TIMEC Theedaw The council's t+-member exe- EE, Thesstey,. cutive, spea for We group's: 100,000 members, also reiterated a previous reaiest-- tional advancement. Travelling, in connection with either busi- ness or plesure, in late April, duneandor, August. could result in some valuable new contracts. |; When your famuy ars 3%; 'Blone you might try to make more decisive the littie word "No" so you could quietiy use it more effectively..when you z c eat THE OSHAWA Iqnuaew 90 1066 | 18°. "Legal rights of the wife are(Mave nis domiciis," the brief - said. : determined by the domicile of Tt said the law should be. changed so that ali persons can Cauncil Of Women! Seeks Censorship min © © < THLE STARS SAY By ESTRELLITA FOR TOMORROW CHILD- GUIDANCE ee Sale 3 Discipline Is A Must When Visitors Arrive By GARRY C, MYERS, PhD | Bogs en who come he our ; P A house don't ignore our children. While a guest is calling, a| single tot from two to five may,| ney speak to them and ask H ' them questions, but it doesn't aa aewre cslen bed seem to solve the problem. It's} . hard to give them all the at-) The child may carry some Of| tention they need. his toys to the guest, He may) try to climb upon the guest's| TALK AT TABLE : knees and do all sorts of things) "We have made it a practice to get this guest's attention. not to show our children or their d, talents off to people. We have { it is your child, you should, ; ; Pokey Pied "him meet. the|each taken turns talking with no guest, go at his playthings in| interruptions--especially at the another room or a corner of the| Meal table. : same room. After he has built,, 'They also have a swing set drawn or made something, the| and several outside toys plus a guest might like to go with you Jarge yard. Our boys-have many to admire his creations. | playmates their age and are not But you hardly will wish to always all together while play-| have your little child display his) ing. ; et activities right at the feet of the} "We have been very strict) guest. Having trained him at) with the boys, but have loosened other times to respect the litle|the reigns somewhat in the last word "'No" you could say his) year or so. little word effectively then. "We seem to be able to cope But if you have two or three|with and settle everything but little ones between two and five,|this attention problem. It isn't) it may not be so easy to man-! quite as bad when my husband 8] age them when a guest arrives.|home because they mind him} A mother wrote the following better, but it's still there to an letter: extent. ; "We have four small sons--| "It's almost impossible for ages, five, three, two and five me to have company by myself months. When anyone comes to|during the day. I usually have our home, they all (the three|the baby to tend and the two: have guests. When a guest arrives, lei- |surely present all these children jand have them then return to their own places. When they obviously annoy a guest and vie at showing off to gain attention, send the offender or offenders from the room. < if you think they will get into more trouble out of the, room, place. them in a chair there for 20 minutes. Check on. thenr oc- casionally to make sure they serve their sentence. If either leaves' the chair too soon, smack him soundly. If you are consistent, your problem could easily be solved. Go on cuddling them and hav- ing fun with them. Read often to them. oS ANSWERING QUESTIONS Q. Our son, seven, has a large birthmark on his face and he is sensitive about it. What do you suggest? and never refer to it in his presence or elsewhere. When anybody mentions it in his pres- ence, begin to talk about some- thing else. Do. your best to build on his strengths and to help him feel himself a worthy per- son in the family and among his playmates Concentrate on your -most important interests on Friday morning. Take advantage of every opportunity to advance, financially and job-wise, make no hasty decisions and don't take risky chances, Let |conservatism be your byword. |The late afternoon looks prom- 'ising for social interests. FOR THE BIRTHDAY If tomorrow is your birthday, your horoscope indicates that, in job matters, it would be ad- visable to put your best foot forward between now and early May, since there's a chance to especially attract those superi- ors who keep a particular eye on your efforts. Display your } original and clever ideas during " this period since, even belatedly, recognition of your skills is indi- cated in September. A further uptrend along occupational lines lis promised with the beginning 'of December, and, should con- \tinue for many months there- | A. I hope your parents, rela-| after. | tives and friends accept this fact' During late April, June and |mid - August, you may have | some chances to further your financial progress but, gener- ally speaking, ygu, as well as jall other Aq ns, vill have |to wait until late November be- \fore noting a real uptrend in| monetary affairs -- when ad- vances will parallel occupa- but| If single, there's indication of new romance in late April, late June and-or late July (the latter two periods especially good! ). A child born on this day will be versatile, extremely benevo- lent and inclined along literary) lines. PICKED OWN STUBS WARSASH, England (CP)-- Lucy Boyle, renowned for her luck in this Hampshire village, was asked to draw out the lozen winning raffle tickets from the drum. She found that 11 of the 12 were her own and blushingly handed back 10 for re-drawing--by someone else. TORONTO (CP) -- Tighter censorship of films that might)" a right of a wife to-choose|the husband, no matter in gel er. own domicile, determine their own domicile. strange or remote place he may contribute to juvenile delin-| quency was called for Tuesday) by the Provincial Council of; Women of Ontario in a brief to Premier John Robarts. | The council singled out The Wild Ones as an example of what they mean and said -that the film, which depicts the ad-! ventures of a. young motorcy-| cle gang, has had "obvious in- jurious effects on the youth in our province." The council brief also recom- mended that the government es- tablish a $1,200 minimum pen-| sion for Ontario teachers. It! said there now are in Ontario! 403 teachers receiving pensions of only $600 a year. SA NA OER BAA tt OMT RE We. Guarantee to SAVE YOU $100.00 ON YOUR ANNUAL FOOD COST PHONE 723-1163 THE FOOD PLAN THAT HAS PROVEN ITSELF OMb> FOOD CLUB 933 RITSON RD. 5. DO YOU THINK WITH YOUR GLANDS OR YOUR BRAINS? 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