayment, but do not include the cost of ind are based Ie Insurance. 'on loans at low group rates Ask about our AJAX: 66 Harwood Avenue South. . 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' 'We're getting water from the Red, the Rat, the Seine and an overflowing culvert," says 'Shir- ley Kosman, 18, staying with her mother and four brothers and sisters at the centre for the Easter weekend. "It is not in our house yet but as soon as the Red -gets worse, it will be," said Mrs. Kosman who recalled that there that thic an ii Stake vane kitchen floor in 1950. FLED THE FLOOD Several other St. Adolphe dis- trict residents also are living in .the school's barrack - like dormitories since their homes, | 20 miles south of the city, be-| came threatened by flood wa-| ters. | . Anne Laramee, at the | centre with her six children, | says they moved when access to} the city became limited. Her) husband, who operates an auto| body shop, remained behind to board basement windows and put sandbags around the house. Both women are concerned i Winnipeg Flood Evacuees Worry About Homes, Possessions about the financial effects of the flood. "My husband can't work be- cause he cannot bring anyth in or out," says Mrs, Laramee, Mrs. Kosman, wife of a mar- ket gardener. says: "Wa. will lose money--that's for sure, All we will be able to put in now is potatoes. It will be July be- fore we can plant anything." At Emerson, 60 miles south of Winnipeg on the Minnesota border, evacuation co-ordinator D'Arcy Button says most of the town's 930 residents have left. Evacuation at the surrounded towns of Morris, 40 miles south of Winnipeg, and St. Jean, 46 miles south, is virtually com: plete. At the reception centre in St. Pierre, officials say 331 persons Have been provided with accom- modation in private homes. HOUSEHOLD HINT 'String matching buttons to pipe cleaners for storing. To secure them, just fold ends lover. SERN TONIA'S Variety end Coffee Shop will B EVERYDAY Serving Meals, and Light Lunches wate Night Snacks, Plus Saend- wiches ete. for Parties and Picnics Please Phone aheod for take out orders. 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